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<v Neil Silverberg>We are taking the month of January, the entire month, as a time of fasting and prayer And we are going to be praying together.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now we're not asking you to do a 30-day fast unless you are directed by the Spirit to do so.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You're certainly welcome to do that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I hope you prepare for that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We could talk about that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But we are asking you to take time through the month of January.

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<v Neil Silverberg>However you decide to do it a day fast and so forth and so on And we're going to be praying in our house churches.

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<v Neil Silverberg>As Paul just announced, our house churches are going to be adding a meeting on their off weeks just for prayer, as well as praying during the regular weeks.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And if you're not in a house church, this is an excellent time to come and connect with a house church and spend these four meetings or some of the meetings, if you can't get to all of them praying with us.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We are sending out prayer topics to our house church leaders that we want to pray together as a church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We'll be praying for gospel understanding.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We'll be praying for the working of the Spirit in our midst.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We'll be praying for other things being missional and being a church that really is getting the gospel out And we want to do this in our house churches And, of course, we want you to also join in your personal prayer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>As far as fasting, what I want to do in this message for a few minutes this morning is to prepare you for fasting And again, probably this is unnecessary, as I thought about it, because most of you have overeaten and are ready for a 30-day fast.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember that in Scripture there are different kinds of fasts.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There are.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the popular fasts in Scripture seems to be a three-day fast.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Any normal healthy person can do a three-day fast where you just drink water or even juices.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Some in Scripture there's the Levitical fast, where people don't eat until sundown, and I do a lot of those fasts where you only eat one meal in the evening.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's a good fast.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And there are, of course, longer fasts And maybe some of us in the body will be directed by the Holy Spirit to do longer fasts seven days to 21 days.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We have done 40-day fasts and I really think you need more than a day preparation for that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You might be directed to do a seven to 21-day fast where people only drink liquids and no solids, and I trust that if you feel directed to do a longer fast.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You will prepare your body and not just rush into it, and you can find good information on the web about how to prepare your body.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But what I want to do in this message is take a few minutes and motivate you for this time of fasting, and I'm calling this What to Eat When You're Fasting.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So turn with me in your Bibles to the first Psalm, verse 1 of Psalm 1, blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers, but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And turn over quickly to Psalm 16.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And David says this in Psalm 1611, you make known to me the path of life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In your presence there is fullness of joy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>At your right hand are pleasures evermore.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And finally, this morning, if you turn with me to the book of Hebrews, chapter 11, the great Hall of Faith as it was, and we want to look at specifically at what the writer of Hebrews records about Abraham I'm sorry about Moses in verse 24, by faith, moses, when he was grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter, choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He considered the reproach of Christ greater wealth than the treasures of Egypt, for he was looking to the reward.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, i pray, in the name of the Lord Jesus, that every man and woman in this room this morning, and men and women in this church who could not make it this morning that you entice us, seduce us with a greater pleasure found in you than that which the world, the flesh and the devil could ever offer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I plead with you to give me strength to impart this, and it would be an empowering for this season of fasting and prayer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Lord, i pray that you speak to every member of this church about what you would have them to do in participating with this time of fasting and prayer, whether it's meals or days of not eating, or perhaps even weeks.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Whatever it is, lord, not only call each one to what you want, but empower each one by the pleasures and delights found in you to say no to our bodies and the gratification of our flesh, to say yes to the Holy Spirit of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We ask it in Jesus' name and everyone said amen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Okay, i'm not crazy when I'm calling this what to eat when you're fasting, because you might be surprised by me saying this, but listen to me Fasting, if properly understood, is really about feasting Feasting in God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not about giving up food for its own sake.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many of you have ever fasted and had the Holy Spirit bust you because you really were doing a hunger strike?

