love vs fit pt.1

I ask and explain the difference between love over fit

Transcript

Season Two Kickoff & Framing Question

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All right. Thank y'all for coming back for my season two of my podcast, The Truth About It All. Yeah. Okay, fellas. Calm down. All right. I know I got a lot of comments about y'all, you know, with the value of a woman. And look, when I say who rules the world, it's a question mark behind that. Maybe I should have put a question mark because I want y'all to answer this, okay? I wanted to say what's the women's work. Now, I did some research about the value of a man to a woman. Yeah, we know, we know some of it already. I understand, but I'm gonna list a couple of more. But there ain't a lot, fellas. Fellas, fellas, it's not a lot. We're gonna talk about

Post‑High School Story Begins

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that. Now, like I spoke before, you know, some people still want me to continue some parts of my journey. And I think I'm gonna start doing it maybe in the in the beginning, okay? Because a lot of people feel like there's still a lot of shit that I did that people should know. How I went ahead and I'm gonna say manipulate ways. The shit just got stronger, y'all. Like after high school, the shit just got stronger. It for different purposes. So throughout my life, me finding someone had to do with the time of my life of what I was going through. So yeah, yeah. A lot of the shit that I went after, it was over a purpose. Okay. It wasn't love like now. Like I I didn't give a fuck about love, y'all. So what I did was I went out for at the time what I needed. Okay. Now, straight out of high school, okay. I was me and a couple of friends, man, things just start to get a little wilder for me right after high school. High school was wild, but shit, this was a different level now. Like my mind is aging, and there's ain't too much sexual stuff I didn't do, but things were just getting a lot better, a lot more experience in sex, okay? So I remember this one day that right after high school, it might have been maybe five, six months after high school, where me and a couple of buddies was out partying. And this lady walked up to me, and I recognized her, but I couldn't put my finger on it. I done saw this woman somewhere, right? And this woman was from MTV. Her name was Tabitha Thorne. Back in the days, Tabitha Thorne used to do the news on MTV. Now, if y'all don't know the ish history of MTV, you're gonna have to go and search it. But MTV was one of the only ways we was getting music. I it didn't matter white, black. At the time, whatever was popping, it came through MTV. I know in some of the previous podcasts I mentioned about your MTV. Well, yo MTV was just the rap portion, but MTV, MTV was played the rap, the the heavy metal, the RB, whatever music pop, they did it all, and that's all we had at the time. Okay. So MTV was very, very popular.

MTV Encounter With Tabitha Soren

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Back to the story. Me and a couple of buddies was sitting and we were drinking, partying. I mean, man, blacks, whites, Spanish, Chinese. We were just having a great time, okay? This lady walked up to me and asked me, hey, I would like for y'all to be on TV. And it seemed like you're the leader. And I was like, a leader of what, ma'am? She was like, Look, my name is Tabitha Thorne. I work for MTV. I do a little production. We're doing a little thing in New Orleans called Kids Under the Guns in New Orleans. So, like I said before, I ain't gonna say shit to criminalize me or anybody else on this podcast. So during this time, I was thugging. Me and it kind of looked like it, or I just stuck up for the people that I love the most. Okay. If you call myself my friend, god damn it, I'll stick up for you. Okay. Did you have to pack weapons? You had to. You in New Orleans. Third world country. Remember, you had to be packing in New Orleans, no matter what group you affiliated with. It didn't matter if you affiliated with any. But if you was a part of something, you had to pack, y'all. It's just what it was, okay? So she gave me a business card and she said, Well, look, I want to take you out to eat, talk to you about it, because it seemed like you're the person to talk to. And when she was right, I was popular. Okay. So we did that. We went out to eat and we walked around. Well, she said, if you could get your guys together and you could do some certain things and show your guns, and if you could go and um and and show y'all part of y'all world that, you know, I appreciate it. I say, well, ma'am, you can't do shit to appreciate shit. Appreciation don't

