How Kinesiology Finds The Hidden Blocks To Conception deep conversations with Sharon Tal

We talk with Sharon Tal, a kinesiologist and “Soul Alchemist,” about how muscle testing and energy mapping can reveal the real roots behind fertility struggles. We explore miscarriage recovery, IVF support, and why safety in the nervous system can matter as much as hormones and timing.
• Sharon’s definition of kinesiology and how it blends Chinese medicine meridians with practical assessment
• Using muscle testing to find patterns behind symptoms on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual levels
• Sleep timing and meridian themes as clues to deeper imbalance
• How kinesiology can support fertility for both partners alongside medical testing
• The umbilical chakra concept after miscarriage and IVF cycles and why “closing” matters
• Safety, security, and fight flight freeze as barriers to conception and holding pregnancy
• Rebuilding hope by removing guilt, shame, and self-blame and strengthening self-love
• Sharon’s clinic offerings, online sessions, and tools for self-support
• Jaw tension, TMJ work, and why relaxing the jaw can shift the whole system

Fertility can make you feel like your body is failing you, even when you’re doing everything you can. We sit down with Sharon Tal, the Soul Alchemist and founder of the Melbourne Kinesiology and Detox Center, to talk about a different way of finding answers: kinesiology and muscle testing as a map to what’s happening underneath the symptoms. If you’ve been navigating IVF, miscarriage, or unexplained fertility issues, this conversation is designed to bring clarity and a sense of direction.

We unpack what kinesiology is, how it draws on meridians and whole-body energy pathways, and why patterns like disrupted sleep, chronic tension, or recurring symptoms can point to the real root cause. Sharon shares how she approaches fertility support for both women and men, including the emotional and energetic dynamics of “receiving,” the importance of partner alignment, and how the brain-body connection can guide more targeted healing decisions.

One of the most memorable parts is Sharon’s explanation of the “umbilical chakra” and what can happen after a failed transfer or pregnancy loss, when the body may still be holding open energetic pathways. We also go deep on safety and nervous system regulation, including fight flight freeze, and why the body’s sense of security can influence implantation and pregnancy maintenance. We close with Sharon’s grounded advice on faith, self-inquiry without shame, and practical next steps, plus where to find her work online and in Melbourne.

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Transcript

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Welcome to the Home of Fertility, a space for real conversation and expert insights about fertility, healing, and creating family. I'm Liz Walter.

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Meet Sharon Tao Soul Alchemist

SPEAKER_03 0:54

So hello. Good afternoon. To all of our listeners, and welcome to Farm of Fertility. And I would love to welcome today the gorgeous Sharon Tao, the soul alchemist. How are you doing today, Sharon?

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Something was just climbing and saying hello as well. I am excellent. Thank you so much. All the way from Corefielding, Victoria.

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Oh, all the way from Victoria. Can we speak to Victoria? I love it. I love it. So today I'm speaking with Sharon Tell, who is this amazing practitioner and a soul alchemist, and it's just full of such gorgeousness. So I want to share with you who Sharon is so that you can get an understanding of this amazing woman, woman, sorry, that we are speaking with today. So Sharon has 25 years plus experience working with people from all over Australia, in fact, all over the world, using her depth of knowledge in such a wide variety of modalities to bring about great change, empowering beings to remember how amazing they truly are. Sharon has a magic, she's she is magic at experiencing and experiencing of her. Sharon has a laser-sharp ability to get to the core of a person's issue, whatever it is, to release the trauma held in the being using a blend of modalities. She taps into the subconscious soul level and clears old patterns to free the body, the heart, mind, and soul. Sharon is an internationally published author. Wow, go you, lovely, a keynote speaker and host. She is the soul alchemist and founder of the Melbourne Kinesiology and Detox Center, our beautiful center. Got to know all about this center. And this is based in Melbourne in Caulfield South. Sharon has spoken at the Mind Body Spirit Festivals in Sydney and in Melbourne. She's also part of the Women's International Zionist Organization. She's spoken to hospitals and charity events. Sharon has also spoken at a number of local national festivals. She's even come back from a festival. And one of those are the Healthy Body and Soul Healthy Living. She's a psychic and also well-being expert. This is just to name a few. A woman of many, many talents. And so wonderful to speak to you today, Sharon.

