RISING KINGS
Helping Men Level Up in Fitness, Family & Discipline. The RISING KINGS® Podcast is for men who refuse to settle. It’s for those who push themselves daily and want more from life - as a father, husband and high performance man. Hosted by Ben Salkeld - father, husband, and men’s performance leader - each episode delivers simple, direct strategies to help you reclaim your edge and lead with confidence.
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3 Hidden Habits That Destroy Marriages (And What to Do Instead) - Ep #206
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The real reason your marriage feels stuck has nothing to do with communication, date nights, or intimacy.
It runs deeper - into your identity as a man.
In this episode, Ben reveals the three unconscious habits that quietly destroy marriages from the inside out - and what to do instead if you want to rebuild connection, respect, and desire without forcing your wife to “work on it too.”
You'll discover:
- Why your marriage might be drifting and you don’t even know it
- The habits of comparison, keeping score, and defensiveness — and how they show up
- How your identity determines every fight, eye-roll, and silent dinner
- The truth about “trying harder” (and why it makes things worse)
- A new way to fix this at the root - without guilt, blame, or begging
If you're a high-performing man who feels like a stranger in his own marriage, this might be your wake-up call. It’s not about doing more - it’s about becoming more aligned with the husband & partner you said you’d be.
If anything in this episode hit close to home, I wrote a letter for men exactly like you - go read it here > THE LETTER