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Dating in the Modern Age: Connection, Effort, and Mutual Respect
Ever wondered why some women seem drawn to bad boys while others cherish the good guys? This week on the DK and Tree podcast, we stir the pot with a lively debate on relationship preferences, sharing Tree's unforgettable experience with a prison pen pal and examining the often puzzling allure of toxic relationships. From the challenges of understanding why people stay in such relationships to exploring the dynamics of self-esteem and control, we offer insights and personal stories that will make you question what drives our romantic choices.
Spotting a "hobosexual" and navigating the fine line between good sexual chemistry and stability take center stage next. We dish out practical advice on recognizing red flags, like someone suddenly moving in with their PlayStation, and share our own tales of balancing intimacy with financial responsibility. Angela and Christina go head-to-head, debating whether exceptional bedroom skills can ever outweigh the need for a partner with ambition and stability, all while keeping the discussion light-hearted and full of laughter.
Lastly, we tackle unconventional dating dilemmas with humor and candor, from the merits of dating strippers and drug dealers to the moral compromises some might consider for the sake of survival. Our conversation spans modern dating dynamics, the decline of traditional gestures, and the ever-important need for mutual effort and genuine connection. Wrapping up with a nod to our commitment to respectful dialogue, we urge our listeners to join the conversation and share their thoughts on future topics, promising an engaging and supportive community space free from political and religious debates.
The Power of the Power, of the Power of the. Look who it is on a Wednesday, look who it is. Well, if you're where I am, you got a whole bunch of drizzle, but if you're where Tree is, she probably got a whole bunch of sunshine. But hey, it's your dynamic duo back on the screen again at the DK and Tree podcast. Tree over there, dk over here, good evening, good evening. Good evening, how you doing today.
TREE:I am good FYI, we're going to make Wednesday nights our permanent broadcast night. We're going to try anyway. That's the goal right?
DK:Yep, it's Wednesday nights, wednesday nights, and if you're tuning in, do us a favor, share this to your page. Share the link to your page. If you're coming on Facebook, hit the share button. Share it out to your page. That way it goes across your page. We get more engagement. We get more everybody in. We want to get as much people in as possible because, hey, we love hearing your opinions. Even though we hear our opinions, we love to hear yours also, right? So our topic for tonight, our spicy, spicy topic.
DK:Now, this is a twofold question. So, women, do you prefer good guys or bad guys? And guys? Twofold question. So, women, do you prefer good guys or bad guys? And guys, do you prefer good women or bad women? What we mean by that is like, hey, do you prefer a guy? That's hey, he got the stuff together. Or you got the guy like hey, look, I'm a bad boy, I'm this, I'm that. Or and it's vice versa, guys, do you like the good woman? Hey, she got everything going on together. Or do you like the bad woman? Like, hey, I like a little rough around the edges. You know, I'm good with that, me, me. That bad air is all over for me. It's all over for me. I can't have anybody bad around me. A little rough around the edges. Nah, I'm good, I'm good.
TREE:You don't like the project chicks.
DK:Oh my God, no, wait, wait. Let me say this, let me say this Just because they're from the project doesn't mean they're a bad, bad person. But what I mean as far as, like the toxicity, you know the hey. Oh, I'm gonna break your windows, I'm gonna flatten your tires, I'm gonna jump out the bushes on you. Nah, I'm good, I'm good. Or wait, wait, wait, here's a big one. Or could you do a pen pal thing and start dating someone that's behind bars?
TREE:I actually had a prison pen pal.
DK:Okay, okay.
TREE:This was a long time ago, long long my 20s I had a prison pen Only because I had a homegirl who was dating a prisoner and I used to go up there with her, and so, instead of waiting for her to finish visiting him, she was like okay, he got friends, you can come up here and we can visit together. I was like, okay, cool, me and Matt kept contact for a long time until he got out of prison and contacted me and was like, okay, cool, me and Matt kept contact for a long time until he got out of prison and contacted me and was like I'm out. I'm like, okay, congratulations.
DK:Yeah right, hey, remember me, I had triple double life. I'm out now. I'm like wait what?
TREE:I was just doing something. I'm out now. Wait what? I was just doing something. I wasn't trying to make no love connection out of it. I was just keeping company with my homegirl at the moment.
DK:Right, okay, again, we all grew up, we all went through phases. What I've learned is that the toxicity just doesn't match me at all, because when you, when you, of course, when you're dating and you're going through, and you know, you see, and and this is the thing I harp on the most is like I see a lot of these women out here and they be having these guys, and I'm like, okay, why are you doing everything and this guy's doing nothing? I mean, he takes you to work in your car, right. He drives your car around all day long, right. He does not provide any substance to you other than some yin-yang, that's it. That's the only substance. He's not contributing to bills, he's not doing anything.
DK:But I see a lot of people out here just dating these guys and I'm like, what is it about this guy that has you so mesmerized that, hey, I'm going to take care of this guy? It baffles me. I've been trying to get answers on this. I ask what is it? What is it? This is what I've heard. He wasn't that bad when I first met him. What do you mean this bad? When you first met him? Well, you know, I felt as though, you know, I could have had some substance in his life, I could have helped turn his life around. I could have changed him. And all of it in my head was saying oh you, you went, that's all it is. You whipped, he threw that thing on you and now you just can't get rid of it.
TREE:And I'm like I'm a loss for words. So do you think it happens from the jump or do it happen during the course of the relationship? It happened during the course of the relationship. Like, do you honestly think that women meet men at the beginning and allow them to be nothing type of men to them or bad boys? So, for instance, say I meet a guy and we start dating. He doesn't work, he doesn't have a car, he's living with me. So do you think we accept that from the jump or do we? Is it like a self-esteem thing, or are we desperate or what do you think it is? Hello, hey y'all, welcome in.
TREE:Right, absolutely hello hey, y'all, welcome in right, absolutely. Do you think it's a desperate situation, or you? Or do you think that you know we, we want a man so bad to where we'll put up with anything? As far as you know, you just coming with the penis and that that's all you got to come with penis, don't pay bills it doesn't.
DK:But see, this is what I've learned, remy. Hey, what's happening? Welcome in. This is what I've learned. This is what I've learned People, you know, it's like Angela said self-esteem in the D. But you have to understand something People are very good at their craft, especially when you have time to sit down.
DK:Now, if a guy comes along and he just keeps nipping at you and nipping at you, and nipping at you and nipping at you, eventually it's going to break you down, especially if you're not in a good spot or a good light at that time in your life. And if they keep nipping at you and giving you something that you want, giving you that attention, giving you what you've been craving for, then we get sucked in. And it's a twofold. Because if women can prey on a man and start nipping at someone and nipping at someone oh, oh, oh, he's starting to give me a little bit more play, oh, she's starting to give me a little bit more play, okay, now I see what the weakness is Then they start breaking it down. Well, hey, well, how did you? Hey, what's wrong? Hey, what's this? And they're listening to you and you just get sucked in and again.
DK:And then, once you get sucked in and then the actual intercourse actually happens. This is like, oh my God, I love you. I'm not saying it's always that extreme or that bad, but it happens. It all starts up. They start finding out where they can break you down at, and it's a twofold. It's like, okay, I'm going to break you down here, I can start speaking to you. Let me get a little bit closer to you. Oh, she allowed me to touch her hand. She didn't pull my hand away, so it's time. And then, once they done, broke you down and then gotten to you, then you sucked in.
