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Welcome to the Clergy Wellness Podcast, a podcast that supports you in doing one of the hardest jobs in the world without losing yourself. I am your host, Rev. Nicole Reilley - a United Methodist Pastor with 35 years of experience as a local church pastor and a Certified Coach with The Life Coach School and The International Coaching Federation (PCC). Join me each week as we explore topics that matter to pastors.

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Moving Through Approval Addiction

August 26, 2025 • Rev. Nicole Reilley • Season 4 • Episode 9

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Season 4, Episode 9 Moving Through Approval Addiction

Today we’re tackling one of the most hidden addictions in ministry: the need for approval. From people-pleasing to perfectionism, many clergy struggle with measuring their worth by others’ opinions. In this episode, we’ll explore why pastors are especially vulnerable, the heavy costs of approval addiction, and practical tools to break free. You’ll hear stories, research, and spiritual wisdom to help you lead with authenticity, courage, and conviction.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying “yes” when you wanted to say “no” or preaching for applause instead of truth—this episode is for you.

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