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Who Forgives Better
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Recorded 6-16-26
A single question turns into a real debate fast: who forgives better, men or women? We go back and forth on what forgiveness actually means, not the quote you post, the thing you live. Is forgiveness letting it go, staying after betrayal, rebuilding trust, or simply doing what’s convenient when you don’t want to start over? We challenge each other’s definitions, because if you can’t define forgiveness, you can’t set boundaries, repair a relationship, or even know what you’re asking for.
We also dig into the parts people avoid saying out loud: grudges that last for years, “unforgivable” lines like cheating and humiliation, and why some people keep returning to the same situation. We talk accountability, emotional decision-making, and the difference between forgiving someone and excusing them. If you’ve ever argued about loyalty, respect, or whether love should require endurance, you’ll hear yourself somewhere in this conversation.
Along the way, we share community updates that match the theme of honoring people the right way, including the Kings And Kids Father’s Day fundraiser in Harper Woods, Michigan, plus Thursday Night Society moves and shoutouts to friends building businesses. Listen through, then help us settle it: drop your vote and your story. Subscribe, share this with someone who has strong opinions, and leave a review so more people can find the show.
Cold Open And Energy Check
SPEAKER_01Man. That's all right, man. Welcome back to another episode of Let Us Become Sharper Podcast. Let Us Become Sharper slash Thursday Night Society Podcast. We are here. My name is CJ, and I'm here with the wonderful Delena. Look at her. Hello, hello. Delena's ride a die. This is my co-host. She rider die for real. And we are here today to present to you another episode, another installment of our podcast here. We got a few things we want to go over. We got a very, very interesting topic that's going to be quite relatable to the people once we once we once we present it to you. And uh we want to move forward by saying, um, how was your week starting off?
SPEAKER_00Um, pretty interesting. Um, I am in the process of training two new people, so that's always fun.
SPEAKER_01Okay, you know, we always do this podcast. We although you
Father’s Day Kings And Kids Event
SPEAKER_01only see a few of us or whoever we have featured on the panel, there's someone special all that's here with us every episode. Jay. Hey, congratulations, man. Thank you. Congratulations on Jay is the uh the proprietor of the uh studio, and he's retired. So he's over there cold, chilling like the villain. He become sharper. Yes, he and he helped many, many become sharper, and we'd like to thank you from the show for everybody that you sharpened up during your uh during your tenure. We appreciate you. All right, so we want to go right in right here. So we got a I got an event coming up. I want to talk about the event. It's called the Kings. You know, Father's Day is coming up. Now, you've been seeing if you go on my social media, go on CJ the Clipperman on Instagram at CJ the Clipperman, or go on sweet Carl MRCJ, Mr. CJ on Facebook, and I and you'll see my Father's Day videos. Now, every Father's Day, my Father's Day is elaborate. I don't have no rego, regular, dagular Father's Day, but a lot of fathers do. So we're having a reminder. First thing I'm gonna do is remind you of the importance and the significance of Father's Day. And we also have an event, it's called Kings and Kids. It's a fundraiser, it's a Father's Day uh fundraiser uh that's gonna be held Saturday, that's June the 20th. Uh, that's the day after Juneteenth, the day before Father's Day, that's Saturday. Uh, we're going from noon to 5 p.m. And we're gonna have keynote speakers, it's gonna be games, it's going to be it's gonna be food there, food trucks, vendors, it's gonna be a great thing. We're going from 12 to 5, like I said, that's it's going down in the in the Mac building over there, 1993 Harper Avenue. That's in uh Harper Woods, Michigan, over there on the east. So if you want to come check it out, this is gonna be, you know, like I say, we're not playing anymore. We're gonna do it big, we're gonna do it appropriate. You come by there and you check out the fathers. I got a uh uh DM that says it only for men. No, it's for everybody, it's for women, it's for children. It's it's Father's Day. Celebrate, we're celebrating Father's Day, but it's for everybody. And we got speakers coming. We got Greg Kelser, we got Glenda Lewis. It's gonna be a great thing. We we would love for you to come by. I got the tickets uh at Troy King, my brother Troy King. He's actually been on the show before. He has the tickets, so we want you to definitely uh support and we want you to enjoy uh the festivities. Come on by if you can from 12 to 5 over there at the uh at the Mac building for the Father's Day collective, the Father's Day Kings and Kids, a fundraiser. All right, so we talk about that. Uh I want to go forward. So, Delana, tell me something good.