TREE:Well, I'm going to speak on what Angela just said. I'm not going to lie. When I was younger I accepted a way like I look back on some of the stuff I put up with in my 20s and my 30s. Now that I'm in my 40s, I would never put up with half like she just said. I would never put up with half like men living with me and they driving my car, and I've dealt with that. You know what I'm saying. I didn't require a man to have much, but to love me and respect me, of course. But now you got to come with a little more than just loving me, but now you got to come with a little more than just loving me. We got to, you know, you got to have what I equally have. So but I just feel like it's a self-esteem thing and you know we, we put up with a lot just to say we have a man or a woman, and I've been there so I can speak on it. So never.
DK:And, like I said it's, it's like I said, it's a time process. It's not something that works overnight because, again, just like Angela said, with the self-esteem, if your self-esteem is low and someone's giving you something that you don't have, you're going to say, hey, hey, I may give this a shot, I may give this a chance Against, sometimes, your better judgment, and it happens. But, like I said, it's a two-way street, because women can do that to a man also, because women can say, hey, listen, the man could be down on his luck this and that. And then she comes right in there and she's giving you something that you did not have, and then you think it's lifting you up and it's false hope. And then she done, sucked you in and got you.
TREE:And I also think that a lot of people prey on heavier set women and heavier set men. They feel like a woman that's a bigger size will put up with anything because she's a big old girl or he's a big old guy. So a lot of it. You know, like with me when I was heavier, I felt like a lot of men expected me to put up with a lot because I was a heavier girl.
TREE:So yeah, but you know, I mean, I don't know, you just have a lot of people preying on each other. Yes, so you have to have your self. Your self-esteem has to be there and the key word into self-esteem is yourself. It has to be upon yourself to allow somebody to come in and treat you any kind of way.
TREE:Yeah, absolutely, as women you know, no man should be in your. No man or woman should be in each other. I feel like it should be an equal. We should be equally helping each other out. I should never lay up in your house and not contribute in anything. You should never come to my house and not contribute with anything. We both should be contributing into this relationship.
DK:Right, yeah, and listen. Let me go back to this comment. She said when you look at it from now, mature eyes, it was never love, it was wanting someone and falling in love with the potential. And that's what it is. Because, again, it's the false hope that's coming along with, like, hey, I can get this person. Hey, I'm beating and breaking this person down Point, case point, case point, case point case. Let's go to someone that works in a prison system. Right, and you got female correctional officers.
DK:And it happened up in Baltimore. I'm explaining the situation. It was a guy up there and he had multiple women. I mean, the guy was like running the jail, multiple women and he just charmed them, gave them false hope. Hey, look, I got you. Hey, I'll take care of this, I'll make this phone call. He got caught. Let me tell you why. Because two other correctional officers got the bickering. But here's the thing they were both pregnant, bob. And let me tell you what they were bickering over A car, a car, I think it was a Lexus, or something like that.
DK:Oh, I want the Lexus. So he told the other girl look, give her the Lexus, I'll get you another car. But what I'm saying is that he got so much time to perfect his craft, so now he's talking to him finding out what's wrong. Finding out, oh okay, well, hey, guess what? I can take care of you, don't worry about it, I got you. I got you. Now, this man behind bars. This man is behind bars, but he had plenty of time to perfect this crap and he had all these correctional officers pregnant. Big story, that was on the news, big story, and I think it was even on for my man.
TREE:Yeah, that was on for my man too.
DK:The thing with this is that he preyed on them because he found out they was having problems, because he had plenty of time to talk to them. He found out they was having relationship problems at home with their dudes. He found out all this. He broke them down.
TREE:Like the movie on Tubi with the white lady. That happened for real, that she was dating a prisoner and she helped them escape from prison. I think both of them got killed or whatever. Do you think that more women fall for prisoners than men? Do you think?
DK:that more women fall for prisoners than men. Do you think that more women fall for prisoners? We hear it more when it comes to the women. We really don't hear it from the men. But I would say it's a two-way street. We just don't hear it as much when the men do it versus when the women do it, because I've heard some stories where they were saying these men, correctional officers did their things with some of these and knocked some of them female inmates, up. So it's like I said, everybody's praying on everybody and, like I said, it all just starts with that initial conversation and, like Angela said earlier, the self-esteem, and then next thing, you know it's, it's, it's the end, of course, and then next thing, you know, I love you.
TREE:Some men also do not like women. You are absolutely one million percent, billion percent right. Oh yeah, yeah, A lot of them are white women I mean, and that's their choice, but it's true.
DK:They go out of their ways and try to break them, to make them feel better about themselves. They have mommy issues. They let's see they like what women can do for them. It's not their mom. Yeah, that is true.
TREE:I never experienced that until I moved here to Texas, houston, texas. I have never had a man to ever ask me for empty monty until I moved here. You get to talk to the dudes, you meet them. I hear these stories about men saying when they date women in a day or two or in 15, 20 minutes in a conversation, all their bills is due. They need this, the card notes. The men are the exact same way.
DK:Right.
TREE:Five minutes into talking to these guys, they phone bill due. These guys they phone bill due. They hitting about the new Jordans about to come out and they ready to move into your place. I was like I have never experienced that until I moved here. I've never had a man ask me for anything until I moved to Houston. They so free to do it. It's just normal for a man to ask a woman for money or ask a woman for anything.
TREE:As soon as you ask them for something, they ain't tricking oh, I don't trick, I don't spend money on one. I don't do this, I don't do that.
DK:Right, and that's what they do. Like I said, it's a two-way street, I'm going to go on my way. Or for us, the guys, and you know, like I said, you may find some woman that like, hey, they'll see you every day. Like, oh, I know, I know he's cool. I know he's cool, let me, let me see if I can work on. Let me see if I can work on, let me see if I can work on them.
DK:It's just like co-workers. Co -workers, who are you prone to talk to every day if you're having problems? Your co-worker, right, because you work with them all the time, every day, and they're giving you what you need. And the next thing, you know you're in a relationship because they're the ones that know what's going through. You're going through a bad situation at home. They may be going through a divorce, could be anything but you're more prone to talk to your coworkers because that's the person that's next to you all the time. And you know and don't go well, probably this person ain't good for you and vice versa. The woman may not be good for the man, but it happens because now you two then shared so much together.
TREE:Hey, look, I have a question what makes us attract ourselves to men that are considered bad boys or bad girls? What do you think the attraction is? What makes you think that a man are considered bad boys or bad girls? What do you think the attraction is? What makes you think that a man can come don't have a job or not bringing in any income, don't have a house, don't have a car, but you move them in, you take care of them, you love them, he, your boo thing. What makes us do that?
DK:Is it love? I mean trauma, and if you're going through something and generally sometimes people can't hide if they're going through something, a lot of people just can't hide what they're going through so it will show on their face. And if someone sees that, they'll be like, oh, they're going through something, let me see if I can work myself in here, even though I know I ain't got much to bring to the table. Let me see what I can come in here. Hey, what's wrong? Good morning, you don't look yourself today. Hey, you look really gorgeous today.
