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<v Neil Silverberg>A few weeks ago the elders had their annual prayer retreat.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's a time when the elders come together to seek the Lord, to pray and get the mind of God for the coming year.

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<v Neil Silverberg>On this recent retreat, the elders felt that the Lord spoke three words to them encounter, freedom or jubilee, and prepare.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Two weeks ago Tyler dealt with encounter.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He spoke a message from John 14, 16 through 17.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It dealt with the transformative role of the Holy Spirit in the believer's life in this world.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He spoke about the fact that this encounter with the Holy Spirit is more than an inward experience, but it impacts our outward actions and interactions as well.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And last week he spoke about the second word.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The elders received jubilee or freedom, from Luke, chapter 4.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In that message Tyler spoke about the significance of Jesus proclaiming the ultimate jubilee freedom, healing, deliverance and being filled with the Spirit.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It was in that message that he spoke of the transformative power of the gospel.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This morning I'm going to speak on the third word the elders received at the retreat.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's the word prepare, and there's many ways this applies to us, but perhaps the most significant way is for God's people to prepare for the return of the Lord Jesus Christ.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's really critical that we understand that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember what the angel Gabriel spoke to Zachariah, john the Baptist father, when he told him that John's birth.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said he will turn many of the children of Israel to the Lord, their God, and he will go before him in the spirit and power of Elijah to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just, to make ready for the Lord a people prepared.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Notice those words John would make ready for the Lord a people prepared.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And in the opening words of the gospel of Mark it is written as it is written in Isaiah the prophet behold, I send my messenger before your face who will prepare your way, the voice of one crying in the wilderness prepare the way of the Lord, make his paths straight.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I believe that, just as John was sent to prepare for the way of the Lord's first coming, I believe thank you, I believe that God has ordained the body of Christ to serve as a sort of John the Baptist company to prepare for his second appearing as well.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Think about that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Listen to what the apostle Peter said in his second epistle, chapter 3, verses 11 through 13.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Since all these things are thus to be dissolved, what sort of people ought you to be in the lives of holiness and godliness?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Listen waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be set on fire and dissolve and the heavenly bodies will melt as they burn.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But, according to his promise, we are waiting for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Listen to these words again at verse 12 waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He's talking about the second coming and saying that the way we live, we can hasten that day.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not necessarily a fixed day, but it is a day in which we have part and parcel in preparing.

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<v Neil Silverberg>For there's another way the word prepare applies, and I want to focus on that for this message this morning.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's by understanding how God has called us to prepare the next generation of disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We do this by creating a discipleship culture in the local church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In other words, god wants us to look beyond ourselves to the next generations, and one of the ways we do that is by doing what Jesus did investing his life in a few and empowering them to start a rapidly multiplying movement of followers of Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Amen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's why I've entitled this message investing in a few.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, in many ways I can say without exaggeration that this message is my life message, or at least one of my life messages, and I've been the beneficiary of this investment that the others have made in me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now let me show you something.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Look at the screen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You'll see a chart.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know what it is.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's a chart of my friend Gordon's spiritual offspring.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Gordon was an older man who I got to know, who spent the majority of his time finding young men and pouring into them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know he was in full-time ministry but I never heard him preach.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But I heard the stories of those lives that were affected over the years by relationship with him, young men that were now in ministry because of his influence.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he told me a story I will never forget.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to relate it to you this morning.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The story is it's reflected in this chart he spent time pouring himself into two people that were not Christians.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He developed a relationship with them and poured into them and brought them eventually to Jesus and disciple them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>These two men eventually moved away and after they moved away, after a few years, gordon got a call from one of the men saying we want to fly you out here.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We have something to show you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They flew him out I think it was this western city in Colorado and he walked into a house from the airport.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They took him into a house where they were gathered, maybe 75 people approximately.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know what they told him we wanted you to meet your spiritual offspring, because the original two multiplied into two, who multiplied into two until there were approximately 75 souls whose lives had been changed by the gospel Amen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to ask you a question this morning.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What does your chart look like?