SPEAKER_00 3:40

Like when people read all of it, I'm like, oh, that is a lot. Okay, yes, yes. But you know, when you're bored, you just study some more. That's what I do anyway.

What Kinesiology Actually Is

SPEAKER_03 3:51

I hear you. I love to learn, so I absolutely understand, my lovely. So let's learn about kinesiology. So I think let's start off with what is kinesiology and this work, this uh work that you do to support wonderful individuals?

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So kinesiology is a modality that has been created um in the 1960s in America by Dr. John Thi, who was a chiropractor. Him and another 11 chiropractors, um, they were like mind-breaking. They called themselves the dirty dozen in the old westerns, as they were. Basically, kinesiology is based on Chinese medicine essence with chiropractic practicality. So they have mapped the body according to the meridians, which is the energy qi holders, which we have about 20 in the body, but 12 to 14 we use in kinesiology. That includes the brain, the back, the which let me just go everywhere but focus it at the end. But it will go from the uh whether it's hormones, whether it's the liver, the gallbladder, the um large intestine, small intestine, heart, adrenals, and so on. So there are 12 major one plus two, which is the brain, central and governing, which is the brain, the back, and controlling. Each one of these meridians or each one of these channels can be assessed, and that's what the kinesiology does, on a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual way. It will have different ways to balance it all. And it's basically a whole world. So when someone comes to me and they say, Oh, I don't sleep, and I'll be, what time will that be? And they say, I don't know, midnight, and I'll be, ooh, that's the gallbladder. If it will be between one till three, it will be, ooh, that's the liver, three till five, lungs, large intestine is five to seven, and so on. So, whatever it is, there are many ways to look at it. And I will say, okay, let's say if it's the lung between three to five, is there any grief? Is there any mourning? Is it something that's hard for you to breathe? So I will look at it from a super holistic way, because whatever we usually experience, it's the end. And I need to find the source. So we are looking to find what is the origin of whatever people are complaining about or alerting us that something is wrong, because we are our own best doctors. Not, of course, to take away from going to doctors, but you will know exactly if something is wrong, or you will know something is not in the flow, even though it doesn't show on the parameters within the normal medicine. Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_03 6:44

So that it's really understanding about connecting with the body, and it is something that we in our busy world can be quite disconnected from our bodies, can't we? So I I love kinesiology and use it a lot. Uh, I don't I'm not one, but I know I use it for myself and my healing if I need to, um, because it's a very powerful tool to help with my healing.

SPEAKER_00 7:05

100%. And and you know, if one has a headache once and they're taking the panodol, it's okay, of course. Yet if they have it every day, or if they have it a few times a week, or if they have it, it it is not really, it doesn't make sense anymore. So I'm not talking about a one-off. I'm talking if something continues, or if something happens and saying, hang on, there is a pattern. That's what I do. I find the pattern. I help people to find the pattern of what things are or not.

Reading Patterns Through Meridians

SPEAKER_03 7:38

Yeah, yeah. I love it. Yes, it's like being that detective, isn't it? So tell me now then, with kinesiology, how how does that help with fertility? How do the two blend together?

SPEAKER_00 7:54

Well, they go in very, very intertwined, very much so, because I've been in my clinic, by the way, since um 2001. So this is 25th year celebration. Done over 40,000 clients' hours, and now I have actually purchased my building because twice my clinic has been sold, the building, and I said, enough is enough. I am settling my own place. I'm not gonna be renting and moving anymore. I cannot change it for my clients. But they all find me on the same street, so that's fine. Um, with kinesiology and fertility, we have a few things that we're looking at. We're looking at the male, we're looking at the female. We're looking, first of all, what does the doctor say? What does the tests have shown? If it's motility of the sperm, if it's inability to receive energetically, the male is pulling the soul, the female is accepting. Who is not pulling, who is not accepting, right? What is preventing from the acceptance? Is it physical, emotional, mental? Is the period? Are they all regular? Has it been changing? Has there been any occurrence? So ones that we are looking, we are, and it's very quick. The thing with kinesiology and muscle testing that you are slashing, slashing time, because if someone comes to you, let's say with the expo that I've done, right? It's been, I have 15 minutes to make a difference. So I'm checking, is it in their organs, in their glands, in their chakras, in their light bodies? I'm checking it very quickly, go quick. And then you can do it exactly in relation to the problem. So I've tried naturally, I've tried with IVF. How am I doing? So the muscle is connected to where? Control center, brain. So all we need to do is to make sure that the questions are very simple to the brain, very clear, and then we can actually figure out some answers. Because the body will tell us how it will be.

