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Smoking Sparks: Relationship Deal Breakers, Car Troubles, and Old School Dating Values Explored
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What if your perfect match lit up a cigarette right after a romantic dinner? Would that be a deal-breaker, or perhaps a minor hiccup in an otherwise flawless date? Join us as we navigate the fascinating maze of relationship deal breakers, from smoking habits that can end a budding romance to why some people find cigars inexplicably sexy. We unravel the importance of honesty and good hygiene, revealing how these seemingly simple traits can make or break a connection.
Our conversation takes an amusing twist as we share stories and hypothetical scenarios about transportation and lifestyle choices that could be non-starters for some. Imagine a partner's car breaking down and the expectations that follow—what compromises are you willing to make? Cars, jobs, and living conditions become more than just logistics; they are pivotal in shaping the dynamics of urban dating and beyond. We also touch on more light-hearted topics like exotic pets and traditional gender roles, offering a humorous yet candid look at personal preferences and the standards we set in our relationships.
As the dialogue unfolds, we dive into the intricacies of sexual preferences and boundaries, where humor meets candidness. From foreplay essentials to the quirky concept of "jumpstarting the cat," we leave no stone unturned. We reminisce about old-school dating values, the simple joys of holding hands, and cruising to 90s R&B tunes, lamenting how these traditions seem to have faded. By the end, we underscore the importance of seeking partners who elevate our lives, honoring age-old values while embracing modern expectations for ambition, honesty, and independence.
The Power of the Power of the Power of the. It's Wednesday night, it's your dynamic new. We are here. We're here with another spicy topic. It's me DK. Over there is tree DK and tree podcast Full effect. Where y'all at We've been. We've been waiting all week, all week, for you all, how you doing tonight.
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Speaker 1Oh, I am great, I am fired up. I'm just ah, I'm ready, Always ready. Where are we at people? Where are you at Anybody that's coming in? Please hit the share button. Please hit the share button. Please hit the share button. We're gonna share it out to your page. Hit share button. Hit the share button. Tonight's juicy topic and we put it out on the page is deal breakers. What is your deal breakers? And I mean anything. This is this is a broad, broad subject. What is your deal breakers? And talking to someone being in a relationship with someone or just anything? What is your deal breakers? And talking to someone being in a relationship with someone or just anything? What is your deal breakers? Let's start with you first. What's your deal breakers?
Speaker 2I got a lot of them.
Speaker 1Oh, shut up. So let's start with the first one.
Speaker 2Deal breakers in relationships or dating both.
Speaker 3Oh, both Mm Mm, oh no you go ahead, you start first.
Speaker 2Oh okay, oh, you pass.
Speaker 1All right, all right, big one, big one. Smoking, oh yeah, if any woman puts a cigarette up to her mouth, mm no, I, I don't understand it. It so you made it to the wednesday night live, yeah, welcome man. Yeah, smoking, that is a huge one for me. I cannot. I dealt with a smoker before and that is not. It's disgusting. I don't want that. Uh, in my clothes I just don't. But it's funny, I find. Smoking a cigarette, I'll say it's bad, but if she smokes a cigar, I think it's sexy. What kind of stuff is that Bad? Hold you, that's a big one. Bad hygiene, oh yeah.
Speaker 2Or bad breath.
Speaker 1Bad breath they want to kiss you, uh, you had a breath humming with that bad breath on you come here so that, like I said, smoking is a very, very big one for me, bad hygiene for vaughn very big one for me Bad hygiene for. Vaughn.
Speaker 3Oh man, come on what you got.
Speaker 2Lying Is that a deal breaker?
Speaker 1Of course it is, should be.
Speaker 2Just lying for no reason. Just lying because you can lie.
Speaker 1Hey, hey, hey, I've been guilty of it.
Speaker 2You're a liar, just be lying.
Speaker 1I've been guilty of that, I have. I've been guilty of that. Be the first to that. Hey, you gotta accept your faults to grow. I've been guilty of that. Sometimes we just do it just because we're selfish, just to be lying yeah yeah, oh, here's one, here's one, I got one for you, I got one for you, so deal breaker. Uh, what if they don't have a car? Is that a deal breaker? Hell, yes.
Speaker 2It is why they expect me to have one. So if you expect me to have a vehicle, I expect for you.
Speaker 1So they have to have a vehicle. That's a deal breaker.
Speaker 2Don't. I have to have a vehicle.