Filming Guns, Parties, And Payment

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don't feed nothing around here. She said, well, what can I do? And I say, well, $1,500. Well, $1,500 I ain't got to tell everyone that was born, that was getting raised in the 90s. That was a lot of money back then, right? She agreed that she only paid me the $1,500. I told nobody. I know how dirty and devious that was, but I told nobody about the $1,500. Okay. So this lady went around maybe for weeks. Well, we wasn't the only one that she followed. There was other people in New Orleans, Gangs, and they they was on the show too. Well, they follow us around with a camera crew for like a whole week. You know, all we did was party, had a great time. They did like individual interviews with different people of the party, the group. We all had fun. I remember one time Tabata Thorne herself got drunk at one of our parties. Okay. So she did go around, like I say, with the other groups and individuals had, you know, interviews about why you have to pack a gun, why, you know, and people's like you live in New Orleans, you know, that that shit. Anyway, some some way, somehow, she took a liking to me. Not that way, y'all. I mean, like, she had me do more stuff after that. Meaning that it could be because of the 1500. While I'm thinking about it, that's why she asked me to do more. But I also went to Walmart. And back in the days, Walmart used to sell guns, shotguns, handguns. You know, they still sell bullets, but they used to sell, you know, guns, like double-barrel shotguns and and and pistols. Well, I went into Walmart and they videotaped it. They had like a broach camera and a suitcase camera, and they they kind of videoed me going into Walmart buying a gun. Now, they took the gun and turned it into the police before they left. So no, I didn't, I wasn't able to keep it, okay? But some people say that after that show aired on

Walmart Gun Buy And Aftermath

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MTV, I was one of the reasons why Walmart stopped selling handguns and shotguns at the store. I don't know how true that is, but they were saying because of the exposure and how easy it was for me to go in and just buy one, they were saying that me and MTV at the time was the reason why Walmart stopped. I don't, like I say, I don't know how true that is, okay? But anyway. And what's funny was I went to a funeral. Well, not the funeral wasn't funny, but I ran into a friend of mine's that I ain't seen in a while, and he started to tell me the story about how he was up one night watching TV out of town, and he saw the program came on. Now, I YouTube, I try to search YouTube, Google it. I can't, I don't see nothing that I could find. I used to have the VCR tape of it, but I don't know what happened to it. A lot of other friends that was on there too say that they couldn't find it either. So I don't know. But the reason why I was telling you that story, because that would happen to me after high school. Once that thing aired, when I tell you, once that thing aired, pussy everywhere. When I mean once they saw me on TV for a while, I didn't have to go and manipulate anyone for sex. I was that guy that was on MTV. Pussy came a dime a dozen. It just was flowing like water. If I wanted it, I got it. The word got out that I was on MTV, things just started just just

Airing Impact And Sudden Local Fame

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coming easy to me. Okay. So I didn't have to manipulate after a while. My image alone by itself started getting me pussy. And so I don't have a story about me manipulating at this time because maybe I rode that wagon maybe for almost a year and a half. That wagon, that MTV wagon, because look, it just wasn't that show. I also did other little programs. Let me just tell you, Tabitha Thorne really took a liking to me and thought I was funny too. Well, she wanted me to go to New York and try to chase a career. And I'm gonna be honest, I'm gonna be honest, y'all. I ain't never left and went nowhere. I never left New Orleans. It's all I knew. I I watched shit about New York on TV, but I was scared. I was scared to leave my comfort zone. I wish I would have left and seen other shit. I wish I would have left and see what would have happened if I would have chased this type of career. Meaning acting or maybe try to be a comedian like Bill Bellamy at the time, you know. But I never left because I was too afraid. I'm just saying, you heard it out of my mouth. I was too afraid to leave. That's why I didn't go nowhere. Anyway, I just thought that that was an interesting story that I could tell. I'm gonna tell more. Now, back to the podcast. Okay, fellas, let's address it, okay? The value. All right, let's do it.

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They told you love the fairy tale, a dream you gotta chase, a die that you got it on the ride in to save the day. It's fine if someone's all it'll make you feel.

