Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
The Secret World of Male Chastity: Chastity Queen's Community of Caged Men
My dear chaste slaves, sissies and subs,
The Crown and Cage Society emerges from the shadows as an exclusive community dedicated to male chastity under My guidance as High Priestess. This podcast reveals my vision for uniting chaste men in a structured environment that transcends conventional kink dynamics while maintaining privacy and ethical standards.
For those drawn to the transformative potential of chastity, joining begins simply by connecting with the FetLife group "Chastity Queen's Crown and Cage Society" (#316472). The journey includes monthly gatherings—starting online before transitioning to in-person events in the Kitchener-Waterloo-Toronto area—where members will participate in rituals, connect with like-minded individuals, and deepen their understanding of submission through chastity. Long distance slaves will be able to partake online during these meets.
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Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom plus Questions Answered with me, chastity Queen. So today I want to update everybody on my chastity society, the crown and cage, my chastity society, the crown and cage, and it will be a secret society, but I want to get into how you can take first steps to be a part of this world, my world, my passion, my project of locking as many cocks as possible. And the way that you begin is by going on to FetLife. If you do not have an account, you can set up a profile and you don't have to put pictures up there, you don't need to be visible to anybody, but you can definitely go on there, take a look for and I'll give you the information right now. So if you have a pen and paper or you have your phone right now, I want you to write this link down, okay, so that you can find my group. It's called Chastity Queens Crown and Cage Society. So when you're on FetLife, so when you're on FetLife, you go to FetLifecom and begin interacting in the discussions. That is the first step and I'm going to, as I've already done, start to assign a task to all of you who are interested and the task that I just assigned to everybody 19 hours ago in my group on FetLife was this. The first task was I want to hear something about why you love chastity. Tell me why you could be a valuable member of my crown and cage society. Could be a valuable member of my crown and cage society specifically discussing your feelings about chastity and my position as leader or high priestess, surrounded only by chaste men. So you can comment. You can go into detail. I know a lot of have done that. They've gone into great detail and some have just written a few words and it's been precise. And I don't have a prerequisite to how many words you write or not. It's about the intent. So go on there, you know, read up a little bit.
Speaker 1:As the days go forward, I'm going to be giving some more clues as to specifically how you can join, clues as to specifically how you can join, and until then I want to see a number of people joining the group itself. And you don't have to become a full member, a member in the secret society. It is going to be catered to men who have some experience. So you have to have maybe a month combined or, you know, consecutive. You know a month. So you know, you've done a week, one month, another week, another month, you've done a couple days here, a couple days there. If it's added up and you are interested in joining something that will really change your world, this is my plan.
Speaker 1:Okay, it is something that will be unlike anything, and a lot of people know that there are secret societies out there. They're not exactly secret per se, for example, freemasonry, a variety of other men's clubs. Mine is different in that I'm the only female and everybody else that joins under me, being led by me, being guided by me, will be male-chased slaves. And that does not mean that I'm not going to have visiting doms to impart some knowledge, impart some wisdom, maybe to watch as you all follow through with my variety of requests. And during my meets there will be a certain amount of I guess I want to say rituals that you're going to learn. You know, kind of like a secret handshake in a way. I'm going to be doing things that aren't going to harm you. Of course, my limits are, you know. I don't want to cause any permanent damage. I will not force you to do something you do not want to do.
Speaker 1:Consent is important of prerequisites to becoming a member and formulating my questionnaire. That will be distributed when that moment comes. Then you might get an idea of what's involved, but you may not. You will answer questions according to what I'm looking for, because it really is what I am looking for and essentially it's going to be a club very much like other clubs, and there will be expectations and I will be the leader. It's very simple.
Speaker 1:Chastity is a requirement. Do you need to be in chastity permanently when you join or after you are part of the secret meeting the first one, the second one, the third one, fourth? No, no. Now there are going to be some chaste slaves that join that are already in permanent chastity. They may have a piercing ready in permanent chastity. They may have a piercing. They may have been, you know, in and out of chastity throughout their experience in chastity and they have graduated personally into the permanent state and that is something that I think all chaste slaves fantasize about, chaste slaves fantasize about.