SPEAKER_00I'm here today.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, you're here today. That that's I woke up this morning. Oh boy. Yes, you did. I'm glad when you wake up in the morning. I'm glad when you wake up in the morning. I appreciate that. I appreciate that.
New York Party And Raffle Exchange
SPEAKER_01Give a shout out to your Thursday Night Society, Thursday Night Society slash get fresh entertainment. My brother Rudy Roo. Rudy Roo is expanding his game, he's taking his game from Michigan to New York. He got his power, the New York Party, the takeover, July 11th. That is out there at 120, 120 Walking Street out there in New York. I'm like, New York, like you in 120, 120 Water, 120 Water Street.
SPEAKER_00That's a that's a heck of a commute. What that Uber girl cost, man.
SPEAKER_01Well, hey, he's stepping his game up. He's going up my man Rudy Roo from Thursday night, uh, get fresh entertainment. He's powered up, powering a party out there in New York, 120 Water Street. That's New York, New York. That's out there. He's in New York July 11th. So I got the tickets, and I said, Well, how are we gonna do the tickets for it? Because he wanted me to put it up. I said, Listen, I got the link. So I'm gonna put the link. The link is gonna be in my page, CJ the Clubman, and a sweet carl, Miss CJ. My link, the link to the party is on there. We're trying to catch that New York vibe. We're trying to catch that. We're trying to catch that party. So, you know, if he if he's daring enough and brave enough and that much of a businessman to throw his event in why I you got my support to my brother Rudy Roof for sure.
SPEAKER_00You know, Detroit is will travel for a party.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I oh absolutely. We call it we always call it uh takeover, though. Yes, we do. Yeah, all right, all right. Well, you know, Thursday Night Society raffle exchange that's going down this Thursday at 7 p.m. We're gonna do another raffle exchange. And raffle exchange simply means we got prizes, we got uh, you know, you buy a ticket, you support us, you really support the TNS of Thursday Night Society. But if you don't win, we have venues. You know, we got a lounge, we got a lounge downtown, so the undisclosed location to know the location of it, you got to enter the raffle. And that puts you into the pool to come to the to the lounge. The lounge is beautiful, it's a members only, it's a it's a support only, and you know, people walking up the street, they're not allowed, and they don't even know where it is. But to be down with Thursday, to be down with the movement, it's more of a movement if you don't want to be part of the society. You still can support the movement and have some fun. You know, we in the we're in the entertainment business, so we also ask that you uh support the Thursday Night Society raffle exchange. But we're moving into our show, our show that we got that's become sharper. We were having a conversation this weekend, me and Delana, and we always uh we don't always butt heads, not always. I know what this is about, but this time she said something to she said something to me that made no sense, and but it made sense to her, absolutely, but it made no sense to me, and I'm CJ, so it gotta make sense to me. Well, I don't know. That's one way to look at it while y'all out there. If y'all got I made a mistake, I put a link up C's World Volume 2. I got an AI album out, it's called C's World Volume 2, it's on Spotify. So go on Spotify, go on C's World, and then pull up C's World Volume 2 and listen to those tracks on there. You'll love them. I got one called Cold World. It's on the it's on Facebook, it's on it's on all the platforms. But support that. We got a lot of, we just got so many different things for you to support now. We've been working, and we're about to really see some work once we get to this topic here that I'm gonna go over with the wonderful Delana. But before we want to get there, I want to give a I want to give a subtitle. Just take a little bit of your time before we get to our topic. Normally we get to our topic, we get into not a debate mode, but we get into a very, very serious mode where opinions and emotions run high, and we we end up having to spend some uh uh time figuring out how we can become sharper on these topics than the one that she made last week. She said something to me, didn't make no sense. So we're gonna
Stop Playing With The Powerful
