Perfect Fit Over Perfect Fantasy

The 80–20 rule becomes the compass: protect what works, stop punishing what doesn’t, and design for fit over fantasy. We pivot from chasing casual sex to choosing a partner with intention.

Transcript

Heat, Vibes, And A Real Talk Reset

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Hey everyone. Thank y'all for coming back. Man, it's been a sculpture of a summer this year. I hate to talk about timelines because I know this is a podcast and people could pick up and listen to this at any time. And I don't want to be talking about Christmas or Halloween or anything when somebody might be listening in May, you know? But I have to say, this summer in Louisiana has been a sculpture. It's been hot as hell. And now this is the first week of October, and fall is setting in. And you know, we got that little breeze now. And just things is just feeling better, just feeling good. Like I could breathe when I go outside. Like breathe and inhale fresh air, you know. And man, I know in Louisiana we should we get hot. We get in the hundreds. We got that high-ass humidity. It makes it make it feel like when it's 99, it makes it feel like it's 105, 106. Shit is hot. But I know some of y'all might saying, well, y'all should be used to that shit, man. You don't get used to shit like that. You just don't get used to that, okay? That shit there is just way on you every time. It's like taking a fucking body and putting it on top of you, and you try to walk with an extra person on you. That shit is exhausting. Really, it is. I know some of you out there, like, man, we ain't tuned in so we could talk about Louisiana weather. Man, get back to the podcast. Okay. All right, let's

MTV Fame, Language, And Keeping It Real

SPEAKER_00 1:34

do it. Now, see that after that MTV thing, man. Girls was coming like a dime a dozen. Oh, yeah, y'all. I'm gonna try to stop using the P word so much because got a fan mail that someone says they can't play it in the office. They have to listen to it, you know, with the ears plug because of the cursing and the foul language. So I did mark that little check mark at the bottom of the podcast saying explicit language, okay? I did, but I would try to clean some of it up, but it's just who I am, y'all. I'm sorry. And I want to give y'all the the genuine me and not a fake me, like some podcast that writes these scripts. And maybe I'll be more efficient if I write a script, but I don't think it'd be me. I think it'd be sounding like I'm reading. Like when I first started a podcast, I I try to, you know, write shit down and read for me, and everybody's like, man, it kind of sounds like you're reading. And I'm not trying to be that person, I just want to be me, y'all. So if I do drop that P word or the F word, that N-word, forgive me, I'm sorry. Maybe this ain't what you need to play in the

The Crash That Changed How I See Sex

SPEAKER_00 2:47

office, okay? All right. So, like I was saying, girls was coming like crazy during the MTV, but I started to trickle away from that, okay? Sex change on this one particular day for me. You know, before it was just having sex, getting sex. And I mean, you never really got nothing out of it. You really never, other than a nut. And it's getting so tiring that, you know, how much semen can one person fucking put out to be happy? And I started to question myself all about sex. I just started questioning myself, like, why is I think it's so goddamn good just to go and just have sex with random girls? I don't know. It just at the time I'm getting older and things are just feeling a little different, you know. And let me let me let me tell you today when I really think when this change started to happen. One day I was riding in my car, my 1984 or 89 Ford Taurus hashback. Yeah, I liked that car. It was alright. Oh, anyway, me and my people, my best friend at the time, I got to give him a name now because he plays a big part of my life at this point in time, like around my 20s and 30s. Me and him hung around a lot. I might have said another name about this guy in my last season. I don't remember what name. I don't want to go back and try to listen and see what name I did give him. So I'ma just call him Zach right now. And I know Zach is a white name, but he's black. But I'ma just I came up with Zach, okay? No reasoning, no reasoning at all. I just came up with Zach. I know Zach's a white name. I kind of like um say by the bell when I was younger, and then you know, Zach, okay? No reasoning. Anyway, I had this 1989 Ford Taurus, and me, Zach, and my favorite cousin was riding down veterans in Mettery, Louisiana. And man, and there she go, bruh. This girl was so fine. I I can remember her to this day. I never met her again, but she was walking down the street, okay? And you know she was fine from the front. I haven't even got to the back. All I can see is the front. But the way the front was built with those hips, you know the back had something serious to it. So my stupid ass, as I'm driving by, wanted to see the back of that ass, right? So I turned my whole head across my shoulder out the window to look at that ass. So by the time I turned back and I looked that was in front of me, bam, I hit the car in front of me, y'all. Yes, I did. My stupid ass by looking at some ass wound up wrecking my 1989 Ford Taurus hashback. Okay, no, that was the last time I ever drove that car because I danged it up pretty bad, okay? So I wound up taking that car and parking it somewhere. You know,

