Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
DO you HAVE A PLACE AT MY FEET?
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I slow the breath, lock in a submissive headspace, and lay out a no-nonsense view of service, obedience, and what it means to earn a place at My feet. I also challenge shame, defend consent, and explain how intense humiliation play can build real confidence when it is chosen on purpose.
• guided breathing to settle the mind and focus attention
• clear power exchange expectations and the role of service
• hard limits, boundaries, and why mismatch means no play
• tribute, value, and the difference between gifting and resentment
• chastity, denial, and permission as core discipline
• inclusivity across gender and bodies while keeping roles clear
• humour as a tool for confidence and releasing shame
• consent as the line between kink and harm
• public presentation, protection, and standing up for our people
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Breathwork And Entering Headspace
SPEAKER_02Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of Adom Plus Questions Answered with me, Chastity Queen. Today I want to get you into a proper headspace. Okay. Breathe in through your nose. Out of your mouth. And again, in through your nose. Out of your mouth. Good. Do not speed up the process when you're breathing. It's very important that you take your time. Because I want you to slow your mind down and start to realize that you must listen. You are my slave. You are my beta sissy cuck A B diaper loving piss swallowing sissy bitch. And hey, maybe you don't identify with every single term that I just used. But you are what I want you to be. I am your Dom. I am a queen. And you are in my hands. I will take care of you. But you must understand that there are certain things that I enjoy seeing.
SPEAKER_00And there may be moments when I want to dress you up. And it may make you feel a little bit embarrassed.
SPEAKER_02Your cheeks will turn red. Your heart will start to pound. Your breathing will start to get shallow.
SPEAKER_00Or it will speed up. Because you can't believe that you're doing this for me.
Ownership And Serving The Queen
SPEAKER_02But this is why you do it for me. Because it's for me.
SPEAKER_00Do you understand? I like to have fun.
SPEAKER_02You're my amusement. This is your role. If I put you in a diaper and I tell you to piss yourself, it's because I feel like seeing you do that. Simple. Very simple. If that's a hard limit, then fine. I won't play with you. But if you really want to push yourself and you want to make me happy, you will try it.
SPEAKER_00Even once.
SPEAKER_02And of course, I can adjust, I can make you feel a little bit more comfortable, but at the end of the day, okay?
SPEAKER_00I'm the queen. If I want a gift, you will find a way to get it.
SPEAKER_02You will happily offer that to me. And if you can't offer it to me right now, you will make sure that you do in the future. This is how it works. I have a lot of slaves who will abide by my rules. They want to make me happy. I will say, Okay, you did not obey me. There is a penalty you must pay, and you will pay it happily. One of my slaves said it's like giving a bouquet of flowers to me when they tribute, when they give me something. It's a gift. If you're looking at the nickels and dimes in your life and you say that I'm not worth your nickels and dimes, and there's a big problem here. That's a you problem. That's not a me problem. I have value. And no, I don't expect people to be paying me money constantly, bang, bang, bang, bang. I'm balanced. But if I ask you to give me a treat, if I ask you to perform, do a strip tease, piss in a diaper, put on a wig, put on fake lashes, put on fake nails.
