Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
The Power of Chastity
Chastity is not about torture or deprivation but rather a transformative practice that elevates men's sexual awareness and creates profound power exchange. Through controlling urges and transmuting sexual energy, men can discover deeper forms of pleasure and submission that honor their dominant partners.
• Understanding why chastity is fundamentally about control and power exchange
• Transmuting sexual energy into something more elevated and illuminated
• Breaking free from patterns of instant gratification and masturbation
• Working through intensified urges rather than immediately relieving them
• Discovering the "gift" that comes from denying immediate pleasure
• Honoring female dominants through restraint and self-control
• Pushing beyond your comfort zone to reach new levels of submission
• Using denial as a pathway to becoming your higher sexual self
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Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom, plus Questions Answered with me. Chastity Queen. Today I want to speak of chastity. I want to get you into the headspace of why you should embrace chastity and how you can do that in the most effective way. So I want you to get comfortable. This will not be a long discussion, but an effective one. Ask yourself, why do you want to be in chastity? And you might have many different answers to share with me. Today, I'm going to tell you why I believe chastity is good for men and how to do it in the most effective manner.
Speaker 1:This is a compilation of many of the slaves that I've interacted with. I have seen what works and what doesn't, and, while everybody is unique in their approach and their necessity for chastity, their ability to be in it for specific periods of time, I want to put all of those things into one crystallized message for all of you, from me to you. This is my perspective. This is why I want you caged. I'm going to tell you, from my eyes, what I see. What I see is more than merely a physical manifestation of a cage, a dick, a lock and a key. It's about control. It's about losing your control and about me taking it Quite simple, quite simple. It's about me teaching you what headspace you must jump into. When you are caged for me, you need to give in to me. When you're locked and you have to say goodbye to your old ways, you're taking this energy, you're transmuting it into something much more elevated and illuminated. Maybe that doesn't sound exciting sexually, but when you achieve it, when you experience what I know you can experience, finally you will understand. It will be like a light bulb going off in your head, and when I say head, I mean in your mind. It's a challenge to begin this experiment with your body Absolutely. It's somewhat frightening. For you is absolutely imperative that you have somebody that knows what your end result will be. And you see, I understand what that is. I have seen men get to a level of achievement that is so profound that returning to the old way is not even an option for them, and it goes beyond my control. It becomes something that they are convinced of because they finally get it. They understand the patterns of masturbation.
Speaker 1:Jerking off, letting the body lead the mind rather than the mind leading the body begins to feel like a lower level of intelligence to the men who understand what it means to control their urges. The urges exist and those urges may not go away. Those urges may intensify and they will intensify when you first begin this practice of chastity. And the first reaction when an urge comes is one that is an old reaction you want to relieve yourself, you want to give in. But when a dom, when somebody like me, has the power over that urge, that urge, then you have no choice but to obey and work through it. And that's why having somebody in charge or doing something so powerful, like giving up that urge to a female dominant, like giving up that urge to a female dominant, is amazing and mandatory. Because when you lose the opportunity to make a decision for yourself, then somebody else can guide you. And that is what I do. I'm guiding you to not only enjoy your urges in a different way, but to elevate them, to experience heightened sense of awareness, not to be weak and to give in to every single urge, but to see what it feels like, to wait and wonder what the next urge will feel like when you do not release and give in. And then the next, and the next and the next.
Speaker 1:And there are men who say it's not for me. I like sex too much, I like to jerk off too much, and for that man I feel sorry because he doesn't understand that chastity is not about torture. It's not about stealing something that you feel is your right as a man. It's about giving you a gift. I know what that gift is. Is it something you can concretely look at and touch and feel? No, it's not. It's something that exists and grows within. It is a seed that I plant and when it germinates you finally understand, when the flowers start to grow within your mind, your sexual mind, and you realize that you have the ability to experience pleasure in a different way. But that doesn't mean it is less than it means that it's a feeling unlike any other. Many men will never experience it, but you wish to seek and find what that feeling is the power exchange giving your sexual body to a woman.
Speaker 1:And it's not through penetration, it's not through sex, it's by saying I am giving up something that's important to me, that is a base urge of most men and I'm handing that urge the thing that I cannot often control over to a woman to take charge and that in of itself is powerful. But then, when you push yourself and you obey, and you see where it takes you and how far you can go. You realize what she's getting at, what she's driving at. You see, it's not about not wanting a man. It's about pushing him to be better. It's about showing him what he has within this gift. It's not only something that I provide, it's something that I give in my desire for you to be caged. It's something that lives within you, that has been dormant for many, many years. You weren't taught how to dig and find that treasure, but I am here with a map and I know where that treasure exists, and it's deep within your groin, deep within your spirit.
Speaker 1:Denial is power. Denial is a thrill. Restraint is power. Denial is a thrill. Restraint is control, and the more you have of that, the more you want and the happier that I become. So today I'm keeping this short and sweet. If you refuse to try chastity, that's your choice. But if you want to dabble, and if you have experienced it, and maybe even for a long period of time, you understand where I'm getting at. You know what I'm talking about, but you can still push further. You know there is really no end to this.
Speaker 1:Elevating your sexual desire is something that is infinite. And you honor a female dominant. When you control your urges, you become more reverent to her, you honor her, you worship her. Her needs become primary, not yours, and you can prove it. You can master it with her help and you can say look, I can control myself. I'm not a weak man. I have control over my body. You have control over my body and I would never disrespect you with this body and I would never disrespect you with this body. So take the energy, that sexual energy, and transmute it into your higher sexual self and see how far you can go with that. Thanks for listening. Stay caged, get caged, push yourself For me Bye for now.