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<v Neil Silverberg>Here we are in the new year, and I'm welcoming you to the new year, and it's an opportunity to accomplish much for the kingdom of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I'm I'm thankful to God for the elders entrusting me with the opening message of this series because this is really, to be honest, one of my life messages has been the whole issue of discipleship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I uh years ago was impacted by a man named Bruce Todd.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Shelley remembers Bruce.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He was an elder, a full-time elder in our church in Michigan.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I was at that time working a secular job and was not, I never thought I'd go back into ministry because some things had happened.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I was burned out.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I got into a relationship with this older man, Bruce Todd.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I would get off work and drive to the office and sit before him, no agenda, just listening and talking.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he was the wisest man I've ever known.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it impact me, I don't believe I'd be standing here in ministry today if it wasn't for Bruce's input into my life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So this is a message that is really home for me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it's important that we uh accept it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Uh let's look at Matthew 11, uh Matthew 28.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'll open this scripture with this scripture that everybody knows by heart, but it's the place we want to start because it's central to our understanding of discipleship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Matthew 28, 16.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain to which Jesus had directed them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And when they saw him, they worshipped him, but some doubted.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus came and said to them, All authority in heaven and in earth has been given to me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you, and behold, I am with you always to the end of the age.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, thank you for these words that you gave us regarding discipleship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I thank you for the opportunity, Lord, of a new year to make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Lord, help us to understand what discipleship means.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Help us to understand that you not only called us to be disciple makers, but you've given us every provision we could ever need to be disciple makers.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So help us, Father, in Jesus' name as we go through this series.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We thank you for it in Jesus' name.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And everyone said, Amen and amen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's he came into the world to make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And uh he's called us to be disciple makers.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What does it mean to be a disciple maker?

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's un first of all, you have to understand what it means to be a disciple before you can understand what a disciple maker means.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus was a disciple maker.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to show you something, a chart.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Put that chart up, if you would, of my friend Gordon.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I had a friend named Gordon, haven't seen him lately, but years ago I made friends with him, and he was one of the most powerful disciple makers I've ever known.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He this is a chart of his spiritual offspring, and he told me a story I'll never forget.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He told me a story that uh that started with this idea of disciple making.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said he discipled two men and took a couple of years to bring them to Jesus and pour into them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And then those men moved away.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They moved out west.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And after they moved, he uh hadn't talked to them in a long time.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And one of the men called him up and said, We bought you a plane ticket.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We want to fly you out and we want to show you something.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he flew out west, and they got they picked him up at the airport and took him directly to a house where there was maybe 50, 60, 70 people, and they said, We want you wanted you to meet your spiritual offspring.

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<v Neil Silverberg>See, Gordon had discipled those two.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Those two poured into others who poured into others, and now he was meeting his spiritual offspring, and that's what discipleship is all about.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We call it the Great Commission, what we read, but really it should be called the Great Omission, because in our zeal to obey it, we haven't bothered to read it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it's actually a repeat of the original dominion mandate given to Adam and Eve in the garden.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember, God called Adam and Eve and said, Be fruitful and multiply and fill the world with fruit.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That was the commission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And they did.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Three, there were three parts to that commission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They had to bear God's image, they had to be fruitful and multiply and subdue the earth.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This is what the commission is about: people who bear God's image, constantly multiplying disciples until the earth is filled with people that love Jesus and the earth is changed.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, in the commission it said, go, therefore.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it's important to point out that go is not the imperative verb in that sentence.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The emphasis is not on the word go, but on the word make.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Because you could express that by saying, Jesus could have been saying, while you are going, make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It presupposes that all of us are going and can make disciples in the process.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many are going to work tomorrow?

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many, yes, unfortunately you've been off, now you're going to go back.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How many of you are going to school or going shopping?