Speaker 1Wait a minute, let me see, let's see Now a white lie or a whole lie. Let me see, let's see Now a white lie or a whole lie, a whole lie. Oh yeah, a whole lie, a white lie. You may get around. Hey, did you take something out of that cookie jar? No, yeah, I did. That's a white lie. Well living in a big city unless there's a reason for you not to have a vehicle as a grown adult you should.
Speaker 2Okay, all right, I get it, unless you just like ride shares or whatever. You know people into ride shares these days, so but I mean, this society expects you to have a car if you're trying to date somebody. I feel like that's a deal breaker for a lot of people not to have a vehicle of some sort.
Speaker 1As long as they can get around, I get it. As long as they ain't got to come pick you up all the time. He may be behind in his child support. No license, no car yeah, that's a big one.
Speaker 2Well, D-Y. Something that's preventing you from not driving is understandable, but if you don't have a reason not to have a car, you should have one.
Speaker 1Okay, but hey, some people just not fortunate enough to just have a vehicle, Some people, but that's a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 3Okay.
Speaker 1So this is you know, if they were behind on something they couldn't get at the time, it's fine, but if they have the ability to do it and they just didn't do it, that's the deal breaker, right? Yeah, I got you. I got you I got.
Speaker 2People should have their own everything, especially trying to date. Now, if you, we together, and we got cars and some happened to one of our cars, then that's something different. However, grown people should have their own vehicles.
Speaker 1Okay, all right, I got another one for you. No self-drive for yourself. No self-initiation. Yes, absolutely. You look at paper talking about the job market. Looks sad yeah, it does, you know. No self-initiation.
Speaker 2That's a deal breaker.
Speaker 1Yeah, you got to have some type of drive, you know. Say, hey, I'm eight, I got this, I want this. Hey, I want to go back to school. Some type of ambition, something you know. I want to own my own business, I want to do this, some type of drive or hustle or something. Don't just look there and say I'm the victim of everything. Everything has came down on me and I can't do anything.
Speaker 3No, that's a deal breaker.
Speaker 1Deal breaker.
Speaker 2Yeah, because, as an adult, why wouldn't you want to have some type of drive to motivate your own self? You know what I'm saying? Like who just sits around as an adult, waiting on the next person to do something or take care of them. You, as an adult, should have some type of drive to want to work, go to school, pursue something, pursue something in your life, instead of being a bump on the log, not doing anything.
Speaker 1but nothing, I get it, I get it All right. All right, what else for you? I know I know an obvious one, but go ahead. What? What's the obvious one? I guess a man living with his parents, obviously.
Speaker 3I guess a man living with his parent, depending on the situation.
Speaker 2Now, if you're living with your parent and you're helping, or you have a disabled parent and you're the caregiver, or you are the person that's solely there for them because they cannot, I understand that. But living with your parents because you just want to do whatever you want with your money and you don't want to have no responsibilities of your own.
Speaker 1That's a problem. Oh yeah, that's a major problem. So, 50 year old living at home, right, living at home, not taking care of the parents, they just living at home.
Speaker 3I had no desire to move.
Speaker 1Yeah, but the funny thing is that someone like that of getting a woman Don't no woman want to take down no man either. Listen, we don't necessarily know that, because.
Speaker 2They will. But I'm like a real woman, doesn't a man? A man we already had this conversation last week a man doesn't totally want to provide for a woman. You want a woman to come independent, right like helping, helping you out. You want to solely take care of a woman. It's the same thing. No, grown woman wants to solely take care of a woman. It's the same thing. No, grown woman wants to solely take care of a man, like I'm your mother.
Speaker 1I get it, but if you look at some of the people out here, it's the complete opposite. You see these women taking care of these dudes. Seriously, there are women that will accept that absolutely.
Speaker 1You have women are women that will accept that, absolutely. You have women out here that will do that and accept that, and I'm like, oh no, I'm like what? And okay, all right, another one, another one, okay. We talked about smoking right. Talked about them not having their own transportation right. Talked about, um, them not having their own transportation right, some of them halfway having a job right. How about something as simple as opening the door for you?
Speaker 2yeah, I mean being a gentleman like either you got it or you don't, being a gentleman Either you got it in you or you don't.
Speaker 1Okay. But even if he doesn't do that and he expects you to open the door, it's like oh, you open the door A man expects a woman to open the door. Yes, oh, I've never Not for them. What I'm saying is that Dale just allowed you to do everything.
Speaker 2Oh yeah, open the door, pump the gas, take the gas. Yeah, it's guys out here like that I've seen. I've been at the gas pump and I've seen a woman pumping gas and the man with his seat laid all the way back. Laid all the way back and he on his phone while she out pumping gasoline.