Turning Down New York Opportunities

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It looked like a man value percentage done dropped. See, I'm from the old school, y'all, where a man's value was high. Like a man was a dependent, a man was the breadwinner, okay? Man, I even try to Google it, okay? The value of a man to a woman. And bruh, look what's look what it was saying. While it's true that a good partner can bring a lot to a relationship, it is important to remember that a woman's work isn't defined by whether or not she has a man in her life. She's a whole person of her own with her own strength and capabilities. Goddamn. I mean, yo, back in my days, you know, yes, it was true when you had a good woman that was a good man,

Pivot Back To Today’s Topic

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but at the same time, when you found that good man, you needed him. You needed him to bring shit to the table. You needed him for more than just money, you know, companionship, you know, your significant other, the one holds your hand, the man calls you boo. You say my bae. See, back in my days, we used to have shirts. I belonged to him with a hand pointing to the woman, and she say, I belong to him, and she belonged to me. We used to have this shit where

Has A Man’s Value Dropped

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we go put our names on the shirt, you know. We go get this shirt made up and he's my man. We get tattoos with our man and woman name on us. Man, shit done change a real lot. So, did romance change? Is this fucking up the romance? So wait, wait, wait, wait. Fuck Google. I'm gonna go to Chad GBT, right? I say, fuck it. Let me put in the value of a man with uh AI, okay? Man, look what I got back. I think a lot of people see a man value as being high because of traditional gender roles. Where man's was often the primary braid winner and protector. But it is important to remember that everyone's value is unique and comes from their individual quality, regardless of gender. What the fuck? Right? Now, ladies, are you listening? I'm I'm I'm about to tell you something, okay? Let me tell you why it's so hard these days for y'all to find someone. Because the devalue of a man done failed. Because we haven't changed. Think about what I'm saying. We have not changed. The same shit that made a man a thousand years ago still makes the man today. You understand what I'm saying? The same gene that we had back then is still there. The problem is that the devalue of a man is fucking up the relationships now. There's no clean cut precision on what you need to do and the role you need to play in a fucking relationship. The shit done fucking change, okay? And I know some of you is saying, Ro, wait, wait, wait, I gotta put an apron on, I gotta put house slippers on, I got to have babies and do everything like that. I ain't say that. But you need to fucking think about what I'm saying right now, okay? The value of a man never changed from day one. From the K-Mans, we have not changed, okay? So there's certain things that still have to be done. The man's ego has still got to be stroked. Well, why should our babysitter man ego? I get it. I get it. But remember why we're here, okay? Now, you're saying, well, why are you focusing on just women? Well, because like I said, women control man's egos. Women control man's emotions.

Tradition, Roles, And AI Answers

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Women is y'all. It's you. Okay. Okay, okay. The ones that's saying, look, I ain't doing it, I ain't gotta do it, baby. This ain't for you then. Okay? Stay having fucked up ass relationships. But what you need to do is stop asking yourself why you keep having the fucked up ass relationships. Why I can't find a good man. You need to stop asking that and go find a fucking mirror and look in it, okay? Because right now you're missing the dynamics, okay? Oh, so if you one of those strong, liberal, you know, whatever kind of woman that feels like, you know, I'm not gonna bow down to a man or whatever, baby, that's the reason, okay? Is it fair that you have to? No. Is it fair that y'all should be able to carry your emotion plus our emotions to make us happy? No, it's not fair. We all know the world ain't fair. We know that. But at the same time, men have not changed. Women changed. I remember the times. Well, I don't remember, but I know there was times that women couldn't vote, women, you know, made less money. I understand. Women have involved, okay, but men stayed the same. Y'all involved, but we stayed the same. The only problem is now is that, you know, when you see people that been together 50, 30 years, that was born in the 40s and 50s, the one particular thing that that man had, that that that couple had was that man felt like a man. That's it. That shit never changes. I'm sorry. Now, this is where the human behavior part comes in because you got to change the way you think. You got to change the way you move. You got to change shit inside your mind, your brain, that you have a happy relationship. The motherfucker ain't gonna be perfect. Okay. I'm not just talking about men. I'm talking about men finding women too. The shit not gonna be perfect, you know. Should you follow an 80-20 rule? Maybe, because that's one of the best fucking rules ever, because you're never gonna get it all. And sometimes I feel like we all chases the perfect motherfucker. Ain't no perfect in none of this shit. Ain't nobody gonna be a hundred percent. But they're all gonna be something that you could grab from a person and grow on grow with. And they're gonna be the ones that's that that that you like. I can't stand when this motherfucker do this. Like, for example, I can't stand the way he or

