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Choosing Between Romance And Stability

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Recorded 2-24-26

Welcome And Panel Introductions

SPEAKER_01

Okay, welcome back to the Let Us Become Sharper slash Thursday Night Society podcast. The official name of the podcast is Let Us Become Sharper slash TNS Podcast. And the TNS stands for Thursday Night Society. We back with another edition of this podcast. We have a panel here tonight. It's gonna be a wonderful night. We got a great we got a great topic for you this evening coming in. My name is CJ. Let us become sharper. We have in front of me the wonderful Delena. And she is wonderful. She's she's she's she's a she's wonderful. She's a she's a special person, she's a treasure. And to the left of her, we have Sabrina. Sabrina, my rider, Sabrina Ryder died.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Then then pulled up to the podcast. Sabrina said enough of this.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, let me come check it out.

SPEAKER_01

So come for me, time for me to come check it out. And she has done just that. Time for me to come check it out. So let's get to checking. Starting off, we want to just say that our previous podcast has been doing very well on the subject matter of well-being or romance. Which one would you prefer? Would you prefer someone who is inclined to give more strength and direction to your well-being? Or do you like somebody who is just all about the romance? Now you ain't gonna get you ain't got no insurance now, but you got some romance. You ain't got nobody.

SPEAKER_03

But you got some romance.

SPEAKER_01

You got some romance though. Don't worry about that. Or would you rather have someone who has you got all your bills paid, but you go to sleep at 8 30. You ain't getting uh a babe. Can I get a little bit? Go to sleep. I ain't got nothing for you. This goes on.

SPEAKER_02

Can't have both.

SPEAKER_01

Can't have both. You're picking one or the other. You're picking one or the other.

unknown

Okay.

Well-Being Versus Romance Recap

Money, Respect, And Power Rant

SPEAKER_01

Now, now here we are tonight. We want to just I want to just give encouragement. I want to, I was thinking earlier today as I come into the podcast, I was thinking about encouragement. Encouragement. My hospitality program is a program that I have set up for motivation, inspiration, encouragement, things of that nature. It's it's the moral, it's the uh the moral union, the union of morality. I want to give a message to the people as we do on the podcast before we get started with our topic. I just want to say to you, there are people out there who are there are some of you who are on the fence, you're going through suspense. You are wondering how this is happening to me. I did everything right, I gave my best effort, and she's still talking slick. I did everything right, and he's still acting a fool. He's still talking slick. It seems like I just can't get over the hump. It seems like I can't get my respect. This is how it feels in my day-to-day living. There are people out there who feel this way, there are people out there who suppress these feelings. They really on the inside feel like this. I want to give you a message to the inside, and all those who are listening to Let Us Become Sharper podcast today. When you put your work down, when you do your best, your best efforts, and she's still talking slick, or when you go to your brother, your sister, your loved ones, your families, your relatives, and it seems like you're getting the short end of the deal. Always remember this. You're just a couple bands away, a couple dollars, and progress of your finances will bring you to that level. When you next time you go in the house, brothers, next time you go in the house and you feel that she's been treating you a little unfairly, go in your pocket and take your money and fan it out, and just stand in the middle of the living room and just say, What's up now? What's up now? Just stand there, don't even don't even just stand there with it. And I guarantee your life will be better. Young ladies, oh, to all my beautiful ladies out there, my queens.

SPEAKER_00

Next time he starts tripping, telling us hey, you always your hair, your nails, and go in your purse and just start flicking, just flick, flick through them, take the credit cards and everything's flick and then put it back in the wallet, zip it up and just say you were saying let them know that you got a couple dollars.

Programs And TNS Raffle Details

Defining The Topic: Sharing

SPEAKER_01

Let them know that you got some bands on deck for that check, for that respect. Now I want y'all to practice this. Stop taking verbal abuse, stop thinking that cooking and cleaning is gonna get it done. Stop thinking that, brothers, that you that you the more loyal that you are to her is gonna get it done. You got to show some power, and that's what we're here to do. We're here to become sharper. Now we're moving on to our topic. Our topic today is a tricky one. Here we go. Here we go. It's like it's like a roller coaster, right? Here we go. We go into the topic today. Before we can get there, I just you know speaking to wonderful lane as they as they get their minds as as they as they digest as they get to this. Now, we want to just talk real quickly about our program. The program is the hospitality program, as I said before, Union Meets the Beautiful Unison. We also have the Thursday Night Society Raffle Exchange. How that works is we have a few high-ticket items uh right now. I think I got the Rose Vou Clico. We got that. This will be Thursday night at 7 p.m. We pulled a drawing for it. We got a giphy, and I think we got some cash on there. I don't know how much cash, but I'll update it on the social media. But uh Thursday Night Society is a powerful entity as far as the program is concerned. So I like to always put out there CJ's hospitality program and Thursday Night Society TNS. Now we we're going into this topic. This topic is one that was kind of um it's gonna be kind of controversial. When aren't they? Lady, let me get get with you. Okay, so we're talking about sharing. Sharing is caring, right? So they say we're sharing, we're sharing. We share as a child. You were taught to share your toys. Did you share your toys, young? Or was you selfish and stingy like you are now?

