Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
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Welcome And Settle In
SPEAKER_00Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of Adam, plus Questions Answered with me, Chastity Queen. Today I just want you to sit back, relax, and listen to my voice as we discuss something that is very near and dear to my heart. And that is how to shrink your dick. I absolutely want this for you. So first of all, breathe in through your nose and hold it for four seconds, okay? And then let it out of your mouth one moment. Here we go. Just like that. Let's do it one more time. Very good. Now I want you to reflect upon that little thing between your legs. You know the thing that so many men want to grow bigger and bigger. I want it to shrink. Yes. I like small dicks and I want yours to become smaller and smaller. And so small that I can barely even see it. Yes, it is definitely something that you can do. One first very important step is no more masturbation. With too much blood flow to the shaft, you will find it very difficult to shrink that penis. And every time you touch yourself in such a way, it angers me. You become a disappointment.
SPEAKER_01So don't do it.
SPEAKER_00If you're looking at pornography and getting an erection, that pushes blood into your penis, making it erect. And that is a big problem for me. So you have two parts of your body that you have to train. One is your hand, or both hands, though I assume you're pretty small as it is, so it would be a one-handed deal when you masturbate. And your eyes. So if you can control your eyes and not watch porn, monitor what you look at, manage your hands and what they touch, there will be less blood flow to the shaft, which means with underuse of your little dick, it will stop growing.
SPEAKER_01It will forget what it means to be erect.
SPEAKER_00Eventually being flaccid will become your norm, something that you prefer, something that I expect of you. You need to learn to control your desires. And the reason that you want to control those desires is not only to shrink that penis and turn it into a little tiny klity, but ultimately to please me. Don't you want to do that? Of course you do, and I want you to. It is so important that you understand that you have a queen that is tasking you with a very important, purposeful mission.
SPEAKER_01To shrink that dick. For me, I want to be happy.
SPEAKER_00I know you want me to be happy, don't you?
SPEAKER_01Okay, now let's take a breathing break, okay?
Breathwork And Mental Focus
SPEAKER_00Through the nose. Out of your mouth. Good. Let's do it one more time and hold that breath in a little bit longer this time, okay?
SPEAKER_02Very good.
SPEAKER_00Now as your mind settles, as you feel a wave of relaxation flowing from your mind to your chest, and continuing on below the belt, I want you to imagine my face right where your penis is.
SPEAKER_01What do you see?
SPEAKER_00You see a queen, you see a queen with a crown. You see my neck surrounded by chastity keys. But the most important thing that you must focus in on is my mouth.
SPEAKER_01My mouth is smiling.
SPEAKER_00When you obey me in that area, in that region, in tandem with your eyes being controlled and your hands being restrained. All that you can think of when you think of your penis is my face and how I am smiling, because you are actively denying yourself, just as I would deny you in person. Never forget that vision. This is so important, okay? Breathe in through your nose again and think of my face right there. Breathe in through your nose.
Orgasm Denial And Staying Caged
SPEAKER_01Now out of your mouth. And I'm still smiling. And part of this practice is not to come either.
SPEAKER_00There's no need for you to come. Shrinking is the purpose.
SPEAKER_01Becoming smaller for me is a purpose. Accepting your life in chastity is your purpose. Even if it's mental. And especially when you're caged.
Rules, Rewards, And Obedience
SPEAKER_00Remember, the more you restrict yourself for me, the happier. My face is. Do not upset me. I do not want to be angry. I do not want to wear a frown. If you break my rules. If you decide one night you can't control yourself, and you just have to pull one off. Absolute failure. Complete and utter anger in my face. I don't want to be anywhere near you, anywhere near your penis, anywhere near your spirit. So if you want me to stay, if you want to succeed in life with me as your guide, you will obey. No touching, no pornography. And if I give you the rare opportunity to look at pornography, and I'm talking rare, you must have done something super, super, super good to deserve such a reward, because I don't want any blood flow in that penis or through your balls, causing any kind of erection. And oh yes, I know it doesn't make being caged fun. But guess what? This is not about your fun. This is about my desire. My desire is for you to be chaste, and for you to obey, and for you to get smaller, and to serve with one hundred percent of your determination and commitment. This is what keeps me smiling. As I observe you, as I look upon you, I want to smile. And if you fall back into temptation, and you become that wretchedly weak, horny man that truly doesn't fit this agenda of mine. You have work to do. And I know you're going to have a lot of work to do because I can't expect that you will be perfect right off the get-go unless you have a strong, strong will and desire to make me happy. If you do, I tell you, you are a rare gem, and I will keep you. Breathe in through your nose.
No Sex And Total Service
SPEAKER_01And out of your mouth. Listen, you should not ever have sex again.
SPEAKER_00Your penis serves only one purpose, and that is to be chased for me, to be locked. And as a slave, your job is to serve me in every single way that I request. You don't get to pick and choose. If I need you, you are there. When you obey, I notice and I recognize that slavery. That means the world to me. You don't even know how much it means. You may think you do, but you don't. So stay strong. Don't touch. You can wash your body, that's fine. Keep it to a minimum.
SPEAKER_01Don't be fucking the soap. Understood. Keep me happy. Obey.
Final Rules And Goodbye
SPEAKER_00Stay locked when you can. And if you can stay locked permanently. This is wonderful. Thank you for listening. Bye for now.