Devaluation And Relationship Friction

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she eats. I can't stand the way he and she walks. I can't stand the way he and she sleep. That's okay. Say all that shit in your head, but at the same time, when you're saying it in your head, you have a smile on your face, like, baby, you are the best in the world. That's how that shit's supposed to go. You see, what gets people in trouble is the aggravation. Motherfucker, you so selfish that when they do something that you don't like, it irks your nerves, right? Instead of you focusing and irking your nerves, focus on smiling, showing them you love them. And yeah, in your head, you can't stand this motherfucker the way he does it, right? But I sure love the way he do this or she does that. That's okay. You have to find your inner channel and leave that shit, that aggravation, it'll kill a whole fucking relationship. And the reason why aggravation would kill a relationship, because that motherfucker that's being aggravated, that's a selfish motherfucker right now. He or she, they selfish. And the reason you shouldn't act like that, meaning selfish, is because you don't know what your mate put up that you do. I remember I'm dating a girl for a while, and this motherfucker stayed biting her nails, biting her nails. I used to ask her, you hungry, sweetie? No, I knew she wasn't hungry. I was just playing stupid to see what her, what she say to me. And she would say, Oh, it's just a nervous tick. I do that when I'm nervous. I'd say, babe, do I make you nervous? I don't want to make you nervous, right? So I had to switch it. Instead of it being it aggravating the shit out of me, irking my last fucking nerve, I went into it like something totally different. I went into it like a Karen instead of, bitch, stop that shit. Why the fuck you doing that? Why? See, the way you act, the other person, you teaching the other person to act the same fucking way. You are molding the fucking relationship. Listen to what I'm saying. All I did was tell her and say, babe, I like your nails. Sweetie, you you have some beautiful nails, and I definitely don't want you bleeding on your fingertips. I mean, baby, don't don't eat something that's so precious. I just like your nails. And and she took that initiative so strong that she stopped biting her nails because she wanted to approve that. Well, if he likes it, I better stop doing it. Now, you could have go the other way. You can go the other way if you won't. It ain't gonna work, y'all. It's just not. On another story. I got a friend of mine. I ain't gonna say his name. If he listens to this podcast, what she does do, he's gonna know who it is.

Managing Ego And Public Respect

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But anyway, he was married for 16 years. But before they was married, and you know, they were just girlfriends and boyfriends, she was a sweet girl. I mean, I ain't know much about her, but she was nice when I was around her. Okay. So let's go forward five years. Well, his favorite thing is to like to play video poker machines. If people don't know what video poker machines are, you put money in it and you and you and you play cards, all different types of games to win money. So we call them video poker, they everywhere in Louisiana. Anyway, well, he used to love to play it. He also used to love to drink daggers, he used to go just set in a dagger shop on a Sunday, watch football. He could be there all day, okay? All right, they separated. I'm not gonna go into why they separated, that's gonna be on another season. But they separated. You're gonna hear this friend, and if he gave him permission to use. His name, I would love to. I'ma at this time I'ma make up a name for him, but you know, not right now. Anyway. Well, after they got divorced, I saw her and she was like, Hey Ken, how you been? How you doing? I say, I'm fine. And guess what she was at? She was at a video poker machine playing. Next thing you know, what you think she was sipping on? A daiquiri. So that became a part of her because she learned that from him. And the only reason I'm telling you the story is because someone's gonna mold this relationship. Somebody is. It could be the man or the woman, but someone is gonna mold it. But the thing of it is, is that the first one that keep things peacefully, smiling, laughing, is basically teaching the other to do the same. Excuse me, y'all, for my phone ringing. I forgot to shut it down. No. What I'm saying is, yo, somebody has to be the leader in a relationship. Somebody has to be the motor. Somebody is gonna have to be the strong one. And guess what? It don't just have to be a man. Sometimes women run shit better. Man's we just got to say it. Sometimes women can run the house better. But let me just tell you the difference, okay? Remember what I said. We still a man, no matter. I don't care the goddamn any situation you put us in. Our DNA don't change. For example, ladies, we let you run the house. We get it. We let you have the word and we just follow along at home. Get it. But when we get out in these streets, you cannot be more powerful than your man. You just can't do it. You cannot get away just telling him and talk to him any type of way with his friends around.