Rules, Limits, And Tribute
SPEAKER_02Crawl on the floor like a dog and bark. And you know that's going to make me happy. This is at the very crux of what you want to do for me. You are here to serve me. I am not here to serve you. You are here to make me happy. I want to be happy. I can be happy, and there are plenty who wish to make me happy. Are you willing to be that for me? Because if you are, I'm telling you, the sky is the limit in your experiences, in kink and fetish, and everything to do with it, to be with me, to experience these things with somebody you can say is your queen. I am willing to do that. I'm willing to be your queen. I'm willing to own you. But you must step up to the plate. Be ready when I throw the ball at you. You hit it out of the park. You don't bunt that thing. No, you hit hard. You try your very best for me. And if you're not willing to, then you're not meant for me. I will not miss you. I want men with small dicks. I want men that are caged. I want men who identify as my submissive and slave. And two, it doesn't matter how you identify. Female, trans, non-binary, male. At the end of the day, you are one thing to me, and one thing only. You're
Identity, Caging, And Permission
SPEAKER_02submissive. You're a slave. I don't care what's between your legs. I really don't. I will take what you have, no matter what it is. Tits, dick, asshole. A bit of both. None of the above. And I will turn you into my toy. That's what you are. That's what you are. You're my plaything. I don't need a dick to penetrate. If you have a dick, big or small, even medium size really doesn't matter. It's going to be caged. If you have a pussy, it's going to be caged. One hundred and ten percent. Locked up, denied, and you are my plaything. And I can touch you where I wish, but you cannot touch me. No. Anything that's done to me is asked. You must ask permission. And even still, I recommend you don't ask. I'm not interested in having a vanilla relationship with anyone. It doesn't turn me on. Oh, I'm very niche and specific. If you haven't figured that out, then as somebody else said the other day, you must be living under a rock. I'm not for everyone, but everyone's not for me. I accept everyone as I expect others to accept me. But that doesn't mean I'm going to play the way they do, and that doesn't mean they're going to play the way that I do. And guess what? There's room for everything. So if you like how I play and you want to be used like a toy, not a fuck toy, but a humiliation toy, a little sissy, an adult baby, a diaper lover, a slave, a foot lover, whatever it may be, I have a place for you at my feet. You serve a purpose. And I have recently found the smallest dick in all of the world I believe now. At first the pig said to me, I'm the smallest dick in Southern Ontario. Then I'm the smallest dick in Canada. Well, smallest dick in the world, probably on every planet around our planet. And I couldn't be happier. You know, so many of us Doms are observed by hmm people that are boxed in, right? And they think, oh, she must want big cocks because she's a queen. And you know what? I like what I like. Little dicks amuse me. They make me laugh. I like to laugh. That's the clown in me, you see. Are you getting it? Are you understanding?
Humour, Authenticity, And Letting Go
SPEAKER_02I like to laugh. And if you're my amusement toy, that's the kind of toy I want, is an amusement toy. You and I are going to get along fine and for a very long time. I like to laugh. As I said, I love it. I think the world needs to laugh. We take each other and ourselves so damn seriously, don't we?
SPEAKER_00We all like what we like, and that's okay. It's fine. But you have to be authentic to what you like.
SPEAKER_02Accept it. If you have a small dick, accept it. There is a role for you. If you're a sissy, accept it. Embrace it. Don't be ashamed. You are who you are. We don't have to be playing that role 24-7. I know. Regular boring life is just the way it is. We have to go in, you know, engage, make money, do these things that we don't like. But we mustn't forget that we need to play. That's our stress release. That's creativity. That doesn't make us bad. That makes us intelligent, high vibrational. You know, I will tell you a little secret. People look at my humiliation slaves and they think, oh, those poor suckers. They really must be uh abused by her. And it's funny to me because it's not abuse, you motherfuckers. Oh my god, you know, my slaves, my sissies, my small dicked uh piggies and adult babies. They might go through a period of uh some self-doubt and some shame, but when I'm done with them, they have so much self-confidence that they can walk in public dressed in full sissy. Like this weekend, I had three of them dressed up in public in a big city. You know, I'm talking pink frills, big bling wigs, pink, pink, pink, pink, pink, high heels. And fuck, man. They don't give a shit. They don't care. Do you know why? Because they're with me. I protect them. They're my property, but I protect
Public Play, Protection, And Consent
SPEAKER_02them. And if anybody comes up on my sissies and treats them like shit, they gotta deal with me. You see, I've been out in public so many times with men who are wearing a diaper under their pants. You know, I've been out in public with sissies. My slave bunny for years presents as a woman. Not so much now, just because of uh, you know, a variety of reasons, it's not from shame, it's just it's just life, you know, it's just jobs, etc. But I have experience with that. And I think that slaves who engage with me are uh some of the most brave around and some of the most incredible because they're here to please me, they're here to serve me, and they trust me, and they know I will protect them. And I will protect them to the ends of the earth and back because we need to protect our fun time, our play time, our identities. Fuck shame. Fuck it. If I'm gonna engage in uh humiliation play in a private setting or in a film, and you know, it's extreme. Maybe I'm pissing in someone's mouth. They're doing it for me, they enjoy it. They identify as a slave, a humiliation slut. They want to do it.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. There's consent.