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<v Neil Silverberg>What are the names of the people you are presently pouring into and who are multiplying themselves?

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is what Jesus meant when he said to the twelve men he handpicked during his earthly ministry, when he said go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's called the Great Omission, but I think it more accurately needs to be called the Great Omission because, in our zeal to obey it, we haven't bothered to read it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, the Great Omission is actually a repeat of the original Dominion mandate God gave to Adam and Eve in the garden.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember, that mandate had three parts to it God's people were to bear God's image.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number two, to be fruitful and multiply.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And number three subdue the earth, and that mandate is now being reissued to the church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is what this commission is about.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's about people who bear God's image.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They're becoming like Jesus and are constantly multiplying disciples until the earth is filled with people that love Jesus and His change.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How do we do this?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let's look at that commission briefly.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let's start by reading familiar words, but let's read them with virgin ears.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This morning, the Great Commission in Matthew 28, 16 through 20, and Jesus came and said to them All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, so teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you, and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The opening statement All authority in heaven and earth has been given to me demonstrates that Jesus is now invested with sovereign authority over the universe.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A disciple is a man or woman who lives under that authority and recognizes his sovereignty.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Are you living under his sovereignty and rule this morning?

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's what a disciple is, first and foremost.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And if he's a sovereign ruler of my life, how many know?

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<v Neil Silverberg>He has the right to commission me and tell me how I ought to live, and he did that in this Great Commission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What he's about to tell me in this commission is not a suggestion or an idea, but a commission from the sovereign Lord.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Go, therefore, and make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's important to point out that go is not the imperative word in the sentence.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We made it the imperative word and from these words the missionary movement began, and it's right.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's proper for us to send people throughout.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of our own is in Africa right now, as I speak.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Mark Medley is in Africa because going to the nations is part of this commission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But the emphasis on the sentence is not on the word go.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The imperative word is make.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You could translate this while you are going, make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It assumes that all of us are going.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many are going to work tomorrow?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Well, with the snow you may not be able to, but how many are going to work tomorrow?

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many are going to school?

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many are going shopping?

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<v Neil Silverberg>We go many places.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In the process of going, he tells us to make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It means we do so through the normal stations of life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, we homeschooled our boys and one day I took I don't know if it was all the boys or a couple of them to the post office to buy stamps and in line was a demon-possessed woman who was starting looking she didn't know me at all, hurling anti-semitic slurs in me, and you tell she was demonized.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And my boys?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Their eyes were like saucers.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I said, dad, I thought we were just getting stamps.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Well, we have a demon to deal with too.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The simple word go tells us the nature of our mission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>As God, the Father, sent Jesus Christ into the world, so we are being sent into the world.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A friend of mine, jim McCracken, once preached a brilliant message on discipleship, and it was called if you're a disciple, you're out of here.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It tells us that we ought to start thinking not only how we can have influence here in these four walls, but how can God use us outside the walls.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Go means I am called by Jesus Christ to have influence outside these walls, and this is difficult for us because we've gotten comfortable in the church and are often reluctant to leave the comfort of the body of Christ.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus himself recognized that most of us are reluctant ones.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember when Jesus told the disciples these words.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said the harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Therefore, ask the petition of the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into his harvest.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know that verse.

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<v Neil Silverberg>For years I assumed that the word send there was the Greek word apostolos.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's the word from which apostle is derived and I never bothered to look it up in chapter 9 of Matthew because I always assumed that it would be the apostolic word apostolos, and I assumed there was no need to look at it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But one day, I can't remember why, I looked it up and to my surprise the word was not apostolos, it was the Greek word ekbalo, which is the word used in Greek for the English word cast out or kick out.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's actually the word used in the gospels for Jesus kicking out or compelling demons to leave.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many of you have ever found, when you're dealing with demons, they don't want to leave?

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<v Neil Silverberg>I've never met a demon that says I'm glad you're here, I don't want to stay in this house anymore.

