Rescue You From The Rollercoaster of Perimenopause
HELLO, I’M DR KIRSTEY HOLLAND
I have worked with women for more than 20 years; women who are worn out from struggling with health challenges such as gut disorders, anxiety, weight gain and more.
I have developed a methodology that aims to heal, seal and repair the gut, rebalance hormones and rescue metabolic health, so that my patients can be their best and most vibrant selves again, I call it: The Hierarchy Of Healing.
This process comes to life with my Vitality Protocol, which consists of 7 elements, the way you: eat, sleep, move, think, test, connect and prescribe.
The process and the protocol are held within a belief that health is bio-psycho-social.
I am a university qualified Doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine and hold a double degree in acupuncture and herbal medicine. I am a practitioner of Environmental and Nutritional Medicine, Functional Medicine and Naturopathy. I’m a person-centred, trauma informed counsellor and a qualified health coach.
I believe that the best approach to healthcare should be grounded in ancient wisdom while leveraging cutting edge science. The best approach can be personalised for every woman. Because we are all unique in our own special way.
MY STORY
Why do I do what I do? Because I understand what it’s like to feel disease in the body. You see, I am a recovered food addict. When I was a teenager my parents went through an awful divorce and I was sent away to a boarding school where I relied on food for comfort and love and to stop the pain of loneliness.
I was the girl who used food to calm myself and feel safe. I ate when I felt stressed and constantly tried to restrict my diet, only to then binge.I was told I was fat, felt shame about showing my body, and never felt good enough.
This relationship with my body and food continued for years and the turn point really came for me when I started travelling and studying extensively throughout Africa and Asia, and in particular, India where my fascination with Eastern mysticism and Ayurvedic medicine developed.
In spite of this journey, I continued to battle with and abuse my body through food. I was sad and depressed. I knew that my external representation was due to the internal pain I was feeling but I didn’t know what to do about it.
My obsession to manage my weight and my own personal disillusionment with western medicine led me to study Traditional Chinese medicine and naturopathy in both Australia and in China.
I earned my degrees at a number of institutions, broadening AND deepening my perspective.
This journey of learning and practicing has led me to understand that as a woman, our health is intrinsically linked with our own experiences and trauma. I now know that the single most effective way to feel vibrant is to heal, seal and repair the gut, to rebalance your hormones and in the process, rescue your metabolic health.
When we do this we extend our health span, the time we feel healthy and vital during our life. I have been in clinical practice since 2000 having studied and practised alongside some of the best health practitioners around the world – focussing on how to live in a beautifully balanced way that allows us to feel comfortable in our own skin.
I live by the 80/20 rule and use practical tools that are designed to support the stage of life I’m in: peri/menopause. I want you to know it’s possible to integrate your story into your health in a positive way.
It’s possible to come back into balance, live a full and happy life and get off the rollercoaster so you can live a life that’s more harmonious and graceful.
Rescue You From The Rollercoaster of Perimenopause
Body Literacy, Hormonal Rhythms, Symptom Signals and Self-Awareness
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Episode Summary
In this session, Dr Kirstey introduces body literacy — the foundational skill that underpins every other pillar of the Vitality Clinic programme.
She explains how to decode the body's symptom signals, understand hormonal rhythms across the menstrual cycle, and recognise the biochemical connections between food, stress, sleep, and how we feel.
Using the four stages of competence framework, Dr Kirstey helps members identify where they are in developing this skill and how to begin building it through simple, consistent daily observation.
Vitality Clinic members are guided to choose one signal to track and begin using their Vitality Clinic diaries as a personal body map.
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Chapters
0:00 — Introduction to Body Literacy
What body literacy is, why it matters, and why most women were never taught it.
The Symptom Signal Reframe
Symptoms as communication from the body, not failures or random events.
The Five Parts of Body Literacy
Recognising signals, identifying patterns, understanding hormonal rhythms, seeing biochemical connections, and making informed decisions.
Your Cycle as Your Map
A walkthrough of the follicular, ovulatory, and luteal phases and how each shapes mood, energy, sleep, and metabolism daily.
Body Literacy Without a Cycle
How women with irregular or absent cycles can still track rhythms using weekly patterns.
The Four Stages of Competence
A framework for understanding where you are in learning body literacy and removing self-judgment from the process.
How to Build Body Literacy Practically
The 90-second daily observation practice, choosing one signal to track, and using the Vitality Clinic diaries.
Reflection Questions and Next Steps
Guided questions to deepen self-inquiry and instructions for continuing inside the platform.
Key Insights
- Symptoms are signals, not failures. Every symptom — fatigue, brain fog, mood shifts, bloating, sleep disruption — is the body communicating something specific about its biochemistry, not evidence of a body breaking down.
- Body literacy is a skill, not an instinct. Most women were conditioned to override their body's signals rather than read them. This is a learned cultural pattern, not a personal failing, and it can be unlearned.
- The menstrual cycle is a daily map. The day of the cycle directly shapes mood, energy, sleep, metabolism, and food preferences. Once women begin tracking symptoms against their cycle day, the body becomes predictable rather than chaotic.
- Daily observation is the most powerful practice. Tracking even one signal — energy, sleep, mood, hunger — for 30 to 90 days builds a personalised record that no doctor, app, or algorithm can replicate. Authority over health begins with this record.
- Unconscious competence is the goal. The endpoint of body literacy is not a programme to follow but a way of living — where supporting your biochemistry becomes automatic, aligned, and self-directed rather than externally prescribed.
The information shared in this podcast does not substitute working with your primary health care provider; it is general in nature and not considered personalised advice.
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