SPEAKER_01address that in a minute. But before we get there, I want to say this people out there, man oh man, has it been a has it been a long time period from last year to this year? Now we're moving into, you know, finally getting into the groove of this year, and we're planning and we're pacing ourselves and doing well to be productive and and and and and successful moving into the next year. You know, that's what that's what we're doing. We're trying to set ourselves up for when the year flips again. We come in, we hit the ground running and have a successful year, and hopefully we're having a successful year this year. But we're doing great things. There's a lot of reasons to be happy, a lot of highlights to be happy about thus far. But we're always trying to set ourselves up to improve for the following year. But I want to say this you fools, it's a lot of fools out there, and it's a lot of fools out there for many different reasons. You fools, you fools for reasons that you control that's in your that's in your power. There's some fools out there that don't even know they're a fool, they can't control themselves, they just fools. But ego and arrogance is running rampant. Monuments of oneself is running rampant. But one mistake that you can't do is you can't play with the powerful. There are those who have tried to make a mockery of one's hard work. Now, I'm gonna use the example. I like I like my bad boys, you know. I like I like my I like the home team. We talk about New York, New York just won the championship. We talk about Brunson. Brunson came in, you know, un undersized. They say he was undersized, overpaid. They say that he that he wasn't worth the money, but he just delivered New York a championship after 50 plus years. And they're talking about giving Spike Lee a ring too. Now we're talking about our bad boys, you know, we got Chauncey, but but Billups brought a ring to us in 04 seasons. She Wallace, Ben Wallace, that team was dynamic. We had the Prince of the Palace and we had Rip Hamilton. So we got these these are these are hard working dedication type franchises. There's nothing really glamorous, there's nothing glammed up but the trophies. But outside of the trophy case, there's not too much, it's more grit than anything. But they powerful. How could you ever play with the legacy of somebody powerful? We're living in times where people try to play with the powerful. You got people who try to say, okay, that was yesterday. What you did was yesterday, but it means nothing. We we are we're dealing with the here and now. But that with life don't work like that. You have to respect the hard work that people have put down, the efforts that people have put into to put you even in positions of where you at pioneers, game changers, somebody had to pave the way for you. People who paved the way. We're living in days now where they try to play with the powerful. Let me tell y'all something. I started off in the California street basement. That's where I that's where it started from. That's the that's the origin of it. Fashion, beauty, uh, social life. That's where it began for me. I've been out here so long, and now you see people coming along saying, any old thing, anything that comes to mind, not respecting like they really been in it. You just not starting this. This is your first round of money, this is your first go round. Respect the game and stop playing with the powerful, those who do not know what they do. Men beating up women out there, men beating men, and and the dude is down, and you just keep beating them. It's just chaotic out there, but lacking style and elegance, sophistication, and business acumen. We're not seeing that for real. We're really not seeing how much style you got. And you dudes only tough because y'all ain't got no women. Y'all broke. That's where the toughness coming from. Back in the days, tough was tough. They was tough because they was just tough. Now, dudes broke and then just revert to tough, like, well, I ain't got no money, I ain't got no chicks, so let me just be tough. But that's not really tough. So it's just too much, it's just too many blurred lines out there, and now the people who don't even have the skills to make it happen are now backbiting and reverting over and trying to sully up the name of the powerful, and y'all need to stop that. So I say that here today to become sharper. That's my personal take on it, my personal opinion. Delena is here, she said something real crazy to me last week. No, she said something crazy to me. I talked about it. I even talked, I talked to her about it. She wouldn't let it go. So I said, Well, let's not, let's not, I've learned how to deal with this woman. No matter how long you've learned how to deal with the woman, no matter how long you know a woman, you gotta learn how to deal with it now. Tell you something about women. I'm I'm looking at the camera. Let me tell you something about women. Yeah, if you want to know anything about women, just call me and I'll tell you about women. When you learn about women, when you learn about a woman, you'll learn how to deal with her. I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. We'll we'll settle this on the podcast. Here
The Big Question Who Forgives
SPEAKER_01we go. The topic is of the two, somebody was wronged, somebody was right, and um somebody felt like they got their feelings hurt, or somebody was betrayed to uh an extent, but of the two, between men and women, oh yeah, I stand 10 toes down on this one, yeah. But between men and women, who forgives the best? Who's the most forgiving of the two? Is it the woman or is it the man? She told me that women were more forgiving than men. Absolutely. Oh man, absolutely. We about to have a ball with this one. Go ahead on, tell me, tell them talk to the people, Delana.