DK:Now they're giving you something that you're not getting from home. You understand what I'm saying? They start working on you, they start preying on you. You could be the strongest person in the world, but when you go through something, it breaks you down in some way shape, form or fashion and some things, especially when you're trying to make everything work, just trying to fix the situation. It weighs on you and Then someone just comes in and they can see it on you. They'll be like, oh, they're going through something, I'm going to just go ahead.
TREE:The weather is about to change. How can we spot a homosexual?
DK:Man.
TREE:Woo. How do we spot, what are the signs of someone being a hobosexual people in the comment? Man look for for somebody being a hobosexual or somebody that's preying on you because it's about to be cold and ain't gonna stay. Or they don't have no food. They want the warmth. About to be cold in a minute, how do you to stay? Or they don't have no food. They want the warmth. About to be cold in a minute. How do you spot a homosexual? What are the five signs of a homosexual?
DK:Five signs of a homosexual, I would say let me see. Okay, let's see what Patrice said. Your discernment has to be sharp, for sure. Yeah. Yeah, your antennas better be up, I'll tell you that, and we can um, each of us plus one. If you got a problem with that, then there you go. Okay, that's a good philosophy. Hey, you stay where you are, I stay where I am.
TREE:Okay, love bombing or with me dating. I always prefer a guy to have his own spot, because I want to come to your house too. You're not going to just be coming over to my house, I want to lay in your bed too. Why you always got to come over here, where your spot is?
DK:Right.
TREE:Both of us should have our own spot until we decide to be together, and then we need to should have our own spot until we decide to be together. Then we need to move into our own spot together. But dating and getting to know each other, we should be in our own places, in our own space, because I just might want to go home one day. I may not want to be around you today, I might want to go home.
DK:Yeah, and hey, just like Angela said hey, you can stay where you are, I can stay where I am, wait a minute. Uh, oh, here's one.
TREE:no license laughing laughing, that's true, no, license no license no license to spy a hobo sexual cause.
DK:It's about to get cold, we need to know these things not having their own place, not having their own place.
TREE:Not having their own place, not having their own place. Everybody can't drive, everybody doesn't have a legal driver's license to drive. As long as you can Uber or catch a, I just don't know. It's tricky, it's tricky.
DK:It's tricky because again, sometimes they can hide it so good. Remember my Steve does no job. Yep, no job. There's a lot, there's a lot. Let's see the car no license, no police. Let me see, last relationship was recent.
TREE:Yes.
DK:Okay, I can get with that. I can get with that. It's just like I said some can hide it very well. I mean hide it very well.
TREE:How can you hide being a homosexual, though?
DK:Hey, listen, it's just like the guy being behind bars. He has years to perfect his craft. They have years to perfect their craft, always free to talk 24-7. Hey, christina, ain't nothing wrong with that. Ain't nothing wrong with that. Christina not the whole bag. Ain't nothing wrong with that. Ain't nothing wrong with that, Christina? Not the whole bag. Ain't nothing wrong with spending the night bag.
TREE:That's what's called a whole bag.
DK:Ain't nothing wrong with spending the night bag.
TREE:But what if they bring their PlayStation to your house? Is that a hobo situation?
DK:I would say that's a red flag. If they bring the PlayStation, he has the best D ever. He's going to give you everything he got A soul snatcher yeah.
TREE:Oh yeah, he's going to lay it. Man, tight Down okay.
DK:Wait, she said every day. Hey again, if you're listening and you're on your pages, just share it out to your pages. Share it out to your pages. Share everything out to your pages.
TREE:Like and love. Tap the like, tap the love. But yeah, so signs of homosexuality. We're just trying to get prepared for the winter. I don't want to fall victim to being a homosexual myself, so I need to know the signs, the obvious signs, of dating a homosexual. Okay, I have another question. So when you're dating, how soon do you need to visit that other person's place of uh place to stay like where they live? How soon do you need to date somebody before you'd be like, hey, when you going to invite me over?
DK:In this age of dating, that would take me a minute. That would take me a minute because, again, you just don't know who.
TREE:Hold on, I don't mean to laugh. I'm laughing at Christina.
DK:Drive the work vehicle there.
TREE:Girl, I'm tickled, Okay go ahead.
DK:You just, you're just gonna be careful because you just don't know who you're talking to these days. Yeah, you just don't know. You just don't know. Honestly, in this age we can just meet to hang out. I agree with you there because, again, you just meet them, because you gotta feel that person out. Hey, somebody behind a phone or text messages can say all the perfect things, but guess what, when you're in person, you can't hide that stuff.
TREE:Okay.
DK:You can't hide it in person Because, again, if you've got some type of signs, it's going to show in person. It's going to show. Let's meet a couple times, let's see, let things happen organically and go with your gut. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Again, you just got to. It's so sad that we have to be on our guard. We have to be to understand this. You shouldn't be to understand this. You shouldn't be that way. Everything should just flow, but it doesn't, because, again, you have the good and then you have the bad. It is what it is. You're going to run across probably a lot more bad to get to the good.
TREE:This is for the ladies If you have a man that you know is no good for you, but the d is awesome. So so do you stay for the d or do you stay for the overall picture of things, like, do you just keep a man around for the good sex, or you know, or you just, you know, cut him off. For the bigger picture it's more Get out. Oh two different opinions.
DK:Two different opinions. Two different opinions. So Angela you say get out, and Christina you say the D. Ok, let me, let me go to Angela first. Why do you say get out? And Christina you say the D. Okay, let me go to Angela first. Why do you say get out? That's what I'm going to know, and then I'm coming to you next. Christina, let's see D because D Good D is hard to find.
TREE:Everybody ain't Playing in good D. Not these days. Maybe 1965 they was, but not now.
DK:Let's see the D will have you accepting things you normally would not. That's true, that's true. Yes, if I'm dating, I'm cool with just the D.
TREE:The D will have you dating a crackhead.
DK:Or a homeless person.
TREE:A homeless person, a crackhead, anybody with an addiction? All you thinking about is it was good.
DK:Yeah, baby, touch it first. Hey, christina, I think I'm going to have to, we're going to have to have a talk. Let me see I would buy a toy before I go through that bullshit. I dated a janitor, respectively, with five kids.
TREE:I ain't mad at you. I bet he had some good D, though, because you're not going to date a janitor with bad D and five kids. I ain't mad at you. I bet he has some good D, though, because you're not for the date of janitor with bad D and five kids. That's not your thing. You can't tell me that. You can't tell me that's not your thing.
DK:He clinked that school. He clinked Angela too. Hey, I ain't mad at him I ain't mad at you, I ain't mad at him. Oh, my goodness.
TREE:So basically, okay, see, that's how you there you go. Oh whoa. So you told us he had good D without telling us he had good D, because you said I dated a janitor with five kids, that equals good D Any day.
DK:Right, did you see that With standing? Oh, you missed a lot.
TREE:Yeah, you missed a lot yeah you missed a lot. So we basically were saying would you take a man with good D versus a job? Can a man stay in your house with good D and no job?
DK:And you stayed Kenny, kenny, kenny.
