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<v Brian Durfee>Tonight we're talking on verse Matthew 5.8, that we've been in this series called Blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>So we've been going through the Beatitudes, each one so Matthew 5.8 is blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>And over the past weeks we've been in this series called Blessed and so we've been hearing about being blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>This kind of person is blessed and that kind of person is blessed, and so you know, it's really easy to get into our churchish, religious kind of thing doing.

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, this person is blessed and we get all religious about it.

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<v Brian Durfee>So I want to get very real and I want to ask you a very real question tonight have you ever felt like you just weren't spiritual enough to be blessed?

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<v Brian Durfee>I mean, if you just forget everybody else around you and just ask yourself do I really feel like I'm spiritual enough to be blessed?

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<v Brian Durfee>It's kind of like you're trying to have all the attitudes and the beatitudes and you just don't measure up.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know what I'm talking about.

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<v Brian Durfee>Am I the only one here that ever feels that way?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, we're going to talk about that a little bit tonight from the perspective of one particular attitude, and that's in Matthew 5.8.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so let me kind of set the stage for this verse.

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<v Brian Durfee>The book of Matthew starts out with the genealogy of Jesus and then the birth, and then he just kind of leaves out a whole chunk of Jesus growing up, and the next time we hear about him in Matthew is he's being baptized by John the Baptist, and then he goes from there to the wilderness and he goes 40 days of fasting with temptation, and it's then that Jesus launches his ministry and he goes from down in the southern part of Israel up to the northern part, and the northern part was Galilee.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so Galilee was kind of like the other side of the tracks for Israel.

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<v Brian Durfee>It was this you know, that was where you found the poor, you found the working class, the people who were overlooked, the people who everybody else looked down on.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, you might remember a verse where one of the Pharisees says does anything good ever come out of Nazareth?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, nazareth was in Galilee.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's that kind of attitude.

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<v Brian Durfee>Nazareth Well, nazareth was in Galilee.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's that kind of attitude.

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<v Brian Durfee>So that's where Jesus begins.

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<v Brian Durfee>His ministry is in this area called Galilee, up in north Israel.

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<v Brian Durfee>And the people who are hearing him, they're the common people, like I said, they're the working class, they're the disregard, they are not the religious elite, and Jesus has one central message that he's declaring to everybody, and you need to get this.

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<v Brian Durfee>This is Jesus' central message Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.

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<v Brian Durfee>But to elaborate on that just a little bit repent, change your mind, because the kingdom of heaven is at hand, it's here and now, it's not just in the future.

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<v Brian Durfee>Now, these people were not expecting to be included in anything that God was doing.

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<v Brian Durfee>These are the down and out.

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<v Brian Durfee>These are the one that everybody looks down on, and they know that they're not blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>But Jesus turns to them and begins declaring who really is truly blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so then he begins talking about the Beatitudes, and each Beatitude has three primary parts.

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<v Brian Durfee>So there's the declaration blessed are.

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<v Brian Durfee>There's the type of person the pure in heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>And then there's the promise or result, for they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so tonight we're focusing on blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>Now, before we look at pure in heart or they will see God, we need to understand why Jesus' use of the word blessed probably shocked everybody.

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<v Brian Durfee>In the Jewish culture, blessing was tied to outward, visible signs, things like material wealth, good health, power and status, public righteousness, religious role, like Pharisees, sadducees, scribes, those type of people.

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<v Brian Durfee>If somebody looked successful or they looked very religiously successful, you know they were doing it right.

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<v Brian Durfee>The people assumed that God was clearly with them.

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<v Brian Durfee>God wasn't with anybody else.

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<v Brian Durfee>Those were the people who were blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>Jesus was redefining what blessing was.

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<v Brian Durfee>Now the Greek word for blessing and I'm sure you've heard this in every other teaching to put it simply means happy.

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<v Brian Durfee>But you know you can have some nuances, some additional understanding to the word.

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<v Brian Durfee>So the reason that it's happy is because you're deeply favored by God, you're spiritually flourishing, you're possessing joy and peace, regardless of circumstances.

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<v Brian Durfee>Those are the kinds of things that are inherent in that word blessed, happy.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so Jesus is just flipping the script.

