Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
Chastity Queen xoxo
Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
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CHASTITY HYPNOSIS, TASKS + DISCUSSION
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What Makes a Dominant Happy
Speaker 1Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom, plus questions answered with me. Chastity Queen, I hope your day is fabulous, and I will say mine is too. Today I want to just talk to you about the things that make me happy. You know that you are submissive and desiring to serve a female dominant such as myself, and I want to tell you what turns me on, plain and simple. Yes, you know I have met so many different kinds of men who enjoy different kinds of fetishes and I have reflected upon those things. But I've also realized many things about myself in the process, and I will tell you right now what I love.
Speaker 1I love to deny. I don't want you jerking off. I find that to be a major waste of time. Men who come often are terrible submissives. They don't want to submit. The only thing that they want to submit to is their weakness for jerking off.
Speaker 1I know it's hard when it's hard. When it's hard, you almost can't resist experiencing what that feeling is like in your hands. And then you think, well, I'm excited already, so let's finish this off. Don't do it. Put it in chastity for me, dunk it in some ice-cold tap water or rub it with some ice cubes, whatever it takes to reduce the size of that excitement, the desire in your mind to do more than you should with your male member. You need to learn to restrain yourself and I know you can't do it on your own. No, yesterday I said jerking off is almost a form of OCD. The way that many men do it is obsessive and compulsive behavior. I want to break you of that, but I know that you need a woman to break you of that. You can never do it on your own. No, your job is to make me happy. My job is to teach you about denial, to teach you the benefits. There are many benefits, but the number one benefit to denial is to make me happy is to make me happy. Maybe one word I can use is obey. It's not so hard to do that. So get it in chastity and you know.
Embracing Sissification and Humiliation
Speaker 1I want to tell you, in addition, what I enjoy when you put your penis in its rightful place, which is behind the bars, the confines of a chastity cage, and you hand over control to me. Now I can really have fun with you. But how can I have fun with you? But how can I have fun with you? I'll tell you I can do whatever I want with you. You see, I'm a queen, I have needs, and I know that most of the men that serve me want to do anything to make me happy, just as I'm certain you do. Right, you should say yes, chastity queen, I wish to please you. To please you.
Speaker 1If you were in my bedroom right now, locked up, I would go into my drawers and I would pull out a pair of my dirtiest, most well-used panties and hand them to you. And hand them to you Not to sniff. No, no, no. That's at the end. If you obey, that's the reward. For now, you put them on, you do as I say, and if you're uncomfortable with pink panties, then too bad, I like it, so you like it, understand. So now that you have your cage covered and you have panties on over that cage and your cute little ass, I'm going to sissify you a little bit, because I will tell you that is one of my favorite things to do, and it's not just about you becoming a sissy or turning you gay, oh no, it's about humiliation. For me, I like to humiliate. I really, really do. So. If you say I'm not really into the sissy thing, well, I am, so you can be too.
Speaker 1I've got high heels. I've got nylons. I've got dresses little party dresses, little skanky party dresses that I love to put on a man. I have makeup. I have press-on fingernails oh, yes, I do. I have breast forms. Hey, I even have a wedding dress.
Daily Life as a Submissive
Speaker 1Do you want to put that on? Be my bride? Do you feel uncomfortable? You know I have a little trick. So what I want you to do is take a deep breath, so through your nose, hold it, let it out. Do it again, okay, and hold it for four seconds. So breathe in through your nose. One, two, three, four, let it out. Yes, get into the zone. Start to release all of those feelings of fear and maybe a little tinge of anger, a little bit of embarrassment. Right, look into my eyes. You realize what makes me happiest is when you submit, when you obey. You obey a queen. You want to make me happy. You will do anything that I ask. Yes, anything. You're dressed up like a little skank, aren't you? Your man penis is now relegated to its rightful position in a chastity cage, and it's tiny and I plan on shrinking it? Oh, definitely. And I am holding on to those keys. Do you know why? Because you need training Absolutely you do.
Speaker 1And in the process of training you to obey me, you will find that over time after day by day, by day, as that time ticks away, your penis becomes so useless that it starts to shrink. It's almost as if it looks like a little piece of fruit that's withering right, withering away, and suddenly you start to want to embrace your sissification, your feminization, and I send you off to work, not in boxers or briefs, but in my dirty panties, every single day. And when you come home at night, you notice every night one pair of boxers or one pair of briefs go missing. After a few days you start to look into your drawers and searching high and low for your boxers and briefs and guess what? They're nowhere to be found. Can you imagine? I have replaced every single pair with a pretty pair of mine. When I wear my panties and they get wet, I put them into your drawer and that's the panties you wear the next day. And every day going forward, you get a new pair of my dirty panties. You get the cast offs. See, I'm training you how to be the perfect girlfriend for me. You're not a man, you're becoming my woman, my little wife. Oh yes, and one day I'm going to marry you. And guess who wears the pants in the family? Oh yeah, that would be me.
Speaker 1As each day moves forward, you become more and more pliable. Do you know why I don't allow you to come? I do not. You're locked up, you're dressed up, and when you come home, your work clothes come off and they are replaced with my cute little skanky dresses. And you get to cook for me and you get to clean for me, and you get to cook for me and you get to clean for me, and you get to obey me and you thank me and you bow in front of me on bended knees and you ask me oh, my dear queen of chastity, what can I do today to make your day a better day? And I say, hmm, there's a pretty pair of boots I have on my wish list. I would love for you to buy those for me. And you say, of course, queen, I will do that for you right away.
Speaker 1Every day you ask me, every day I will tell you I could want my walk, my walking closet reorganized. I will inspect it and if you do not do a good job, you will redo it until it is to my standard organized, clean, color-coded. And if there are any holes in my wardrobe as far as, hmm, I have one too few pair of boots, I could use more shoes and I would love a pair of platform high heels, or I need a new blouse, or I need more perfume, or I could use some additional pieces of jewelry or more makeup. You are working every single day to make my life easier, my life happier, my life more fulfilled, because when you fulfill mine, your life feels full. And I will fill you too. I will put in plugs, I will use dildos, I will use dildos and I will keep you caged for a very long time so that you know what it feels like to be filled up and kept as my property, because that, my dear, is what I want from you, and you will always show your gratitude In service, in tributes and in your mindset. You will change completely. For me, this is what you live for. Thank you for listening. I hope you learned a little bit about the things that I enjoy, the mindset that you need to be in, and, if you have not gotten there yet, repeat this three times. Listen to it over and over again until you understand that your purpose is to serve, not to be served, and restraint is necessary for you to get into that mind space, that head space, that subspace.
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