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<v Neil Silverberg>I've done one week fast where I wasn't thinking about God and Jesus but about Burger King.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Have it your way.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I, even you, know it gets the point where crystals looks inviting.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But here's the deal Fasting is not really about giving up food for its own sake, but about being so hungry for God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You're not even thinking about eating.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Some people fast, but it is little more than a hunger strike because they're focused on not eating.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But what we should do when we fast is think about eating.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We should think richly about eating.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We should become spiritual gluttons.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The reason we fast biblically is we are motivated by something other than food and our own needs.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Fasting is really about the heart crying out I want this more than my necessary food.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's how Jesus remember summed it up in the wilderness when he was fasting for 40 days.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And the devil tempts him to eat.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And his retort was man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that precedes from the mouth of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that's what fasting is about.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is what this message is about.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's about really being hungry for God, so hungry for God, and forget about your own bodily needs for a time to pursue Him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I like the way Wesley Duel, in one of his books, stated what fasting is.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said, quote fasting in the biblical sense is choosing not to partake of food because your spiritual hunger is so deep, your determination in intercession so intense or your spiritual warfare so demanding, you temporarily set aside even fleshly needs to give yourself to prayer and meditation.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But I want to take it further.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let me tell you what this message is about, and then I'll try to prove it from Scripture.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Fasting really is about finding pleasure in things other than food and entertainment and sex and everything else the world can offer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's ultimately about finding pleasure in God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One day a Bible teacher came on the radio and here's what he said.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said these words the greatest single insight I've ever had in studying Scripture, the single most important principle I ever discovered, is this The goal or purpose of the Christian life is to glorify God, not to be happy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I'm sure that when he said that, thousands of listeners in radio land agreed.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The goal of the Christian life is to glorify God, not be happy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I myself once would have wholeheartedly agreed with that statement, because I grew up in a church where we were taught that God was more interested in my holiness than my happiness and therefore I should put my happiness aside and seek to be holy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And in my mind for years holiness and happiness were antithetical.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They were opposed to each other.

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<v Neil Silverberg>If you were going to be holy, face it, you're going to be miserable.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to stand here this morning and tell you unabashedly I no longer agree with the evangelist statement on radio.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In fact, i want to assault you with this thought I actually believe the opposite is biblical, that the goal or purpose of the Christian life is the pursuit of happiness, but a happiness found completely in God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now don't get me wrong.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I understand where that Bible teacher was coming from, because we're all sick of the self-centeredness of not only our world but the majority of the church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's nauseating.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Our theology is so sick that we have construed a God who serves us, and I understand what he was saying He was echoing the proper biblical belief that God's glory must be paramount in the way we live our lives.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But unfortunately, in doing that and saying that, he was creating this tension between God's glory and our happiness.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And somehow he said they are opposed and you have to choose.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Here is the truth that will set you free.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They are not opposed, they are gloriously wedded.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Your happiness and God's glory are not opposed.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You can have both.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In fact, i want to shock you even more and say I glorify God most when I am most satisfied in Him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Somebody was glorifying a movie to me, so I had to see it because they were glorifying, they were praising it And nobody was paying them to do it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They took delight, they found pleasure in this flick and they were talking about it And I said I've got to see it because they're so delighted with it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now, this is a concept that is probably difficult for some of us to really understand.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Many here might be uncomfortable with it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I mean, you might be thinking aren't we supposed to serve God and forget about our own happiness and live a life of sacrifice?

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<v Neil Silverberg>But here's the thing I want to say to you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Listen carefully.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The fact is it is impossible.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Impossible for a human being to live without seeking his or her happiness.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not that we shouldn't seek our happiness.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It is that there is a law of our soul that says men and women will always seek to be happy, no matter what.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And you should never be ashamed of that desire.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It is no different than, and as natural as, the desire for hunger.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many of you are hungry right now?

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<v Neil Silverberg>I haven't had breakfast.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm hungry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm not ashamed, i'm not hanging my head and telling you I'm hungry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm hungry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's natural.

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<v Neil Silverberg>If you skip breakfast and you preach, i'll be looking for a Burger King very shortly.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And so it is that the desire to be happy, to be satisfied, is natural.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The philosopher Blaise Pascal.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He talked about happiness as the natural desire of all men.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said it this way, quote all men seek happiness.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is without exception.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Whatever different means they employ, they all tend to this end.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The cause of some going to war and of others avoiding it is the same desire in both, attended with different views, the will never takes the least step.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But to this object of happiness.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is the motive of every action, of every man, even of those who hang themselves.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now I remember first reading that and saying what Pascal?