TREE:Can he lay down so much pipe that you forget the Negro? Don't work.
DK:Okay, all right, we got a nope in here. Okay, you know something? You know, something I think y'all fooling.
TREE:Let's add to the list. Can a woman live in your house? Can you take care of a woman with just good what we're going to call it Kitty, cat Kitty cat If she laid that kitty cat down.
DK:Wait, wait, wait. You know this. Again, I'm guilty of it, but when I was being younger, yeah, girl laid down a cat and I just thought it was there. That's when I was younger. I got older, I said that shit ain't paying the bills, it ain't paying the bills. It ain't paying the bills. But see, when you're younger you just think when somebody whipped that thing on you and like, oh, I'm like oh and you pass out.
TREE:So if you meet a throat goblin, they're throat gobbling you up all the time. You ain't paying no bills. She can't stay there for 20 minutes.
DK:No, not now, not ever. God, no, who's well? A throat goblin coming to town and good guys don't win, nope.
TREE:Facts Nope A throat goblin coming to town, y'all paying all them bills. I don't care what y'all say no. Look at the gobbling.
DK:Again when I was younger. When I was younger, yes, yes, absolutely. If I was younger, yes, In this day and age. Now, hell and no, no, because again that throat gobbling.
DK:Absolutely. If I was younger, yes, but in this day and age, now, hell and no, no, because again, that throat goblin ain't paying no bills. It's not going to pay the bills, but you have to. Though had me waking up at 2 in the morning when he got off work, feeding him pot roast, mac and cheese, cabbage and cornbread, with a frozen mug filled with blue moon and a slice of orange. That man was cold.
TREE:He had a job, though we talking about the man with no job.
DK:Can he be a homeowner?
TREE:Can he come with just the D, Nothing else. He just coming to you swinging rod and that's it, Like no job, no nothing, Just pleasing you sexually. Can he stay with you for free, or can she stay? Can she be the best goat gobbler in America and live with you for free? That's the question Again.
DK:Again younger, yeah, it happened to me when I was younger. Now no absolutely not, no, absolutely not okay. So nah, he has to have a job and a car.
TREE:At the very least I can respect that so we're basically at the age where being goat goblins don't matter no more. You got to come with something.
DK:You have to have you got to come with something because in this age, in this age that we in right now no, even when I was younger I never did that had to come with more than d and I've been providing for me. Okay, nah, hey, shell, welcome in. Yeah, so again, when I was younger I felt victim to that and I'm honest about it, I have. But, like I said in the older me, nah, it has to be more, has to be more Because the simple fact that that's not going to pay my bills, right. And then if you just say, hey, oh my God, I got a home, it's cold outside, I'm warm now, that's not going to pay the bills At all because, like I said, it's a twofold street Men prey on women and women prey on men, it's a twofold, it happens.
TREE:Let's go back to the original question. So this is for the bad girls. So would this is for the guys and the girls, it don't matter. Would you all pick one, one of the two? Would you date a minister or stripper?
DK:Oh damn, oh man, where I am, I need to have a career, a car, a roof, a passport, a license, bank account, the basics you know. Hold on, angela. Some people may have this, they'll have all that, but the passport, the basis. I'm 45. I have the basis and you need to be romantic and things like that. Let me see, men lie, women lie.
TREE:We're talking about good women and bad women and bad boys.
DK:I've dated a stripper.
TREE:The good is the minister and the bad is the. Well, I'm not going to say stripper's a bad, but we're just going to put it right there, would you?
DK:date a stripper. Angela has dated a stripper. I just going to put it right there. Would you date a stripper? Angela has dated a stripper. I've dated a stripper before. Let me see. Danielle says minister.
TREE:Julie said keeper, I definitely would date a stripper over a minister.
DK:Stripper Ministers are freaky.
TREE:Oh.
DK:Lord, yes, they are. They must have been the Diddy's parties.
TREE:They really are, they really are, they really are.
DK:That's a no for either.
TREE:Okay, I have another one A porn star or a drug dealer.
DK:That's a neither for me, that's a neither for me, you have to pick one.
TREE:Pick one A porn star or a who I say drug dealer the minister I don't think that's a good match for because I curse a lot. I agree neither one no, y'all have to pick one. This is the band.
DK:Wait a minute, angela wait a minute, angela, angela, angela, angela. Wait a minute, angela, we're not going to talk. Angela, we're not going to talk.
TREE:So nobody would date a porn star. Nobody would date a porn star.
DK:Okay, danielle said drug dealer, all right. Dated a dealer before. Okay, all right, all right. So I dated a female dealer before.
TREE:I've never dated a drug dealer. I feel cheated.
DK:Drug dealer keep my eye on that side of things, but spend your money please.
TREE:So nobody would date a porn star.
DK:I did. I ate at porn stars. I guess that's community D. That's why.
TREE:Okay.
DK:I have another question I'm not dating anybody in any type of sex business. Okay, I get that, so pick any type of sex business, yeah okay, I get that.
TREE:So pick one out of these two Polygamy relationship or just monogamy.
DK:That's all I used to date with drug dealers. Let's see, my ex became one after we broke up. Now, after a while, the D stops working Damn, damn. So wait a minute. What did you say? Polygamy and what else?
TREE:Oh, it's a natter here driving me insane Flying in my life, all right.
DK:So it was polygamy, a gnat in here driving me insane, insane Flying in my life, all right, so was it polygamy or what?
TREE:I forgot what I said the gnat.
DK:Oh.
TREE:Lord, what did I say? Monogamy, yes, monogamy, okay. Polygamy or monogamy.
DK:Yeah, that's an interesting one. Hey, not everybody wants them.
TREE:Everybody got quiet, everybody got quiet. Everybody got quiet now. Everybody quiet now.
DK:Boy, they tapping into some stuff.
TREE:Let me go with the conservative answer. A monogamy. I see monogamy.
DK:I see monogamy I prefer to pay for a personal. But let's be real, folks cheat and I cheat back, damn.
TREE:That's right. A cheat for a cheat.
DK:We're going to have to have a talk A cheat for a cheat. At my old age monogamy.
TREE:But you know what?
DK:Me and Kane. We're bothamy. I'm not that mature.
TREE:Chill my girl everybody choose monogamy, don't. Nobody want a polygamy relationship. I be saying it on Facebook everybody in polygamy relationship. I cheat back through hell. Yeah, I sure will wait a minute.
DK:look at everybody in polygamy relationships. I cheat back through Hell. Yeah, I sure will Wait a minute.
TREE:Trina, you know this is a great energy, exactly Okay. So, damon, you pick one that you choose. Damon, you pick one that you choose from, you pick two.
DK:I get jealous. It wouldn't work. Oh my goodness, did that shit before it wouldn't work. Oh my goodness, did that shit before it doesn't work? Damn boy, oh my goodness, okay, I have one, I have one.
TREE:A kingpin or grocery store attended. Oh, what's wrong with you, dave?
DK:I'm going to the grocery store. I'm telling you, right now, I'm going to the grocery store. I'm telling you, right now I'm going to the grocery store. I can get some food, baby. I can't get none from the kid. Wait a minute. Give me the grocery store. Give me the grocery store.