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<v Neil Silverberg>All of us are involved in those aspects of going.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And so it's in the normal course of life that we go and make disciples as we go.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And this is not just a commission for people to go to the nations, though that's a central part of it, and we're obeying that through uh ministries in this church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It means that we're to make disciples, though, as we go through the normal aspects of life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The simple word go tells us the nature of the mission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>As God the Father sent Jesus Christ into the world, so Jesus Christ now sends us into the world.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It tells us that the church is an apostolic company.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A friend of mine had a message once, and he called it, if you're a disciple, you're out of here.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And what he meant was we need to think of discipleship, not only in terms of what God can use me to in the house, but how I can have a maximum influence outside these walls.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's what matters most.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The difficult problem for most of us is we've gotten comfortable in the church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And we're reluctant to leave the comfort of the church to conform to confront the world with the gospel.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, years ago, I was reading uh in uh Matthew 9, where Jesus made the great statement, you know, uh, pray the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into his harvest.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I never looked up the word sent there because I knew enough about the Greek language to know that most of the time the English word sent was the translation of a Greek word, apostolos, which was to make to be the heart of discipleship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I never bothered to look it up because I always assumed that send out in Matthew 9 would be the same word as it is in other places.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It would be the apostolos word.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But one day I looked it up and was shocked because it wasn't uh the word apostolos, it was the word ekbalo, which is a Greek word uh translated by the English word kick, kick out, or compel.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's the word actually used of Jesus when he cast out demons.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He kicked them out because how many know they weren't one willing to leave?

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<v Neil Silverberg>They had to be kicked out, and so what does that tell us about workers?

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<v Neil Silverberg>It tells us a lot, right?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Because we need to be kicked out of our comfort zones.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now, Jesus gave four invitations to participate in four different stages of spiritual development.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And let me show you this wonderful chart.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I had I had this charge, but it was ugly.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Timothy made it beautiful.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But these stages, I'm going to be talking about stage one, which is introduction to Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It is the invitation to come and see, and I'll talk about that in a minute.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Then the second thing is follow me, and we'll be talking about that next week.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Follow me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And then third stage is be with me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And fourth, go and make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So Jesus gave these imperatives, commissions to the disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Stage one is focusing on Jesus' invitation.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said to two men, come and see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus was inviting these two disciples to enter a relationship with him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They were the first disciples who were invited to this relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>By the way, only John in his gospel is the only gospel writer that tells us anything about the first year of Jesus' ministry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The other disciples, the synoptic gospels, Matthew, Mark, and Luke, start Jesus' story of ministry when uh it's gone about a year.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Matthew, Mark, and Luke don't tell us anything about that first year, but only John does.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And stage one is where true discipleship starts, by people being invited into a relationship with Jesus Christ.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The disciples ask Jesus where he's staying.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he responds by saying, Come and you will see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So he's inviting them simply to come.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus did what all rabbis did in that day.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Rabbis invited would-be disciples to stay with them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So it's important to, this is where all discipleship begins.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It begins by inviting someone into a relationship with you, not just into a Bible study.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We do invite them to study the Bible, but ultimately we are inviting them into our lives.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We make disciples the same way Jesus did by entering the lives of a few in order to have maximum impact.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Think about something.

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<v Neil Silverberg>As Jesus' earthly ministry grew, Jesus actually withdrew from the crowds and gave himself more to the training of twelve than he did anything else.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And I have a question.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Why, if Jesus was trying to reach as many people as possible, did he not organize his followers into a masked movement?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Why didn't he use his popularity to get what he wanted?

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<v Neil Silverberg>What we actually see, if you realize it, is Jesus had a healthy and appropriate skepticism of the masses.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Why?

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<v Neil Silverberg>I think it's because he knew that the same crowds who would be praising him this day would be yelling the next day, crucify him, crucify him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus did minister to the crowds, but he did so to call people out of the crowds.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You weren't a disciple simply because you're the crowd.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You're not a disciple because you're here today.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm not belittling the importance of the corporate gathering, but being a disciple is more than being in the crowd on Sunday.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Yet, in spite of Jesus' clear strategy of calling people out of the crowd and focusing on a few, most leaders today continue to rely on preaching and teaching the masses to make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It doesn't work essentially because discipleship is a relational process, first and foremost.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Preaching is effective in calling people, pointing people to the need for discipleship, but these same people need to come out of the crowd and be disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So you see, for Jesus, discipleship wasn't a program, it was first and foremost a relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In the context of that relationship, he shaped the lives of 12 men who subsequently changed the world.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I think Jesus did it this way for two reasons: internalization and multiplication.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Internalization means he had to have a group that internalized the message.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember how this worked?

