Unveiling Paradise: Your Go-To Destination Wedding Podcast
It's happening! Smartly entertaining wedding pros Joseph Esser (professional wedding photographer) and Tessa Gomes (Hawaii-based wedding planner and coordinator), have joined forces to bring you Unveiling Paradise - your "go-to" destination wedding podcast. Planning a wedding is hard, but planning a destination wedding is even harder! Through real-life stories, interviews with industry experts and insider advice, tips and tricks, Joseph and Tessa will guide you through your wedding planning adventures. If you're a bride, groom, parent, friend, or anyone planning a wedding - destination or not - or are just looking for some "behind the veil" truths about this wildly entertaining industry, this is the podcast for you.
Unveiling Paradise: Your Go-To Destination Wedding Podcast
EPISODE 5: Kid Free Weddings - Yay or Nay?
Our most controversial topic to date - should you have kids at your wedding, or should weddings be kid-free? Joe and I lay out our points for both cases, and end up with a *major* plot twist and surprise guests at the end. Intrigued? Listen in for all the details.
First and foremost, I LOVE KIDS. Whether or not they should be at a wedding is a different story. In this episode, Joe gets deep about kids’ meals, while I recount a very specific story about a bridesmaid-baby disaster. Brides, grooms, family and friends or anyone with a kid - you don’t want to miss this episode!
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Kids or No Kids
- Kids can stress people out. Crying babies, flower girls who don’t make it down the aisle… kids are unpredictable!
- Kids are great for those fun, impromptu moments. Dancing solo on the dance floor, swiping frosting from the cake - adorable!
- It changes the vibe. Parents need to watch their kids and can’t fully enjoy themselves. OR parents don’t watch their kids and it becomes a safety issue.
- Kids allow weddings to get creative and build fun, family-friendly experiences.
- If you want kids at your wedding, plan ahead and keep them entertained!
- Don't want kids at your wedding? Again, plan ahead! Make it clear, and let your guests know in advance.
Links and Miscellaneous Thoughts from this Episode:
- Intro: We debate a Reddit AITA thread about bringing a baby to a child-free wedding.
- Was Joe on Hot or Not? We’ll never know.
- Tessa POV: Even though my vote is for kid free weddings, I’m not like a regular mom. I’m a cool mom.
- Joe POV: I love the unpredictable. “I’m the photographer - whatever happens, happens!”
- Type A vs Type B personalities. Which one are you?
- FACT CHECKED: I Googled wedding cake explosions and couldn’t find an example of a wedding cake exploding. WHEW!
- FUN FACT: A baby’s cry can be 130 db (within a foot of the baby), while a helicopter’s noise level at 500 ft away is about 87 db.
- Even at destination weddings, there are reso
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