Aggravation, Kindness, And Influence

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You're gonna get in a heap of trouble with that one, okay? So we gotta know that you still have to treat him like he the man out there. Now, when you're at home, I get it. You do what you want behind closed doors. But if he's around his friends, he the king, goddammit. And look, I hate for that the way it sounds. Because I'm far from what you think that a man, a man rules the world over a girl. I I'm far from that. But during the DNA of a man that don't change, you cannot make us look bad in front of our people. Let me just take that. You can't make us look bad in front of nobody. So if you want a happy relationship, remember what I say, women, y'all control our emotions. If you don't know how to stroke the ego, especially in front of other men's, it ain't gonna work. I'm sorry. Listen, ladies, I know. Let me understand. Let me try to explain something a little better. I know what I'm saying is kind of sound like you gotta let the man rule over me. No, no. Listen what I'm saying. By me telling you it's a man DNA, he's in competition with another man. The next every man that walks down that street and they got a girl with him, believe me when I tell you he's in competition with that guy. Do they know each other? Hell no. But man don't need to know each other. It's the DNA. And if that man, your man, show weakness to you, bow down, put one knee down to you, he just made himself a prey. They got predators out here that want to fuck over each other. But see, what I'm trying to tell you is once your man show that weakness, even to you, he becomes a prey. The other man's gonna eat his ass up. So you know what? He can't show that. Not like that. And guess what? Once his ego is shot to debt, you might as well throw his ass away because he ain't no good to you or nobody else. You understand what I'm trying to say? Let me try to get a little more deeper in this. Now, if you don't let go of yourself to open up to make somebody else better, like your man, baby, if all you doing is approving the both of you. You understand what I'm saying? Think about what I'm saying. If all you doing really is opening up a better relationship for the both of you. And if you do something long enough, listen what I'm saying. If you do something long enough, it becomes reality. Even if you do something, pretend I'm gonna act like this, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna stop smoking, I'm gonna stop drinking. If you do anything long enough, it becomes what it is. It becomes a

How Partners Mold Each Other

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part of you as long as you do it long enough. Now, the reputation with these women that have money, okay? Why it's so hard for them to get into the relationships and keep a strong relationship is because what comes along with money. Not saying every woman that makes money is a is is is got cocky attitudes. What I'm trying, you know what? Let's let's take Kim Kardashian. Let's use her for example. Kim Kardashian. Beautiful, beautiful, curvy woman. Okay. I understand. Take away the sex tape. She had the sex tape, I get it. The sex tape, the one that really blew up. I get it. That's not what man really cared about. Because if you think about that, that she had Reggie Bush, Kanye, she had that bodyguard, I mean, three or four more. Nobody gives a fuck about that tape or what she was doing with Ray J on that tape. People were still giving her that chance because most men, once you put yourself out there like that, it's hard. Well, Kim didn't have that problem because us guys, we don't give a shit about it. Guess what we do give a fuck about? The way you treat us. How the way you make us feel. That's how we, that's what we care about. We don't care about what happened on that goddamn sex tape. That between you and Ray J, yeah, the world saw it. I don't give a damn. I'ma still kiss you. I'm still gonna hold your hand. I'ma still gonna have kids with you. We don't give a damn about that. It's the way you treat us. Kim got money, yo. Reggie and all of them didn't leave her because of that tape. They left her because of her attitude. Because she got money. I don't know Kim. I don't know her. But if I have

Leader, Motor, And Household Dynamics

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to put all my money into why her shit does not work, it's because of her cocky ass attitude, her shit don't stink attitude. You gonna do what I what I say you're gonna do. When the man, DNA, says, Kim, I need you to cook me an egg. Kim says I ain't cooking you a goddamn thing. Like, like I say, I don't know her. I'm just saying, I could imagine what's the problem is because anything else with Kim on that outside, nobody letting her go. She she's a motherfucking prize. Throw the money away. Just her looks alone is a prize. Okay. It got to be something else, people. It got to and guess what? Kim is not gonna be happy until she let go some shit and realized what she needs to do to keep a person. And I know, I know, I know you got money. I get it. I know you don't need a man. Okay. That's why you try so many times to go get you one. We don't want to hear that shit no more. Everybody wants somebody to lay next to. Everybody wants somebody that they could call their own. Everybody wants somebody that that works with them. Okay? And until we get true reality and true facts, you're not gonna have that until you change yourself. And now I'm talking to the guys too. Yeah, we could be a little cocky, I get it. I we wanna be a little more demanding, I get it. You know, at the same time, yeah, you gotta blame for flowers home. Sometimes you got to make sure that you appreciate her to get what you want. You understand what I'm saying? Look, ladies, I'm sorry, it does start with you. It starts with you. You gotta do everything. And man, and when she doing that, you got to recognize that she's doing it. And you got to make sure you tell her good job. Not just bringing in a bed, dick her down, and say, girl, I gave that to you. Nah, nah, man, come on. I'm