SPEAKER_02It's a beautiful thing. And as you begin to play in that frame of mind, you realize, guess what? Life doesn't have to be so serious. No. And things that happen don't have to affect you as deeply anymore because you know how to push your boundaries. You know how to be pushed. That's what I do. So to all of my little beta sissy losers, I give you a very special award. Yes. It's a big shiny pink one. That says, number one slave, right? Because you deserve it. You honor me with your humility. You honor me with your performance. You honor me by serving me. You honor me by treating me like a queen. You honor me by accepting your place beneath my feet. I want you to breathe through your nose now. Out of your mouth. You know what's funny is I have come into myself where I understand what I'm all about, but it took me time. And it might take you as a slave some time to understand why you have these desires, but at some point in your life, you're going to say, why not? Right? You're not hurting anybody. I'm not hurting anybody unless it's consensual. Like I'll whip your ass and spank your ass and teach you things that might be physically challenging. But it's worth it. It's so, so worth it because we have one life to live. Why pretend? Why not have fun? Let's get in the sandbox. Let's get dirty. Let's add some water, make it muddy. You know? There's a hose. We can spray ourselves off afterwards. No one has to know. But at least we got all of that out. We got to enjoy. We got to play. That's essentially what this is. It's role play. And I love it. People can judge me. I may not fit into a specific category where, you know, I have a cuck and I have a bull and uh bunch of lovers and all of this jazz. But, you know, each one of us has different tastes. None are right or wrong. They're individual to us. And we can't have people understand who we are. We can't have everybody understand. We can't explain ourselves to everybody because a lot of people don't understand perspectives. They don't want to. So if I find a lovely little piggy slave who I can piss on, and they will drink it up for me, I'm gonna do it because I enjoy it. If I want to make fun of your little dick and you enjoy that, well, hey, that makes two of us. I mean, I currently think I have the smallest dick in the world under me. All of you can decide, and I will probably find a way to make that thing smaller and smaller as time goes on. Just from sheer inactivity. And if I make my slaves
Chastity Discipline And Final Invitation
SPEAKER_02withhold cum for extended periods of time, there's a method to my madness. And some men would say, Oh, I could never do that. Do you know why? Because they can't control themselves. Or they just like to masturbate and they don't want to bow to a woman. That's fine. They don't have a place at my feet. But do you have a place at my feet? I'll tell you. I believe you do. So remember, chastity is freedom. I am priority. You will put me first at all times. There will be no whining, no wavering, no back talk. Okay? And if you don't want to serve me, there's the door. I'm not going to be upset. Really. I really will not be because there are so many who would love to be at my side, and I pick and choose. I really do. Because I want the best. I want the best of the best, the ones who enjoy degradation, humiliation, pain, training, anal stretching, penis shrinking, caging, denial, syssification, bimbification, all of it.
SPEAKER_00That's for me.
SPEAKER_02And if you identify like this, you'd be the best at it for me.
SPEAKER_00And you might find a place right beside me. In real life. Hell yeah.
SPEAKER_02I want all of you by my side. And hey, if you're far away, that doesn't matter. Guess what? We will come together. We will. That doesn't exclude you. If you feel alone and you want your penis humiliated, I'm here. I have a video chat. I have audio chat. I mean, hey.
SPEAKER_01That brings you right to me.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_01Don't give up.
SPEAKER_02There's a humiliation queen, a chastity queen right here that wants you. But you must value me completely, with no question. Be patient, humble. And you will find your ultimate dream. Be brought into reality. You're gonna feel it for real. Are you ready? Because I am. I've been ready all my life for this.
SPEAKER_00Excellent.
Support The Show And Where To Connect
SPEAKER_02Thank you for listening. Don't forget to support my show. It seems like nobody is supporting my show with a tribute. It's easy. And if you leave a message, can you please keep it vanilla? That would be lovely. We can also be friends on Telegram. Under Chastity Queen, you're going to see me in a black wig and a Dom hat. Send me a hello, but don't waste my time. I'm not here to make friends, I'm here to make slaves. Understood? You can go on FetLife, follow me there under Chastity Dash Queen. And otherwise, thank you for listening. Bye for now.