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Yeah.

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Wow. So do share. I know you've worked with, as you said, a lot of clients. So tell me um some case studies and how that has really supported some of the clients. Because I know if there's all sorts of different reasons of why we have fertility stuff happening for us.

Kinesiology And Fertility Explained

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Yes, um, 100%. And there are uh I was thinking from our previous chat before, I was thinking about two clients that had um a miscarriage, and they came to me quickly, really quick within a week of the miscarriage. And basically, there is a I would like to teach the audience and and us to learn, there is a thing that is called an umbilical chakra. An umbilical chakra, so we have chakras. So chakras are um spinning in Sanskrit, the simple word is energy, spinning energy wheels. And that is providing the information, the the energy, the vitality to certain things in the body, whether it's the crown chakra, which is connection to the top, the third eye to our intuition, throat communication, heart for the emotions and the heart and the feeling. You have the solar plexus, personal power, sacral, which is the energy, fertility, and um, I guess the ovaries for women and the testicle for men, and the base chakra. This is just the name of fruit that is grounding bone, skeleton, and so on and so on. One of those centers that is open when someone is pregnant is the umbilical chakra. The umbilical chakra is well a component, let's call it, that is providing the energy while we are pregnant. Now, what happens when someone is the pregnancy doesn't go all the way? I can jump between the IVF and the miscarriage. Let's go for a second, I'll jump back to IVF. I'll go to IVF for a second. When we have that fertility process, when they're entering the egg that has been fertilized, this is potentially a pregnancy. Whether the body will hold for it or not, it's a different story. So, as this is being inserted, sometimes it's one, two, three, four eggs, whatever it is, there are opening chakras. What happens if it doesn't catch? We have a miscarriage, yet the umbilical chakras are still open because the body still thinks because of the hormones that is still happening. I had once a client with 29 umbilical chakras open because she's done a few rounds of IVF. Now, think about it like your computer. If you have 10 screens open, does it give more or less power? It gives less power to the actual screen that you're working on to work on, because it's like when we say to the phone, switch off the back screens because you save your battery. So the same is happening to the body. If I need to provide one energy source, or I have five open ones, which one has more power? We can imagine, right? So we need to close all the umbilical chakras and to make sure that the body will focus on the next valid pregnancy, and that is a big difference. So that is a one very important check that I do for women who have tried or are in the process, or they're trying to figure out what is the next best thing to do. Does that make sense? So for this lady, after I've cleared the 29, after I've cleared the 29 umbilical chakras that was still open, and they were all around the pelvis area from um unfortunate, unsuccessful trials, they felt immediately lighter. Immediately they felt lighter and freer, and then there is a clear space to go through that, to go through a new process, and some of them have actually conceived naturally, but it doesn't matter whether it's natural or with IVF, the road is clear. Okay, some people had with a miscarriage, I had um a couple of clients, just without, of course, naming, there was very interesting case. The lady came to me and she was a client and she just miscarried like a few days before. I've cleared immediately any open umbilical chakras. She can she conceived the next month. Wow. And can I tell you another crazy thing about it is that my father passed away two years ago, and out of her three children, he was the one who wanted her to who wanted to come with her for condolences. The boy who was seven or nine, he said, Mom, can I come with you? Now, I actually never, I only held him when he was born to say hello, and you know, but that's it. And it was crazy how he felt the connection from the other kids were like, you know, why would you come to an old man? Condolences, someone passed away. He insisted that he wanted to come with her. So there was definitely a connection and the way that it was done. The soul is there ready to come. What is stopping it from coming in? That is what we need to clear. Again, physical, emotional, mental. It can be as well that the mother doesn't feel safe, not necessarily with the current partner, but with where she came from. If she came from a uh a hard home, if if they if she came from, you know, or the husband or the partner, whatever it is, and I'm not going here into gender equality thing. I am saying it as it is from my point of view. I don't care if it's the sperm or if it's the egg or if it's a um same-sex couple, it doesn't matter. Because what we need is that it will feel safe and secure. So emotionally, it can affect whether it's the father, the biological, the donor, whatever it is, need to be purified and be safe to live at the person's womb. Whether it's a um decade, whether it's saragate or whether it's the mom, it doesn't matter. From my point of view, the baby, the fetus, the pregnancy has to feel safe. And if the carrier is not safe or if the giver is not safe, there is many chances, there are many chances that it won't hold. Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_03 17:15

