THE TRUTH ABOUT IT ALL WITH KEN JOHNSON
This podcast was created to help people find real love, by using studies I call HUMAN BEHAVIOR. Season one of my journey is based on true events that happened in my life, and I truly believe it helped me achieve the right to help others find true love.
THE TRUTH ABOUT IT ALL WITH KEN JOHNSON
Who Really Runs the World?
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Power dynamics between men and women shape our world in ways we rarely discuss openly. Season 2 of this podcast challenges conventional wisdom about who really controls relationships and why understanding these dynamics matters for both sexes.
• Analyzing the billion-dollar sex industry from ancient brothels to modern OnlyFans platforms
• Discussing how the pandemic accelerated digital platforms where women monetize sexuality without physical contact
• Addressing the dark side of sexual power through human trafficking and exploitation
• Offering advice to young women about valuing themselves beyond high school popularity
• Explaining why most teenage relationships don't last and the importance of making informed choices
• Demonstrating how women control relationship narratives through emotional intelligence
• Challenging both men and women to use their respective influence for relationship growth
This season is about conditioning your brain to think differently about relationships. Join me as we explore how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Introduction to Season 2
Speaker 1Hey everyone , thank y'all for coming back for my season 2 podcast . Yeah , man , like I said in the introduction , we need to get something straight , we need to get to the bottom of this , and I'm thinking that we all should go on this ride together . This season 2 is going to be all about that Condition the brain to think something different than what you already think . Right , we got to realize how we got here , y'all . How did this ? One simple thing screw us up ? If you remember about the journey I chased one thing , it was the mighty pussy . Why in the fuck we put so much emphasis on that pussy ? Now see , the thing of it is . They say that man runs the world . Do we ? Come on , y'all Ask yourself Do man really truly runs this world ? Man , we got to get to the bottom of this shit , right ? Come on , let's get into it . Let's go , oh yeah , with that intro y'all .
Speaker 2They told you . Love's a fairy tale , a dream . You gotta chase a knight in shining armor riding in to save the day . The real love ain't no rescue , it ain't a perfect scene . It's finding someone solid , who don't make you fear unseen , tired of waiting on a wish , tired of hoping for a fix . Ain't nobody flawless , but someone's gotta fit the truth about it all . You don't need a hero , just someone who stands tall , someone who don't ghost when the rain starts to fall , someone who shows up . No fairy tales at all .
Who Really Runs the World?
Speaker 1Jay-Z said he got 99 problems and a bitch ain't one , ain't ? He lied to us y'all , ain't ? He lied ? As soon as Beyonce caught him with Becky with the good hair and she wrote that song , who Run the World ? She was letting us know watch this y'all . He say he ain't got no problems with one , but watch this y'all and I'm going to show you who's going to run this world . Who runs the world ? And it's girls . Yes , ladies , it's girls , they run the world . I know what man say Come on , come on . Did you see ?
Speaker 1Jay-z wrote the next album saying that he wasn't going to lose his girl to Becky and he wasn't going to have nobody throwing him the child . We know he was talking about future , but he said he wasn't going to have nobody throwing a football meaning Russell Wilson to his child . Man , if that's not a problem , what is ? Yeah , yeah , yeah . I know what we was told and fed . I understand that when we were brought up even men or women that man runs the world . That's what we was told that man runs the world . That was a lie , y'all . It really is Okay . Don't you know right now that if you had to put a percentage to some shit , like if you go a prison and go to all the prisons , I bet you at least 50% is in jail over pussy . I bet you that's how powerful pussy is that you would give up your life for it . How did we get to this shit ? This shit go way past me and you . This shit started way back in BC time , y'all way back , when they told them , if you give up your pussy , we gonna throw rocks and stone at you . You only supposed to get it from your husbands . So when you went and you did something not being married and you gave up your shit , you were consistent of being a fucking floozy that's what they call them Floozies , okay , and you were doing it . You would get stoned because man put emphasis on pussy .
