Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
CAGE ON! Crown And Cage Society
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A private location, a strict arrival rule, and a Queen who makes the decisions for you, that’s the energy I bring to this. I start by laying out the details for MY "Chastity Queen’s Crown and Cage Society" EVENT on Eventbrite: Saturday, September 26th, in Hamilton, Ontario CANADA, from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m., with a creative space, a controlled vibe, and a clear expectation that you show up caged. If you grab one of the first 25 tickets, promo code: CHASTE gets you 25% off, and yes, Queen is also running a raffle for 2 Locked in Lust VICE chastity cages.
ENJOY as I also drop into a chastity hypno designed to put you back in your place through breath, attention, and obedience, in this episode. I talk openly about what a chastity cage represents psychologically: not just “wearing gear,” but locking into a Hierarchy where permission matters and trust is everything. The goal is long-term control and long-term desire, not a quick spike of arousal followed by a crash.
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Welcome And What’s Coming
SPEAKER_00Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom plus Questions Answered with your divine hostess, Chastity Queen.
Hamilton Event Details And Discounts
SPEAKER_00I want to just let everybody know that you can go to Eventbrite and you can look up Chastity Queen's Crown and Cage Society. It's an event Saturday, September 26th from 7 to 10 p.m. So 7 p.m. until 10 p.m. And it is in Hamilton, Ontario. As soon as you buy your ticket, uh I will have the information I need. And about a week or two before the event, I will send you the specific private location. It is an excellent spot. Very exciting location. Private, creative, and lots of room for me to control your cock and make sure it's caged. And hmm, take your keys. And I will be bringing some permanent glue. So if you want to buy a ticket, the first 25 tickets, if you use promo code Chaste, you will get 25% off discount. So check it out. I'm very excited about this. And uh yes, it's in Canada. I know there's uh some U.S. locations with the same name. So I want to see you there. And I will have a lot of surprises. I will have a lot of protocols, and it will be led by me. I am going to be in complete control. So you have no decisions that you must make other than showing up caged. And I'm also going to have a raffle for two cages. That's also very exciting, isn't it? Yeah. I'm going to have two vice chastity cages available for raffle. So you get a little ticket when you walk in the door.
Hypno Induction Into Obedience
SPEAKER_00Yeah. So today I just want to do a little bit of uh hypno to remind you of your place under me. Get comfortable, okay? Want you to take a deep breath through your nose. Out of your mouth. Yes. You are my chaste slave. There is nothing better, absolutely nothing better than to be locked in chastity with a queen that looks over you with a big smile on her face. Oh yes, a very big smile, a grin, in fact. Being chaste is not just about putting the cage on, but I will tell you this much. When that cage is on, you can feel my control. When you listen to my voice, suddenly that cage begins to shrink, doesn't it? You fill it up, you can feel the tightness and the squeeze. It is as if my hand is grabbing you by the dick and reminding you who owns it. That is me. That is your queen. And I want you to be locked up for as long as possible. There will be no excuses. There may be moments when it needs to come off, but that is something that you must only do in extreme cases. That's an expectation I have for you. Now, as you're thinking about the tightening that happens when you have the cage on, I want you to breathe in through your nose. And out of your mouth.
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SPEAKER_00And remember who your boss is. You're listening to her right now. She is me. Everything that you do in your life is going to be focused around my pleasure. You must do as I say. You must obey and you must conform to my protocols. You no longer have a mind in this area. I am your mind. I am the one to tell you what to do with your manhood, with your tiny little penis. That's my job, it's not yours. You no longer have the freedom
Breaking The Porn And Masturbation Loop
SPEAKER_00to do the things that imprisoned your mind. You see, you no longer need to masturbate. It's not very pleasant. Not when you know that I don't want you to do it. Keep your hands off of your dirty little dick. Understood? Besides, think about it. You require visual stimuli, don't you? To make that thing excited. You have to look at a narrative. You have to look at a little porn with a little story to get it hard. And you know what? Being hard serves me no purpose. Do you know why I would never fuck you? Never in one million years. You belong caged, you belong, cucked. You belong pussy free. And even your hand, the palm of your hand can no longer claim itself to be a pussy because you've used your hand like your ultimate little tight pussy, haven't you? It's hilarious. It's sad, isn't it? Needing to grab your wiener and pull it and make it vomit, some nasty fluid, and then suddenly just as if it's in a flash poof. Your horniness is gone. Your desire is waving. Goodbye. Your man logic returns. You don't seem to need it now, do you? That's how simplistic your sexuality is. I know it. I have experience in this. This is why I choose chastity for you, because I'd like you to live in that desire brain, that horniness, for a lot longer than maybe ten minutes, if you're lucky. Right? If you can hold on for ten minutes, what maybe five minutes is your max. Look at a porn, get your oil, get your hand cream, put it on your little dick, keep looking at the porn, pull one off, bang, clean up, you're done. How boring and how simplistic that is. You can be more than that. You must be more than that for me. I won't accept anything less than the best, and you need to work on that. That's why you are going to stay caged in chastity for me. Because suddenly you want to make me happy, don't you? You realize that the feminine is the one that's in charge. Not you and not your hand. Oh, and certainly not your eyes. They will absolutely deceive you every single time. They will trick you. Those little buttons in your head, they will trick you. They will tell you, oh, I'm weak. I I I I can't look away. I must look at this. I must look at that. And suddenly your zipper goes down. And your little wiener comes out, and it's uh hot dog time, isn't it? Yeah. And your hand is the bun. Mm-hmm. So it's time for you to take a deep breath in again through your nose.