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<v Neil Silverberg>No, you have to compel them to come out because they don't want to leave.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You have to strongly compel them to leave.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What does that tell us about workers?

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<v Neil Silverberg>We have to be kicked out of our comfortness into the world because we're reluctant.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now we have to be clear on what the commission is.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What is it that Jesus meant when he said make disciples?

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<v Neil Silverberg>The church must be constantly multiplying itself and making disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Disciples must be made.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Christians are born, disciples are made, and that's important to remember.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We do this the same way Jesus did, by entering the life of a few in order to impact many.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That was Jesus' model.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I've always asked the question why, if Jesus was trying to reach multitudes, why did he not organize his followers into a mass movement?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Why didn't he use his popularity to get what he wanted?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And we actually see Jesus having a healthy and appropriate skepticism of the masses.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Do you know why?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Because I think it was because he knew that the same crowds who would be praising him today would one day be yelling crucify him, crucify him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus did minister to the crowd, but he did so to call people out of the crowd.

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<v Neil Silverberg>If you're not a disciple because you are in the crowd, just listening to Jesus in the crowd didn't make you a disciple, any more than sitting in a church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Listening does not guarantee you're a disciple, amen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But in spite of Jesus' clear strategy of calling people out of the crowds and focusing on a few, most leaders today continue to rely on preaching and teaching the masses to make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It doesn't work, because discipleship is a relational process.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Preaching is effective in appointing people to the need for discipleship, but those same people need to come out of the crowd and be personally engaged in discipling relationships.

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<v Neil Silverberg>For Jesus, success in ministry meant that he must enter the lives of a handful of men in order to have maximum impact.

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<v Neil Silverberg>For Jesus, discipleship wasn't a program, it was a relationship, and in the context of that relationship he shaped the lives of twelve men that were changed, and they became multiplied in many others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I can think of two reasons Jesus did it this way Internalization and multiplication.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Internalization and multiplication what do I mean by internalization?

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<v Neil Silverberg>If Jesus' purpose was to make sure that his kingdom and message outlived his generation, he had to have a core of people who knew in depth his person and mission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There had to be a group, in other words, who internalized his message.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember how this worked.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember when he spoke the parable of the sower, and the disciples didn't have a clue what he meant.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And they asked him Lord, what did you mean by that?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he gave them instruction.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He needed them to understand.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And so many times his public teaching was followed by a private session with the twelve, instructing them on what his teaching meant, and the disciples argued over who was the greatest.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He was able to expose their false value system and give them a new model of the kingdom.

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<v Neil Silverberg>If you think about it, this is the only way Jesus preserved his legacy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He never penned a book or enlisted a scribe to record all his works and words, although the disciples did record many of them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Instead, jesus relied on two things to ensure that his legacy would last the Holy Spirit and the Twelve.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The Holy Spirit and the Twelve.

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<v Neil Silverberg>F F Bruce said it best this careful, painstaking education of the disciples secured that the teacher's influence should be permanent, that his kingdom should be founded on deep, indestructible convictions in the minds of a few, not on the shifting sands of superficial impressions in the minds of many.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Powerful statement.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The other reason he focused on entering the lives of twelve was for multiplication.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Was the fact that Jesus focused largely on the twelve evidence that he wasn't concerned with the multitudes?