Kenny Key West Nights And Meeting Nicole

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the car ain't the story, okay. So later that night, we still went out. We went out to this place, and I'm gonna say the name Kenny Key West, okay? And Kenny was the happening club in Mettery. This part of Mettery we call Fat City. Fat City was basically brought up by Italians. I might have talked about that before, I don't know. Anyway, this club was the most happening club and even in New Orleans. Everybody was came to this club. I remember the owner telling me and a couple of my buddies that we was the first black guys that came in there. And I kind of feel like we created the atmosphere in that place. I feel like me and my buddies, when we started going partying, when we had left the teenage spots and started going to the adult spot, that was the first spot that we started to hang out at. You know, at first they were just having pool tournaments. That's it. Kennedy Key West was just having pool tournaments. Next thing you know, me and my people went in and we started using this place to party. The DJs, people follow. I'm not gonna tell you it was only success by us, but think about what I'm about to tell you. Only white people went there, and only by the time me and my people was there and gave it about two years, man, it was a mixed bar now. This club was mixed. They started charging money at the door. That's how hot it became. Like one of them New York spots with the velvet rope that they let you in. It never got like that, y'all. But you know what I mean. People was paying $20 to $30 to get in here. And guess what? I was getting in free. Therefore, I got in an accident earlier that day. We got dropped off at the club. And me and my boy, we were gonna go and let off some steam, drink, probably find some, some, some, something to smash, you know, looking for different girls to smash. And man, next thing you know, as I walked in, there was this one particular girl just looking at me. So I she didn't fit my standards, okay? You gotta realize that I started off with with with so-so looking. I'm looking for top tens. You know, I'm talking about I'm looking for ass, pretty, top tens, god damn it. And she was not a top 10 to me, and so I basically just passed her up. So friends of mine was like, hey, hey, hey, man, hey man, you see the girl looking at you, right? I'm saying, yeah, man, but come, I'm not gonna waste my time with that. And they go, Well, you know we need a ride home. And she might have a car. So, man, that might be in play later on, right? I say, Man, fuck that, dog. Uh I mean, let's just keep rolling. And so we walked around the club, we getting our beer, we having a good time. Man, I look over to the corner and she steady staring at me. And I'm like, man, this motherfucker, you know, she did have a little body on her. I I can remember she had this little cat suit on, like, it was like paw print cat, like like tiger, tiger printed. I mean, and and it was all in one. I mean, it showed her shape. So she had a nice shape on her, nice ass on her, but her face wasn't all there to me, you know, at the time. So I went on, me and my friends, it's getting late now. It's getting late. It's like 12, 1 in the morning now, you know, in New Orleans, goddammit. We'll party till the sun goes come up. The bars didn't close, okay? So most of the time when we left, the sun is coming up. But at this time, it's one, two in the morning. My my my Zach come back up to me and hey man, it's it's getting about that time. If you ain't find nobody, man, you gotta go fuck with your girl, man. Let's let's get home, man. Maybe, maybe the bitch got a call, man, to bring us home, man. Check it out. And I say, Yeah, I guess so. I guess so. So my stupid ass went over there and started talking, right? Hey, how you doing? What's your name? She said her name was Nicole. I said, Well, shit, nice to meet you, Nicole. My name's Ken. And man, we just sat down and we started talking, you know, and I was like, Can I get you a drink? She said, Yeah. So we walked to the bar. Long story short, my exercise,

