Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
The Crown and Cage: Building a Secret Society for Submissives
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The Crown and Cage Society is forming as a structured secret society for men who embrace chastity as a lifestyle. This new female-led group will provide guidance, training, and community for submissives seeking a serious approach to chastity experiences.
• Service must be humble, respectful, and filled with gratitude
• The society welcomes all forms of chastity (device, mental, belt)
• Members will be guided toward exploring new aspects of submission
• Protocols and rules will create structure while still keeping things fun
• Not everyone will pursue permanent chastity – individual circumstances respected
• Chastity enhances other fetishes by controlling desire and surrender
• The female dominant can shape submissives into their best potential selves
• Monthly in-person meetings with online options for remote participants
Join the Crown and Cage Society group under Chastity-Queen on FetLife, read all the information carefully, and watch for the upcoming membership questionnaire to apply.
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Introduction to Diaries of a Dom
Speaker 1Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom , plus questions answered with your most divine hostess , chastity Queen . Today , I just want to remind you of a few things . To remind you of a few things . I think the most important thing that you must know is that you serve me . You can be anything that you desire to be while remaining locked up in chastity , serving me humble , respectful , with much gratitude , and that is the right attitude that you must have in your service to me . Service to me , and you know that I am going to be elevating your experience in my crown and cage society , and you need to understand that it is going to be
The Crown and Cage Society Vision
Speaker 1a lifestyle for you . Be a lifestyle for you , a way of life . The best way that you can serve me will be within the confines of that secret society . You will be part of something greater than what currently exists , because right now , I believe what currently exists is too many places for too many people and too many disconnects . You see , I want you to connect with a woman me who takes chastity as a very serious experience . Now I will add that chastity is a lot of fun . It's fun for me . I would not do this if it was not fun , and , of course , I want you to have fun as well . But there will be protocols , there will be rules . You will be rules , you will be trained . I'm going to give you a thirst , a curiosity , for new things as well , and you may think , no , no , I have very specific tastes . This is what I like , this is what I don't like , and , of course , limits exist for a reason . I always respect limits , but I want to push you in a different manner , and that way of increasing your learning will be by pushing you to try things that you want to try , that you're curious about , that intrigues you . We are going to talk about it , we are going to explore and I'm going to facilitate so many things for so many men within my secret society . Of course , I can't talk about everything that's going to take place , because that would be counterintuitive to do such a thing and it would blemish the secrecy that I'm going to expect from all of you . Yes , I am going to expect secrecy , and you might think well , how would I join this secret chastity society that is headed by the divine
How to Join the Secret Society
Speaker 1chastity queen ?
Speaker 1I want you to watch my group on FetLife . I want you to read everything that's on that group . I want you to read the testimonials from some of my slaves that I've listed on that group . I've added their testimonials . They have written them personally about me . Get to know me , read my writings , listen to my podcast , look at my photos , listen to the interviews that I've been on with Nicholas Tannick of your Kinky Friends . He has a wealth , a library full of interactions between myself and him , so , by all means , educate yourself about me .
Speaker 1Being nervous is natural . I know when I put myself in your position , if I was a man in chastity . It is a very nerve-wracking experience to go outside of your comfort zone when it comes to chastity . And yet I know that so many men wish that they had somebody leading them and guiding them and inspiring them while they are locked up in chastity . And that is what I'm going to be . That's what I've always been . It's just now becoming more structured and I'm going to start to elevate the group of men into a collective of strength and long-term goals .
Speaker 1Not every one of you who I invite into my secret society is going to end up in permanent chastity with a piercing and such . No , not necessarily . I know that everybody has different life restrictions and I respect that , but I want you caged as often as you can , as often as possible , with a desire to serve me , to have a female dominant that is happy , because that's what really drives you , doesn't it ? And , as we all know , there are so many different places that you can go for advice on chastity . You can go to different groups and you can go to different chats on chastity . You can join a challenge many things that can be done but I need to have a place where you can feel as if you are part of a group . You're not alone .