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<v Neil Silverberg>He spoke the parable of the sower, and then the the 12 idiots.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I mean, disciples later asked him, what in the world did that mean?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he was able to pour into them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Forgive me for that, I shouldn't belittle the disciples, but at times they were pretty, they didn't get it much.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let me say it that way.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he would take them aside and give them deeper input into what he meant in the parable of the sower.

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<v Neil Silverberg>When the disciples argued over who was the greatest, he's able to expose their false value system.

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<v Neil Silverberg>This was the way he chose to preserve his legacy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He never penned a book or enlisted a scribe, though some of the disciples certainly served as scribes of his rec making a record of his word and works.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But F.

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<v Neil Silverberg>F.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Bruce, this great scholar, Christian scholar, said it best this careful, painstaking education of the disciples secured that the teacher's influence should be permanent, that his kingdom should be formed, founded on deep and indestructible convictions in the minds of a few, not on the shifting sands of superficial impressions in the minds of the many.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Wow, what a statement.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Also, not only internalization, the other reason he discipled is multiplication.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The other reason he focused on entering the lives of twelve men was that he might multiply a process whereby they could multiply themselves and others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Was the fact that Jesus focused on the 12 evidence that he wasn't concerned with the multitudes?

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<v Neil Silverberg>No, not at all.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus didn't think our way.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We think that in order to reach the multitudes, you have to have public events and invite crowds.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And there's a place for that, of course.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But Jesus had a different vision.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He had a big enough vision to think small.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it was because of his vision for the multitudes and his compassion for them that he gave himself to the twelve.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Are you following me?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Eugene Peterson, the author of the message version of Scripture, said it best.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I love this quote.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said, Jesus, it must be remembered, restricted nine-tenths of his ministry to twelve Jews because it was the only way to redeem all Americans.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Well said.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The irony is that by focusing on the multitudes, we have failed to train people who the masses couldn't emulate.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We often perpetuate superficiality by casting a wider net.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's wide without going deep.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus' vision was to impact the lives of twelve so they would multiply themselves and others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Consider the multiplication versus addition process.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Multiplication and addition if you can.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Multiplication.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Consider an evangelist who leads one person a day to the Lord.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And he prays with them to get saved, never sees them again.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Whereas another person wins two people to the Lord and walks with them for the entire year, teaching them how to walk with Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>At the end of the year, the evangelist who's brought one person to the Lord every day, got them to pray the prayer, has 365 people.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He says he's led to the Lord, while the other person has only two, but those two are disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>After a second year, the evangelist has led over 730 people to the Lord, while the two who were discipled have multiplied and now are four disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>By the time we reach 13 years or so, you would have four far more disciples than if you just kept winning one person to the Lord each day and moving on.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So let's go to the heart of this first invitation that Jesus gives when he says to the disciples, Come and see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He invites them into a relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And notice as I read this text how many times the word found appears in these verses.

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<v Neil Silverberg>John chapter 1.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The two disciples heard him say, John 1.35.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The two disciples heard him say this, and they followed Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus turned and saw them, and following them, said to them, What are you seeking?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And they said, Rabbi, which means teacher, where are you staying?

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<v Neil Silverberg>He said to them, Come and you will see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So they came and saw where he was staying, and they stayed with him that day, for it was about the tenth hour.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the two who heard John speak and followed Jesus was Andrew, Simon Peter's brother.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He first found his own brother, Simon, and said to him, We have found the Messiah, which means Christ, and brought him to Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus looked at him and said, You are Simon, the son of John.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You shall be called Cephas, which means Peter.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The next day Jesus decided to go to Val Galilee.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He found Philip and said to him, Follow me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus, Philip was from Bethseda, the city of Andrew and Peter.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Philip found Nathanael.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's a lot of finding going on, did you notice?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And said, We have found him of whom Moses and the law and also the prophets wrote, Jesus of Nazareth, son of Joseph.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Nathanael said to him, Can anything good come out of Nazareth?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Philip said to him, Come and see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>No matter how you push it, put it, discipleship is about one thing essentially, finding people.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The two disciples found where Jesus was staying.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And they stayed with him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the two, Andrew, was a disciple of John the Baptist.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He found his own brother Simon and said to him, We found the Messiah.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let's read it again.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The next day, Jesus decided to go to Galilee.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He found Philip and said to him, Follow me.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now Philip was from Bethsaida, the city of Andrew and Peter.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Philip found Nathanael and said to him, We have found him of whom Moses and the law and the prophets wrote, Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Nathanael said to him, Can anything good come out of Nazareth?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Philip said to him, Come and see.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Do you see how each one went out and found others?