Speaker 1Yes, and I see it all the time. When I go to the gas station I see these ladies out the car and the dude has the seat laid all the way back. And I'm looking in the car like wow, he's not pumping your gas.
Speaker 2Okay, that's what you accepted, like that's what you accepted and that like that's insane.
Speaker 1that's insane to me. I hate to see a man sitting in the car while she yeah, I do too. It irks me it just irks me. I'm like what are you doing? Why are you accepting this?
Speaker 2I don't care, guys. Um, I would be pumping my gas and I have a guy just walked by. He was like oh, you want me to pump it for you, you want me to do it for you. And I'm like no, I got it, thank you, but it was the thought. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1right, it was the thought, it was yeah yeah, so by that being the thought of them doing that, then why? It's simple things.
Speaker 3It's a simple thing.
Speaker 1Let's say she is probably driving him around and paying for the gas.
The Smoking and Drug Deal Breakers
Speaker 2Absolutely, she is Absolutely she is Another deal breaker A man dropping me off at work and got in my car all day. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1Yeah, driving around and got my car all day. Oh yeah, yeah, driving around running your gas out all day long.
Speaker 2I got to put more gas in it when he pick me up.
Speaker 3Right.
Speaker 2We're not doing that. We're not doing that.
Speaker 1Okay, got one for you. You're in a relationship. Right's see, she's laughing. Let's see home training yeah, they need a whole bunch of it. Okay, here's one for you. Here's one for you. Let's say, your car broke down and your man has another car right, but your car still broke down and he can't fix your car bill break it makes sense. Make it, make it make sense if you are in a relationship. I should be able to get my car fixed right right yeah, I mean youtube.
Speaker 1Universities tell you how to fix anything these days. They they don't strip cars down. They show you how to put up drywall. They show you how to fix anything these days. They don't strip cars down. They show you how to put up drywall. They show you how to do everything yourself these days. Or your car broke down, like alright, you got my car, that's fine, I'm going to work on your car, but we're going to get your car back on the road, yep, but why would I settle for something like that?
Speaker 2I don't know.
Speaker 1Well, let me drive his car and that's. That's perfectly fine, but your car is not going to be down that whole time because, just like you, might need your transportation for something else, right? So why would I allow your vehicle to stay broke down?
Speaker 2You don't have the coin to get it fixed. Do you have the coin to get it fixed? Yes, Okay. Yes, if you got the coin to get my car fixed, then my car shouldn't be broke. It shouldn't be broke. You either don't fix it or don't get it fixed.
Speaker 1That's it. Or we can do it in stages. Okay, this is what's wrong with it. All right, on this paycheck. Guess what? I'm going to get these parts On this paycheck. I'm going to get these parts On this paycheck. I'm going to get these parts right. Bam, I got the parts. That's fixed.
Speaker 2Pl. Plain and simple. Well, I'm not gonna be sitting on no gold mine, with no broke down car, anyway with a man, and you know what the gold mine is?
Speaker 1yes, okay so again, it's just why are we settling as people? Why are we selling, we, we can sit here and preach this well, a lot of times we feel like I don't know.
Speaker 2I know I've settled in the past and I said never. When I look back on some of the stuff I settled for with these men, I just wanted to slap my own self. But you know, looking back, I would never do half the thing that I did settling before. I'd be by myself before I put over half the stuff that I put up with before, right. You know it's insane that I even allow guys to treat me like that, right, looking back on some of the stuff that I settled for, and I'm just not doing it anymore.
Speaker 1No, I get it, I get it, I get it. Okay, all right, let me see another deal breaker now. We talked about smoking. I I did as far as cigarettes, but if it's a cigar, I just think it's sexy.
Speaker 2I I don't know why why do you feel like a cigar is sexy and not a cigarette?
Speaker 1well, with a cigar and we we spoke about this earlier a cigar you just can't smoke like right, yeah, you just can't inhale. That takes time, and it takes time. Sometimes they have slow burners and it may take two, three hours. That so it's not nothing and you're not inhaling it. All you're doing is sucking it in and blowing it right back out. You're not inhaling it. So now is the stench of the smoke kind of bad. Yeah, it is, but I just think it's cool.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 1I do Because they are, because herb smokes. How about a hookahah? I've never tried a hookah.
Speaker 2Hookah stink to me. I've never tried a hookah. I don't know. I don't even understand the point of hookahs.
Speaker 1You seem like a waste of time to me, like, but some people love the hookahs and yeah, oh, the hookah bars be, the hookah bars be popping.
