Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Sissy Wardrobe Diaries
A quiet ritual can change everything. We invite you into Violetta’s Sissy Wardrobe Diary, a tender, detailed look at how task obedience from Chastity Queen, clothing, and daily routines can reshape identity with grace. What starts as a simple day at home unfolds into a fully embodied practice: a floral dress chosen with care, pink tights and fishnets layered with intention, and a six-hoop petticoat that turns each step into music. As heels click and fabric swishes, chores become choreography and the apartment becomes a sanctuary for self-mastery.
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Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom plus Questions Answered with Me, Chastity Queen. So today I have something very special. I own a sissy who I adore so much, and she truly is the epitome of what a sissy should be, in the sense that everything that I ask of her, she works at her very best to comply. And even when it feels unusual, maybe a little strange, but my darling sissy Violetta listens and obeys. One day we were texting and there was made mention something quite intriguing to me by my sissy, and that being that she has a catalog system of each item of clothing that she owns in her closet. So I'm talking about sissy clothing. And what I asked of her was to take an outfit and create a sissy story with that outfit. Now, it seemed unusual and strange, but I wanted to bring those pieces of clothing to life and in different scenarios. So Sissy Violetta agreed and has already provided me with three of her sissy closet diaries. And that is what this is. So every now and then, as I get a new one, I will read it and you can enjoy the story as Sissy is getting comfortable with this new routine, this new task. Very exciting for me. I'm very pleased with her, and so without further ado, let me read you this journal entry from my sissy, who I named Sissy Violetta, now. The title is Diary of a Sissy Wardrobe. Dear journal, it is a beautiful Sunday morning, and although the weather outside is a little ick, cloudy with winds, I can still use the windy condition to air out the apartment. Moving into this one bedroom is new for me, but the perks sort of make it worth it. Number one, I'm closer to Chastity Queen, so she can come visit whenever she has a key. Number two, it's a one bedroom, so I have more than enough space for everything. Number three, I'm the only one here, so I can be the sissy I want to be full time. Dresses, skirts, and heels all of the time. Opening the blinds to let in what light I can. I open the door but keep the bug screen closed. Sitting down at the table, it's the day for chores and meal prepping for the week. I make sure to message Chastity Queen first. I shower and then shave myself completely. And I'm still finding this process odd, but I'm obedient to the Chastity Queen and will do as she tells me. After that I had to spend an hour rubbing in a moisturizer cream into my legs and my arms and my face. Weird looking at myself in the mirror and my chastity device clapped tight round my legs, it really doesn't bother me that I'm locked away. It does, however, feel like a thong or G string that women wear, and in some bizarre sense, the reason why men wear underwear is to cover their balls. But I'm getting off track. Opening the closet I see the pinks and whites of the dresses, the short hem to the long, the blouses on one side, the skirts on another, multi tier hangers are divine, and then my heels nicely all in a row. I turn on my recordings and put on my headphones as the soft music plays and the chastity queen starts her podcast subject. I flip through and look for something to wear as her voice fills my head and I listen. When she tells me to breathe in I do so and then breathe out when told to. I pull out a knee length floral dress in light pink with a lace up front and a darker pink ruffled sleeve and lay it on the bed. Going to the dresser I take out some pink tights, cream panties, and small pink fishnets for the first layer. I wiggle and squirm with everything to get it on, but then realize I need to be more sissy and feminine. Channel the feminine energy and look the part. So I sit on the edge of the bed and ball up the tights and slowly draw them up my smoothly shaved legs, making sure to point my toe to the floor like a good girl. The fish nets are a little harder, but first I've learned to use my fist to open them up before sliding them up my legs. Then finally my panties, and with a satisfying snap of the band, I'm ready to dress for the day. But as I reach into the closet for a pair of white two inch heels, I feel something more is missing. I set the shoes down and look around. I go to the dresser and open up the shelf with petticoats, and I take out the bag marked six rings. I tie off the beautiful six hoop puffy Caroline petticoat. It's a six tool skirt slip, long underskirt for weddings. By the time I'm tied off, the podcast is done, and the recommended music starts playing from the Spotify playlist. I look at my reflection, and as I twist and turn I hear the swish of my hips and petticoats, and I smile. I slip the dress over my head and pull it down, and the fabric tickles my arms as the sleeves are fluffy and maybe poofy. The square open front allows for my permanent necklace to be displayed with the moonstone to sit where cleavage should be. Pulling at the sides of the dress it sits beautifully over the petticoats and is almost invisible. But as I swish and turn around, I can hear the ruffle of the fabric which makes me giggle. I slip my feet into the heels. The click clack of the heels fills the room as I walk into the kitchen, and then start my cleaning routine. Kitchen, then living room, bathroom, then bedroom. It takes me a good three hours to do it all properly, and the feeling of the heels and skirt fill the room with every movement I make. In addition to my work I turn back on the Chastity Queen's recommended music and YouTube channels and listen to them as I sweep, scrub, and polish the place with an open mind and empty thoughts. When I finish cleaning, I switch out the laundry loads before checking my phone. My delivery of a full vanity for my room should arrive today along with a Sephora and Mac package. It's weird that a few months ago I would have never ordered any of this for myself, but after a full purge of my things, before my move to my new apartment, I needed to find things for the empty space. There's a message from the queen and she wants a tribute and a picture of me, so I go over to my desk and obediently obey. Then to the hallway where there is a full length mirror. I take a few pictures and send those two. Putting my phone down I look in the fridge and mentally figure what I can make for the week and I smile, as I have just about anything meat, veggies, pasta, eggs, bread, even frozen stuff. I open the closet and get my cooking apron in a soft pink color and tie it on. I feel a warm remembrance from cooking class in high school and a home economics class in junior high, pulling pots out of the cupboard and then a cutting board and assorted bowls I get to work with music playing. By the time I'm finally done, I have ten full meals in containers, cooling, two different stews, spaghetti, and a pork steak bowl with veggies, plus a few bigger containers for dinner. Swapping out the last of the laundry, I dump the basket on the bed and then start loading the dishwasher. There's a ping on my phone and I see one that my packages are all at my door, and two Chastity has scolded me for not wearing makeup or earrings, or most importantly, a wig. I cringe a little and type out I'm sorry before going to the door to get my mail. I place the makeup boxes on the couch in the living room, and then drag the vanity in its box into the bedroom. So this is the end of a little day with some of my sissy's clothing and some of her sissy duties. I absolutely adore my sissy Violetta. She is a sweetheart and so willing to adjust her behaviors when those are mentioned and corrected. So thank you, sissy. I will be sharing more of your journal entries about your adventures with your wardrobe shortly. Thank you everybody for listening. Don't forget to go to LockedIn Lust using promo code all caps, all one word chastity queen for your 15% off discount. And that is stackable with other discounts on site. So enjoy shopping. There are wonderful items. There's chastity cages, there's the new Mach 2, which is on its way, as well as dildos and kinky things. So sissies should always be shopping. Do as I say. Bye for now.