TREE:I take the groceries. I'm taking the groceries. Baby, I need to get some food and fucking groceries.
DK:Groceries are huge. Thank you, hey, they bringing that to the table. I need some eggs, I need some milk.
TREE:I need all that. I'll take the groceries, so attend it. We can't do stupid.
DK:I ain't trying to get shot. I don't blame you, it's okay. It's okay. I made it for the money.
TREE:Wait a minute, both I have another good one A circus clown or a pimp.
DK:Oh damn, you know something, I got this one, I got this one, I got this one, I ain't scared of clowns A circus clown or a pimp. A lot of people have this phobia of clowns. I'm good with the clown, she said the pimp.
TREE:You have to pick one for tree and sexy black. I date a clown, I take the clown, I date clowns anyway, I ain't scared of clowns. My last time I dated was some clowns. So, hey, clown me. I'm a professional clown dater, so I know about some clowns. I'm a professional clown dater. See, got a lot of clowns in here.
DK:Like I said, I'll take the clown any day. I can't be pepped on. I'm sorry.
TREE:This is one that's for the ladies. I'll take the clown any day. I can't be pepped out, I'm sorry. Okay, ladies, this is one that's for the ladies, unless you're a man that, like men, 12 inches or 4 inches.
DK:All right, that's going to be a unanimous answer, a unanimous, we already know it's going to be, unanimous. Wait a minute. She said. I'm dating one now a clown, damn 12 inches. Angela, I'll be pimping, I'll be pimping the pimps?
TREE:Who is taking 12 inches? Who's your?
DK:doctor, wait a minute Four inches.
TREE:Give me four any day.
DK:I'm just saying who's your doctor, Y'all taking 12 inches.
TREE:I'm trying to tell you when is y'all taking 12 inches.
DK:I'm just saying who's your doctor.
TREE:I'm just asking, I got my legs crossed right now.
DK:I'll take that four. I'm not going to be with that four. I'm not going to be trickled with that four inches. I'm scared of 12. Okay, I got a good one. I got a good one.
TREE:I'm tall too, and I'm skinny.
DK:I've never had too much than not enough.
TREE:Okay, that's fair. But, like I said, who's your doctor, what he said, make it enough.
DK:Make it enough, right, make it enough. Here's one. Here's one, because this is a good one.
TREE:Truck drivers and I'm talking about those long haulers, hell, no. Or someone in the military Military, military, military okay, you might get beat up, that's a hard one. Military.
DK:You say military, okay, military, both. Wait, wait, wait, wait, christina, why you say both Okay? I want to hear that one Military.
TREE:Military, military, military. Let's see, wait a minute. Both are whores, both are whores, but which one is the big whore?
DK:Someone in the military. The question was would you date a truck driver, a long hauler or someone in the military?
TREE:Military.
DK:Hell, they both make good money, wait, michelle. Hey, christina got a point there. They make good money. Okay, both Both.
TREE:At least you get to see the truck driver.
DK:I can make the felon to that, mr Davis. Okay, okay, okay. Military benefits Okay, military are bigger whores. You know something? I can't disagree with her.
TREE:I can't disagree with her. You was a military whore, wouldn't you? Yeah, yeah, I was.
DK:Yeah, we know, yeah, yeah, I was, yeah, I was Okay. Here we go Convicted felon or police officer.
TREE:I date the po-po, you date the po-po.
DK:Give me the po-po, I know you. Yeah, boy, the comments is rolling in, boy we rolling tonight.
TREE:I would date a. I would date a felon. It just depends on what type of felon you got. If it's off the Richter scale, then I don't know. Yeah, I guess I got some experience in that.
DK:Huh, yeah you know by dating felons. Yeah, I guess I got some experience in that. Huh, yeah, you know by dating fellas. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess I got some experience in that he loves fellas.
TREE:If you're a fella, you're dating fellas.
DK:I was married to a convicted fella, wow.
TREE:Okay, what he do, yeah, what he do. That mean you ain't married to him, you're right, yeah what he do.
DK:That mean you ain't married to him, You're right. Yeah, what he do. I want to hear this one. Nah, my job would be at stake. Oh yeah, I agree with that. I would do both.
TREE:It just depends on what, the feeling, what it came from.
DK:Yeah.
TREE:Now you done killed somebody in my good eye. Oh hell, nah, no, no, it came from. Yeah, now if you done killed somebody, that ain't my good eye.
DK:Oh hell nah, Hell no.
TREE:My mouth too fly, you ain't gonna kill me.
DK:Right, it just depends on what they did. I agree with you. I agree with you there, because just because someone has a felony doesn't mean that it was a bad thing, right, david? You know, he in that jail for stealing and doing drugs. Oh yeah, forgot about that.
TREE:Oh, I got one for the men, bbl or natural.
DK:Natural. Let me scream this Natural, fuck that.
TREE:Y'all like BBLs.
DK:No, no, and some of these BBLs I've seen out here are atrocious.
TREE:Thank you. Thank you, julie, natural. I know Natural BBL atrocious. Thank you, thank you, truly Natural, natural BBLs. They're not bad. It's the one that they doctored and had nothing bad. They went over there and turned them to a flamingo.
DK:A flamingo. I mean right now the BBLs, adele. Let me see, they look like ants. They stink after a while.
TREE:Oh, my God.
DK:Y'all on a rolling night. I appreciate each and every last one of these comments. Y'all on a rolling night.
TREE:Hey TT, how you?
DK:doing. Yeah, they look like an egg with legs. Y'all own one tonight. I'm loving this. Please share this out to y'all pages. Hit the share button on y'all Facebook. Y'all own one tonight. I love it. I'm here, I'm all for it.
TREE:I'm team natural all day long, would y'all?
DK:own one tonight. I love it and I'm here, I'm all for it. But no, I'm team natural all day long.
TREE:Hey. So would y'all rather date someone that's a millionaire and can take care of you comfortably but he beat you up and treat you bad, or vice versa? I'm speaking on both sides. Or would you date someone with a regular job, y'all not struggling, struggling. He love you and take care of you and pay all the bills, so would you? Would you date someone that's a millionaire that'll beat you up or physically, mentally and physically abuse you, or date a simple man that'll love and take care of you? Would you look over the black eyes for millions of dollars?
DK:nah, you look over the black eyes for millions of dollars.
TREE:Nah, ain't nobody whipping my ass.
DK:Is money worth abuse? No, Bob, Thank you. No one's whipping my ass no.
TREE:Bob, I don't care how much money, you get Nobody whipping my ass.
DK:I mean, didn't we get enough of that from Diddy? Oh, too soon, too soon. First of all, he wouldn't be able to lift his hands and get away with it. I don't blame you.
TREE:I'm trying to.
DK:I'll blame him. Give me a regular man.
TREE:Be rich and beat me up. Then I got to keep getting my makeup done and cover my black eyes and lumps and bumps.
DK:No, absolutely not. I am not for it. You are not putting your hands on me in any type of physical way other than moving me in the bedroom. That's it.