Speaker 1:But I know that it's not realistic for many and I respect and understand that. I'm not going to expect you to leave and I steal your keys and you can never get them back, and I know that's some people's fantasies. I mean, hey, that would be an amazing fantasy even for me, to have you all come into my, my little trap and put all of your keys in my bowl and never give them back, and then you're stuck right. But I'm also sane and ethical and I want you to belong to something and not destroy your life in the process. Belong to something and not destroy your life in the process. So it's a once a month event and it will be exciting. It will be. I would say maybe the first few meets will be a couple of hours, two hours maybe, and if you can only stay for one, you know we can discuss it. I would really like you to commit to at least staying for the two hours to discuss and get to know each other. This is going to be the process.
Speaker 1:I think the first one or two meets are going to be that are live, before my online event, which is going to be the very first event. I want all of you to meet me. I want to meet you. Maybe I've met you before, maybe you are a slave of mine already, but I want all of us to gather and that will be defined in a very non-kinky location. So you just come, you can wear your cage, of course, but you come to a spot that I've reserved in the Kitchener, waterloo, toronto area I haven't decided exactly where that place will be yet and we meet and I talked to you all a little bit. We have a few, you know, appetizers and a drink and chat and get comfortable, and I will have an envelope for each of you to take home and fill out and we will go from there.
Speaker 1:As for anybody who is in a relationship right now with a dom or a partner, who maybe doesn't get involved with your chastity experience, maybe isn't interested and is okay with you joining a chastity club, knowing that I'm going to respect that relationship, of course, I want you to know that you are invited. You need to get permission from your dom, your wife, your partner, your master, whomever, and I will need that shared with me. I will need proof of that. And then you can join and you'll need to fill out the questionnaire. And then you can join and you'll need to fill out the questionnaire, the initial questionnaire, and then I'm going to be having my online meet first and that's going to be where you can kind of join in and watch and I can talk a little bit about things. And then the second one will be where we all get together. We all get together and you know opportunity where I expose you online.
Speaker 1:I know that some people are concerned about the privacy issue and I've been to enough events and I know enough people within the community that you know if I was not to be trusted, I wouldn't be as widely followed and as widely respected as I am, and that's because I have high ethics and that led a no brainer to not share their information. You know why would I go and destroy somebody's life and then destroy my own in the process and do something criminal, and I'm not about that. So if you're concerned and if you still don't feel confident or comfortable with it or you're still nervous about showing your face, then it's not time for you. It's just not time and I respect that. I'm not in a desperate state for everybody and anybody to join.
Speaker 1:I would like people to join the group and have a discussion and maybe in the future you will have that confidence, maybe your situation will change and you will be able to wear chastity more often, and maybe you want to get to a place where you are in permanent chastity and you want me to be your headmistress, your high priestess, your owner, and that's something that can be decided upon in time, absolutely. But you know, everything takes time and that's what this is about. We have all of the time in the world and I want this to be something that follows me for many, many years. This society and I want it to start right, and I'm not going to invite people in that are precarious and problematic, because that directly affects me and I don't want it. You know, I've had enough experience with people like that and for me, the best thing to do is just to eliminate that potential for problems, and when I say eliminate, I mean I don't engage, or if I do engage and they end up being problematic. You know, I give it time so that it reveals itself to me, and when it does reveal itself to me, then they are blocked and they are not a part of my knowledge, my memory banks. It's wiped clean.