Public Respect Versus Private Power

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not saying that's good, not good. What I'm saying is you got to do other shit to let her appreciate what she does to make you feel good enough to go your ass to work to pay them goddamn bills. Okay? So that's all I'm saying is that we have to open up and realize what we're doing, and we have to learn the dynamic of man and woman. Okay? And let me explain this again, okay, to you ladies. The only reason it lays more on y'all's shoulder because y'all stronger. You know the little thing that women mature faster than guys? It's the truth. Okay? So even if you dating someone your age, he's a less mature than you are. Okay? In most cases, this is the truth. So what you need to do is basically build that foundation for him, and when you do that, both of you will benefit from it. That's all. Nobody's a fool, nobody's calling you stupid. And if they are calling you stupid, they probably ain't got a man or they on the verge of losing theirs. And if you ask me why it's got to be like this, I don't know. I don't know why God created Earth to go counterclockwise on the axle. All I know is I play the hand I'm dealt. I don't know a lot about why the water evaporates in the sky and then it turns into rain. I don't know. But I do know this. When you comply to the rules, shit normally go right. Nobody gets hurt. That's why when you go into these plants and into the stores and they got all these rules, the rules are set there for safety-wise. To keep you safe from getting hurt. This is all I'm saying. These are just the rules. I don't know why. I figured it out and I played the hand I was dealt and I say, wow, this shit works. And now I'm taking this information and passing it down to you. It's just the rules. That's it. So before I get out of here, let me leave you with this. Okay, ladies? Let

Competition, Prey, And Male Identity

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me just leave you with this. You are the heart and soul of a relationship. If you ain't shit, your man ain't gonna be shit. You need to stop crying up because some guy didn't call you back or he didn't look your way or he didn't show up to pick you up on your date. You are worked way more than that, and you are the heartbeat of the relationship. You controls from the very first time you meet a person how that shit is gonna go for the rest of your life. On that very first day, it's the start of it. You don't know if you're gonna see him again or not. But on that very first day that you meet a person, we already looking at what we could get away with. We already want looking at on how you're gonna react to this relationship. If you ask two gun hoes, we got you. If you sit there and you call us five or six times and we don't even call you back, we got you. We just got you. If we sit there and we ask your friend, well, how my girl been, and she says she's been crying over you every night, we got you. And if we got y'all, run away from the relationship is never gonna work because you don't lost your power. You don't lost the way to manipulate the relationship. You lost it because you done gave it all to him. And the relationship is not gonna work after that. It may seem like it will, but as time goes on, a year, two, three, it's just gonna dissipate because you done gave the wrong power to the wrong person. You supposed to have that. That man can't handle that much power. We're not built for it. Our DNA ain't strong enough for that. That's why it's up to you guys to have it. Because if we think we got it, it's just not gonna work because we just cannot handle it. It only could be handled by a woman. Come on, fellas. I know y'all won't agree, but that's okay. Until you let loose and realize what it is to make a relationship work, you're not into one. Stop wasting your time, okay? All

Practice, Habits, And Lasting Change

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right, y'all. Thank y'all for listening. Come back again for the next episode. I think the next episode is gonna be my episode. I'm gonna call No 5050. You're gonna, I'm I'm gonna tell you. I think y'all already know, but I I I'll explain some more later. Look, y'all have fun, God bless, okay? Come back.

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They told you love's a fairy tale, a dream you gotta chase, and died and shot it on the ride in to save the day. But real love ain't no rescue, it ain't a perfect scene. It's fine if someone's falling. I don't wait, oh wait, I don't hold this for a stick, ain't nobody falling, someone's got a stick.