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<v Brian Durfee>He's saying blessing isn't based on what you have or how good you look externally.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's about who you're in relationship with and what's happening internally.

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<v Brian Durfee>Now, jesus wasn't just being kind.

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<v Brian Durfee>He wasn't just like okay, guys, you don't feel.

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<v Brian Durfee>I know you think bad about you.

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<v Brian Durfee>Let me just encourage you a little bit more.

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<v Brian Durfee>He wasn't just being kind.

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<v Brian Durfee>He was actually announcing the true values of the kingdom.

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<v Brian Durfee>In fact, that's what the whole Sermon on the Mount is about.

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<v Brian Durfee>What does it mean to be a citizen in the kingdom of God.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's the entire Sermon on the Mount, and this is just one little piece of it.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so the people who are hearing this, they're the ones who are down and out, spiritually overlooked.

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<v Brian Durfee>And Jesus is confronting that idea that blessing is earned or proven by success and instead the kingdom, in his kingdom, the poor in spirit are blessed, those who mourn are blessed, the pure in heart are blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>Jesus was saying you think you're far from God, but you're the very ones that he calls blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so that's the first part of the verse Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>Jesus is describing the pure in heart as the people who are blessed.

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<v Brian Durfee>So what is this blessing that the pure in heart are going to get, that they're going to receive?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, it says they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>Now there's a lot of different words in Greek that can be translated as see, and the most literal definition for it is to see with the eyes, the physical act of seeing.

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<v Brian Durfee>But there's also a figurative definition to perceive and to understand.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's kind of like what we do in English.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, I can explain something and I say do you see I'm not talking about.

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<v Brian Durfee>Can you see the words that have no form in front of you?

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<v Brian Durfee>It's not about do you understand and it's no different in Greek and there's even a spiritual connotation to it to recognize relationally, as in knowing, or experientially to experience.

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<v Brian Durfee>So in the context of this verse for they will see, god is not about literally, physically seeing, it's about understanding, knowing and experiencing.

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<v Brian Durfee>So that kind of changes that part around too.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's about understanding, knowing and experiencing it in the here and now.

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<v Brian Durfee>Remember Jesus' central message repent, for the kingdom of God is at hand.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's here and now, for the kingdom of God is at hand, it's here and now.

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<v Brian Durfee>So Jesus is talking about a relational, spiritual and experientially knowing God, something that begins now and continues on forever.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, in Revelation 22.4, it says we're going to see him face to face.

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<v Brian Durfee>But what does it mean for the here and now?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, we get to experience his presence.

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<v Brian Durfee>We get to experience his guidance through situations sometimes and that can happen in a lot of different ways.

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<v Brian Durfee>We get to experience his conviction to keep us morally on the right path.

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<v Brian Durfee>We receive comfort from him and honestly, we can know him in prayer and in the word and in worship and obedience.

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<v Brian Durfee>There's so many different ways we get to encounter God and he's basically saying that we walk in intimate relationship with him.

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<v Brian Durfee>So this whole thing, they shall see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>The pure in heart get to know and experience God and have God as your companion and as your guide and as your God and as your servant.

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<v Brian Durfee>And because these are all characteristics, when you start looking through the Bible and you look at all the names of God that come out of his character, he was humble.

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<v Brian Durfee>He humbled himself even to the point of the cross.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's in Philippians.

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<v Brian Durfee>Jehovah Jireh, our provider, jehovah Rapha, our healer, all of these different names of God that we see through the Bible.

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<v Brian Durfee>They are descriptions of who we get to walk with.

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<v Brian Durfee>So now here's the key question.

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<v Brian Durfee>This is where I go from teaching to meddling a little bit.

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<v Brian Durfee>Do you really feel like you're experiencing God this way?

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<v Brian Durfee>Maybe you're thinking like I've done for or did for a long time.

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<v Brian Durfee>I keep being obedient, but I'm just not feeling it.

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<v Brian Durfee>I must not be blessed, I'm not doing something right.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, there's some kind of standard that I'm not meeting because I'm not really sensing God in my life, so blessed are the pure in heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>What does that really mean?