SPEAKER_00Women forgive. Now, you brought up, let's bring up something that you said. So we're talking just about forgiving. I ain't saying nothing about forgetting. Just forgiving. We forgive and we deal with a lot of BS and we continue to deal with it, and we forgive, and we put up with a lot more than y'all y'all could ever handle. I promise you. A lot more. A lot more.
SPEAKER_01See, I know how to deal with a woman. This sounds so crazy to me. This makes sense.
SPEAKER_00And the fact that it sounds crazy to him is absolutely absurd to me. Because you even gave an example. How is that not the woman being forgiving?
SPEAKER_01What example did I give? We on the show. Talk to the people. What what example did I give?
SPEAKER_00A woman going back to somebody who wronged her multiple times, but she keeps going back and she keeps forgiving him. Y'all do not forgive like that. You want to know why? Y'all do not forgive us like that. Y'all don't.
SPEAKER_01You wanna know why we you wanna know why she keeps forgiving us, y'all? Do you really want to know why? Because she wants to. She forgets. You can do whatever you want to do. She's gonna forgive you because she wants to. That's what she wanted to do. That's just like some guy who feels, and you and and and from the from the margin or from the outside looking in, we feel that the guy's not worth the woman. But in the men's situations like that, as men, we we are trained to look the other way, but in our mind, we be knowing like dog, she could do so much better. But she keeps going back to this guy. You wanna know why? Because she wants to. You didn't forgive.
SPEAKER_00That's what you wanted to do. She wanted to forgive. She no, she still forgave. You acting like I'm saying that she forgot about she forgave him and she went back because she wanted to. Y'all don't.
SPEAKER_01What you gonna do when I bring that baby home?
SPEAKER_00I said some things are unforgivable. Some people have stayed, some women have stayed, some women have stayed when the dang on family was around the darn corner.
SPEAKER_01Okay, some people, some women have stayed, and they knew about the whole family, and treat the baby like treat the baby not like her child. Some, yes, and I've I've literally on the baby, you know, not torture, but treating the baby like that.
SPEAKER_00It's unfair to the kid. Don't get me wrong, because the kid ain't had nothing to do with this.
SPEAKER_01The kid ain't got nothing to do with, but you're still looking at him crazy like you ain't you, you little rascal, you're a rascal. You you're looking at the kid crazy. Y'all choose, y'all, y'all didn't forgive nobody. This is what you wanted to do.
SPEAKER_00It's still forgiveness. So you can still forgiveness, though. It's not because you love who you love, you're still giving your gonna forgive all their flaws, or you're gonna look past it.
SPEAKER_01Listen, forgiving is when you don't get your way, that's when you forgave. There's no there's no coinc, there's no relate relationship between forgiving and getting your way. When you forgive somebody, that means I didn't get my way. But I'm agreeing to forgive this.
SPEAKER_00Yes, I'm agreeing to forgive.