SPEAKER_03

Whoa. Just gonna come out.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, we're bad. That's what we that's what we do. Are you are you selfish and stingy like you are now? Did you share the toy? Did I share?

SPEAKER_03

Yes, yes, I did. I did. Sabrina, I was a good friend.

SPEAKER_01

Were you the type that shared as a child? You shared your toys? Okay. Well, let me uh let's see about you. Let's see what we want to do. All right, well, we share toys as children, but we share people as adults. Would you rather share knowingly or unknowingly? I'm gonna run the topic back one more time. Tonight's topic is sharing. Would you rather share knowingly or unknowingly? Let me elaborate that for you because I see you looking a little bewildered.

SPEAKER_03

No, oh no, no, no.

Knowing Versus Not Knowing You’re Sharing

SPEAKER_01

Oh, you're not bewildered, you know? Some people share, and they knowingly share. And some people say, I don't want to know. I just want my time. I just want my I want to be oblivious to whatever world you got going on. I just it's me. Do you knowingly wish to share? Or would you rather share unknowingly? Talk to me, Delena.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, that's a tricky one. And this might change, but I'm gonna say, I don't want to know.

SPEAKER_01

You don't?

SPEAKER_03

I I don't.

SPEAKER_01

And why wouldn't you want to know?

SPEAKER_03

Because why would I be willingly sharing? Like, what's what's the point?

SPEAKER_01

I mean, I thought we were all adults here. I mean, at the end of the day, listen, people people take people from people every day, B. So this is this is part of this is part of the thing. There are qualities and there are essential aspects of of all people where we see highlights, and you know, we see these things in people every day. So now we find ourselves sharing. Do you want to know about the sharing? Or would you rather have your world segregated and separated for just your own personal time?

SPEAKER_03

Definitely separated and segregated. I don't want to know.

SPEAKER_01

You don't want to know, nope, and you don't want to have no involvement within the sharing.

SPEAKER_03

No, absolutely not.

SPEAKER_01

Not at all.

SPEAKER_03

Have what a communal house, uh what is it, sister wives? I'm just saying, like those are knowingly, like I'm gonna knowingly share. We're gonna live in the same house. No, okay.

SPEAKER_01

Well, I would have taken it to that extent as far as living in the same house, but you just wanna. I don't want to know nothing about what's going on over there. We just right here.

SPEAKER_03

That's I want to be ignorant a little bit.

SPEAKER_01

They oh, okay. I like that. I I that's that's just so I like that about you for some odd reason. You you just want to be ignorant a little bit when it comes to something like that.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, okay.

SPEAKER_01

I was just trying to get your opinion on that. That how this topic came to be was I was thinking, you know, I was I was thinking about I was thinking about the well-being versus romance. And as I was reflecting on well-being versus romance, it came to me that you can't have both in one person. Of course you can, but in this podcast world, just for the sake of the topics and just becoming sharper, we see that you can't have both. So I was thinking, well, wait a minute, well, what if I had one person who had my well-being, and I had another person who was quite romantic, and then I said, Well, wait a minute, that would be sharing, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And then it comes to me, well, what unless the romance don't know about the well-being, and vice versa.

SPEAKER_01

Exactly. I'll tell you a testimony.

SPEAKER_03

So I mean, don't get caught.

SPEAKER_01

I mean, I'm not talking about myself, it was a long, long time ago. I have to put a disclaimer on this whenever I get on this microphone because this can be incriminating. One girlfriend, let's just say girlfriend, not a girlfriend that I had. A friend of mine had a girlfriend, friend of a friend, okay. A friend of a friend. One girlfriend was quite romantic, the type that you know, whatever whatever you could consider to be romance, dating. Is dating considered to be romantic? I don't think I don't think that it can be.

SPEAKER_02

It just depends.

SPEAKER_01

Like planning it, maybe.

