Make It You
Make It You is the podcast for ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs who are ready to align who they are with who they’re becoming.
Hosted by Tannya Bernadette — Founder & CEO of The Closet Edit, a Seattle-based luxury personal styling agency serving clients nationwide — this show explores the intersection of personal style, leadership, identity, and visibility.
With over 17 years in business and features in Real Simple, KOMO 4, Seattle Magazine, Bustle, and Buy Side WSJ, Tannya brings real-world experience to conversations about confidence, reinvention, and building a life that feels as powerful as it looks.
Through Make It You, she champions a new narrative: that intelligence and beauty are not opposites, that clarity and femininity coexist, and that personal presence is a strategic advantage. Because women don’t have to choose between being taken seriously and being fully expressed.
From image strategy and decision fatigue to networking, money mindset, and stepping into bigger rooms — this podcast helps you simplify, elevate, and lead with clarity.
Because how you show up matters.
Make It You
How to Let Go of Relationships with Shari Leid
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Those moments where we question ourselves is the time to start evaluating what changes we need to make in our relationships or within ourselves. Shari Leid is a certified life coach and author of, Make your Mess Your Message and the 50/50 Friendship Flow. We crossed paths without her even knowing! On a girls night out with two of my best friends, we were talking about the books we were currently reading and have inspired us recently and Vivian mentioned Shari’s book, Make your Mess Your Message. When she shared about how Shari had interviewed 50 friends to share each one of their messages in each chapter, I knew I had to meet her.
I’m drawn to deep, meaningful conversations. Shari continues to help others on their path to find joy in their friendships, lives, and family, with her coaching practice, an imperfectly perfect life.
On Shari’s website it says “I help you see how past messages may no longer be working for you, how obstacles are opportunities in disguise, and I help you let go of the fears of the future and the restraints of the past.”
As a stylist I’m constantly working with people evolving and learning more about who they are. its important for me to guide them in clearly seeing themselves in the present and their future, rather than being stuck in who they used to be or how they used to look.
In this conversation we talk about:
-how to let go of past relationships
-how do you know it’s time for change
-ideas to reignite joy
-overcoming the fear of change
Find Shari:
On her website: https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/
On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/an_imperfectly_perfect_life/