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<v Neil Silverberg>you're nuts, you're telling me that someone hangs himself because he wants to be happy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But then I thought about it, because I originally thought, well, someone's hanging themselves because they're so unhappy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But then I realized what Pascal was saying.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The truth is, men and women who commit suicide do so because they believe, unfortunately, that death will bring them more happiness than life ever could.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So even in the attempt to take your life, it is motivated by a greater desire to be happy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They believe, unfortunately, that death will deliver them from the miseries of life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So it is a law of the human soul that we seek to be happy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It is natural.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But somehow many Christians have convinced themselves that the only way to act virtuous is to compel ourselves to do something against our native desire to be happy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I grew up believing that the worth of my acts was determined by the depth of pain and sacrifice I endured when I performed it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now, having laid that foundation, and I'm sure you're not all convinced, come with me into the texts that we read this morning.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Three of them, because they all use the same word.

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<v Neil Silverberg>All three have the word pleasure in them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One says delight, but it is also translated pleasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The psalmist in Psalm 16 talked about, at your right hand, our pleasures.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Forevermore.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Moses found greater pleasure in identifying with a race of slaves than he did enjoying all the treasures of the Egyptian court.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Apparently, from these three texts and I could produce a string of others apparently God is interested in our pleasure And, as I said earlier, that's not.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Pleasure was not a word that was used in our Pentecostal church for the Christian life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Pleasure was the word used for what you did before you were a Christian and unfortunately, in some church experiences I was taught.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, i was the Psalm one Christian.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We were big on verse one of Psalm one.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That was our verse in our Pentecostal church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the godly or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of the scornful.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that was it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We started our Christian life by determining what we didn't do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We didn't walk in the counsel of the ungodly or stand in the way of sinners, and we were the not do people.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The Christian life was characterized for me by what you didn't do And in fact you signed a card to get into this church saying what you wouldn't do?

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<v Neil Silverberg>I think it was smoking and drinking and bowling.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I think it was bowling.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I never figured out why bowling was demonic, i know, actually I think one was going to the movies, and so there's no hope for me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But one day, as a young Christian, i read Psalm one, verse two Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the ungodly or sit in the seat of the scornful or stand in the way of sinners, but his delight is in the law of the Lord.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that verse jumped out and assaulted me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I said what is that delight?

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<v Neil Silverberg>My Christian life at the time was not characterized by the word delight.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It was characterized by the word duty.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I tried to look up delight in the Hebrew so I could do away with it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But it was worse, because most times that Hebrew word is translated pleasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Here's a man saying yes, we're in covenant with Jehovah.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We don't walk in the counsel of the ungodly or stand in the way of sinners, but we are men and women who find great pleasure in the law of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So pleasurable is the law that day and night we make it our meditation.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I learned that the godly man is not just a man characterized by what he doesn't do, but by the delight, the pleasure in the things he does do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>See, i had learned what God expected at me, but I had never found listen because this goes to the heart of white grace as the only means of living the Christian life I never seemed to find.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Though I had a heart to obey, i never found the power to carry it out.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I was not finding pleasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In fact, i was asking tough questions, like you know.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How do I give generously when my heart is held captive to greed and materialism?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Or how do I love irritating people when I can't stand the sight of them?

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<v Neil Silverberg>I know you've never asked that in this church Or how do I walk in sexual purity when my flesh rages with sinful passions and lust?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Or how do I serve in the children's ministry when, the truth is, i don't want to be bothered.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I began to learn that no amount of appeals to shame or fears or threats could work to change me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I found a quote by a man that sums up the way I lived the Christian life before I burst into an understanding of the grace of God in Scripture.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Before long I found myself living as Jeff Imbach describes when he says, quote life becomes proscribed by all the things we should avoid and prescribed by all the things we must be careful to do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We're so busy trying to demonstrate our spiritual correctness that we lose the art of living out of our souls.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We downsize our souls to achieve a safer bottom line of religious acceptability.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We are left to live between the rock of crisp, correct religious rules and the hard place of duty-bound activity as supposed proof of our spiritual fervor.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What became evident to me in those early years is that I knew the rules, i knew what was expected, but no one had ever taught me that the power to live the Christian life was found in learning to take great pleasure in God Himself.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I am convinced today which is why I will not do it that the religious approach to dissuading people from sinning is seriously flawed.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We spend time in the church focusing on sin and focusing on the negative and telling people what we shouldn't do, and we use threats and prohibitions to try to get them to obey God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And we do so by drawing up lists of proscribed activities that Christians can do and people and events that define the Christian life, and we throw in not only Scripture, but we throw in a few of our own.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Everybody has, every church has their private list of taboos, and what has holiness become according to this pattern?