Speaker 2So, okay, it's sexy to me. Okay, with the hookahs. Oh, the hookah bars be popping.
Speaker 1Okay, it's sexy to me. Okay with the hookah. Or the cigar which one? Or the cigarette? Oh, the cigars. Okay, gotcha, I got it.
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean, I don't mind a man that smokes cigars at all, but I'm talking about them, funky cigarettes.
Speaker 1Oh, I totally agree with you. I can't do cigarettes at all, I mean at all. So no, I'm good, I'm good, I'm totally good.
Speaker 2What about marijuana?
Speaker 1that don't bother me neither.
Speaker 2I can't not all the time. What, not all the time? What if he was on a date and she rolled up five times on a date?
Speaker 1And she rolled up no, that's too much.
Speaker 2So one joint a date. Maybe, Okay, so what if she passed you the blunt and said smoke it?
Speaker 1oh hell, no, I can't do that. I get drug tested, I'm good okay but you allow her to smoke? Yeah, she can do whatever she wants. Do you, it's just do it away from me, that's it. Okay, I don't have any problem with that, you it's just do it away from me, that's it, okay, no, I don't have any problem with that. Let's see Anything out of cigars. No, okay, I get that. I get that. But, like I said, marijuana I don't care. But if you like a pothead, that's a problem.
Speaker 2What if somebody told you to indulge in an ecstasy pill with them? Oh hell, no, no drugs, none.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 1I might wake up on somebody's ceiling or something I'm good.
Speaker 3How the hell I get up here.
Speaker 1Oh God, no drugs is out, completely Drugs out. I'm with you on the drugs. Marijuana technically ain't really a drug, but whatever Drugs are out period, that's a deal breaker Any type of drug, but that's definitely a deal breaker. Okay, because you got some people, like I said, they indulge in some things that you just don't know about. Okay, so I mean, cause you got, you got some people like I said, they indulge in some things that you just don't know about.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 1I'll be. I'll be looking at people's arms these days.
Speaker 3Let me see your arms.
Speaker 2Yeah, they be having them bruises, and Right. Well then, all right.
Speaker 1Mr Talbert, what's the deal breaker for you? Yeah, this is. This is open form. We can say what your deal breakers are. Again, me, I'm a big, I'm very big on smoking cigarettes. I'm very big on that, you know. I'm not even to the point where I would say that a person needs their own car, because sometimes they're not able to get it at the time being. But if they're striving towards it, that's perfectly fine, but they have no ambitions for it.
Speaker 3No.
Speaker 2It's Houston. You need your own car. You need a car out there. Houston is an hour from.
Speaker 1Houston. You need your own car.
Speaker 2You need a car out there. Houston is an hour from Houston.
Speaker 1Right, but you see here we have public transportation here, but it's going to take you two days to get to the north side. Not two days though.
Speaker 2Two days You're going to be on that bus for two days. If she drink Hennessy, straight, no crazy.
Speaker 1She's straight.
Speaker 3I don't want to drink Hennessy straight.
Speaker 2Is it just Hennessy, or is it any alcohol? Is it just straight Hennessy or can it be some Don Julio? Can it be something else? It's just got to be Hennessy, or can it be some Don Julio? Can it be, you know? Can it be something else? It just gotta be Hennessy. Or is it just liquor period?
Speaker 1I don't have a problem with anyone drinking liquor. I indulge, so I don't have a problem. But if you're an alcoholic, I have a problem. An alky yeah, if you're an alky, if you know you should be in a meeting holding a candle talking about my name is such and such, and I'm an alcoholic.
Speaker 2That's a problem but what if you're on a date and a woman drinks like a whole lot of beers back to back to back to back, like a fish, like a fish, yeah I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say she's a professional it? I mean, isn't it mean, would it be? Is it a deal breaker? Like, would you look at her like this dang girl drank too much well, if it's the first time I would have to feel her out.
Speaker 1I had to feel out I had to feel out. I got a few hennessy stories to tell man that henny must be, man that Henny must be, that Henny must be something else For real man, that Henny boy. So I'm gonna have to fill out Because you got some people that can put some back. They can. But that doesn't mean that they Are an alcoholic, it just means, hey, I like to have fun and I'm having fun, and that's it. That's too much.
Speaker 1I know some alcohol I've been around a couple of them Like oh Lord, I ain't hanging with you.
Speaker 3I know Again.
Speaker 1I'll be on someone's ceiling. No we good.
Speaker 2Not Spider-Man.