It does make sense, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:17

Thanks for the clarity. So safety and security is number one, that's what puts us in fight, flight freeze. So if any of the parties is in fight, flight freeze, it's not gonna be an easy entry.

SPEAKER_03 17:33

Yeah, absolutely. Beautiful. Excellent um case studies and working with um with different clients and how you've supported.

SPEAKER_00 17:41

There are tens. There are tens of them. I just picked minimal, minimal, minimal. There are so many of them and so much anguish, so much pain, so much losing hope.

SPEAKER_03 17:53

Yeah, there is. And so what happens to what do you do to support people with the the loss of hope and feeling hopeless? Because I know I get that a lot from my clients. So yeah, share what you do.

Miscarriage IVF And Umbilical Chakras

SPEAKER_00 18:06

Well, basically, first of all, as soon as we can identify what it is, it's not becoming personal. We need to take it away from the personal. It's not your fault. It's not, you know, oh, I stuffed it up, I can't even hold a baby, he's working the whole time, and I'm just not getting all I need to do is one thing and just to hold it. But it is so much more complicated. So, first of all, we are clearing, making sure that it's not physical, emotional, mental, spiritual. We are supporting the person by strengthening their spirit. If there is no strong spirit, then it's like, where do the where do they go from here? You know, I personally believe in God. It's a problem when people are atheists because they don't have anything to hold on to. I don't care if it's God, goddess, nature, universe. Believe in something. Believe that something amazing has created it. This has not been created by science. This has been created by bigger energy. That is my belief. I am happy to chat with anyone and to open their mind, but I do not preach to any religion, to any energy beside love. So we need to check their self-love. We need to check what is happening for them. We need to check that they are supported within themselves and feeling validated within themselves. So this I do with the emotion. I'm a counselor as well, um, and a Reiki master teacher. So I combined a lot of my modalities together. When you come to see me, you get a full session. If someone is specific, no, I do not want dot dot dot, so be it. However, it is not, it's the energy from the creator or creation, which is the vessel of light. So that is one way or few ways that we are supporting. Um, I will verify and make sure that there is no problem between um one second, please, that there is no conflict between the partners, because death can be there as well, very, very severe. So basically, as long as there is no conflict between the person and their partner, it can all work out. Very simple.

SPEAKER_03 20:31

Yeah, having flow in body, mind, and spirit, as well as the flow with with you know, the if you have a partner. I mean, I know some people don't need don't have partners, and that is their choice. So it all depends. But if you have a partner, absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 20:44

And feeling safe, yes, that is really the basic, basic safety and security. That is the trigger for the fight-flight freeze. So it's a mission, really. It's really a mission for me.

SPEAKER_03 21:00

It it really is a mission, you know, and um, I suppose, you know, it's about being of service, isn't it? Tell me about your clinic as well. So we've gone through what kinesiology is, how kinesiology supports fertility. Um, we've looked at chakras, the umbilical chakra, which I thought was um extremely interesting, and connection with our bodies and to create, like you say, a free channel, you know, a channel is where there is flow. Um, we've looked at case studies, how to restore faith when you know all feels like hope has been lost. Um, so how tell me about your clinic and where people can find you.