SPEAKER_01It's what I want to do again, but it's what I want to do. But that's not what you want to do. You wanted, you wanted that sorry man, you wanted him, so you still got your way. Talking about some I forgave him. You ain't forgave him, you wanted him. Forgiving is when a good man does something that's unsightly to the relationship or to the to the union, and you still forgive. And we do, you do not, yes, we do, you hold a grudge to the deaf. A woman holds a grudge to the deaf, and y'all know it. I don't gotta go personal.
SPEAKER_00That's a personality trait, and that is between men and women.
SPEAKER_01I don't gotta go with Delana no more. Up the people out there. Women hold a grudge to the deaf, and men do too. We go, no, they don't. No, we don't. We let we because we know y'all know not what you do. Any I ain't talking about a male, I'm talking about a man, not a male, like male gender.
SPEAKER_00I was telling you, yeah.
SPEAKER_01We had that discussion about real men forgive. We know it's water under the bridge. We know you know not what you do, we know that your decisions are based and rooted on your emotions. We know that those emotions cause you to do emotional things, and then we forgive you because we know you're not right in the head.
SPEAKER_00No, we that's you know, that's crazy because that's the reason we forgive y'all.
SPEAKER_01No, you don't forgive us. Oh you forgive us. I'll be like, Hell none the better. You you forgive us, nothing better. You forgive us because we put it on you, and yeah, and then we go out and make a mistake, and then y'all be like, you know what? I can't find no one better than this man.
SPEAKER_00That's why y'all keep returning to the same you forgive because you look at all the good qualities over that flaw or over that mistake, and you say, you know what, it outweighs it, so I'm gonna forgive them. We do that way often because a woman cheat on y'all. Oh, y'all are so
Cheating Lines And Unforgivable Acts
SPEAKER_00done, y'all don't even know what forgiveness is when it comes to that.
SPEAKER_01Because ain't nobody supposed to endure cheating, but we do, but we do no, we do more than anybody.
SPEAKER_00Yes, we do. No, because we have to stand on that one.
SPEAKER_01You're gonna forgive the hammer more than you're gonna forgive the hammered. If I'm the one doing the nailing, you're gonna forgive me, but you getting nailed out, hammered out with the with the gentleman. Listen, how how Davis was just on TV talk on this on the Shay Shay. He said he went to the swinger club. He was swinging.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah, I seen it.
SPEAKER_01He just said it. Listen, he just gave a current example. I don't have to use no old example, a current example of how y'all take forgiveness too far. We're not about to forgive you, and you then got handled by some other man, but if we the ones doing the handling, it's easy to forgive us.
SPEAKER_00No, it's not. See, that y'all think it is because this is just historically what has always happened, so that means it's true. No, y'all think it's easy. No, y'all think it's easy. See, you said you think it's easy for y'all. It's not. It is. Absolutely not. How are you gonna tell me what's easy for me? Are you have you ever been a woman?
SPEAKER_01No.
SPEAKER_00Okay, okay. I've never been a woman. Exactly. But how are you gonna tell me how easy it is for me in my species?
SPEAKER_01Listen, listen. I didn't want to go here, but you taking it here.
SPEAKER_00You started this.
SPEAKER_01You taking it here, Delena. Delena, what is what is your what is your what is your name? What is your what are you?
SPEAKER_00What do you mean what are you? My name? You said what is my name? What are you? I am a black female. No, what else?
SPEAKER_01What else they call you? What else they call you? A woman? A woman. What's at the end of woman? A man. You are woe man. That means you cut from the man. I know me and you. I'm a man. You are a woman. It still got man at the end.
SPEAKER_00It still got man at the end. Yeah, that's just man-made words.
SPEAKER_01No, it ain't no man-made words. No. I'm telling you, it's man and woman. So you still, so you still are under my jurisdiction. I'm telling you for a fact that I understand your psyche because you're emotional. Yet, strong as you may be, you are emotional. I can't come home with no baby that I done went out here and hammered and no other woman and bring it to you. That's the thing. It happened. You forgave me. You can blow the baby.