Clinginess, Neighborhood Drama, And Using People

SPEAKER_00 10:40

she has a car. And she goes, Yeah, I have a car. I said, Look, if you don't mind, you know, I like to get to know you a little better. You know, if you could bring us home, because my car had just been in an accident. If you could bring her home and we we could set and spend some more time together. And she was like, Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I got my friend with me. And I would drop her off. I said, Well, I got my people. Can you leave your friend here and we'll come back and get them? Or you could come back and grab her later, you know, and because I got a couple of people with me that need to be dropped off too. But this whole thing is I'm trying to get to know you. So if we could just drop them off first, yada yada yada, then me and you could spend a little more time and come back and grab your friend. Then go and bring her home. When everything was a success, she agreed to it, right? Well, later on, we just started hanging out. She was pretty cool. Started hanging out. She had a call. It started me just using her to say, hey man, come grab me. I need to go get some cigarettes. And she used to come, leave her house, come by me, we'll go grab some cigarettes, we'll talk. You know, it talk about a week. I smashed, you know, I smashed it in about a week. You know, if smashing is inappropriate to some of y'all people, write me in the fan thing, okay? If smash is not something that I should be saying and I'm offending some of you, just let me know. If enough of you write and saying this offensive, hey, maybe I'll stop. Okay. So, yeah, so we just started, you know, we had sex and we just basically hung out. Things became what it was. I didn't have no OLED at the time, and she became so clingy on me that we were just just chilling, okay? So one day she comes over and there's a big commotion going on from where I was living at. And I didn't, I I really didn't know what was, you know, because she never told me nothing. Well, there was this guy across the street. He stayed over there with his brother, he had some cousins that used to come over. Real real at the time, good guys. I mean, I I never had a problem with him. Now, come to find out, one of the guys across the street used to be her boyfriend. And this guy went off just saying, you know, this guy, this guy, you know, he's talking about me, telling her that I have all these women that comes over to my house. Well, he just started spilling all the beans about me and trying to tell, you know, disminish me in a way so she could stop messing with me. Look, I didn't have a problem with them two talking. I don't care, but the idea of you trying to trash another man to boost yourself up, I I just always thought that was some hoa shit. So that's the only reason what I dislike the guy about. But, you know, that's a story for another time because we did start to dislike each other, and I started to get into it with his brothers, his cousin, you know, all because of this one girl. But at the time, shit, man, I was using her for my advantage at the time, right? So, like I say, she will go to the store for me. She'll come and let me use her car while she's at home for me and my buddies to ride around. You know, it took him a while before I could get another vehicle. So she was very helpful, so I kept her around, okay? Now, why is I'm telling y'all this, right? Why is I'm telling you all about me using this girl? And you remember what I was saying about how Pussy was just starting to get boring because I was getting so much of it? Well, it's a time now, I don't learn today that it got to be more than sex.

From Lust To Standards: Sex Needs Purpose

SPEAKER_00 14:40

It really does. You can't just lay around here and just want to go out and give someone some sex and think that they're gonna be appreciable. First of all, you use what you got to get what you need. You understand? But we're gonna talk about that, okay? We're gonna kick this off. Let's start this podcast because it's about time too, okay? All right, let's do it.

SPEAKER_01 15:04

They told you love the fairy tale. A dream you got to taste, and I got it on the ride, it ain't to save the taste.

Fort Myers Hooters: Anna’s Hard Lesson

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It's all a state, I remember when I moved to Fort Myers, Florida.

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Yeah, I did go there about five or six years. I'll tell you how I ended up there later, okay? But while I was living in Fort Myers, me and a group of people used to go up to the Hooters off a Tamiami Trail in Fort Myers. And we used to sit outside the board for sports event. You know, I was still a Saints fan, and they had Jacksonville and Miami, you know, just all different, you know, sports team. And the bartender there used to be so on point. Like she remembered, like you left a koozie, you know, one of them things that cover your beer up, the bottle beer up to keep it cooler. It's like a dress for a bottle of beer. And you zip it up and you just hold it. Well, we left that at the Hooters, okay? And when we sat down, the girl used to always just remember whose coolers belong to who. She was just that good. So one particular time, this one girl that worked at worked at Hooters, we talked all the time, she was so beautiful and so sexy, she was just, you know, a beautiful girl. She was from Brazil. And when I tell you that this girl needed to be one of the top models, like Tower Banks, she was beautiful, okay? One day she sat down and she was talking to me, and she said, What's up, Ken? And her little Latin accent, it was so sexy. She said, How you doing, Ken? And I'm like, Doing fine, Anna. That was her name. I'ma say it, Anna. And Anna told me, You see all these bitches in here? They don't like me. I'm like, What? What do you mean? You you such a nice girl, you know. She said, No, they don't like me because what I got. You see, look in the parking lot right now. You see that Mercedes Benz? That's my car. They know that I am having sex with the owner of Hooters, and knowing that they hate me for that because they're thinking that I only get what I get because of that. And Ken, let me tell you, they are right. You see them little bitches over there, they wind up fucking that person, that person, and getting nothing out of it. You lay around here and fuck all these guys, and you got nothing to show for it. See, Ken, when they don't realize that I got a house, I don't live in an apartment like they do. See, Ken, let me tell you something. My mama and my daddy is here, and my sister is here from I moved them from Brazil to here. I'm not gonna sit around and give my pee away, my Gushy away, for no apparent reason. And man, that story alone, like, what can you say? When you when if you sitting around there giving your hold to someone, and I'm talking about man's too, and they don't benefit at all by nothing. And look, I am not saying do what Anna did. I'm not saying give your stuff away for money. I'm not saying that. What I am generally telling you is to lay around here and give your shit away for no apparent reason does