DK:No man or woman can be putting their hands on me. Hey, I got you with the bail money. I got you. I ain't with the violence, me neither. No, ma'am. And mentally or physically, absolutely, absolutely. And I was just about to come to that one next about would you date an abusive man or would you date somebody that did not have a lot but he treated you very great. I was going to come to that one next. But we all consensus on no violence. I will be on the news, shell, you know I got you. You know I got you. You know I got you. No ifs, no ands, no buts.
TREE:What you said yeah. Ain't nobody whipping my ass. Yeah, somebody's mama got me messed up. We're not doing it here, okay.
DK:Okay, okay, okay, I got a good one for you, I got a good one for you. Okay, okay, okay, I got a good one for you, I got a good one for you. So, wherever you are in your locations, wherever you are in your locations, would you prefer to date someone in your location? Or, because you know the dating pool is trash, would you be willing to venture out to someplace else to date? Samoa for me, still singing in power, bring it. Yeah, you're Samoans, right, yeah?
TREE:Matter of fact, Angela imported me one of them.
DK:Samoans from Sacramento. Hell, no, okay, so you would date where you are. Okay. She said hell, no, let me see. Yes.
TREE:I need to be imported somewhere else.
DK:Okay, I want an Italian, nice Okay.
TREE:Italian stallion. I have another question. So if you could date outside of your race, what race would you pick? That's a good one. If I was dating, I would date away, okay, what race would you pick?
DK:That's a good one. If I was Dayton, I would date away Okay.
TREE:Most definitely not in Houston. It ain't in Houston, dayton ain't in Houston.
DK:It ain't in Houston?
TREE:It ain't in Houston. Don't come to Houston. Don't come to Houston looking for a man.
DK:At this point away, okay, and you know, I'm starting to see a lot of women, hispanic, hispanic.
TREE:Oh, okay, you're talking about the ones that came over, or the Americanized Hispanic, does it?
DK:really make a difference? Does it really make a difference? I'm just saying does it really make a difference? They pay.
TREE:They pay like they weigh All right.
DK:Oh, what about the women who's moved to the body? And let the man, oh Lord, have mercy? They doing that? I ain't heard that. They doing that. I ain't heard nothing about that. If I was dating, it wouldn't be anybody here, but I'm happily married. So Okay Again, that wouldn't be anybody here, but I'm happily married. Okay Again. And that seems to be the trend these days is that no one in the area that you are nobody really likes to date in the area. They'll go someplace else, they'll find someplace else, or find someone else.
TREE:It has a lot of pee in it, out here A lot of it. Pissy.
DK:Pissy out there. I beg your fondest pardon. It's like they say the dating pool is trash, because me and Tree we talk all the time. We talk about how bad the dating pool is down there. I have another question. This is for how bad?
TREE:the dating pool is down there. I have another question. This is for the bad girls. So if you were down, if you lost your job today and the only option for you to feed your children and take care of your family is to go dance in a strip club, would you?
DK:Hey, listen, that's the only option.
TREE:If you lose your job today and the only option for you to feed your children and provide for your household was to work in a strip club, would you.
DK:Let me know which one I'm going to be popping those dollars.
TREE:I can't dance.
DK:Especially here in Maryland, it's called the buy for the buy. Oh Lord, I can't dance or I'll still be broke.
TREE:Because that's the option that I came up with. That's why.
DK:Why is that the only option?
TREE:That's the only option. These are hypotheticals. If you was fired from your job today in order to provide for your family, would you work in a?
DK:Wait a minute. Can I top someone off as dad Because the way his leg and my feet don't work right now?
TREE:Hey, I'm going to answer the question for myself. If I lost my job today and that was the only way to provide for my family, hey, I had to go try to. I can't dance either. I had to tissy roll, tissy roll.
DK:That's not fair, because some women have morals. My kids are grown, so I'm a star.
TREE:Read the title. We're not talking about morals. We're talking about good and bad women. That's what this conversation is about. Did you miss the title?
DK:Well, when I was in that position, I thought about it, but nah, okay, if that was the only option, then yes.
TREE:Okay, the only option. You're going to do what you got to do to feed your family.
DK:You got to do what you got to do. You got to do what you got to do. If I had to go and do it and that was my only option, hey, I can't dance either. I got two left feet. But hey, I'm going to make it work. And you know that TT can dance.
TREE:Exactly TT. You're going to get that money ain't you, you got to get that money one way or the other. Let's do a scenario for the men. Oh Lord, let's see.
DK:Scenario for the other. Let's do a scenario for the men. Oh Lord, let's see. Scenario for the men. Scenario for the men, oh my goodness. Let's see they still laughing over this. Let's see men. Let's see guys. Okay, so let's say you just got laid off, right, men, laid off, you down on your luck, what's your job, what you prefer to have.
TREE:Would you date a rescuer?
DK:Okay, we'll throw that in there. Would you date a smaller woman that doesn't have anything, but a larger woman, a rescuer? As she said that has everything. Let's see who standards go out the door here.
TREE:I ain't look, shirley, big ass in a minute.
DK:Let's see who standards go out the door here. Okay, no.
TREE:You wouldn't let Big Brenda take care of you, Chris. Big Brenda can't take care of you, Chris. I ain't saying that Big Brenda can't take care of you.
DK:He said no. He said no, where my boy at? He said I'll find another way. I'll find another way. That's his morals and his standards coming into play. Listen, I ain't talking about Big Brenda. Hey, listen, when you down on your luck, you be them, moors and standards go out the window.
TREE:Straight out the window.
DK:Straight out the damn window. Okay Moors and standards be gone when you are down on your luck.
TREE:You get to think about the bigger picture. Am I going to freeze outside or am I laying the Brenda big ass, brenda big ass in me? Okay, am I going to walk to 7-Eleven or am I going to drive and burn the big ass car I'm driving the big ass car.
DK:I'm telling you when you're down on your luck. When you're down on your luck, you do things that you normally wouldn't do Seriously, not me Been there before, so no. Things that you normally wouldn't do Seriously, not me Been there before, so no, but you've been there before. That's my point.
TREE:Okay, I have another question. We're sticking to the topic on good and bad.
DK:Wait a minute Black Air Force and ski bands.
TREE:We're going to make sure I'm fair and well. Okay, I have another one for y'all. Would you snort a kilo or sell a kilo of cocaine? Would you sell cocaine to take care of your family?
DK:It's the selling.
TREE:Sorry, I can't put none toxic stuff in my body If somebody gave you a kilo of cocaine to sell, would you sell it? Or would somebody say do a line of cocaine or sell a kilo of?
DK:cocaine Yep sales Absolutely sell. No, I'm not answering that with the cops on the line.
TREE:He ain't no Coco right now, y'all. He ain't no cocoa right now, y'all he ain't no cocoa right now, y'all selling the cocaine. Ain't nobody going to do a line.
DK:Oh no.
TREE:Ain't nobody going to do a line of cocaine.
DK:What the heck we talking about.
TREE:What's up, bro? I know it's one person out here that do a line of cocaine.
DK:I know, I know, ain't none of us doing a line, none of us doing a line. Woody, I got that rocks for sale. Oh my goodness, hilarious.
TREE:Nobody ain't doing no cocaine.
DK:How can you make money doing lines?
TREE:Hell, no, that's bedtime. Selling it. What if you get caught?
DK:Right.
TREE:Tree. Will you date a man that pee in the bed? Nope, not, no more.