SPEAKER_00Me, but you never forgave me. Me as a person, I'm not. I know you're not. But I've seen other people do it. You've never seen it. Yes, I have. You thought you saw it. Yes, I have. Yes, I have.
SPEAKER_01Carlis, Carlis, she's never seen this. You thought you saw it.
SPEAKER_00For those who know me and know people around me, y'all know what I'm talking about.
SPEAKER_01You capping. You've never seen it. The women do not forgive as more than men. And I didn't say that y'all don't forgive at all. But to see a woman that forgives of a serious infraction, you never seen that. Y'all destroyed property, y'all burned down houses, y'all put y'all put the radios and and bathtubs. Y'all be tripping.
SPEAKER_00That's that's funny that you sat up on you set up on this.
SPEAKER_01You sat up on this very same show and told me how you put Kit Kats in the car and gas tanks, y'all put eggs in the car in the summertime and it's in the smell. Y'all bust little windows.
SPEAKER_00I said in my youth. I did state that. That was in my youth. And two, it's funny that you bring up damage because you men, these soft ones nowadays, they're doing the same thing. Let me go. They acting like whole females.
SPEAKER_01Let me go bust a car window. Oh, let me throw eggs. It's all over the internet. Sugar in the gas tanks. Let me try it. Some of these things. That's that's unforgiving behavior. And the people who doing that are males. Yes, it's unforgivable behavior for a minute. Guess what happened? Real men don't do that.
SPEAKER_00But guess what happened? For us to even get there. You did something that was probably unforgivable, and we still probably did all the property damage and still forgave them. How much you want to bet? You did all that property damage for them to end up riding in that windowless car together holding hands.
SPEAKER_01No, y'all don't forgive like people. Men, we're gonna take we're gonna take a poll. We're gonna take we're gonna take a consensus. We're gonna take, we're gonna take a survey to see. We're gonna see who forgives the most. The men, we're gonna have the men vote for them to that the women forgive less, or the women are gonna say, no, we for we're more forgiving than the men forgive less. We're about to get to the bottom of this. We're gonna become sharper. This show is gonna become sharper because you sat there and told me that women forgive more than men. That's that's that's bull.
SPEAKER_00There's no way there's no way as a man speaking, it's bull.
SPEAKER_01I done seen women pull knives out the kitchen as a woman and stab a man and stab a man.
SPEAKER_00Oh, y'all do it. Oh, so when y'all do it, it's it's any different. When we do when we do it, y'all cough when I mean how many? I mean, how many cases have we just seen recently?
SPEAKER_01We're talking about a crime of passion versus forgiving, forgiving.
SPEAKER_00So you brought the crime of passion into this.
SPEAKER_01I know women that go at my man with a blade, y'all go at me and clothes with bleach because he did something.
SPEAKER_00So I can we're gonna be like, it's not like I woke, I woke up that morning and said, hmm, I'm gonna be angry because he betrayed me. But why did he didn't betray me or anything? But I'm gonna be angry this morning, and I'm gonna go bleach all his clothes and cut all the tongues out of his shoes.
SPEAKER_01Like, see, see what I'm saying? I never even heard of cut the tongue out the shoe. See, see, here's a here's another example of the of the wickedness that y'all do cut the tongues out my shoes. So now I gotta wear the shoe and it got laces, ain't no tongue in there.
Grudges Property Damage And Poll Plans
SPEAKER_01Man, come on, how evil can you be? People, people of the of the become sharper universe crowd watching, listening. Please help me with this. We have to take a survey, we have to get yay or nay. Who forgives the best? Is it men that are more forgiving, or is it the women that are more forgiving? We're gonna we're gonna get to the bottom of this very, very soon. This is gonna be our topic for the week, the month. This is gonna be our podcast. We're gonna come back to this one when everybody has voiced their opinion about Delena's foolish, foolish. It's only foolish to the man who's saying this for saying that a woman is more forgiving than a man. Y'all done caused more primary property damage, more destruction, more mayhem, more losses been taken over y'all's emotional self than any man ever walked this earth. But now here it is, you telling me that you're more forgiving than a man.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely.