Speaker 1Then , when he had the Kings and Queens right , the Kings and Queens , I mean first of all , the King married the Queen and nobody's supposed to touch him . Now the queen got this stigma with her is that she is the queen . That's the king queen , meaning that you bet not touch that motherfucking pussy . Now them person bet not even look at her the wrong way . But guess what ? The king had other pussy out there . The fucking king was fucking other pussies out there they put so much emphasis on pussy is that it became our property . That's what happened is just that we were such selfish as a man we was Stella's fucking and let everybody else fuck him . No , we put to a point that if the pussy was good , we didn't want nobody else fucking them either . So we fucked up a lot of shit with these women and it become a possessive thing . That's what happened .
Speaker 1Well , guess what happened ? Pussies kept revolving , you know , I think when it first happened it's like Becky must have went had sex with Johnny and then Becky went had sex with Billy Ray and then both of them found out and killed each other . That's what I'm thinking . And then once one was like wait , wait , what happened ? And they started to figure the shit out . Okay , that we stupid motherfuckers started going crazy over pussy . They like wait , wait , wait , hold on Between my legs is something they're going to make two dudes kill themselves . Man , this shit is powerful .
Speaker 1So guess what happened after the pussy started revolving and kept revolving . Well , they started selling it . You know , the number
The Economics of Desire
Speaker 1one job I mean profession out there that been going on forever is selling pussy . It started off with shit like the brothels , the whole houses , the massage parlors , and now what y'all ? What of them became now ? My only yeah , it became a profitable business . Only because , man , we allow it to happen .
Speaker 1What I'm saying , forgive me pussy . Good now , I love some pussy . I don't know if I kill over no pussy , but I do love me some pussy . But the thing of it is is that pussy is so marketable now that it got to be the best marketing . You know , fuck , amazon . You know what I'm saying . Fuck , fuck , fed eggs , fucked all these tech companies . It got motherfucking Pussy is a billion dollar Operation today .
Speaker 1Let's take the strip club Operation right . This is you . Walk through the door , oh man , you got all these Little beautiful things saying hey to you , right , then you're going to have About 12 of them Come up to you asking you to do like a lap dance Now the lap dance is going to get you ready . Of them come up to you asking you do like a lap dance , now the lap dance is going to get you ready , because they want to get you somewhere else . It's a part of entertainment . Our stupid ass would sit there and give out the money so we could get a lap dance . Mother , listen , if this sounds good to you , let me know we will give them money for the experience of a lap dance . Think about it .
Speaker 1Okay , now , once you turn around here and got that lap dance , now , hey , you know , we could go in the back room for fifty dollars more . And your stupid ass , me too . I'm talking about me too , y'all . I'm not . I'm not talking to anyone particular , I'm not , because I done did the shit too , but we went in the back for $50 when the lap dance might have been $10 . I'm talking about way back . I don't know what the shit is .
Speaker 1I've been out of the scene for a while , but at the time you get a lap dance for $10 , but if you want to go back for the $50 , you can go in the back . Well , what happened in the back ? I ain't never fucked nobody in the back . I ain't never been to that strip club to fuck somebody for $50 in the back . I didn't . So when I got there to the back , all they did was a little private room with some red velvet cloth around me and they just danced more on my lap . Now they might throw the shit in my face and let me smell it a little bit . You know , they might put the titty between both of them and might shake it a little bit , but what the fuck we actually was getting that's how powerful the mind is and the imagination is that we still thought that we was going to get something out of that .
Speaker 1All right , let me tell you why . I stopped going to a strip club , y'all and ? And I was young when I decided this . And man , let me just tell you , I got paid one day . Right , I say I'm going to the strip club , man , and I'm going to sit there and all I'm going to do is spend about $30 , $40 , and , man , I'm going to have a good time .
Speaker 1Well , I got to this strip club man and this beautiful thing looked at me and I looked at her and , man , my mind went to running . It went to racing , right ? So I , like I want to go in the back now I'm trying to be down winding around this motherfucker and trying to think different , right ? But I only had a short time because I had to get home . So I gave the girl the money to go to the back , but I told her I don't want you to dance , sweetie , I just want to have a conversation with you . She go , oh , you , really . Well , and she was going , oh , she was taking my money and putting in her little girdle thing that goes around her leg , I think that's what it's called . Okay , and so , to make a long story short , oh yeah , we had a good conversation and talked , so I said , well , okay , I'll see you later .