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<v Brian Durfee>If pure in heart means I get to know and experience God in my everyday life in a very real way, then what does it mean to be pure in heart?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, heart in this verse I mean, we know heart is the thing that pumps our blood, but in this context, the heart is talking about the center of our being.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's who we are, at our core, how we think, how we feel about things.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's our moral center, the place that we make our decisions from.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's how we decide whether we're going to choose right or choose wrong.

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<v Brian Durfee>You could say it's our mind, our will and our emotions all rolled up.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's the heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>So the word for pure, kotharos that's the Greek word.

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<v Brian Durfee>I'm probably mispronouncing it, but that's what it looks like to me.

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<v Brian Durfee>Kotharos means clean, unmixed or innocent.

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<v Brian Durfee>Blessed are the clean in heart which we would expect.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's translated pure, right.

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<v Brian Durfee>Pure means there's nothing, there's no bad stuff mixed in it, it's all expect.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's translated pure, right.

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<v Brian Durfee>Pure means there's no bad stuff mixed in it, it's all clean, it's all pure.

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<v Brian Durfee>And that's what the word pure, so clean in our very soul, clean down to the core of our being, and that is kind of a hard standard to measure up to and our temptation is to say, well, I get to experience as much of God as that bit.

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<v Brian Durfee>The level of pureness that I have is the level of how much I get to experience God.

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<v Brian Durfee>And one of the things that people that I am guilty of and people that I know are guilty of is we is, even though we give really good lip service to, oh, jesus has made me righteous, his blood has made me clean.

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<v Brian Durfee>I'm sinless In real, practical, down-to-earth life.

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<v Brian Durfee>We live this life thinking, oh, I've got to be better.

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<v Brian Durfee>I've got to be better because I want to experience God and man.

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<v Brian Durfee>I'm just not experiencing God, so I must not be measuring up.

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<v Brian Durfee>I got to do more.

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<v Brian Durfee>And it's this works mentality that holds us in this bondage of trying to always measure up and we lose our freedom in Christ to it.

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<v Brian Durfee>So I want to talk a little more about what pure means.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's not about reaching a standard, and there's some really good verses over in the book of John that help us to understand.

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<v Brian Durfee>In John 15, verse 3, I'll give you a little more about this.

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<v Brian Durfee>In John 15, jesus is talking to the disciples right before he goes to the cross, and the whole first half of John 15 is about abiding in Christ.

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<v Brian Durfee>He says Abide in me and I in you, for without me you can't do anything.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so the whole thing is about abiding in Christ.

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<v Brian Durfee>John 15, 3, he tells the disciples Now you are clean through the word that I've spoken to you, that word clean, katharos it's that same word that's used over pure in heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>So now you're clean, now you're pure through the word that I've spoken to you.

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, what word is he talking about?

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<v Brian Durfee>What is this magic word that makes them clean?

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<v Brian Durfee>It wasn't a snap, remember this is right before Jesus goes to the cross.

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<v Brian Durfee>That means there's three years prior that the disciples have been living with Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>They had been eating with Jesus, they had been talking with Jesus, they had heard Jesus teaching them personally, teaching the crowds, and Jesus was demonstrating the teaching.

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<v Brian Durfee>He was showing how to live it out.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's the word that he had been.

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<v Brian Durfee>And where did Jesus' teachings come from?

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<v Brian Durfee>Neil, you talk about this.

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<v Brian Durfee>Where did Jesus' teachings come from the Father?

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<v Brian Durfee>Via the Old Testament.

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<v Brian Durfee>Right, that was the scriptures that he always referred to, and even the structure of the Beatitudes is shown forth in the Psalms, that whole structure.

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<v Brian Durfee>And when you start looking at it it's pretty amazing, and I don't have time to chase that rabbit.

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<v Brian Durfee>Jesus is teaching out of the Old Testament, but he's not just teaching law out of the Old Testament.

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<v Brian Durfee>He's showing what life in the kingdom means.

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<v Brian Durfee>And in his teaching the disciples are being cleaned up.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's the word.

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<v Brian Durfee>So now, how does this apply to us?

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<v Brian Durfee>How did it do its cleaning?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, john 15, 1 and 2 says I'm the true vine and my father is the vinedresser.

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<v Brian Durfee>Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit, he prunes that it may bear more fruit.

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<v Brian Durfee>Guess what the word for prunes is Kothros.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's the verb form of the same word for pure or clean.