Define Your Agenda And Your Fit

SPEAKER_00 19:30

not make no goddamn sense. And guys, you too. I know some of y'all saying, well, shit, can't she gonna give it to me? I'll just might as well just take it. Well, gonna take it. When I'm talking about when it's time to get serious, y'all at this point in time in your life, if you listen to this podcast, you probably done made that dumbass mistake a few times. I did. I mean, just fucking just to be fucking. We all did. But now it's a time that you want to go ahead and and and find that person that perfect fit. I mean, just to give your shit away, just to give it away, that shit got to stop. Now your shit got to work to your advantage. And I'm talking, like I say, guys, your dick too. Just to go fucking just to fuck. Come on, man, we done did that. Now it's time to put in the work. So you you whatever you want your life to be is what your dick need to be working for, or your pussy need to be working for. Okay? It's need to start working for the advantages for your what you whatever you want your life to be, that's what it should be. And that's what your shit should be working for at this point in time. And let me tell you, your shit is gonna be different than everybody else. Don't just because you got a girlfriend or a guy friend or whoever wants certain things for their life, that don't mean it's gonna work for yours. So look, I know that there's certain people that might say, oh man, you stupid, you're crazy. Why would you do this for a person? Well, they can't call you stupid and crazy because they don't know what your agenda are, right? So you gotta block all that, or maybe keep it to yourself until it works out to your advantage, right? Because one girl or one guy's opinion might not be the same as yours. It's not gonna make you happy. For example, let me give you something, okay? That just says, I met this girl for the first time and I liked her. She's funny, she laughing. Like, you know, I love a good sense of humor. That's me, y'all. I love that. I love someone that could take a joke and that could dish it out too, okay? So I find that person, okay? And then I've realized that she's in a situation that's not too good. She's living in a trailer park, got a mom, but no dad. You know, they barely holding on. Well, I go in and I start helping out a little bit with some groceries, paying some bills. That's quite okay. Because what I'm proning her for is something that's gonna benefit me later on. And whatever her needs are, think about what I'm saying. Whatever she her needs are, she's looking at me in the same way. Okay, so it's like a take and give. So I do all this stuff, and I love her attitude. I'm going out with my boy, she don't say nothing, baby. Have fun. That's what I want. Hey, I'm going on a trip with the fellas, and uh, I see you when I get back. I'll call you once I land. Okay, baby. That's maybe that's what I like, okay? I don't like all that foolishness. Every time I walk out the door, that that I got to hear some noise, where you been, and all that. I don't want that. So what I do, I see what the mama doing, the sister doing, because the way the sister treats her husband, it's a good idea how she's gonna treat me, right? And then her husband is gonna do any and everything he wants to do. Get to go in the backyard and and shoot guns and she raising the kids, okay? So I'm I'm I'm seeing all this and I'm calculating. Your mind got to work different, okay? So I'm calculating how she was gonna how she's gonna be, okay? So the whole thing is that I'm helping getting the family to love me too,