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<v Neil Silverberg>And where does Jesus bring them to?

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<v Neil Silverberg>He brings them to observe his signs.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The first thing he does is bring those he called and entered relationship with to a wedding in Cana of Galilee that had a crisis.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They ran out of grape juice.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm sorry.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They ran out of wine.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They ran out of wine.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And Jesus performed his first miracle.

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<v Neil Silverberg>When Jesus invited men and women to come and see, he was inviting them to behold his signs that clearly demonstrated he was the Messiah.

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<v Neil Silverberg>In John's gospel, his mighty deeds are not called miracles, they're called signs.

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<v Neil Silverberg>John is centered around seven signs that Jesus did.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Did you know the whole gospel of John centers around seven signs?

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's all.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus did thousands of miracles, but John selects seven signs and invites the disciple.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And what is a sign?

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<v Neil Silverberg>A sign is something that points away from itself to something else, someone else.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, if you're driving to Nashville and you see a sign that says Nashville, a hundred miles, you don't get out and hang at the sign and say, We're there.

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<v Neil Silverberg>No, the sign points away from itself, telling how this is going to be a deep message today, so everybody stay with it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's really deep.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The sign points away from itself, telling how far you have to go.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus' signs point to the significance of his person.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's why God still still does signs and wonders today.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that's why we need to be asking God to do signs and wonders.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's part of the commission.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember Jesus' final words at the end of Mark's gospel?

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<v Neil Silverberg>These signs shall follow those who believe.

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<v Neil Silverberg>These signs shall follow.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We should be concerned if there's no signs accompanying the word.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's why it's important to recognize that God still wants to perform signs today to demonstrate he is the Christ.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And the first one Jesus does is turning the water into wine.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And John's gospel says, John said, this, the first of his signs, Jesus did at Cana and Galilee and manifested his glory.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And his disciples believed in him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We're going to ask God at the end of the message to stretch forth his hand, and signs and wonders would begin to occur.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Now, let me give you six practical steps to disciple making.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number one, dare to be a disciple yourself.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You can't give what you don't have.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So you start there.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Let's be clear on what that means.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Doesn't mean you have to be perfect.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It means, as was said previously, a disciple isn't a perfect man or woman.

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<v Neil Silverberg>They're an honest man.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A disciple is a learner, someone who is passionate about learning to follow and walk with Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>He or she is learning to practice the things that Jesus practiced.

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<v Neil Silverberg>A disciple is a person who has a deep desire that God use them to powerfully affect the lives of others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And because of their love for Jesus, they want Jesus to use them to draw others to him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We call it evangelism.

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<v Neil Silverberg>But it begins with a burden in the heart, not just a sense of obligation.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I would sum up a disciple this way: number one, it's a person who desires to be like Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That's number one.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to be like the Lamb of God.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Because again, you can't give what you don't have.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number two, it's a person willing to practice the things that Jesus practiced.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus had definite practices that he did regularly, and he's calling us to follow him in those practices.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And then thirdly, a person who desires to be used by Jesus to draw others to him.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Number two, step number two, take stock of your present relationships.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Do an assessment of the people who are in your life right now.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Remember, you don't need to go anywhere else to be a disciple maker.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You just need to enter the lives of the people already in your uh immediate orbit, especially unbelievers.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There's a number of people in your life right now who are potential disciples who you don't yet know the Lord, but they have the opportunity to because you're in their life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>People in your school, your workplace, your neighborhood.