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<v Brian Durfee>Basically, you say every branch that does bear fruit, he cleans it up, he cuts it back, he does what's necessary to make it even more fruitful, to increase the life in and through that branch.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's pure.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's not about whether the branch measures up to whether it can connect to the vine or not.

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<v Brian Durfee>No, it's connected to the vine and it just in being connected, then he is part of the vine that the Father takes care of and tends to.

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<v Brian Durfee>All the branch has to do is be connected and all the life from the vine flows into that branch.

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<v Brian Durfee>All the life that flows into the branch bears the fruit.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's not work, it's life.

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<v Brian Durfee>Do you hear the difference?

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<v Brian Durfee>Purity is not achieved through effort, it's achieved through abiding in Christ.

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<v Brian Durfee>We become pure by staying close, not by trying harder.

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<v Brian Durfee>So the real question is how do we abide in Christ?

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<v Brian Durfee>Well, we spend time in the Word, but you know what I was told from.

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<v Brian Durfee>I grew up on the cradle roll, if you have ever heard that term.

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<v Brian Durfee>From the time that I was born, as soon as I was old enough to be in church, I was in church Every Sunday morning, sunday night, wednesday night, all the time.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know my life, you know I was in the church youth group and I was told all through that time got to read your Bible every day, got to read your Bible every day, got to read your Bible and I would read my Bible and nothing.

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<v Brian Durfee>Okay, I'm doing what I'm supposed to do.

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<v Brian Durfee>I'm doing what I'm supposed to do.

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<v Brian Durfee>There is a type of duty that we seem to think that we have to do to read the Bible.

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<v Brian Durfee>We need to read the Bible.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's very true.

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<v Brian Durfee>But we're not reading the Bible to fulfill and check a box, saying, okay, I did this, so now I measured up.

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<v Brian Durfee>No, the Bible is one of the ways that we encounter Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's why it's part of abiding.

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<v Brian Durfee>In fact, it's one of the foundational ways that we abide in Christ.

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<v Brian Durfee>But it's not about checking off a box.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's about when we read the scripture.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, oh God, let me encounter you today.

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<v Brian Durfee>In fact, I'll challenge you Every time you sit down to read your Bible.

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<v Brian Durfee>Don't try to make it happen, don't put any work into this at all, just pray this prayer God.

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<v Brian Durfee>Let me encounter you today, jesus, let me encounter you and don't elaborate.

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<v Brian Durfee>Make it simple and then don't try to do it.

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<v Brian Durfee>Let God do it.

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<v Brian Durfee>Okay.

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<v Brian Durfee>And prayer you know I grew up hearing.

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<v Brian Durfee>You got to pray.

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<v Brian Durfee>You need to pray If you're going to be close to Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>You got to pray.

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<v Brian Durfee>But prayer is not about checking off a box and measuring up.

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<v Brian Durfee>Prayer is about conversation with God.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know we don't.

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<v Brian Durfee>I grew up in, you know, and my grandparents were Christians too, and my grandfather, you know.

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<v Brian Durfee>In time we had a family get-together.

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<v Brian Durfee>He had a way of praying and it had these and thous in it and that's okay, and he was very real.

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<v Brian Durfee>That was just the language that he used.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's what he grew up with.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's not about how you say it, it's about what's in your heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>So many of us are so scared that God's going to strike us down if we actually admit what's in our heart, in our heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>When's the last time that you felt mad at God and you actually had a knockdown, drag out, fight, screaming at him, you know, hopefully away from everybody else, so they don't think you're crazy.

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<v Brian Durfee>But I mean, you really got real with God.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, back in it's been about eight or nine years ago now.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know I was leading the men's ministry.

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<v Brian Durfee>I was doing things here at Trinity.

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<v Brian Durfee>I had for years and I finally got real with God.

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<v Brian Durfee>I said you know God, I'm doing all these things.

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<v Brian Durfee>I'm doing everything I want to do, everything I need to do, but I really don't feel like seeking after you.

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<v Brian Durfee>I enjoy all the stuff that's happening at church and my life, but I just don't feel like anything.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so I'm going to pray this.

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<v Brian Durfee>God, give me the want to.

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<v Brian Durfee>I stopped reading my Bible, I stopped praying otherwise, but I purposed in my heart every day.

