Make It You
Make It You is the podcast for ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs who are ready to align who they are with who they’re becoming.
Hosted by Tannya Bernadette — Founder & CEO of The Closet Edit, a Seattle-based luxury personal styling agency serving clients nationwide — this show explores the intersection of personal style, leadership, identity, and visibility.
With over 17 years in business and features in Real Simple, KOMO 4, Seattle Magazine, Bustle, and Buy Side WSJ, Tannya brings real-world experience to conversations about confidence, reinvention, and building a life that feels as powerful as it looks.
Through Make It You, she champions a new narrative: that intelligence and beauty are not opposites, that clarity and femininity coexist, and that personal presence is a strategic advantage. Because women don’t have to choose between being taken seriously and being fully expressed.
From image strategy and decision fatigue to networking, money mindset, and stepping into bigger rooms — this podcast helps you simplify, elevate, and lead with clarity.
Because how you show up matters.
Make It You
Why High-Achievers Struggle in Love (and How to Attract the Right Partner) with Emily Freeman
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Are you a high-achiever who’s doing all the right things in dating, yet nothing is clicking? In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Make It You, I am joined by dating coach Emily Freeman to unpack why real connection can’t be strategized and why your need to “get it right” might actually be keeping love at arm’s length.
This conversation is for you if dating feels more like a checklist than a connection. Emily shares how embracing vulnerability, balancing masculine and feminine energy, and even your personal style can shift you from performative dating to a powerful, magnetic connection.
🎙️ In this episode, we explore:
• Why real connection is energetic, not transactional
• The difference between “nice guys” and “good guys”
• How attraction can grow over time (and why that second date matters)
• How your style signals self-worth and attracts aligned partners
• Emily’s personal story of finding love while building her coaching practice
Whether you're just re-entering the dating world or ready to find something deeper and more aligned, this episode is your invitation to stop performing and start connecting authentically.
👉 Listen now and learn how to shift from strategy to soul.
Learn more about Emily's work + book a session: Feminine in Love Program
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