SPEAKER_01All right, tell our supporters. All casts is verified. We didn't, we didn't we we had a stalemate. So that's why I brought this to the big stage. See, this happens behind behind doors. Nobody never sees us do this. She tried to get me in dark corners and then and talk to me like this. She tried to talk to me like this. Yeah, yes, you do.
SPEAKER_00The same way I'm talking right now is the same way we had the same conversation.
SPEAKER_01No, no, she kind of come down, and you're gonna listen to what you're gonna listen to what I'm saying. You're gonna hear me, and I'll be like, Delena, please. I just I'm pleased, Delena. Stop trying to get sympathy like I'm the bad guy here, like I'm being mean here. Don't do that. Don't do that. Sorry, supporters. All cash verified. Any cash coming in, any cash going out from a monetary standpoint, it's verified. We thank you for all that you do. So my personal supporters, I appreciate you for supporting. We need your support on this event for this Father's Day. This is coming on June 20th. Kings and Kids, we need your support for that. I got the tickets, and my brother uh Troy King got the tickets right around the corner for me. Highlighters, man. Please get down with this. Support this cash is verified. Respect our show. We're gonna make a movement. We're making a run for it. We're making a run for it. We're making a run for success. We're making a run for the top, and we're bringing everybody with us, and we we tagging along for all successful entities that are that are positive. We need we need all we need all hands on deck for this to make this thing, to make this thing tick and to uh become sharper as a as a whole. We're gonna take this topic and put it up on the internet for everybody to see. And I want comments, I want people to tell their opinion on who is more forgiving. The the the men or the females or the women. Are women more forgiving than men, or are men more forgiving than women? That's powerful. And I need to know the answer because Delaney's not helping me now.
SPEAKER_00Because I'm not agreeing with that. She's not helping me at all.
SPEAKER_01Now she's not helping me see the answer at all. It reminds me of my mentor many years ago when I started off as a barber. He looked at all my he looked at all my tools right there, and he said, You know what? I'm talking about Ulysses. He said, Man, you got the you got the master right here. This is the key. This is the key. You get rest of you get rid of the rest of that. We want to get rid of the fluff, and we want to get straight to it. Who's more forgiving? Men or women? Women hold a grudge till they die. They hold a grudge to the end. And half the time it be over nothing. Oh, because you cheated like you didn't cheat. I got caught cheating and you didn't, so you holding it on the fact that I got caught and you didn't. Because you cheated too for sure. You know that because if you own a Detroit fitted and went to any state, that's a whole nother that's a whole nother topic. But I know y'all cheated. Trying to tell me that I'm the one that did. Tell me that I'm the one that did wrong. Knowing what you done. So we already said our, we already said our, you know, as far as as far as our supporters, we appreciate y'all. I got a I got a restaurant
Sponsors Shoutouts And Final Challenge
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SPEAKER_00It depends on who is responding, it's gonna be a landslide. Because if there's men who think that they know women so well, listen.
SPEAKER_01Listen, I want you, I want you to understand something. Y'all forgive when it's convenient for y'all. Y'all forgive out of convenience. No, there I don't believe that there's such thing as forgiving if it's not if it's not an inconvenience to you, if it's not, if it's not paining you, if it's not costing you. Yeah, but that's not how y'all forgive. Y'all forgive, I'm telling you. Y'all be dealing with dudes that ain't even worthy to be in y'all's space. And then when they do little rat stuff, y'all forgive them because you wanted that rat.
SPEAKER_00That's what you wanted. So we talk about forgiveness, and we only really talk about it in the relationship realm. But it goes further than that, and that's why I say women are more forgiving because in other spaces and other and different things, we're we are more forgiving.