SPEAKER_00 21:42

I am located in Caulfield in 987 Glen Huntley Road in Caulfield. And basically, I have as well created a whole range of product. As I said, when I'm bored, I do things. And um, I have written a book, 28 Lessons Self Mastery. I have a whole range. Range of 24 homeopathic elixirs to help, to support. And I've worked with a very reliable, strong homeopath and naturopath. Her name is Liz Laylor. So we've created this pathway together. Through my kinesiology, I can feel what is the need. And then there is a whole science behind it. And that's where I do fall on the science. I've created magnesium holes, room sprays, and a deck of empowerment cards from survive to thrive. And that is where people can actually support themselves. Because my aim is to empower people to thrive on their own. I don't have, I have clients of 25 years, but I don't want to see them after the first three sessions. Survive, revive, thrive, go, go and do what you need. Come back when you need me again. So it's um it's never about long, long, but it's a very strong relationship because they know when they need me, they are there, and I'm there for them always. So that's that's usually how it works. Um I have here some rooms for rent, so I rent it out for other practitioners, but it's definitely BYO, big meditation room. I'm qualified to teach 30 courses, yet I enjoy a few of them, and I enjoy my spiritual Sunday and helping people clearing their jaw. By the way, 90% of the body, muscle, nerves, and ligament goes through the jaw. So if we are not relaxing the jaw, then it's not gonna open the pathway. So I am I am there to help and support in many, many ways. And um, that is my mission. And I do the sessions as well online. If people are somewhere else and they can't come to Cornfield, I have clients internationally. So I see people and I talk to them and um um and we do the healing through video.

SPEAKER_03 24:07

Love it. That's good to know whether you're online or in person. That's um definitely excellent to be aware of. And I love what you're saying about the jaw. Um, I know the jaw can have be you know a lot of tension and can represent you know several different areas of of of blockages, but um, I like what you said about how the jaw can be so important in so many areas.

SPEAKER_00 24:31

Oh the amount of changes that I've seen with people that I've done the jaw, the TMJ work, temporal mandibular joint, and that's where people are clenching and holding tension. So as soon as we clear that, boom, everything is all the pathways are open.

SPEAKER_03 24:50

Love it, love it. Thank you so much.

SPEAKER_00 24:54

It's a measure, Liz. I hope that we've made a difference for someone.

SPEAKER_03 24:58

I'm sure you have, uh, because yeah, you you do so much work um on all different areas of supporting the body. So as we finish up, tell me. So helping and supporting the people, you know, as we leave our conversation, what would be your top tip or or the best advice um on with people on a health as well as a fertility journey?

SPEAKER_00 25:25

Never lose faith, never lose hope. Remember that let go and let God. If it's meant to be, it will be, which all sounds like cliches, yet once that you actually connect to the essence of it and and self-investigation without guilt, shame, or blame. Do I really want it? Is it really happening? Why? What? Because why can just why me, why me, that is a victim? No. But if you really look, why me, why now? Without that, see what it goes to. What is the answer for it? Rather than as well, how can I change it? Is it overweight? Is it physical? Is it sleep? Is it hormones? Is it do everything, check it out, and then ask yourself am I really ready to have this baby with this person or not? If you do, go for it, keep going. If not, take that deep walk in.

SPEAKER_03 26:27

Yeah, yeah. I love that. Take that deep walk in. Question yourself, take that deep walk in. That those are beautiful words. Thank you so much. Thank you too much. Now, where else can we find you? What socials are you on? Tell me your website.

SPEAKER_00 26:42

Ah, Med Doc Soul Alchemist, and I have the YouTube channel Sharon Talbot Soul Alchemist, uh, Facebook, and people can approach me directly. I am very reachable, despite whatever social media that I have. I am it hi. Talk to me. I'm strong, direct, soft, and funny. So let's just go for it. If people have a question, don't be scared to let them be. So, yeah, they can just go to my website, thesoulalchemist.com.au. My insta is the dot soulalchemist. Um, I have a Facebook page as well. Whatever works, and come and find me, and I'll do my best to make a difference in your life.

SPEAKER_03 27:30

Ah, I know that to be true. So that is so beautiful. Well, Sharon, thank you for taking the time out of your busy day to talk to me. Thank you. So that we can share the beautiful work that you do with um as many people as possible. Oh, and um, I'm very grateful. Thank you so much. Oh, thank you too. And with that, I think I'm gonna leave you with when you're asking the self, you know, just have that deep dive and check where where is flow? What is it that is right for you? And um, I am wishing you all a beautiful, beautiful rest of the day. And with that, goodbye. Thank you, Sharon.

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