Speaker 1And , yes , I know it's going to be unusual and uncomfortable to realize the fact that I am going to be in charge of a lot of cages , and there's no shock here . I already am in charge of many cages and some of those
Inclusivity in Chastity Service
Speaker 1gentlemen are at a long distance and they will poke their heads in online , privately , watch from afar , but they serve me . They do , and you can too . There is room for you , I have room for you . There is room for you , I have room for you . There's no limits in how many men are going to be able to serve , so don't worry about that .
Speaker 1Any man who is humble , respectful , willing , submissive loves chastity , and any form of chastity too . It could be a belt , it could be mental , it could be a cage that you've had on and off for a while , but if you've loved it and you've pushed past it , you could be a member . And I will tell you this I do have many cages in my possession , so if you do attend a secret meeting and you do not have a cage , I will have some . I could lock you on the spot . So don't fear , mental chastity is difficult . So I acknowledge the fact that that is part of my plan to include those who engage in mental chastity , and I will post that on my group too soon .
Speaker 1So join my group . I will be putting tasks out . I will be watching . This is my process right now . I am watching behavior . I'm curious about who's interested and whether it be long distance or short , you can be part of my society and there will be a small questionnaire that I will post at some point . I haven't completely finished honing the list of questions . I really want it to be precise because , ultimately , this society is something that I want and I need to lead it , and I need to lead it the way that I lead best .
Speaker 1And no , you don't have to dress up like a woman , wear panties , but you can dress up like a woman and wear panties . You can have other fetishes too , aunties . You can have other fetishes too , but the primary fetish that will get you into my group or lifestyle , if you want to call it that , that gets you in , ultimately , under society , is chastity . It's simple , it's not complicated . There's not one kind of chastity slave that I want to enjoy . You want to know a little
Evolving Through Submission
Speaker 1bit about me , and maybe you do already . Maybe you've listened to the interviews , maybe you have listened to most of my episodes on my podcast . That's great . I appreciate it , but I'll just reiterate some things .
Speaker 1I'm a female dominant . I adore chastity . Chastity is the gateway to many other things and it facilitates the control of many different fetishes , and that is why I love it so , so much . Because when I lock you up or when you are in mental chastity or you're in a belt and you're not allowed to come that's a very key part come , that's a very key part I can enhance any fetish that you are interested in and embrace . If you want to be a sissy , I put chastity on you and you become the best sissy you know how to be , because I'm going to lead you , I'm going to guide you . Are you a male slave who wants to serve a femdom ? You will be the best male slave who serves a femdom . It will be a female-led secret society .
Speaker 1I love chastity , I love fetishes , but I love controlling the mind and this is something that I crave and I want to do to you , and I know that you will submit willingly and be grateful to do so , because I am an ethical high protocol , female dominant , call female dominant . I want to take you like a lump of misformed plaster scene and I want to shape you into my vision . I want to shape you into the vision that I know you see for yourself and I can see it before you even might . That's the strange thing I notice is that when I engage with slaves , I see things in them before they see themselves looking in that same mirror . And as time moves forward and I nurture their submission , I can make suggestions , and when I do , I often find that the ones that I make based upon what I've seen , what I've heard , matches and it takes a slave to a whole new level . It really does . I have so many that have evolved into the most dramatically amazing submissive slaves for me , and I just know that I need more of that . I want more of that and I know that that's something that a lot of you need . You know what you like . You have a cage , you enjoy going online , you like to read up on different people's experiences , but I'm going to help you live yours
Next Steps and Monthly Meetings
Speaker 1and I cannot wait to open the door to the dungeon and welcome all of you in . When I choose you for my secret society and we begin this incredible journey . We move forward together . I want to introduce you to some of the most mind-bending experiences of your life . So on that note , I think I will say goodbye .
Speaker 1Continue to follow me on my group , the Crown and Cage Society . So it's Chastity Queen's Crown and Cage Society on FetLife under chastity-queen , my profile . Friend me there . Join , read the group discussions and about me and the rules and follow it closely . And the rules and follow it closely . Because when the day comes when I say I'm going to send out the questionnaire , be prepared , because next steps will run quite quickly afterwards and it will be once a month meet . If you can't make every single meet , that's fine . There will be other options for you to tune in online and this is going to be , as I said before , mind bending Bye for now . Thank you , you .