DK:Better haven't done that Okay, all right, there's a question. There's a question right there, all right, has anyone ever dated anybody like that?
TREE:I'm guilty.
DK:Guilty, guilty, you guilty. It happens, it happens. I'm not talking about an accident that happened. I'm talking about they didn't realize and the next day they just let it flow.
TREE:Golden showers is what you're trying to say. Who had a golden shower? Who let somebody golden shower?
DK:them, eddie, I didn't have been there and done that. I didn't have been there and done that.
TREE:I didn't have been there and done that Date a midget Been there and done that.
DK:You get the fuck Hell. No.
TREE:Okay, no, no, I would not date a midget. They're too short. I'm too tall, can't do that.
DK:But hey, they may want that tree, they do. They may want that tree, they do. They may want that tree, they do. You did she would date a turtle. A turtle, ah, nah, I'm going to have to defend you on that one. Wait, wait, I got this one. Hey, chris, that's some bullshit. I'm just saying he's special, you got to look.
TREE:I'm just saying he's special. You got to look over the special people. He's special. So nobody else do a line of cocaine on here.
DK:Oh hell, no, Ain't nothing going in my body. That's toxic.
TREE:I know that's right. Hey, hell no.
DK:Look at that turtle. He's laughing at the turtle you have to look up oh my goodness, y'all are funny.
TREE:I love y'all but would y'all call somebody that stuttered or had a teeth impediment? I have.
DK:I have, I have, I have, I have. That man said he loved you. He loved you, huh.
TREE:What's the backstory on that? I'll tell you. When you date a man who's always talking and crying I've been there and done that he's crying on my phone right now.
DK:Oh damn, no, I can't do the loon, that would be hard, I could.
TREE:I'm too goofy to date somebody that stutter because I've been cracked up well, I listen, I have and I would have to say it's challenging.
DK:It is because when they get to that point, you just trying to figure out, trying to help them out, say, oh hey, you, hey, you're trying to say this. It's challenging. As time went along, it didn't bother me.
TREE:If y'all have any questions for me and Damon, we'll answer them. Oh yeah.
DK:Bring it on.
TREE:I'm not answering no turtle questions.
DK:I got about 10 more minutes before I'm about to end this because I got some place to be, so yeah, bring on the questions Wait a minute.
TREE:We know you ain't grown enough to date somebody. That sucks. Come on, y'all got 10 minutes to ask questions, 10 minutes In this broadcast. Oh and FYI, we will be on every Wednesday at 7 o'clock, so don't forget.
DK:Yeah.
TREE:We enjoy you all.
DK:Yeah, we enjoy you, so why you don't give the turtle a chance?
TREE:I wasn't answering no turtle questions because it's irrelevant. It does not pertain me. No turtle questions. That turtle is a married man. I don't do those.
DK:Next, Mm-mm, I love that face.
TREE:Thank you. I don't give a damn who he can love who he love, Just because he ain't loving tree. I don't give a damn who he can love, who we love Just because.
DK:But he ain't loving Tree Bingo. Good dude for you. Hey, listen, wait, wait, wait, I got this one.
TREE:Eddie, I'm her agent over here. I just want to get Eddie's attention. Eddie, do you really want to mess with me tonight? Eddie, eddie Berryhill, do you really want to go there tonight?
DK:Yes or no?
TREE:Thumbs up or thumbs down, I'm going to let you pick him.
DK:You didn't say that when you was on the bike hugging him tight. You know something? We're going to have it. We're going to definitely have it, eddie, stop For real, for real.
TREE:He better stop, eddie, close down. Yeah, yeah, eddie Berry here. You want me to take it down.
DK:I was going to slide into the background because I wanted to see this show.
TREE:You don't want me to take it down. I was going to slide into the background because I wanted to see this show. You don't want me to take it down. Trust me though.
DK:I was ready for the bullshit.
TREE:I'm just saying oh, you know, I stay with it, I stay with it.
DK:I know what she's talking about, man.
TREE:And it's on the same topic as Respeech. So you want to go? Want to go? Do you want to go?
DK:Wait a minute Now. She hit the clap on you.
TREE:We don't need no pictures. My guy, we don't need pictures.
DK:Not that she hit the claps on you. I'm just saying Not that she hit the claps on you. I don't want no pictures. I don't want no pictures. You had a drunk.
TREE:I'm just saying Not that she hit the claps on you. Let's see, you had a drunk night, eddie. Oh man, eddie, don't you need to talk about the drunk night, eddie. This is getting good. Let me kill in my throat. Let me say it for the people in the back I don't have no tea, but I'm going to drink some water on it. Eddie Berryhill, Must we take it to the drunken knights?
DK:I've seen you and Thurgo hugging on a bike.
TREE:Okay, so we want to take it now. So okay, I wasn't going to do it.
DK:Hey, listen, I'm all for it. Now, let me sit back. He said, bro, I'm telling you stop. Hey, hey, listen, I'm all for it. You reaching now.
TREE:No, you reaching you. The one started. I'm going to finish.
DK:Mm-mm, reaching. You're the one starting. I'm going to finish. Y'all been reaching, though she really not. I'm just saying hey, listen, can someone fill me in on everything? I'm just saying. I'm just saying Fill me in on it. I don't want to be left out on this one we missed you.
TREE:We tried to get you out of.
DK:Angela, I'm calling now. Did you miss me? Of course, we missed you, angela.
TREE:We tried to get you out to ask us some questions before we leave so we can answer them. They all off topic, they somewhere else.
DK:Oh yeah, they sure Inside of them. Oh yeah, Somebody going to have to fill me in.
TREE:I heard this man tell you he in love with you he said go ahead, what they're supposed to mean.
DK:We got the love stuff going on. I'm just saying no one has questions for us other than the turtle, other than the turtle stuff. No one has questions, I'm all open.
TREE:Why do we always got to bring turtle up in?
DK:seat. All right. Okay, I'm single. I've been single since 2019. That was my last date. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Help, I wouldn't say that you're doing anything wrong. It's not you Generation. Yeah, yes, yes, yes, it is. She's a big player out here. Nope, nope, I'm taking up for her, she ain't.
TREE:She's not, and Eve.
DK:Hey, I'm your agent. I'm supposed to be talking for you here, hey hey, hey, hey, you're not.
TREE:I'm supposed to be talking for you here. Hey, hey, hey, hey, but since you're not doing anything wrong, nothing wrong.
DK:No.
TREE:You keep being fabulous, keep looking beautiful, keep doing you, and the Lord gonna bless you with what you need to be blessed with. It's not you?
DK:How can you say it's the generation when we don't know the whole story? Well, what we're talking about is, overall, this dating pool out here.
TREE:You can't all in single folk business Get out of the single pool. You in single business, yeah, we're talking about the single folk and it is hard out here.
DK:It's hard. It definitely is hard out here, because if you look at your standards of when you grown up versus the standards today and it doesn't align with your standards, then how can you say it's a fair trade? Because, again, okay and we talked about this on one podcast that we did Something as simple as open a door for a woman. Something as simple as that men don for a woman. Something as simple as that men don't do today Not saying all, but men don't do it today. That's just something as simple as opening up a door. So if they don't do that, then what else are they not going to do? I expect that from him, but he got the same name as my ex. Oh Lord, have mercy. But you got to look past that though. Yeah, you got to look past that one.
