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Love Over Ignorance: Customizing Your Life with Wenjamin Nguyen-Gilmore

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Life is customizable! I know that society tries to pretend that it isn’t, but the truth is, you get to choose! And in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Wenjamin Nguyen-Gilmore drives that point home. Wenjaman is a queer business boy and retired runway model, and today we discuss Wen's journey of gender identity, the challenges faced in the modeling industry, and the importance of community and education in understanding diverse identities. 


We talk:

8:10 - Exploring gender identity 

25:35 - Modeling career and its challenges

39:08 - Understanding autism and gender identity

42:25 - The importance of education and empathy

51:38 - The need for cultural understanding and acceptance

1:06:20 - Traveling and self-discovery


Episode References:

Vocaloid

Hatsune Miku

Transguy Supply

Auston Bjorkman

Mutt (movie 2023)

Gia (TV movie 1998)

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Read more about Wenjamin in their bio below:

Retired runway model, queer business boy-wonder, and cat father to the stars. How does one juggle between parenthood, being in college for 3 degrees, and a job working with autistic kids? Insane, yes, but not impossible. Wenjamin is a trans-nonbinary, multilinguist of colour on the rise to get their doctorate, here to give advice on queer social mobility, as well as navigating life’s hardships from everyday struggles to geosociopolitical levels of intersectionality.



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