What Counts As Romantic

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, it depends on the kind of date. It depends on the kind of date.

SPEAKER_01

What kind of a date is romantic date?

SPEAKER_02

I think that's objective.

SPEAKER_01

Candles.

SPEAKER_02

It depends on if that's that's your thing. Violence. Like right here, like I gotta be like, can you hear me now?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I could I could heard you the whole time.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, I think it depends on the day. I mean, it depends on the person. So where I might think that candles and and and wine and all that is romantic, somebody might think that something else is romantic. Gotcha. It depends on the person.

Well-Being Partner Versus Romance Partner

SPEAKER_01

Gotcha. Okay, so I there was a scenario where the the the second girlfriend was more about well-being. I got you, I got you. Okay, this bill had to be paid on the third. I paid it already, and so we got to take care of that. You know, that type of technical more aspect. And for some odd reason, it was a bright idea to just mix the two girlfriends together. So now they both know about each other. So now the well-being is on one side, the romance is on the other side, and the girlfriends are quite conscious of each other. And I think life could flow freely if one romantic relationship or you know, well-being type relationship knew about the other. So then, so now we're sharing. I want to say, well, do we care about sharing the same? Is that is that an issue? Or do you you don't you don't want to, you know, just want to go with the guy and whatever he does when he goes out the door, that's his business.

SPEAKER_03

It may work for some people, yeah. It it truly, I've seen it.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, well, I'm just highlighting and accentuating where the topic comes from. This that's where this is birthed from. Because sometimes, you know, what I as we move on in the in the podcast world, and the comments, and as people uh you know engage to the show, they want to know how the topic came to be. Like, I don't have no book that I'm reading from, like, all right, let's do this one tonight. I really think about this stuff. So that's I was that was just a thought that I had. Like, do we really want to know? This is like you know, from a guy's perspective. I'll take this from a male perspective. My thought process is do I really want to know about that other dude you got?

SPEAKER_03

I in my mind, y'all never do.

SPEAKER_01

All right, then y'all never do. Now you're beginning to see the life of the show. Yeah, this is where I'm coming from. So listen to Delena's answer, just originally. Okay, that's a spark, but now let's take it to the guy's perspective. Do I really want to know about that other dude?

SPEAKER_02

Of course not. All right, then.

SPEAKER_01

All right, then. So it's so it's it's it leaves it leaves that gray area, it leaves that question, you know. Do you really want to know? Or do you just want to have it mute and it's our time is our time, and let that be that. So you said that you kind of want to be kind of blind and you don't want to see the other woman. Yep, you don't want nobody alone.

SPEAKER_03

I don't want uh I don't want to know. I don't want to know. Okay, I'm territorial.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, okay, no problem. All right, Sabrina.

SPEAKER_02

I want to know.

SPEAKER_01

Sabrina's I want to know. You want to know?

SPEAKER_02

I want to know.

SPEAKER_01

You want to know about the other woman.

SPEAKER_02

I do elaborate because of how I'm set up and my mind is set up, and how was that? I'm going to question everything, I'm going to be wondering. So I need I don't need to know all the nitty-gritty, but I need to know. I need to know that there is another person. You just need to know that there is I just need to know their existence.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, and you don't need to know more details than that.

SPEAKER_02

You ain't gotta really get into all that because that's just gonna take my mind even further, and we don't have to do with that. We don't have to do that.

Do You Really Want To Know

SPEAKER_01

Oh, a hot bed uh on the podcast. Let's become sharper. A hot bed of emotions. That is a hot, spicy emotional energy that you got there. Your mind wanders. I wish I won't tell you a secret. What's your sign? Leo Lion. That's yeah, I'm a Sage. Me and her birthday two days out. My mind wanders too. And because of because of the creativity aspect of my mind, it wanders. Oh my mind wanders.

SPEAKER_03

I don't want to know because I need to be, I can't, I can't wonder. Like, even if I know of the existence, because of the way I operate and the way my mind operates, right? I'm gonna come up with an entire scenario. I just sent her a reel the other day. I will have an entire conversation in my head.

SPEAKER_01

I don't think we're going that far now. Oh, oh, oh, I've been wrong before. I've been wrong before.