SPEAKER_01Everybody, I want to say this too. I hear that. I'm not gonna cut you off. I I love you and respect you, but I want to say this. Look on the internet. All y'all see is women cracking each other's heads. Y'all ain't forgiving nothing. Y'all out there, all you see is this grabbing in the hair, doing this all day. Every time you look on the internet, that's this is all I see. Somebody let it go, let it go all day. Y'all do this all day.
SPEAKER_00And y'all just pop people, but I and you and that that's that's what you're that's how that's how y'all deal with it. Y'all be out there shooting too. That's how y'all deal with it.
SPEAKER_01So I guess the men and the women need to clean up their act. I guess men and women need to clean up their act. That's a whole different but y'all don't forgive. Y'all can't let a roll rage go by. I see, I be looking at y'all, I be watching y'all every day on the internet. Y'all can't let the road rage go by. Y'all fighting at gas stations, y'all fighting in the club. I never see y'all doing any forgiving. But yet, y'all, but yet you say, getting still, you say that the women are more forgiving.
SPEAKER_00So I haven't seen any kumbaya moments with men.
SPEAKER_01Because we don't even get into situations. Real men are even getting into that situation. Real men, real players, is not even getting into that situation. And that's that situation.
SPEAKER_00I'm so glad you said that. No, I'm glad you said it.
SPEAKER_01I'm glad you said it because you know what real men say? Real men say that situation is beneath me. See, water under the bridge. But guess what?
SPEAKER_00Girls and females that are just like I say, that are males, males that are of age are not necessarily men. Oh, it goes the same for women. Oh, it absolutely goes the same for women.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_00Same problem.
SPEAKER_01I get it. Delena, good with you. You the you you the best co-host. And I can't forget about our co-host, Nina and Shay.
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SPEAKER_01I missed that. Yeah, well, we've been texting back and forth. So Shay has Shay Wheels has uh a line. It's called it's called Boss Friends. And she uh it's on it, it's on the net. I'm gonna I'm gonna put the link up on the podcast. We got to give her that love. And Nina has an event space. She got an event space, like a nice space, but because she all but she always knew the real estate, you know, and she also knows retail. So I guess she's putting it together. I don't know, but the you know, our our sisters is still doing it, and they'll be they'll be back on the show very soon. They had to go get their businesses established and get their lives more centered to come back and have energy to do the show. So I get that, but you've been holding it down, I've been holding it down. We're gonna ride now.
Safety Message And Sign Off
SPEAKER_01Be safe out there, like we always say. We try to live leave a positive uh message of safety and awareness when we get off the show. Keep your head on the swivel, stay, stay safe, but also stay dangerous. Don't be so safe that you always a target. Let them know that they, you know, we we coming back. We're not just sitting ducks, but we watching, we observing, and we and we staying safe and moving in a positive way. We out of here now. Yeah, I'm putting I'm putting this up immediately. This would be up, this would be up. I mean, I'm putting this up immediately. This has to get addressed because these debates that we have, they gotta stop. I really I said earlier on the show when we came in about going into a new year. I really don't want to go into a new year like this. I don't want to leave this year and go into a new year debating with you back and forth. We're gonna be smooth. When the people look at us, they're gonna say, Man, he sure fixed her.
SPEAKER_00See, this is you know what? And this is why we will not go into a new year to be as smooth. We will never with that attitude. Oh no.
SPEAKER_01When y'all look on this, when y'all look on the show.
SPEAKER_00You see, he can't even stop laughing because he already know.
SPEAKER_01Hey, well y'all look on the show. That was gonna do. Hey, when y'all look on the show, they're gonna be like, Man, CJ fixed her.
SPEAKER_00I fixed you to all those who know me, I fixed y'all know better.
SPEAKER_01The show fixed Delaney, man. But how they gonna say it in their mass like a little mental thing, it's gonna be in their mind like he fixed her. So, all right, we out of here. We about to breeze until the next time, let us become sharper. I'm gonna fix you. That's it. I done made a vow.