Speaker 1And what I meant was bitch , I'm going to see you after the club closed , and once the club closed I'll be waiting on you . Now , she never elaborated that she was going to be waiting , that she's coming with me . That was just me in my goddamn head , because , bitch , I don't give you $50 , right ? So I think I deserve more than a goddamn lap dance and me , and you don't hit it all because I didn't get you to dance , I got you to conversate . So , in my mind , I'm going to get the pussy right . Well , look what happened . I sat my ass down maybe two or three hours till the club closed and next thing , you know , I kind of stepped out of my car when I saw her . Before I could get to her , she ran to another dude , hand him all the money and say baby , look how much money I made for us , bitch $150 of that with my money . Somebody else was about to enjoy my money . Think about what I'm saying .
Speaker 1From that point on , I started looking at strip club different as a part of entertainment . You know what I mean . When you found out that wrestling was fake . When I found out wrestling was fake , I ain't watching another damn wrestling . So why would I go to another goddamn strip club ? When I found out that shit ain't nothing but fake ? Guess what ? Guess what y'all
Strip Clubs and Entertainment Illusions
Speaker 1we pay for it . We do . That's what we pay for . Now the shit done got really bad . Now they don't even touch us no more . They behind a computer screen with a camera and and we paying for that they becoming rich on that .
Speaker 1I met a girl . I met a girl and I'm like what you do ? She said my only this is before . I really knew what the shit was . I said my only , my only what ? My only Valentine , what are you talking about ? She said I got my own , my only page . And you know , the shit became real big in the pandemic that you know . You couldn't go to no strip club . You don't want nobody sneezing on you . You got COVID .
Speaker 1So , guys , we found another way to get entertained and we started giving these girls money behind a TV screen . How can something like that be so powerful that we'd rather see it on a TV screen ? We got Cinemax , we got HBO . We see this shit all the time . But we knew this was real . Nobody was acting and we started giving our money to these girls with a TV screen . So I'm like baby , how much money you can make with that . She's like I pay my rent , I pay my rent , I pay my car note , I take care of my child on it , and so I'm like damn so . Now they don't want to give you their phone number . Women , you go , you know , back in the days , you got to give me your phone number , let me talk . We got to conversate , we got to work .
Speaker 1Now , motherfuckers , like you know , I give you my page , you know , and then when you go on there , it's 1099 to join . That's how powerful the shit done got , y'all , and that's what we'll do for it . We're going to pay that 1099 . For example , I'm from New Orleans , y'all . I think we all know that by now . Well , we got this one basketball player that played for the Pelicans named Zion Wilson , and we all know who Zion is . Huh , come on , do y'all hear all the mess he get in over these my Only Girls . I think he had a baby by one right , see , he was improved by money , meaning that he ain't no good looking guy , but money improved his looks . So guess what ? He paid for them to step from out of their TV screen into their room , into his room . So when you got that type of money , but yeah , they'll step from behind that screen , but you got to be a name , you got to be a name , guess what ? I'm just telling you how powerful this shit is .
Speaker 1Look in my mind , I ain't got nothing wrong with prostitution and I know why prostitution get a bad rap . I do . I get it All right , these girls going out making money . Why is it illegal ? Because they can't tax the shit . See , women could go and control their own bodies and get money for their body , but the government can't find a way to tax that shit . See back in the days , like I mean way , way , you know history , 2400 BCE . You know , see , stalin , he went ahead and just say F ? It and he founded states with brothels and he started a tax prostitution . See , today we can't find a way to do that . So we make it illegal , just like we did weed marijuana , and sooner or later they found a way that they can make it profitable . So guess what ? Too much , too many places is not legal . It's legal in a lot of places now .
Speaker 1And the other reason is religious purposes . Okay , even though we could find that prostitution I mean brothos , whatever you want to call it was found way back in 2400 BCE , you know , where Egypt , greece and Rome practiced it as a religion . But now you know , since the good book , you know , came out and looked down on it , it also bring a frown on prostitution . Now , y'all brace yourself . The number one reason , the number one reason wives , married man , is found with prostitutes almost a hundred times a day . Ok , now , women , the wives , would blame the prostitutes for charging to being so easy , but not blaming their husbands for doing it . Look , we got a thing now .