The 80–20 Rule For Relationships

SPEAKER_00 23:20

at the same time filling her out. So once, you know, zoom this in the in in in the future, she's everything I wanted. Now, there's gonna be some things that I'm not gonna like. There's gonna be some things that I'm gonna dislike with this girl, and I can't change it because a person is who they are, they're just who they are, right? So, but that's to say that's 20%, going back to that 80-20. But that 80, I love it. I'm a disregard. Fuck that 20. You know what I'm saying? So when somebody walks up to you like a friend and say, hey man, I mean, you only like your girl is because she lets you do anything. Duh. You fucking right, because that's what I like. You see what I'm saying? So she's my perfect fit because I get to go out and do what I want to do and without anybody looking bad at me. Because you know why? Maybe her family don't have treasury in it. Meaning, meaning maybe she never, you know, she got a sister that's been married 20 years, you know. She might have a brother that's been married 30 years. So that's just her idea of a family that once you together, you together. There's no breaking up and no divorces. That's just what I want. So when you come up to me like that's a fucking bad thing. And I'm talking about girls. Like a girl walked to me, walked up to me the other day and be like, You only with her because she's just so sweet and she just allows you to do anything. Duh, yeah. Yeah. Why? Because it fits me. Now, by her saying that, I know what her old man is going through. That nigga, that motherfucker can't walk out the door. I caught myself. That motherfucker can't walk out the door. Okay? While I heard question it. Well, that's not for me. He might love it. That's not for me. I want to be drama-free. You know what I'm saying? Now, let me tell you about a friend that is opposite of me. Okay. Well, this one friend growing up in a country area where he went through school, the teacher's telling him what to do. He went home to his mom, his mom is telling him what to do. He, after high school, he went to the military where sergeants and generals are telling him what to do. And so he had met this girl, and she followed him around in the military, wound up cheating on him. That's, you know, not the focus of the story. And they didn't get along and they clashes every time. So she wound up cheating, and the next girl that he met, I didn't understand. And see, this is the reason why I say it doesn't matter if another person on the outside don't understand. Well, the next girl that he met put a whole focus point on him. Meaning, you know, even trying to pick his friends out, and and after a while, my mind, like, dude, why is you with this girl that, you know, you like she didn't even like me talking to him so much. Like, why you talk to him so much? And and not just me, and I found out it was other people and other friends and everything, too. So I couldn't understand, like, ma'am, you know, but it wasn't meant for me to understand because the whole thing was that she was his best friend. That's what he was looking for. Think about what I'm saying is that everybody was telling him what to do. So why not find a girl that was just telling what to do? Because that's what he was just used to. Because, like I say, when he went to school, people told him what to do. So most some people felt like, well, damn, bruh, ain't you tired of people telling you what to do? But no, he wasn't. That girl focus point, he thought it was cute the way she was a little crazy for him, and he felt like being crazy for him and she going through all of this, she must really love him because maybe his past relationship, nobody cared about it, and he wanted to be secured. That's why maybe he went to the military. I don't know, but it works for him. They've been married for over 25, 27 years, I'm thinking, that they've been married. It fits each other. So what I mean is why people can't on the outside can't look in and say, man, you stupid, then you just can't. Because you got to find your perfect fit, okay? So nobody on the outside can say anything as long as you love in the situation, okay? So why go and have sex with people that don't fit you? Why are you giving up yourself and or going out to search and wasting your time for a nut on both sides? Why is you wasting your time? Because what you should be doing is going out looking for that person and before you lay down or have sex, put a lot of more energy into finding out if that's the one that I want to work with.

Don’t Punish The 20 Percent

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If that becomes that person, you find out his mistakes and you find out, you know, you got to do your research, your research, and you got to spend the time. And once you start getting to that point that, you know, that this might be the one, or you know, fuck, go ahead and have sex, okay? But that's not your main objective, is fucking and having sex at this point. You you gotta see what I'm saying. So things could be better because once that person, you find that person, the sex become a whole lot better just just having sex. And I know, I know. I said it way back then that somebody even told me that, oh, love is is better than just having sex, making love. Man, I would have kicked that person in the ass. But right now, what I'm telling you is once you find find your perfect fit, it is better. It's better. And let me tell you why I I call perfect fit. I could because I understand what some may say, well, ain't nothing perfect. Well, your fit is. Your fit is perfect, okay? Let me tell you why. If you could go and meet somebody and that 80 20, and that you found that 80, but you can't stand that 20. When you started thinking about the dumb shit in that 20 to have you thinking this mother or this Bitch, guess what? See they're gonna bring you back and have you smile and say, That's my baby, that's my honey, that's my sweetheart. Well, that's perfect. That's the perfect fit. Think about what I'm saying. Because once you learn your body that I can't change this 20, I don't wanna change this 20. Because if I go and change this 20, I might affect that 80. Because if that 20 becomes 50, well that 80 diminished too. We only got a we only going through 100% of someone, right? That's about the best you could get is 100%, is the best, right? Well, if you got that 80 and you start fucking with that 20, well, you're gonna take away from the 80. So then what you need to do, not listen. What you need to do is keep working on that 80 and disregard that 20. And when they do that 20, just smile and laugh and be like, you know what? You know what? I love the 80 so much, you know. Alright, I go ahead and I'll let you go with that little 20. Let it go. And build your mind and your brain up to let it go. Don't do not punish a person because of that 20%. Don't go around and diminish this person because of 50%, my damn dog. Like I say, you're gonna get the uncut of me. All right. I don't even know how to edit that shit out, so you're gonna hear that dog, okay? Anyway, well, let me give you a little example when I mean about punishing somebody because of that 20%. Just because that person does that 20%, you do not yell, scream, you don't diminish them, you don't say anything. You stupid this, you stupid that. You smile, you laugh, and you welcome that 20% in. Because that 20% ain't shit. That's what I mean, yo. I mean, I know some people, bro, they can't they got this temper, and once somebody makes a little mistake, they just lash out at them and and and say this the weirdest thing. You know what you're doing? You fucking up their confidence when you do that. Because they're gonna try so hard not to do the 20 that you're gonna fuck up the confidence of this person. And the one thing you wanna do is keep confidence up, keep a relationship going. So some of that shit that you might think that is so stupid, you better make it cute. Okay. Now in your head, you nobody can't control what the fuck you say in your head. You say what the fuck you want to say in your head, but outside in the real world to that person, you want to damn near reward that 20%. Yes, reward the mess up because once they feel comfortable for messing up with that 20%, it's become so funny, they come so laughable. You get more of the 80. You get more of that. That that stays alone, nobody touches that 80. And that's what we're here for, is that 80. All right. So stop it, people, stop it talking about my soul mates. Stop

