The Respect Men Need with Quentin R. Jiles

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Untherapeutic
The Respect Men Need with Quentin R. Jiles
Mar 01, 2026 Season 3 Episode 12
Dr. Nic Hardy

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Respect is a big word in relationships, especially for men - but what does respect truly mean?  We all need respect, but not always aligned on what it looks like in a relationship. In this episode, with licensed therapist Quentin Jiles, we take a look at the topic of respect and answer many of the questions people have. 

  • Why is respect so important? 
  • How do you distinguish between being “overly sensitive”, “prideful” and disrespectful? 
  • Should we automatically  know what respect is, or is it learned? 
  • Is respect the same for men and women? 
  • Are there ever times when it's okay to disrespect your spouse?  

If you or your spouse has ever struggled with giving respect or communicating what respect is to you, this episode is for you. Respect is too important of an issue to overlook. 

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About Quentin Jiles

Quentin R. Jiles, LMSW is a therapist, professor, and content creator with over 600K followers. He’s been featured on NBC LX, Revolt Black News, and TV One, starred in Peacock’s Emmy Award-winning series The Traitors, and was one of three therapists invited to the White House for the first-ever Creator Summit on Mental Health. He is the creator of His Invisible Struggle, a mental health framework that names and addresses the silent emotional battles many high-functioning men carry, helping them build emotional language, regulation, and integrity without shame. Quentin’s mission is simple: give people the language to name what no one taught them to understand. You can follow Quentin online @quentinrjiles for great content on mental health and relationships! 

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