Speaker 1Where I stay at , that the number one spot for prostitutes to walk , is airline . See , about 10 years ago you saw a prostitution on airline highway walking up and down , waving at the cars . But shit , let a car stop . Cars , but she , let a car stop . Yeah , let a car stop . You're gonna have so many women taking pictures of you and sending it to your wife when I'm , you know , not directly to your wife , but they're gonna put a post in facebook . Do y'all know this car ? This car was found picking up prostitutes and man , it became academic with it .
Speaker 1Right , it's like these girls couldn't work no more because their husband was too scared to pick them up . And see , where I live at is mostly plants , you know , like the shell plant , sherron plant . So we get a lot of out-of-towners and lot of out-of-towners , and so the out-of-town are like I don't care , I don't , I don't , I don't live here , nobody knows me and they would pick them up . But facebook is so powerful , social media is so powerful , they was getting busted too out of town . So now these girls is getting pushed out . It got to be secret . Now you see what I'm saying and see , now I'm getting it .
Speaker 1Okay , I just thought about it . Maybe that's why my Only
The OnlyFans Revolution
Speaker 1is so famous now , because you could go ahead and practice the sex on yourself and watch it and just pay for it in some way with your browser . You could block it that your wife can't even see . It could block it that your wife can't even see it . Do you know ? I bet at least 70% of divorces is because of pussy . I might move that shit up to 80% that most people that ends up in divorce have something to do with pussy . I bet you I go here and I put every dollar out of my wallet and I put it up to anything to say at least 80% got something to do with pussy .
Speaker 1Y'all , I bet you and I know some of y'all saying , well , my wife cheated on me . I'm not saying that , dick , don't fuck up shit . All I'm saying is dick is probably 5% , that damn pussy 80 . And y'all , I hate to say it , pussy got some evenness with it too . Yeah , there's a lot of evil that circle .
Speaker 1Pussy , I mean I don't know how many time a man done , murdered and killed over pussy , some shit . That don't know how many times a man done , murdered and killed over pussy , some shit that don't even belong to us . But , like I say , our man , our testosterone , we have to control our belongings . You can't step in another man's house and try to sleep with his pussy . He'll kill you , but then they'll use their sexuality on you to do shit . Like I said , I know people that killed themselves because the woman gave up the stuff to someone else . That's some powerful shit . Think about what I'm saying when it could cause you to do crime . It could also cause you to do bodily harm to yourself . Pussy y'all , you think that I'm talking about a gun ? Huh , no , the pussy . Make you pick up the gun , put it to your head and shoot yourself . Yeah , it does .
Speaker 1I don't know how something so pretty , so beautiful , so good , so enjoyable make you kill yourself or commit a crime like rob a bank to get it done . Man , something so beautiful and evil , and I really didn't want to bring up this next evil one . Man , something so beautiful and evil , and I really didn't want to bring up this next evil one . But I'm going to talk about it for a short little nit . Human trafficking it done , got so profitable . It's a damn shame I have to watch my daughter hold her hand . I mean , the younger the better . And these people .
Speaker 1You know I say how much I love sex , but I guess I don't love it as much as I thought , because no way in hell I'm going to fly to another country , a place like Thailand , and look for a virgin that's 11 and 12 years old to have sex with man . We got some disturbed motherfuckers that would do dumbass shit
The Dark Side: Trafficking and Exploitation
Speaker 1. I know a few , not that I associate them with them every day . But I know a few older gentlemen that would fly to Thailand , to the red light district , and find the youngest and the youngest , the higher prices . If they're a virgin , guess what y'all they cost the most . I can't believe that . It is a billion dollar operation . It is a billion-dollar operation . So , look , it's also that profitable that we do that much of an evil shit to it .
Speaker 1All right , and look , I'll tell you a story . Someone told me , all right , he was in the military . I ain't going to tell you what military , what person , none of that . I'm going to just tell you that they was in the military . And he told me that some of his people , some of his people in his squadron , would go out and have sex with these younger girls . I mean , I know that in war times that having sex maybe ease you up . Don't have you so tense . I get you , it's a pleasure thing , I get it . But come on , man , come on , do we got the rape privilege and do all that shit for it . Now , look , I'm not . I'm not judging what , I am judging those motherfuckers , but what I mean is it's , it's . It's been going on way too long , too much time to not crack this code .