Ditch Soulmate Myths, Choose Your Fit

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that, stop that. There's no such thing as a soulmate, okay? Find Jesus, let him be your soulmate. And speaking of a dog, a lot of us will go to these rescue places and find a dog. And that dog might have some anxiety issue. Some, you know, you know, something on wrong with that dog. But he still, you know, that may be only 20% of that dog problem. And you're still gonna do the 80% of the dog, right? You're gonna walk him, you're gonna feed him, you're gonna do everything else a regular dog may have, like you had it from a puppy, okay? And we would love that dog, rub that dog head, and do everything, rub his stomach, buy him toys. We would do any and everything, because we're gonna be understanding because maybe that dog would treat us so bad that, you know, that 20% that he does, we're gonna let that go. Well, if we could do that for an animal, we should be able to do that for people, y'all. You know, I don't want to say, like, you know, make this similarity to a dog with people. I'm not saying, but think about what I'm saying. A lot of us was go get these animals with these issues and give them a great home. A great home. So go out there and find some strays, meaning people, and let them in your home. And and when that 20% come out, throw them a bone. All serious though. Think about it. At this late time in our relationship, there are a lot of people hearts that been demolished, done been, you know, messed up because of someone else's negligence. Think about what I'm saying, okay? So that part might be a little messed up, but the other 80% might be right on point of your knees. It's just finding it and locating it, okay? So open your eyes. Stop stop looking for that attraction, that that that evil attraction. I'm gonna call it evil. And the next podcast is gonna be called attraction. Because we have to get away from that evil attraction and find that that that good attraction, okay? Alright, y'all. It's time for me to break on out of here on this episode, and I hope y'all come back for the next look um if they have anyone that wants me to tackle a subject or they confuse about anything and they don't understand why a person do them this way or say anything, I I would write you back or we would talk about it on the podcast if you would like, but we can always do stuff privately. We can, okay. Like I said in the beginning of my podcast journey, that I would like to sometime have seminars. I know things done change. See, I'm in my 50s now, and I know things change. A lot of things is done during Zoom and Skype and stuff like that.

Closing Thoughts And Listener Invitations

SPEAKER_00 36:30

Before we had to go out and do seminars and and get people to come, it's a lot easier these days. And one of these days I would like to have a seminar, the paid seminar. That's people I could work with people and you could hear other people's problems. I would love to do that one day. Uh uh, I'm trying to work on to that. So, but if you write me and and and I could get to you one-on-one, yes, I will. So, yeah, you better get this free help as I'm giving it to you now. And I'm gonna get it, it's free now. Maybe later on, if if my name gets too big, you might have to pay for it, okay? So, look, you better get this free help in that if you need it, you know this okay. All right, but I say y'all have a God blessed day and enjoy yourself and come back to the next podcast, all right? All right, let's take you out of here.

SPEAKER_01 37:30

They told you love's a fairy tale. A dream you got a chase, and died in shiny armor, riding in to save the day. But real love ain't no rescue, it ain't a perfect scene. It's finding someone solid who don't make you feel unseen. I don't wait and all the way, I don't hopin' for a fix. Ain't nobody followed, but someone's gonna fit. Just don't want to stand. Stop just to knock your heart, just to make somebody stay. Walk away. I don't wanna hold it for the body, someone's got it. No more hands on the still kids, do what's too good. That's too full. Little fairy tales just love that follows too.