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's measured essentially by how successful we are in saying no to our list of personal prohibitions, and so what happens ultimately is our identity in Christ therefore becomes defined by what we don't do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But I have this question this morning In the long run, how effective in our fight against sin are prohibitions and threats?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Do you find yourself more and more conformed to the image of Jesus because of your list of dos and don'ts?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Don't get me wrong.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm not suggesting there isn't a place for warnings and threats of punishment.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The Bible is full of them, i'm aware of that, and they are for our welfare and should be heeded.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But here is what I'm saying In the long run, it takes more than threats to energize our hearts towards God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It takes grace, a grace that allows us to find greater pleasure in God than anything the world has to offer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What we need to do and let me take a moment and do it this morning is we really need to examine the reasons we sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Does anybody know the reasons we sin?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Very few people inquire about why they sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They just do it, but they remain clueless as to why they sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many know one thing's for sure we don't sin out of a sense of moral duty.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many woke up this morning and said okay, let's see, i need to commit four sins before breakfast and six after lunch?

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<v Neil Silverberg>No, we don't sin because we feel like we have to.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We're not under a moral rule of sinning.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Why then do we sin?

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's very simple, but listen to this.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It is critical to grace.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We sin because of the pleasure it brings, because it makes us feel good.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In fact, the Hebrews passage we read confirms it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It refers to the passing pleasures of sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In a nutshell, we sin because we are convinced that the passing pleasure it will bring us is greater than what God can give us.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The power of temptation is the false promise that sin will make us happier than God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let me give you a definition of sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not original with me, but it's the best I found.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's so simple but profound.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Sin is what you do when your heart is not satisfied with God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Sin is what you do when your heart is not satisfied with God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Sin taps us on the shoulder and here's what sin says You deserve better than God is giving you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Right now He's holding out on you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You deserve to feel good about yourself.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Come to me, i'll make you feel real good.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And we give in to the lie that sin promises more pleasure than God can give.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And if you grasp this this morning, this simple but profound reality, you will have a working definition of the only way, biblically, to successfully resist sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This on your refrigerator, telling you what to do and won't do, aren't enough.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The only way to fight the seductive power of sin is by replacing it with a greater pleasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it is only by replacing the pleasure of sin with the greater pleasure of knowing God that the seduction to sin is cripple.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Pastor John Piper said it this way, quote faith stands or falls on the truth that the future with God is more satisfying than the one promised by sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Where this truth is embraced and God is cherished above all, the power of sin is broken.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Sin has power through promising a false future.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In temptation, sin comes to us and says the future with God on his narrow way is hard and unhappy, but the way I promise is pleasant and satisfying.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The power of sin is in the power of this lie.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So to live a godly life, to be hungry for God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So you say no to the passing pleasures of sin as well as your own physical desire for food when you're fasting.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We basically have two choices We can devote our time and energy to trying to dissuade ourselves and others how bad sin is and retort to threats of punishment and the like, hoping that by doing so we will diminish the power of sin.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Or we can demonstrate the beauty and the splendor of all that God is for us in Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So we are enticed by a rival affection.

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<v Neil Silverberg>By the grace of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This morning I have not committed adultery.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But I have not committed adultery just because there's a statement in the law that says I shall not commit adultery.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I haven't committed adultery because I'm so satisfied with Shelly.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I don't need anyone else or want anybody else.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm satisfied.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The only way to liberate the heart from servitude to the passing pleasures of sin folks is by cultivating a passion for the joy and delight of beholding the beauty of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In the face of the Lord Jesus Christ.

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<v Neil Silverberg>At your right hand, there are pleasures forevermore.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What breaks the power of sin is faith in the promise that the pleasures of sin are temporary and toxic, but that there are pleasures at God's right hand that far exceed the pleasures of this world.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One author says it this way this is kind of corny.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I give you a warning if you don't like corn you might want to leave now, but it's true and you can do an acid test on your Christian life right now.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said it this way pleasure is the measure of our treasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Mark, could you write a song using?