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<v Neil Silverberg>No, not at all.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus didn't think like we do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We think that in order to reach the multitudes, we need to have public events.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We need to have events and invite the crowds.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There's a place for that.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But Jesus had a different vision.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He had a big enough vision to think small.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It was because of his vision for the multitudes and his compassion for them that he gave himself to the twelve.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Here's a brilliant statement by Eugene Peterson, the author of the Message Bible.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said it best Jesus, it must be remembered, restricted nine tenths of his ministry to twelve Jews because it was the only way to redeem all Americans.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The irony is that by focusing on the multitudes, we have failed to train people who the masses could emulate, because we often perpetuate superficiality by casting a wider net.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's wide without being deep.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus' vision was to impact the lives of twelve, so they would multiply themselves and others, but he had to first make sure he had people that the crowds could imitate, which is why that's so important when it comes to discipleship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So let me, having laid a foundation, in a brief way.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There's so much more we could say about it, but let me give you practical steps to becoming a disciple maker.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many, just by show of hands, want to disciple others?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Good, the beginning with fulfill the great commission is the desire to do so.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to answer the question what should I do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What steps can I take to become a person whom God can use to multiply disciples?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Here's the practical steps I would recommend.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number one dare to be a disciple yourself.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You can't give what you don't have.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let's be clear on what that means.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It doesn't mean perfection.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A disciple isn't a perfect man or woman, but an honest man or woman.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A disciple is a learner, someone who is passionate about learning to love and follow Jesus, and he or she is learning to practice the things that Jesus practiced.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Then a disciple is a person who has a deep desire that God uses them powerfully to affect other lives, so important Because of their love for Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They want Jesus to use them to draw them to others, draw others to them and to Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We call it evangelism, but it begins with a burden in the heart, not just a sense of obligation.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So I would sum up a disciple this way.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number one a disciple is a person who desires to be like Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Did you know when you got saved, you enrolled in a school of Christ whereby the subject is Jesus Christ and God is working overtime in your life and mine to change us.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So we think, act, talk, speak and move like Jesus A person.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number two a disciple is a person willing to practice the things Jesus practiced.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's clear that Jesus lived a special life and we're called to follow Him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's what follow Him means.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And then, thirdly, a person who desires to be used by Jesus to draw others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You are willing to engage other people in personal relationships that lead to discipleship and so forth and so on.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number two take stock of your present relationships.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Take stock of your present relationships.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want you to do an assessment of the people who are in your life right now.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember you don't need to go anywhere else to be a disciple maker.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You go through the stages of life and you can be a disciple maker because there are people in your immediate orbit, especially unbelievers, that need to hear the gospel and be a disciple.

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<v Neil Silverberg>All you need to do is enter the lives of the people already in your sphere of influence.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There are people right now that are potential disciples who do not yet know the Lord, people in your school, your workplace, your neighborhood.

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<v Neil Silverberg>These are people who the Father has ordained for you to reach and that you alone can reach because you have access to them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that can include not just seeing people saved, but new believers who need someone to walk beside them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>My cousin, my Jewish cousin in upstate New York recently came to the Lord and she's on fire for God and she's urging her to get into a discipling relationship with someone in her church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number three pray about who the Father might want you to disciple, or pray about who should disciple you if you need it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Don't just invite someone into your life lightly.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Pray much about it, because it's a huge commitment of time.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So you need to pray about it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Luke tells us it was so important to Jesus that he spent the whole night in prayer to God in Luke 6 before he chose the 12, a whole entire night seeking God about who the 12 should be.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Obviously they were more important than anybody we would disciple, but still it took a major prayer time to get a sense of who God wanted Jesus to call into the company of 12.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You might be drawn, naturally, to someone, but God might have someone else who God wants you to disciple.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So it's not always clear.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let the Father make it clear to you by asking him who should I pour into?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Who do you want me to spend time with?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number four invite someone into your life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not so much.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You're inviting someone to a Bible study or to a church service.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We do that, but discipleship is really asking someone to enter your life, inviting them to walk with you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You see this clearly in John's Gospel.