Speaker 1:I want people that are, you know, good characters with good intentions, people that are, you know, good characters with good intentions, and I want to make your life an exciting life. I want it to be a life where you can fulfill some of the fantasies that are rich in your mind and I want them to come out and play, and this is my life, this is my lifestyle to come out and play, and this is my life, this is my lifestyle. My slave is chaste, submissive, and everybody else all my other slaves are as well, but my live-in is, and you know he had some issues with his cage but he's got full control over his member and of course that's because I do. I own it, it's mine and it's a beautiful thing. Another thing I want to say just before I go is that if you join the society, I'm not going to expect that you're going to feminize yourself for me. I'm not going to force it.
Speaker 1:Chastity involves more than just feminization. I put a poll up on my chastity-queenfetlife profile and you know chastity can be a number of things. It can be a feeling of security, it can be feminization, it can be denial, it can be servitude, it can be emasculation, it can be humiliation, and I understand that each one of you who are listening have their own unique reason. Another one that I didn't list is that it is also the enabler of other fetishes. So when a man is locked, he is more apt to submit to the other things that he loves in his fetish mind, and so it serves to really promote kink and promote control and promote submission and to give you a clear mind and a focus. It's sexual transmutation. If you look that up, you know when you lock up your cock and you do it for somebody else, you do it for a dom, you know. It is a powerful way to transmute your energy from just jerking off all of the time or looking at porn all of the time to refocusing onto other things.
Speaker 1:You know, I help a lot of slaves to improve their health, their mental headspace, their attitude, their body, their success, their job, even their home life. Seriously, I've helped men in their marriages by helping them to learn how to restrain their urges and to put those urges into their partner to please them. And so there are many reasons for chastity, and this is why I have this new group, new society that is forming and that is going to be amazing, because I want all of you to understand that you have a collective of other chastity slaves that think just like you, other chastity slaves that think just like you Really, and yet you're all unique, and that's what I love. I love the differences within chastity. I like to find new combinations Isn't that funny, New combinations. And you know, I do want to say one thing I only have so much time in one day. So this is why I have formed this group on Chastity Queen under the group section and also under my Chastity Kingdom and my Mummy Celeste, because, if you don't know, I'm also a Mummy Dom and I have a variety of different specialties in my world, but Chastity is the main thread that runs through all of them and my kingdom is going to be where I put all of you who are part of my society.
Speaker 1:If you agree, if you consent, if you want to remain private, totally respected. You know I have a lot of people in chastity and you're going to notice I don't have everybody listed. You know I should't have everybody listed. You know I should have 100 people listed. I don't, because a lot of people want to remain somewhat private. Maybe they're okay with meeting in a live setting, a group setting, but as far as being listed and people you know snooping around and seeing who you are and doing all that stuff, right, that people do, some people just aren't comfortable and I respect it and I don't demand that you be listed under my name so that I look like a bigwig. You know, I don't care, I just want you chased, I want you locked, and whether it be permanent or part time, if you're doing it for me, then I'm happy and you're promoting what I adore, which is chastity. You're promoting submission and respect for a femdom, a woman who is in charge, a dominant.
Speaker 1:So thank you for being chaste. I appreciate it and I will give you that information on my FetLife account. The group number again is 316-472 and it's Chastity Queens, crown and Cage Society. So please go on there, join. You know you don't have to initially do any chatting if you don't want, or you can comment. It's great and as things open up, as I release different levels of my steps towards our first meet, you're going to be notified on that group. So you just keep an eye on it and if you want a questionnaire, just let me know. I'll send the information or I will post it on my group.
Speaker 1:I haven't decided. I might just post it on the group and we'll see. We'll see. So thank you for listening, have a wonderful day and you can go to my link tree backwards slash chastityqueen if you wish to tribute or see where my affiliate codes are located so that you can get discounts on chastity Queen. If you wish to tribute, or see where my affiliate codes are located so that you can get discounts on Chastity, such as Locked in Lust, using Chastity Queen, all caps, all one word for 15% off, and that is stackable. So do that. Thank you for listening and remember my motto. Thank you for listening and remember my motto. Chastity is freedom. Sounds funny, doesn't it? But there's a reason. Bye for now.