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<v Neil Silverberg>There are people the Father has ordained for you to reach and for me to reach.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That you alone can do because you have access to them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And this also includes new believers who are just learning to walk with Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>That they need someone to walk with them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And you can be that someone if you're in proximity to them.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Step three, pray about who Father might want you to disciple.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Start praying about the people in your life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And don't just invite somebody into your life lightly, because it's a huge commitment of time to take the time to pour into others.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So take time to pray about it.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know what Luke tells us?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Luke tells us that Jesus, before he chose the 12, spent the entire night in prayer to God before he chose the disciples, because he knew that the commitment needed to be, was radical, and he had to be willing to have the, he needed the right people.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And it's a huge commitment of time.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You might be naturally drawn to someone, but God might have someone else for you to not that you're not immediately drawn to.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I've had men in my life that I've walked with that I thought were were going to be, it's going to be a good relationship, but it didn't turn out that way.

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<v Neil Silverberg>So make sure and ask the Father to make it very clear to you who he wants you to pour into.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Amen.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Step four, invite someone into your life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Again, it's not so much you're inviting people to study the Bible or a church service, but into your life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We do study the Bible, we do attend church, we do the things that we're called to do, but we're doing it because we've invited them into our lives.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And that's where the power is of transformation is.

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<v Neil Silverberg>The end result is the size of a ministry base is substantially the same as it was before the program was started.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What is missing from this approach?

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<v Neil Silverberg>The priority of relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Curriculum is good, but for transformation to occur, it can only happen in the context of relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Jesus says, come into a relationship with me, and I'll empower you to fulfill what I've called you to do.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And this same appeal has to be at the heart of our disciple-making strategy.

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<v Neil Silverberg>How does church, this church, this approach differ from church programs?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Again, we're not inviting people into a program or a curriculum where they study material, take exams, and turn it in.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Instead, we're inviting them into accountable relationships of trust, love, and transparency.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Step five, teach them how to follow Jesus.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Discipleship is not taught, it's caught.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Teach them how to follow.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It's in the concept of context of loving relationships, of accountability, that we make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We certainly can use material, but the way a person learns is through relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Discipleship, again, is caught, not taught.

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<v Neil Silverberg>When you disciple someone, it's not just you teaching them, but both of you learning through relationship.

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<v Neil Silverberg>One of the things God uses in discipling relationship, honesty, is honesty in the lives of the two people in the relationship or more.

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<v Neil Silverberg>God uses the honesty of the discipler as much as he does the discipleship program we're using.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And one of the reasons discipleship is so powerful is that God uses models to help us live the Christian life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We get to observe in flesh and blood.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, I've had people in my life that I've learned what it means to be a husband by because they were stellar, they had stellar marriages.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You learn to walk with someone through the various phases of their Christian life.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And then step six, teach them to multiply.

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<v Neil Silverberg>It doesn't work if it ends with you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>You have to teach them to multiply and make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Give them a mandate.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Go and make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And your chart, your chart, what will what does it look like presently?

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<v Neil Silverberg>You saw Gordon's chart.

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<v Neil Silverberg>What does your chart look like?

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<v Neil Silverberg>Who is are you spending time pouring into?

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<v Neil Silverberg>You know, anybody that's a little bit more advanced than another person is really able to disciple because they have learned something that you have yet to learn.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I'm gonna ask you to stand.

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<v Neil Silverberg>I want to pray that this message will be powerfully built in our lives.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Father, thank you, Father, for the call to make disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We pray for Trinity Community Church.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Thank you, Lord, for the call that the elders heard the call to disciple, Father.

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<v Neil Silverberg>And we thank you, Lord God, that you're gonna allow us to flesh it out.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Thank you for allowing us to flesh it out and to walk with people.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Lord, show everybody in this church who they should be discipling or who they should be receiving discipleship from.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We pray in Jesus' name for a clarity that people seek God about this, that there would be clarity and there would be, Lord God, no uh level of frustration as they seek you.

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<v Neil Silverberg>Teach them to multiply disciples.

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<v Neil Silverberg>We ask this in Jesus' name, and everyone said, Amen.
