Make It You

Why High-Achievers Struggle in Love (and How to Attract the Right Partner) with Emily Freeman

Tannya Bernadette

Are you a high-achiever who’s doing all the right things in dating, yet nothing is clicking? In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Make It You, I am joined by dating coach Emily Freeman to unpack why real connection can’t be strategized and why your need to “get it right” might actually be keeping love at arm’s length.

 

This conversation is for you if dating feels more like a checklist than a connection. Emily shares how embracing vulnerability, balancing masculine and feminine energy, and even your personal style can shift you from performative dating to a powerful, magnetic connection.

 

🎙️ In this episode, we explore:

 • Why real connection is energetic, not transactional

 • The difference between “nice guys” and “good guys”

 • How attraction can grow over time (and why that second date matters)

 • How your style signals self-worth and attracts aligned partners

 • Emily’s personal story of finding love while building her coaching practice

 

Whether you're just re-entering the dating world or ready to find something deeper and more aligned, this episode is your invitation to stop performing and start connecting authentically.

 

👉 Listen now and learn how to shift from strategy to soul.

 

Learn more about Emily's work + book a session: Feminine in Love Program

Follow Emily on Instagram: @emilyfreemancoaching

 

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