Speaker 1Why is so powerful ? This is what this segment about . I don't want to get off off road . I don't , I don't . I don't want to go into this stuff that make me want to cry and tear up and stuff . I don't want to do that . I just want to stay on this subject of how did it get so powerful
Women Holding the Power
Speaker 1? All right , the subject is right now who runs the world ? Come on , fellas , we don't run this shit . I know we think we like to run it because we make money , but women making that shit too , and guess what they're making it with . And we don't start changing our tunes .
Speaker 1And women , you don't see what you worth . I'm not telling you to go out and be a prostitute . What I am telling you is you got some shit between your legs . You got to fucking make it feel worthy of it . Okay , you should not be searching and begging and hugging and trying to go out and do everything for something so you could be noticed . Motherfucker , whatever you got to notice is right there with you , because there's there's nothing else . There's nothing else that a man want more . A man would tell you they want to do shit more . But you hold the powers . Ladies , think about what I'm saying . Don't go out and give your shit up just because a motherfucker ain't worth it . All he's going to do is go to the next one . That's all he's going to do .
Speaker 1Now , fellas , I know you might hate me for this one . I get it , but that's not what I'm trying to create in this podcast . What I'm trying to do is try to change the dynamic of how this shit's supposed to go . Women , you are in poor team . We will follow you to the end of the road . It's not that hard to find a good man . You just got to change your perspective . You got to stop going for the ones that's Instagram famous , because guess what ? Everybody else is Instagram famous . They want them too . Think about it . It's okay .
Speaker 1The number one thing that we're going to stay talking about in this podcast is research . They tell you it's bad women . They tell you that that damn why you got to be so nosy . That's what they call it . But you have a right to research before you give up the dugout . I know that they used to call it back in my day . You got to do some damn research . Okay , you got to dig in the glove apartment to find out the address . Guess what ? What he might have two wives you don't even know .
Speaker 1The problem is is most of the time when y'all find out shit , it's too late . You don't gave it up . He don't got your pearls , he got the damn the rainbow with the , with the jackpot at the end of the rainbow . He don't got that already ? Why do we give a fuck ? You broke up with him because majority ain't waiting to be married to get it . Majority of men ain't sitting here worried about you crying in your room with your girlfriends . We not worried about that shit , but we worried about that . We got the pussy and you sitting there weeping later like I can't believe he's . It never dawned on me , it never dawned on you because you didn't do your damn research . Think about it .
Speaker 1And young girls I know it's hard , I know the pimples don't came in . You wearing makeup . I mean you got so much peer pressure , I get it . This is who I'm truly here for is y'all ? You know people like my daughter that just became a teenager . I know and , but throughout living I might know a little more . Most time , them little boys in high school is not who you're going to end up with later on them little boys in high school is not who you're going to end up with later on , and every time you think about sleeping with any of these little ones because of your popularity , it's going to harm you in the future . Believe me when I tell you it's going to harm you in the future .
Speaker 1Most , most marriages starts in college . Most marriages starts in college . What I mean is is after you go to college and you get the experience of being an adult because you cannot be adult at 16 years old in high school , thinking you ready for everything ? No , and you think you having fun ? Okay , I mean the boys appreciate it . Yeah , they do . No , and you think you having fun ? Ok , I mean they preach . The boys appreciate it . Yeah , they do . But you think you ain't hurting nothing . Until you go and you talk to somebody that used to be just like that and realize it's hurting them . Ok , that the person that they've been waiting all their life for finally didn't get them the way they're supposed to have them , but some jackass did .
Speaker 1Ladies , girls , I'm not telling you not to have fun , I'm just telling you to watch out . Stop all that motherfucking crying about he ain't this and he that and he did this to me . No , sweetie , you did it to yourself . I know you got no hope . I know you got no hope because you got all this social media . You got all these rap songs and pop singers telling you that it's okay to dress this way , to suck this in and drop it like it hot and whatever . I know it's peer pressure .