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<v Neil Silverberg>is it possible?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Pleasure is the measure of our treasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I just wrote it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Pleasure is the measure of your treasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not the measure we've used to depict the Christian.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We've used the metric that a Christian is the one obeying the rules.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He's hating it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In fact, in my early church I discovered something.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We were the people that didn't do certain things, but we sure wish we could have.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So, as you're fasting and praying over this next month, however, you're led of the Lord and we aren't telling you what to do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I am releasing you to God, trusting that the Holy Spirit will put on your heart what you need to do, if anything, and I believe that all of us can fast in some way, and I hope you will.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I realize there are a lot of us that have demanding jobs.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Physically we can't do long fasts.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Maybe you can take your lunch break and get off with God instead of eating, open the Word of God and get in prayer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>My prayer for all of us this month is that we would move, as a people, from duty to delight, from duty to delight.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So I want you to ask yourself the following questions during the fast.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'll be posting them on the website and we'll be sending them out to the house, church leaders, but ask yourself these four questions while you're fasting this month.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Do I take great delight in God and His Word more than anything else, but His delight is in the law of the Lord.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Does that characterize you?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Is delight a Word?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Or do you come to Scripture out of duty and you read it dutifully every morning and it's like reading right readers digest, but you read because you're obligated to read the Word.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Or do you find delight in God and you come to Scripture like a lover would come to a love letter, because this is a correspondence from His or her lover?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number two am I more enticed by the pleasures God offers than the pleasures this world offers?

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<v Neil Silverberg>We will never, as a church, stand here and tell you what movies to see or not to see, what to watch on TV.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I trust you have discernment, but the greater issue for me that grieves me is much of the church is no different from the world in terms of entertainment and addiction to entertainment, and now video games and internet surfing, and all of this can be a blessing, but are you enticed more by the pleasures of God than you are by the pleasures this world offers For those that have a stomach?

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<v Neil Silverberg>here's a third inquiry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'd like you to ask the Lord this month What idols have control of my heart Fear of man, unbelief, lust.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the things that the Holy Spirit does is He doesn't ask you to always look within and walk around in introspection.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's not the Christian position to always be looking within.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's looking away to Jesus and trusting that the Holy Spirit of God can reveal idols in your heart, such as fear of man and unbelief and lust.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And every time I seriously fast and ask the Lord to search me according to Psalm 139, it's just an amazing thing to see what the Holy Spirit does And finally ask the Lord what heart work?

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<v Neil Silverberg>what heart work do I want God to perform during this fast?

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<v Neil Silverberg>There are men and women in this room that are addicted to television.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One is the way I like to say it is.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's a good servant and a lousy master.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Maybe you're a man or woman that can't not watch and you have shows you have to watch And it's not.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm not talking about watching wicked things, but maybe during this fast could it be, could it be the Holy Spirit will say turn off the two.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And we've done fasts.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We did them in Florida several times.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Bob and Debbie remember We did media fast and I think people had a harder time with that than food sometimes.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, i was going to go to this retreat center and pray and fast and someone said well, there's no internet and there's no TV and you probably won't get cell phone coverage.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I started shaking already.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I never went.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What heart work do you want God to perform during this month?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Maybe there's an untoward addiction to entertainment.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Maybe you're enslaved to food, maybe you're enslaved to other things, but let God perform heart work because the reality is pleasure is the measure of our treasure.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You see, grace changes you at heart level.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not about trying to live up to an external code.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's allowing the Holy Spirit within the citadel of your heart to do radical heart work.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let's close by praying together that, these four requests, and we're going to be praying for many things pertaining to Trinity that were presently involved in house churches gospel outreach things we're doing.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We're going to be praying for that in our house churches.

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<v Neil Silverberg>These requests that I just gave you are more for your own personal life during this month of January.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is a good way to start the year.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Would you stand with me, father, help us during this time?

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<v Neil Silverberg>We thank you for these days of fasting and prayer And again, we trust you, father, to speak to every man and woman in this room as to what they should do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But, lord, we desire to come out of this time taking greater delight in you and your word than anything else.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We want to be enticed by the pleasures of God more than the pleasures that this world offers.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So, lord, whatever idols have control of our hearts during this time fear of man, unbelief, lust, covetousness, whatever they are.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, we humble ourselves before you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Keep us from introspection, but we want Holy Ghost inspection.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, i pray that every man and woman in this room and the partners that aren't here would begin to have the Holy Spirit form within them, a prayer request asking what heart work that they want God to perform during these days of prayer.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We just commit it to you in the mighty name of the Lord Jesus.