SPEAKER_02

I just need to know what's on the floor. I just I need to know that. I need to know, okay, there is another party. Okay, but we ain't gotta. I just need we we gotta we gotta communicate. I like to communicate, so because I like to communicate communicate so much, you you have to tell me that there is another person. Um okay, because like she said, I'm gonna make up my own story, I'm gonna have my own thing, and it's gonna get out of hand.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, and I don't think from the way you look at it, yeah. I don't think uh I don't think we go to the market. Yeah, it's getting dangerous up here. It's getting kind of dangerous up here. Why is it heating up? It's heating up on the podcast tonight, y'all. This topic is going hard on the game. I just, you know, so you said that you're not the type of person who needs to know details as far as okay, now we have established that there is another person there, but I don't need to know any details. What is a core quality that you need to know? Like, is it is there anything important? Are there any important things that you have to realize or know in a in said scenario?

Transparency, Boundaries, And Basics

SPEAKER_02

I just need to know, you know, what is the extent of y'all relationship?

SPEAKER_01

What is the extent of the relationship?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, you know, how do you all interact?

SPEAKER_03

Like, are you are you in love with that person?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, are you in love with that person? Is that you know, is are you that person's only person? Well or are they doing what they're doing with somebody else too? Because then that leads off into other branches of things.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, this is gold because these questions never cross my mind. Are you in love with that person?

SPEAKER_03

That makes a big difference.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, I'm gonna ask both of y'all this why I got y'all collectively. Do you feel that these that this information should be disclosed up front?

SPEAKER_02

Yes, I do.

SPEAKER_01

Let's just mute her for a minute. I do talking to you. I just want to I do should this so this should this information be disclosed up front? We should come right out with this, shouldn't we? Yes, all right, all right. That's what that's what I uh uh our previous podcast about up front. Should you be obligated to be up front about other people that you're dealing with, Delana?

SPEAKER_03

I did say yes last time. I said we should you should be up front. I said, but will it happen? That was the caveat, but yes, you should be.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, but I need to know the details. I like she like Sabrina just outlined. She said she needed to know specific details, not every little gory detail, but I need to know some generalized things. I need to know are you in love with this person? I need to know after this person, is this the only person?

SPEAKER_03

Yes, okay, uh that's basic.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's what I'm going for. I'm going for basic. Yeah, I'm not going for no big technical thing. Okay, now how often?

SPEAKER_03

I don't know.

SPEAKER_02

I don't need to say because you was with me. This I need to be ignorant for everything. I don't need to know all that. Them, them a little too let's not do that, but I feel like you should let me know out the gate because that gives me an opportunity to decide if I'm gonna fool with you or not. Yes, and that's the thing.

SPEAKER_01

I will say this openly if I have a scenario where I have one woman over here and I have another woman over there, you got to know you at least good.

SPEAKER_02

Why?

SPEAKER_01

Because I got you both. I don't have you and you're not good. I already got her, so something must be you must got something going on.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, you got some going on as far as I asked who's better. You got her, why you need me. So what we doing? Maybe you better, then you need to figure that out. You need to figure out what's within you of why you need two separate people to make this one person because what because one takes care of my well-being and the other one's more romantic. But what if the other one takes care of your well-being and romantic?

SPEAKER_01

That means I leveled up, I got double well-being.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, then somebody got to drop off.

SPEAKER_01

Who's gonna drop first?

SPEAKER_02

The one that ain't giving you both, because clearly you want the best of both worlds. So, what if she was here first? It doesn't mean she's not giving you and providing you what you need because clearly first don't mean nothing to me.

SPEAKER_01

That has nothing to do with so when y'all dealing with a dude, it don't matter if this guy was your day one, y'all drop him off and just go to the next guy.

SPEAKER_03

No, it's all about who gives you what you need, whether you've been here for five years or five minutes.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, but I'm the day one, I'm your day one.

SPEAKER_03

Now you're gonna drop me because I'm like me, but he's giving me what I need right now.

Day One Loyalty Versus Current Needs

SPEAKER_01

Oh, that's how y'all feel, callers and callers and commenters. Oh, we have this is how these topics come to be. I can't make this stuff up. You got your day one, the one that rolled, and because you can't ride no more, and you're not no longer providing what she needs, she stays she'll drop you off and go from there because he's providing what she needs. Now I was for everybody that got dropped in this scenario who was day one and roll, and you got dropped because you can no longer provide what she needs. Like I said originally before the show started. This is the magic of the podcast. You're just a couple bands away. Get your bread up because you mess around out here and no longer can perform. And she drop you for someone that can. That was a segue. Back to our little topic here. So I I get I get what you're saying. I I love, I really, really, really you. This is your first time here. Yes. But you're gonna understand the sincerity and the appreciation of what we do here. I really, really, really appreciate you.

