Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
How Visualizing Your Outfits Can Change Your Life
A packed suitcase can be a love letter to your future self. We open Violetta’s travel diary and follow every deliberate choice—panties in soft colours, stockings with texture, clear pleasers, a red lace blouse—while honouring her commitment to stay locked with clarity and care. What begins as a packing list becomes a blueprint for courage, showing how outfits, accessories, and small travel hacks help move private desire into public life.
From airport realities to creative layering, we share simple ways to make fashion practical and affirming: sunglasses that pass in any mode, wigs chosen for length and mood, purses that match purpose. Then we go deeper. Clothes aren’t props; they’re ritual. We talk about manifestation grounded in sensation—the ruffle at your wrist, the click of a heel—and how that embodied visualization turns a fantasy into a memory your body can use. If you’ve ever bought something beautiful and then hid it in the closet, this conversation offers a kinder path.
We challenge the urge to purge and replace it with a living catalogue. Name your pieces. Journal short scenes about where they want to go. Let those entries guide small, safe steps beyond the bedroom: a café, a quiet bookstore, a hotel lobby at twilight. The goal isn’t to perform for others. It’s to align your inner voice with your outer expression, one outfit at a time, with rules and consent that keep your dynamic strong.
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Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom plus questions answered with me, Chastity Queen. So today I have another little diary of a sissy wardrobe for you. And this is written by my sissy Violetta. This is a continuance of her tasks for me, and there are a number of other journal entries that I will be sharing, but I wanted to share this one. So let's begin. Dear Diary. Well, it's official. I'm going on vacation, and work has approved my time off, and I have the flight booked, and my stay at an Airbnb for the week is confirmed, and it's paid for. I've spoken to Chastity Queen about this, and she has agreed to the vacation, but I must remain locked, and no playing with it. Naturally I agreed and ensured that nothing will happen to my chastity device. Placing my suitcase on the bed, I pack six pairs of panties in different colors, seven pair of stockings, four sheer, three fisc, my makeup bag and toiletries, just containing the basic stuff. Nothing liquid based, toothpaste, and mouthwash I will get there. I can't take any toys, but I pack a small bag of jewelry as I'm still getting used to having to find the perfect fit or appropriate look for outfits. I pack then four pairs of heels in black, white, cream, and a polished knee high. Then it's to the closet for my clothes. I immediately put three nineties in a red and pink on the bed, then four skirts lengths just above the knee in pink and black colours, four simple blouses that I hope will look good, two pink, one cream color, one purple color with ruffle cuffs. Then I need a few party or club dresses so I can go further down the line and find a purple and black dress with a V neckline, flared skirt hem and bell bottom sleeves and a cute pair of crisscrossed ties near the waist that are purely decorative. It has a sort of lace pattern neckline that should show off my permanent necklace and moonstone. Then, lastly, I take a three-piece outfit that has a red lace see-through blouse, a red flared skirt, t-shirt with spaghetti shoulder strings, and some simple black pants with lacy see-through near the ankles so my heels can be seen. I then swap out the knee high boots for some clear colored pleasers in three inches. I pack four wigs, two black color with some ponytail clip attachments, one shoulder length and the other back length, then a burgundy colored one that is down the back, and finally a pink haired one that goes past the shoulders and also has ponytail clip-ons. I don't have a sissy bathing suit, and I sort of don't want to take one on this vacation because what are the chances I'll go to the beach to swim? I got everything a sissy needs to wear, and then I added two purses to the sides, because I totally need those. The struggle to close the luggage is a little fun as superior women go through this all of the time, I assume, as well as performers and stage artists. My carry on bag will be my cell phone charger, three sissy inspired books, my travel purse, ear pods, and a pair of Amazon ordered brand sunglasses. Passport. The sunglasses have a neutral look so that I can pass for male or sissy. So I'm about to leave with my plane ticket, and I'm giving just a brief description of my outfit because it's super cold outside. Fleece leggings with a sheer cover nylon, green panties with black lace on the hems. Then covering all of that is a rose and lace colored block, V neck, long sleeve dress with a pair of crisscross ribbon ties on the front. And I hide the hem of the dress with a little creative workshopping to make them appear pants like. I used Chastity Queen's promo code for those pleasers. I'm not taking my journal, but I will have my camera and can record my thoughts. Plus, if Chastity Queen comes by for an inspection or stays for the day, she'll have reading material to enjoy while she stays. If you are reading this, my queen, and I have not done your inspection yet, there is prepared food in the fridge and freezer, and I put out fresh towels in the bathroom for you. So thank you, my darling. I hope you have a lovely sissy vacation. And I love to hear of the different styles of clothing and shoes and purses and sunglasses that are appropriate for male or female wear, which is quite intelligent of you. It makes things very versatile. You know, my purpose in having my sissy discuss her adventures or create adventures for herself with her clothing closet, with her cataloged items, is that, you know, it brings these items to life, it puts them to use. I know that so many sissies who are living in their own mind and within their own world sometimes have to break out of that. And I really want to see manifest the desire to go outside of your comfort zone. And when you live in a place where you are creating an experience, you can move outside of your bedroom, your apartment, uh your headspace, and you can start to take those clothes with you on adventures. And that brings it to life. I know that a lot of people talk about manifestation right now. It's very popular. And as a practicing witch, I know that when you bring things into your mind as a reality and you have that experience, that feeling of excitement, even if it's not something that is happening at this moment, if you are visualizing and you're living that experience, whether it be real or fantasy, it can manifest reality. And so this is the purpose. And I feel that many of you who have all of these items, you go on, you purchase them, you're excited, you receive the package, you open it up, and then you put it in the closet. So I want to bring that closet to life. And that includes not just my sissy violetta, but it includes all of you who listen. I want you to bring your closet to life. And purging is just not an option. I'm sorry, it's not. I know you get frustrated. You think, where am I going to wear these things? And even as a queen, I have items that I've worn once. And you think, well, should I keep them? But yes, you should, because the moment you get rid of it is the moment that you need it. It's strange, Murphy's Law, I suppose, but never give up on your dreams to be a sissy or to wear something fancy. So never give up on the fact that yes, you have some cute things and you feel as if you can't use them for whatever reason. I know there's restrictions, I get it. But when you get dressed in your room and you feel that sissy girl come out and take over and fill your mind with dopamine and joy, that existence is truth. So embrace it and create your own stories with those items. Think about where you would love to wear those items and turn it into a journal entry. It doesn't have to be long. You know? Um write a story. Talk about one item if you wish. Talk about two. It doesn't matter. Live it, experience it, feel it, feel the sissy that lives inside of you and bring it out, bring it out into your reality. Do as I say, and you will see a difference. Okay? Positivity is everything. So thank you, sissy violeta, for that journal entry. And I'm certain when I look in your fridge, there's going to be a variety of yummy things for Queen to Eat, and I will be inspecting your room. So don't you worry. So thank you so much for listening. Don't forget to go to LockedIn Lust and get yourself a device, get yourself the new Mach 2 with the inescapable chastity, get yourself a crotch rocket or a nice little dildo or some cute sissy panties, and use promo code chastity queen, all caps, all one word, for your 15% off discount. It helps me keep going. Uh, it's not always easy to be me and your support, your help, your tributes, your gifts really keeps me going, and I want to keep going forever. So help me do that. Bye for now.