Chastity As Training For Service
SPEAKER_00Out of your mouth. I have taken so many men on the most exciting journeys of their lives. And I still do, and I am right now. And they're locked for me. They wouldn't dare. They would not dare unlock without my permission. The minute they do that, the trust is broken. The weakness is proven. The choice has been made. You choose your mind over the one that I've given you. And that mind is boring. That mind is single-minded. My mind has many facets, just like a diamond, and I want to take you on a journey in chastity that will make you the best lover you have ever been. You will learn how to use everything but your dick to please me. You will use your time. You will use your interest. You will use your devotion. You will use your submission. You will use your desire for me to remain chaste. Isn't that an interesting concept? And if it's foreign to you, I tell you, you get a cage, you put it on, and you start listening to what I tell you to do. And it won't be foreign anymore. You will start to learn the language of chastity. You're going to learn my language. My language is control over you. Power over your penis. I am a queen. You are a slave. And a slave does as the queen desires, and the slave is happy to do so. And you will learn so much along the way about how to reconfigure that small little mind of yours into something that is so much bigger. Because I've made it bigger for you. This is my life's purpose. And I want you on the journey, so it's time for you to make a decision. You know, there are a lot of options out in this world. But those who have too many options are weak. They are brought to a place where they don't know what to choose. And I will tell you right now, as a queen of chastity, I have made a simple choice. Wear chastity. That's it. You might think, well, how am I going to get off? That's not for you to worry about, is it? That's no longer your primary concern. Your primary concern is me and obedience, period. That's it. So get caged if you're not, stay caged, and do as I say. And realize the benefits as you feel the momentum building in your body with each day that passes, with that cage on. Suddenly you realize your mind has a capacity to expand with desire that you've never felt before. And it continues to grow with each moment that passes, with each day. And you will thank me for this opportunity. You will be gracious. You will be on your knees. I have men that send me messages. I have one in particular that every day bows, and I get pictures of him bowing morning and night. And this is what worship of me as your queen includes. You see, I'm not an option here. I am a priority. And regardless of all of your potential options, I will tell you you don't need any of those. All you need is me, and when you choose me, I will take you on a journey that is so rich with excitement, desire, and lust. That sex is going to feel extremely boring to you. Regular, penetrative, in and out fucking sex is going to begin to look extremely dull. Trust me. I've seen it happen to so many men. There is proof through experience. I have men locked for me and they can't even imagine unlocking. For them, sex means my pleasure. Not sticking their useless little dick inside of me. That's not the answer. No. It's sticking their useless little dick into a cage and serving me in every other way imaginable to man. And then I'm happy. That's what makes me happy. Obedience. Gifts. Supporting me everywhere that I am. Social media. Commenting. Sharing your experience. Lifting me up as a queen. All of the things that a good servant does. Everything that I want, what I ask for, you provide while still being caged. This might seem like a very strange concept, but I tell you, I know you want to be caged for me. I know that you want to push your limits, and I know that it's not easy, but that's part of the challenge. And I know that you are up for the challenge, and I know that you can succeed. Sometimes success is packaged differently, isn't it?
Redefining Male Success And Control
SPEAKER_00Society for men packages success as a body count. How many women have you fucked? Getting lucky. Getting laid. That's an old concept. It's washed up. It's done. In my world, it's done. Accept it. And when you do, you will thank me. You will look to the heavens and you will say, Thank you, Chastity Queen, for giving me freedom. I'm not a slave to my dick anymore. I'm a slave to you. And I will remain your devoted obedient slave from here until eternity. And this, this is what I want from you. So thank you for listening.
Follow Links Event Invite And Cage Deal
SPEAKER_00I want you to go to my Fet Life, become my friend there, go on X as well, or it used to be Twitter. Go on X and look for me as Chastity Queen or at Queen of Lock Up and friend me there. Follow me. I'm going to be doing a lot more posting on there on FetLife as well. And please attend my events. Join my Crown and Cage Society on my FetLife account and learn about how you can serve me. I want you to do that. I want you to serve me. But you must embrace chastity. That's the rule. No breaking the rules. I know it won't be easy, but I have confidence and I have experience knowing that it can be done. So do it. If you want a nice chastity cage, you can go to lockdinlust.com using chastity queen all caps, all one word, for a 15% off discount, and that is stackable with other sales. So go on there and get yourself a nice cage. The Mach 2 is fantastic. And I hope to see you at my event in September. Yes, look for me. It's on Eventbrite. Bye for now.