SPEAKER_02

Well, thank you.

SPEAKER_01

And as I look at you now, I've never seen a mouth.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, that's all right, all right. Oh, right.

SPEAKER_02

See, this is why you may say things.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, and not and not because now I've I've built a whole conversation.

SPEAKER_01

As I look at you now, as I look at you now, gee sheesh. All right, so as far as as far as me having wanting to know about sharing, you know, I'm sharing, I want to know. A lot of a lot of guys, I guess from a female perspective, they say you don't want to know. First of all, me personally, I'm not into sharing. Yeah, I'm not in the sharing. I I'm not into that.

SPEAKER_03

I'm into I tell you take your toys home out the sandbox.

SPEAKER_01

No, no, not sharing. Not not to that level. I'm talking about some I'm talking about from the aspect of I'm not into sharing a woman and a dude. Now I'm into being shared for sure. Many, many years ago. Let me clear this up. Many, many years ago.

SPEAKER_03

You have to put the disclaimer on.

SPEAKER_01

Many years ago, I was into being shared. I'm not into I was into being shared many years ago. I'm not into being shared now at all. Don't you dare share me. But I understand the concept of being shared. I would love to be shared by this young lady here, and then this lady here, and then boom, boom, boom, this woman here, this woman there, another woman over there. I was I was into that. But you don't need to know what she's doing. I don't care. I don't even want you, I don't even be bothered with you if I feel that I'm sharing. If I'm giving if I'm put into a space where I feel that I'm sharing, even if I know I'm sharing, if I'm made to feel that I'm sharing, I don't want to be bothered with it. Because the whole thing about this is is looking from a statistical standpoint, just a personal thing. Y'all women outnumber men. Y'all outlive us, y'all outnumber us. They can never get the numbers right, they can never get the the actual figure, but it's on a scale anywhere from six to one to eight to one. Y'all outnumber us on this planet. So I why I got a share phone. We're the rarity of man, we are oh, just because it's less of y'all, not just because it's less of us. Why you because it's less of us interest that in that will spark your interest. A lot of guys out here gonna put your feet to sleep. See, I'm not gonna put the feet to sleep when I was in my when I was in my lived that way.

SPEAKER_00

Just put a blanket disclaimer.

SPEAKER_01

The days that I lived that way.

SPEAKER_00

I wouldn't I'm not gonna put your feet to sleep. Just put a blanket disclaimer.

The It Factor And Provision

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm not gonna put your feet to sleep. But so some guys, you know, you get you get to dealing with them and you find yourself bored, you find yourself uninterested, you find that they lack the possess, the panache, they don't have the it factor, and the it factor is important to you, women, because as you just stated, it could be your day one, and when he's not giving you what you need, you move on to some other guy that does have what you need and drop him off, as you stated prior. So you definitely got to have the it factor, that's an important thing. So, a lot once again, a disclaimer, a message to the guys out there for the guys who work so hard and pay all the bills. We're gonna have a show about this 50-50. We're gonna we're gonna cover this 50-50 thing soon. We're gonna just put that, we're gonna put that on the stove. We ain't got the fire on yet, but now that's that's on on the stove. Yeah, all this 50-50 going on. They're talking about that. You gotta pay all the bills, the men gotta pay all the bills. The man is a provider. Yeah, I could be the provider and pay all the bills and take take care of that, consider that to be the real man. But if I don't have the it factor, it's still bye-bye, McFly. You're still gonna you and your bill pay yourself, you're still gonna go and get what you need because I'm gonna get somebody else who's doing that plus exactly. So, this is the scenario that a lot of men are ending up in, and just for the fairness of this podcast, just for the fairness of Let Us Become Sharper, the brand, it's a lot of women out there that pay all the bills, too. And then, and then these dudes that she don't have the it factor, and then do to go out here and go through the streets, get a little dusty, mighty get a little dusty, a little lady of the night, lady of the night, the lady of the night. Lady of the night is crazy, lady of the night, yikes get it. The it factor make it make sure he showed up, go get an it factor. You'll get out there and get something where he said that she was not provided, but she the one that rolled for you, she the one that clothed you, cared about you, cooked for you, clean, and gave you her goods, but she just doesn't have it.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, what what he tell his wife he was when he was with sunshine. Oh that he's not coming back home. A prime example, he's not coming back home, baby.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, he said he said, put your mom on the phone. Put your mom on the phone. I ain't never coming back because he saw something so incredible. The it factor, the uh, the you know what uh the proverbial, you know, sunshine was her name. I found I found I found my my soulmate, as you as one would say. Okay, but you still got something over here, nah?