DK:Dayton Poole is really bad. It's bad everywhere. It is. It's everywhere. It's not just Maryland, it's everywhere. The Dayton Poole. It's just bad. You just got to find that person that fits you. That's what you got to find. The problem is finding the person. That's the problem Finding the person that fits you. Once you find that person that fits you, gets you, and y'all vibe, y'all do that. Men don't do that anymore. That's not all, Because I'm one of them that does. They think it's spending too much money when you take them out to eat dinner.
TREE:They don't even want to do that.
DK:They don't even want to do that. Not at all. They don't even want to do that.
TREE:They don't even want to take you to dinner. They want to do a meeting to see if they like you.
DK:You may get a dinner. These men want to go with the flow Everywhere. I blame the internet Social media.
TREE:You are absolutely right.
DK:You know what I blame it on? Not exactly social media Reality TV. Everyone feels as though they have to have a standard, or I have to. Not exactly social media Reality TV. Everyone feels as though they have to have a standard, or I have to fit this mold because of what they see on TV. Don't they know that shit is fake? I honestly believe that's what they believe in their mind that they have to be like this. Them people got money. You, my cousin, you don't count. They want you to treat them like a lady. Let's see we meet at dinners or some type of outings. They don't. Let's see they. Always the man has to do it all the time. Why the woman can't show the man that she's worthy, explain a little bit more. The only reason I'm saying that is because, again, when you're dating, when you're dating, it's a two-way street. When you're in that dating phase, you just have to okay, we are met, let's see how we can vibe the modern dating phase. You just have to okay, let's. Hey, we are met. Let's see how we can vibe the modern dating today. This is the modern dating Me and you, we sit across from each other and we both on our cell phones. That's the modern dating today. Let me see Open doors.
DK:You can open a door for a woman and they automatically think that you want to hook up with them. They catch an instant attitude. Well, hey, you can't please everybody, but what I'm talking about is this If you're with your person, the person that you're dating, why can't you open their door? I get what you're saying, but you just can't please everybody. You got some women that walk through the door and won't say anything, but what I'm talking about is the person that you're dating. That's what I'm talking about. Is the person that you're dating. That's what I'm saying. The man has to do this and he has to do this. Why can't she do the same thing to a man? It's supposed to be a partnership.
TREE:He said the same thing as a man, yeah, well it's a partnership.
DK:So okay, point case, let's say me and my partner right, we're going out, or they want to go out. First thing I'm gonna say, hey, my ends are a little bit low, or whatever my partner said I got you, don't even worry about it, I got you. That's a partnership together. But if it's a one-way street, where it was like it has to be your money or we don't go, then that's a problem. Right, not all women. I got you. It doesn't cost to open the door. No, it don't cost to open the door. And it don't cost to speak. Neither Don't cost to speak. But, like I said, I think reality TV has just pretty much destroyed it for a lot of stuff. Court me, I don't blame you, I don't blame you, I don't blame you.
TREE:But listen here my time has dwindled down.
DK:My time is dwindled down. We appreciate all your comments because boy y'all was definitely live in the chat tonight. All your comments, because boy y'all was definitely live in the chat tonight. I agree with that. If you tell some women that they're going to say you're broke, I don't care what they say about me. I stopped giving a damn what anybody said about me years ago. I don't care if they call me broke, I don't care if they call me whatever. I don't care what they say about me. I never have and I never will. Let me tell you why Because they can't tell me the person that I am. I'll stay single with my passport. Hey, I got a passport. Turtle, yes, Angela, I'm old school as well. Turtle, turtle, turtle. If you broke, don't ask me out. Point case, Point case. But it don't be the asking you out In case In case.
TREE:But it don't be the asking you out, it's the want to lay down with you when they broke and they want to take you out somewhere, they hoping that you're going to get moist on the date. Yeah.
DK:So it can get moister with the four inches, that'll work too. So y'all have been live in this chat but I got to get off because I got to go to work. But we appreciate each and every last one of you single with a passport. If it's dead, then it's there. I dropped like a prune, damn.
DK:Angela we're going to have to have a talk, angela, we're going to have to have a talk. Yeah, they do feel entitled, they do. I'm going to say I wouldn't be trying to get booty too on the first date. That's a two-way street. That's a two-way street. Let's see. Thank you, sister. This was great. We appreciate you all, because this is what makes the show. You all, you all, makes the show. If you got 10 inches of my oh, lord Hammers, you need to give me who your doctor is. That's the only thing I want to know who your doctor is.
TREE:Thank you all. Thank you lovely. Thank you all for stopping in.
DK:Yes, yes, amen, that's how you use it stopping in. Yes, yes, hey, what you got is how you use it. Yep, absolutely, hey, good night everyone. Good night we appreciate.
TREE:You Come back next Wednesday. Good night, angela. Yep, if you're not subscribed to the podcast page.
DK:Go to the podcast page and subscribe.
TREE:Go to the podcast page because we put the topics on the podcast page David, look who just came in Lynn.
DK:I got a problem when you been Lynn. Good night, eddie. You see how you do.
TREE:You came too late.
DK:Right Stay safe and suck a free. I love y'all Good night.
TREE:Good night y'all.
DK:Come back next Wednesday 7 pm, because we got another topic already lined up, we'll go ahead and throw it out on the page.
TREE:I didn't know Right.
DK:So Lynn Lynn, Lynn Lynn Lynn. Pretty much the topic was do women prefer good guys or bad guys, or do men prefer good women or bad women? That's the topic. But again, if you subscribe to the podcast page, then we put out topics, because that's what we're going to jump on.
TREE:If you have a topic you want us to discuss, just inbox me or text me, or our diamond or whoever. Just text us what y'all want us to talk about. So we're open for new ideas, new discussions.
DK:Yep, nothing's off limits, oh, except two things Religion and politics.
TREE:We don't talk about religion, but we'll talk about anything else. You know we don't mind a good debate, whatever you have, as long as it's not religion and politics.
DK:That's it, as long as it's not religion or politics.
TREE:It's good or bad. Whatever you want to talk about, as long as it's not religion or politics, we'll talk about it. If you want to talk about, let's talk about it.
DK:Religion or politics. We'll talk about it.
TREE:If you have any ideas for next Wednesday's show, let us know and we'll use your topic.
DK:Right, the turtle. You know something? I know she's going to light you up when we get off here.
TREE:No, I tried to save y'all?
DK:Oh, absolutely no politics. It's no politics.
TREE:Because everybody has their own views about that and we're not going to go back and forth on how you feel about politics or religion. It's just two subjects we're going to say but everything else we'll discuss it. We're not going to talk about those. Yep, absolutely, absolutely. Hey, we'll discuss it.
DK:We're not going to talk about those. Yep, absolutely, absolutely, hey, we're going to tune off. We'll see y'all later. We appreciate each and every last one of your comments. Hey, if you shared it out, thank you. Each week you come in, share it to your pages because we want to try to get all the engagement as possible. Love y'all.
TREE:Love you guys. Talk to you.