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<v Neil Silverberg>John, by the way, is the only one that told us anything about the first year of Jesus' ministry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Matthew, mark and Luke don't, but John did.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And John tells us that Jesus' relationship with the 12 started way before they were called from their fishing boats in Galilee.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In fact, two of John's disciples, john the Baptist's disciples when they heard Jesus look at John, look at Jesus, and say there's the Lamb of God, they left John and started following Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus turned around and said what do you want essentially?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And they said, master, we would like to hang out with you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is my vernacular, where do you dwell?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus said come and see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And their relationship with Jesus started by simply being invited to come and hang with Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that led to their eventual nine months to a year later being called away from their fishing business.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You're inviting someone to come and see when you're discipling.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So often the following scenario happens in the local church A church attempts to fill various ministry positions and it meets with continued frustration because no one steps up to the plate.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So the church concludes that the problem is that there's a discipleship deficit in the church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The pastor and elders call a committee together to come up with a discipleship program.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The committee is formed and they scour the land to find a discipleship program and that has proven success, which usually means, by the way, they're looking for curriculum and a system that can produce disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Yet it all comes, and it's implemented with great expectations.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And what happens?

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<v Neil Silverberg>It all comes crashing down.

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<v Neil Silverberg>When only a few people sign up and those are usually already the over committed.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The end of the result is that the size of the ministry base is substantially the same as it was before the program was implemented.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Why?

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<v Neil Silverberg>What is missing from this approach?

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<v Neil Silverberg>The priority of relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There's a place for material and stuff to teach, but what is missing in this scenario is the priority of relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Curriculum is good, but for transformation to occur, it can only happen in the context of relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus says to the 12, follow me, come into a relationship with me and I will empower you to fulfill what I've called you to do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And the same appeal has to lie at the heart of our disciple making strategy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How does discipleship differ from other church programs.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We're not inviting again people into a program or a curriculum where they study material, take exams and turn it in, although curriculum is okay.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Instead, we're inviting people into accountable relationships of love, transparency and trust.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number five teach them how to follow Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's in the context of a loving relationship of accountability that we make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I wouldn't be standing here this morning if it wasn't for a relationship I had with a spiritual father back in the 1970s.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I left ministry for a year.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I was discouraged and I didn't think I'd ever get back into ministry because of the discouragement I found and some other things that were going on.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And God gave me a spiritual dad named Bruce Todd.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Bruce was a full-time elder in our church in Michigan, the church where I met Shelley and Mary, and Bruce would sit in an office he was the wisest counselor I ever know but he let me walk with him and I'd get off work and I'd go straight to his office many days of the week and I'd sit and talk with Bruce and listen to him and he just poured his wisdom into my life and it gave me hope.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The Lord allowed me, through that relationship, to recognize that I was called to ministry and I've been doing it for almost 50 years over 50 years now but that relationship saved my life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>When you disciple someone, you're not just teaching them, but both of you are learning through relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the reasons I give myself the discipling relationship is because I get so much out of it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's not one person pouring into another and sort of passively, but people learn through relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's been said, discipleship is caught, not taught.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's caught, not taught.

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<v Neil Silverberg>When you disciple someone, you're not just teaching them but, again, you're building relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the things God uses in a discipleship relationship, if we're honest, is the transparency of the Disciple.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the reasons and that's what I appreciate so much about Tyler his openness to be transparent has been a blessing to this church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Amen, and that's why discipleship is so powerful.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You learn to walk with someone through the various stages of life and then, step six, teach them to multiply.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's no good if your chart stops with two people, but you should teach those two or one.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It doesn't have to be two, it could be one or three, but teach them to multiply.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Empower your disciples to go and make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is a multiplication experience whereby, through multiplication of disciples, the kingdom grows.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus said go and make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He meant multiply yourself.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it says in the book of Acts the number of disciples multiplied greatly in Jerusalem.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So discipleship is God's way of growing the kingdom.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Amen with me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Amen, let's pray.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, thank you for this gathering this morning.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Thank you for those who are able to come and those who are watching online.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, I pray for you to activate a new generation of disciple makers All men and women in this room online listening and those who will listen in the future.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Call them Father to a life of disciple making.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Thank you, father, for granting us the grace to pour into others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Help us to take these steps we've outlined and to invest in others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Make the investment fruitful.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let us all have multiplying charts of people we've called and we've walked with, who are discipling others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We ask in Jesus' name Amen.