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<v Brian Durfee>I was going to pray that one prayer God give me the want to.

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<v Brian Durfee>That was it.

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<v Brian Durfee>I was going to pray that one prayer God give me the want to.

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<v Brian Durfee>That was it.

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<v Brian Durfee>And somewhere along the line, not too much later, things started changing and I didn't even see it, and within a I don't know, it was a year and a half, two years.

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<v Brian Durfee>All of a sudden, it's like, wow, I got this want to.

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<v Brian Durfee>I had just been praying a simple prayer.

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<v Brian Durfee>I got real with God.

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<v Brian Durfee>We really have to stop pretending and get real with God.

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<v Brian Durfee>He already knows what's in our heart.

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<v Brian Durfee>The only thing that's stopping things between us and God is us, because we won't be real with Him.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so it's the same thing with prayer and with reading the Scripture.

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<v Brian Durfee>God, let me encounter you.

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<v Brian Durfee>Show me your glory, show me your healing, show me your provision.

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<v Brian Durfee>Lord, show me who you are, show me your character.

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<v Brian Durfee>Lord, just take this verse and just show me what this verse means.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's that simple, like be real.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, another part of abiding is obeying.

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<v Brian Durfee>You can't If I say that I'm Tyler's friend but I don't ever do anything that he wants to do, am I really his friend?

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<v Brian Durfee>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's the same thing with Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>He gives us what to do, he tells us, actually, what's going to be best for us.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's just a matter of obedience.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's part of abiding.

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<v Brian Durfee>All of these things are an attitude of staying in close relationship.

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<v Brian Durfee>You know, there's a monk I think it was a monk, brother Andrew who wrote a book called Practicing the Presence of God.

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<v Brian Durfee>Because as a monk, you think about this.

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<v Brian Durfee>A monk is a guy who goes off in a monastery for the purpose of knowing God and learning about God and all.

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<v Brian Durfee>And here's this monk and he says I don't think I really experienced the presence of God very much.

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<v Brian Durfee>And so he wrote this book about this, called Practicing the Presence of God.

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<v Brian Durfee>And here's what he did.

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<v Brian Durfee>He began reminding himself that God is with him every moment of the day.

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<v Brian Durfee>So when he'd sit down and he'd work in the garden, then he'd remind himself I'm picking carrots with Jesus, and if he's washing dishes, I'm washing dishes with Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>And as he went through his day, he just reminded himself I'm doing this with Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's not I will be with Jesus or I will know Jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>I am with Jesus now, here.

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<v Brian Durfee>And it wasn't too long that he began to experience God in new ways.

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<v Brian Durfee>That's what abiding is.

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<v Brian Durfee>It's seeking relationship with jesus.

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<v Brian Durfee>And all the things we do is not because we're checking off boxes, it's not because we're measuring up, it's because we're seeking to know him.

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<v Brian Durfee>And if you want your life transformed, that's how it happens, because in the process of doing that, you know you.

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<v Brian Durfee>Oh, I struggle with this sin, oh, I can't overcome this.

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<v Brian Durfee>Oh, man, I screwed up again In the process.

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<v Brian Durfee>If you are seeking Jesus, then the Father will clean those things up.

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<v Brian Durfee>The Father will take care of that.

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<v Brian Durfee>He's the vine dresser.

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<v Brian Durfee>Literally, from that verse, he's the farmer, but we're talking about vines, so he's the vine dresser.

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<v Brian Durfee>Literally from that verse, he's the farmer, but we're talking about vines, so he's the vine dresser.

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<v Brian Durfee>He's the one who'll take care of the pruning and everything that's needed there.

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<v Brian Durfee>The more we walk with Jesus, the more our hearts are purified and our vision and our experience of knowing God becomes clearer.

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<v Brian Durfee>So now, how do we put all this together and how do we sum it up in a quick and easy way to remember this?

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<v Brian Durfee>So the verse was Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.

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<v Brian Durfee>But we can paraphrase that and say Blessed are those who are abiding in Christ, for they will know and experience God both now, in His kingdom and also forever in eternity.

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<v Brian Durfee>Say it again, for they will know and experience God both now and in His kingdom, and forever and eternity.

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<v Brian Durfee>The kingdom of God is now.