Speaker 1Like a motherfucker , it's hard to raise my daughter right now . It really is . I got a daughter that's 35 that was a lot more easy to raise than my 13-year-old . Right now , no matter what I keep teaching her , there's a lot of motherfuckers showing her different across the fucking platforms . So it's hard for me , it really is . But if you know . So it's hard for me , it really is .
Speaker 1But if you know what I know , what I know , for today girls start living for y'all and realizing when you're sitting there and you're just crying , it's your fault because you hold the power . You hold the power to it all and if you don't control that power for the greater good , you're going to find the greater evil . You must control what's inside of you , you must be in charge of you and you must make better decisions and stop
Advice for Young Women
Speaker 1looking for girl . He's pretty Girl , he's so fine , I'm going to give him something . Hey , I know some of y'all y'all freaky too . Y'all just out there , you know , just slanging it open . Don't give a care in the world . Hey , I'm not talking about you .
Speaker 1This podcast is for love . Okay , if you want to go out there and sleep with every time Dick and Harry , baby , go ahead , I understand , I really do . I'm just not talking about you right now . I'm talking about the one that keeps saying , hey , I can't find love . Okay , and tell me this Show of hands . How many motherfuckers you know Put your hands up , that you know today that been married for 20 , 30 years and they met in high school ? It's going to be a small percentage , one or two girls , one or two . It ain't going to happen .
Speaker 1You know why there's a such thing as statutory rape ? It's because of the mind , that an older person's mind is better than a younger person's mind . They don't live in much wiser . That can manipulate the mind of a youngster . You see what I'm saying . So what I'm telling you is you have to have better thoughts , training and start worrying about what you have between your legs as a treasure and start to control it . Now I know what you have between your legs as a treasure and start to control it . Now I know what you hear today .
Speaker 1This is what you hear with football players , basketball players . There's girls that have been going with them ever since high school and they be saying it , they be like I've been with my girls ever since high school . These motherfuckers 19 and 20 years old when they go in the league Some younger than that 18 . From high school to 18 , goddammit , most of them don't do a four-year college to get into the pros . Most of them do two years . But let me applaud those girls , all right , let me applaud the girls that say hey , hey , this motherfucker shoot the basketball . I better lock this motherfucker down . They knew what they had . They knew it . Nobody can't call them stupid because them motherfuckers living in mansions right now they control their shit the way they control it .
Speaker 1And I'm not saying hold your shit for money . What I'm saying is you find out what your purpose and what you want out of life and you use what you got to get there . That's all you got to do . So those girls that know they had athletes they been knowing it . They know what they had . Brittany Mahone she know what she had . Come on , you know , when she held back , no matter what they went through , guess what ? $500 million for 10 years .
Speaker 1Once again , I'm not talking about use your shit for money , okay . I'm not talking about use your shit for money , okay , I'm not saying that . What I am saying is you could find someone that really fits your need , okay , and not that fucking glory , fame , shit you want , okay , not matter that he's the hottest boy in high school and passing up the fucking nerd that's going to make millions later . Once again , it's not money . What I'm saying is you don't know what's on the other side of that road . And , first of all , you really women , you rather . You rather make the man than the man makes you . So if you see someone scrummy that maybe fits you , you might can show them how to dress a little bit . You might have to . You know , straighten his shirt out , you know , deal with some shit . And guess what ? Even though you might be thinking that you teaching that him , he's going to be teaching you something too . That way more valuable than money it is .
Speaker 1There's a movie out there , jenny , in Georgia . It shows and express a lot of shit about high school and young teens growing up and about popularity and mental health . It's a great show on Netflix and I mean , I think it's worth the watch for young girls to go and watch , because it do tells the truth about a lot of it . You know , see , ladies , let me just break this down before I get out of here . Ok , all I'm saying is you controls the narrative over man . What I'm saying is , if you find a man that's and you claim he's no good , a dog or whatever , it's because you fucked up , it's because you're not doing it right , and that's OK .
Speaker 1This is what this podcast is for . It's to use shit . Now , fellas , fellas , fellas . Listen what I'm saying . I'm not telling you nothing that you don't already know , and I understand you might think that I'm letting out some shit , but I'm saying I'm not telling you nothing that you don't already know , and I understand you might think that I'm letting out some shit , but I'm not . This is not the podcast for dogs . Okay , so you would want a great girl , you would want a good girl
Controlling the Narrative in Relationships
Speaker 1to be good . You would want a girl to lead you , because the true statement is after every good man , there's a girl to lead you . Because the true statement is where , after every good man , there's a good woman . That's a true statement . The woman controls the narrative . They really do .