SPEAKER_03

That's okay. It was like I'm not yeah, that's that's day one, his wife, right?

SPEAKER_01

Children, so so that that so the purpose of asking this this subject matter, this type of this mode of questioning is to see do you want to know if you're sharing knowingly, or do you not want to know about sharing? You said you want to know, but not really. You want to kind of be ignorant to that. This young lady right here states, oh, I want to know, and I and I got a few details that I want to know. Me personally, I said I I don't, of course I want to know, but technically, I really don't even do it because if I feel that I'm sharing something as far as a woman, I don't want you. There is no the not let me put my bracket dosha. There is no competition for me. If you're not it's a one-way street, which is the way I go. We talking about white lines, these ain't yellow lines. No two-way street where you go up this way and then do a U-turn and go back that way. We're going in one direction, and that direction is four powerful aggressors become sharper, and that's how we roll. I love this podcast today. I'm glad that we were able to get some clarity, especially you delayed. I didn't expect you to say that. I thought that you would say that you would want to be assertive and say that you want it. That's what I thought you. I didn't think you'd say that.

SPEAKER_03

I know we always surprise each other.

Safety, Choices, And Closing Thanks

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, okay, good enough. All right, and I'm not surprised by Sabrina's answer at all. She gives that Latifa. She gives she gives she gives she gives Latifa. I can see her. I can see her, I can see her 50 years ago with that gold. She gives that latified. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. That's what she just gives that kind of energy. I knew that she might give. Yeah, I knew she would. I knew that she would give something real strong, very sensible answer. I knew that she would do that. So our supporters, the people who help us out with this podcast. Very, very supportive. We say that all cash is verified. Any cash coming in or any cash going out is verified. Respect my cho. What up, though? Respect my chow. We bought that money on this podcast, monetary appreciation. We thank you for anybody who helps us with the show to keep the show going and keep the and keep the train moving. For my personal supporters, I get I from the bottom of my heart, I thank you and I support you for being the number one, the number one part of CJ's life is my personal supporters, my people, my clientele, and all of my people that collectively make which is he, which is CJ. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Now we got to talk about the topic. Do you want do you want to know? I mean, you know, if if you're sharing, do you want to have knowledge of it? Do you want to, do you want to are are you cool with it? Do you want to know if you're sharing or do you want to withhold that information? Like you're really not really too firm on knowing that you're sharing. Smoke that over out there, y'all, y'all, y'all go over that and and and let's get some comments and reviews on the the sharing. Do you do you want to share knowingly or unknowingly? So we're gonna name this podcast sharing. Whenever you see sharing, bo let us up there. Sharing ain't always caring. Yeah, just sharing ain't always caring. It might it reminds me of my mentor Ulysses, the man who taught me shared knowledge in the barber game when I started very, very young. Started the barber game 30 years, and he shared the knowledge with me, and that knowledge that was shared is going to be knowingly. I'm gonna openly confess to the world I that Ulysses was the one who gave me the confidence to do the craft and do great things like this podcast ultimately years later. But we want to talk about knowingly or unknowingly sharing of other people. Y'all be safe out there, man. Y'all make sure when you're out there that you're that you're being safe, that you're making safe and wise decisions, and that you're not doing things to cause incisions. I'm trying to go somewhere with this. Safe and wise decisions, avoid incisions. I'm going somewhere with this. I don't know where I'm going, but I'm going somewhere. Okay, but I'm on to something. I know something. I'm on to something like incision, like I can see. Yeah, I'm on, I'm on to something with that. But just have a little surgeon. The gist of what I'm talking about is be safe out there. We promote, we promote being safe out there because we're living in a in a in a day and time that is radical. So bold decisions, it's already wild enough out there. Just living day to day, surviving day to day. So bold decisions just heighten the danger. You want to be safe and keep your head on the swivel out there when you're moving and operating. Thank you for tuning in to our podcast. We're gonna name this one, we're gonna name this one sharing. I want y'all to watch sharing. I want y'all to tune in to sharing because that's a lot of people out there. A lot of y'all out there is sharing with a camera. A lot of y'all out there is sharing. I remember the day. I remember the day back in the day when I was shares, but no longer the days are over. So, y'all, we're we're gonna get out here. We're gonna do a photo shoot. We got Sabrina. We're gonna do. I might take these, I might take these women out somewhere nice just to get a little wine down, Brief. They got time, and to the next time, let us become shopper.