Speaker 1Let me set up an example . Okay , it might take a minute , but let me set this one up for y'all , all right . Let's just say a man go to work and his boss fussing with him . Hey , do this , tommy , do this , john , do that . And he been riding that man ass for a long time and today it just got out of hand and the man want to explode on his boss , but he know he going to lose his job . He need his money . He got to be a provider . That's what we good for to be a provider .
Speaker 1Right , when we go home , two things could happen that a woman controls the narrative . Check it out . The first one is the man walked through the door and he just started yakking I don't want to talk about nothing , I don't want to do this , I don't want to do that . You know he don't mean to take it out on you , but he got no one else to take it out on . But that's to say a woman would take this first road right and goes I ain't the one you should be mad about , I'm not the one that you mad at . You shouldn't be fussing with me . Fuck mad about it . I'm not the one that you mad at . You shouldn't be fussing with me . Fuck this , fuck that and guess what ? You just throw gas on the fire . You just throw gas . That shit going to explode for two or three days .
Speaker 1Okay , now let's take the other road right . He's come in the door . He's mad . His boss been riding his ass right and he comes in that damn door doing the same damn thing . Leave me alone . I don't want to talk . God dog it . I just had a rough day . Get away from me . Now , if you take the road of okay , I know this is not about me , I'm going to give him some time to breathe . I'm just going to make sure he all right . Let me go grab him a beer , sit in next to him , not try to say too much to him and wait till he calmed down . You know what a good man would do . He would once realize that I just yelled at my girl that did nothing . That did nothing for that . And guess what he's going to do next . If he's a good man , he's going to come to you and say I apologize , I shouldn't have snapped at you . I had a rough time at work . I , I'm sorry .
Speaker 1You see how you control the narratives . It's you the controller . You just got to learn how to . You got to learn how to control the shit , to get what you want out the whole relationship and , at the same time , you showing a man how to be the man to provide for you , because no man , sweetie , no man want to go out and work and slave for a woman that don't appreciate shit .
Speaker 1If a man don't feel good to go out and work , he ain't going to want to be a provider for you . Because , guess what ? You ain't worth it . Listen to me , you are not worth it . So you got to learn how to control this narrative for the greater good . Y'all and I mean bruh , all I'm saying is there's roles to take to make your life so , so easy . We got to stop thinking about dumb shit that don't control shit and only good shit that controls everything . And this podcast , this is what this is going to be about To change the human behavior of a person to make it benefit yourself . And I know it may be hard to understand now , but you will get it , you will . All right , let's do this , all right . All right , I'm out . Take care , god bless , all right .
Closing Thoughts and Music
Speaker 2They told you . Love's a fairy tale , a dream . You gotta chase A knight in shining armor riding in to save the day . The real love ain't no rescue , it ain't a perfect scene . It's finding someone solid , who don't make you fear unseen , tired of waiting on a wish , tired of hoping for a fix . Ain't nobody flawless , but someone's gotta fit the truth about it all . You don't need a hero , just someone who stands tall , someone who don't ghost when the rain starts to fall . Someone who stands tall , someone who don't ghost when the rain starts to fall , someone who shows up no fairytales at all . Stop dressing up your heart just to make somebody stay . If they can't meet your needs , then baby , walk away .
Speaker 2Love ain't about the magic , it's about the day to day . Who's gonna hold you up when the sky fades to gray ? Tired of waiting on a wish , tired of hoping for a fix ? Ain't nobody flawless , but someone's gotta fit the truth about it all . You don't need a hero , just someone who stands tall , someone who don't ghost when the rain starts to fall , someone who shows up . No fairy tales at all . No more castles built on sand , no more hands that let you slip . Find a love that don't demand but still gives you what you give the truth about it all . You don't need a hero , just someone who won't stop . Someone real , someone true , someone who chooses you . No fairy tales , just love . That follows through . Oh , oh , oh .