Speaker 1I'll be hanging on somebody's ceiling. I'm good with that, what's?
Speaker 3up sir.
Speaker 1So, alright, another deal breaker with me, another deal breaker, and I thought about this one. Just tell me the truth up front. If you got something going on in your past, let me know. Just tell me up front. That wasn't a deal breaker for you. No, because I didn't know at the time. Trust me, if she drinks beers back to back, she would definitely let you feel her. Yeah, it's about to be a party on top of the party I got you. So, hey, just tell me up front. If you got something to happen in your past, tell me up front, especially if you know what I do.
Speaker 2I ain't trying to have you take them to jail.
Speaker 1I ain't trying, that's just it. If she has warrants, yeah, she can't handle warrants. What if we don't?
Speaker 2know? Huh, what if we don't know? Huh, what if we don't know? You have a warrant.
Speaker 1Hey, Marilyn K Search tells you everything here. Okay, how about too many baby dads and baby moms?
Speaker 3Oh yeah.
Speaker 2That's the biggest deal breaker in the world. Ooh, I had a guy that's coming here nine baby mamas one time oh wow, that's crazy.
Speaker 1Jojo nine baby mamas not yet. That's a little bit too much what's my limit? Well, you know, I probably have to keep it at the number I'm at five, you got.
Speaker 2You definitely got five. Baby mama, you might as well have nine no, uh, no, just five.
Speaker 1I won't go past five I'll be fair, I'll be fair five that's it not bad, I'll be fair with that because, again, everybody has a pass. Everyone has a pass. What happened in the past? That's their pass, everybody has a pass. So that's my pass, so I'll stick with that. If she has six, it's a no-go, if you got five.
Speaker 2You might as well do it. Brady Bunch remix.
Speaker 1Yeah, she got six. Nah, Nah, nope, we good, he'll break it. If you have small children, absolutely, or wait a minute, wait, wait, wait, I'll give you one. If you want small children, Absolutely, wait, wait, wait, I'll give you one. If you want more kids, oh no, I still want kids.
Speaker 2I'm like, okay, that's what we have to get off the phone Time to find someone else. Tree will not be pushing any more children.
Speaker 1Yeah, I'm good, we're good, we are good. Wait a minute.
Speaker 3How do you do it?
Speaker 1We are good. No, we're great.
Speaker 2We are Gucci.
Speaker 1Because I in no way shape form or fashion, want any more kids, me none.
Speaker 2I was one and done.
Speaker 1Yeah, I don't blame you for laughing.
Speaker 2I am not trying to be 75 going to sixth grade graduation.
Speaker 1Right. Would you date someone that don't have a vehicle or their own place? We spoke about this one earlier. We said with the vehicle. If it's someone that's preventing them from getting the vehicle at the time, then yes. No, I said it was a deal breaker. No, because you asked the child support thing. No, you said that you said if it was something preventing them from getting it, then yes, you said that Don't let me throw the challenge flag.
Speaker 2It's a deal breaker. If you expect, okay, let me rephrase it If you expect me to have a car, I expect you.
Transportation and Relationship Expectations
Speaker 1Okay, all right. So for me, if they have the ability to get a car and they just having troubles at the time, it's fine for me. But if they have the ability and they're not doing anything about it, then it's no.
Speaker 2Now, as far as the own place place, yeah, you have to have your own place so you're content with driving 50 minutes all the time to pick somebody up when you want to see them, or driving honestly, you you don't expect for them to have transportation to get to you sometimes it is called lyft and uber.
Speaker 1They can get there. I know how to compromise again again. Well, you know I was a driver anyway, so it didn't make no difference to me and until I started flying then I was like forget that, I ain't driving no more. If it's anything over two hours I'm flying, so I'm good. But again, I'm willing to compromise. Like I say, if they have the ability and they just don't have the means right now, that's perfectly fine, because some people they may fell on bad time, they just don't have a car. They just need to pick this up, back up and get it.
Speaker 2But again, if you expect me to, have one. I expect you now, if you ain't tripping off me not having a car, I'm not tripping off you. But if some guys boy they, you better not not have a car.
Speaker 1Wait a minute, Let me answer this one. Hell and no that Hell. No, I ain't co-signing. Are we in a city that you don't need a car because you work and live in the city? Well, for Tree, where she lives? That's pretty unfeasible, For where I live there is public transportation.
Speaker 2We have public transportation.
Speaker 1But hey, hey, Miss Marshall.
Speaker 2For three days Trying to get to.
Speaker 1I agree with you. I'm triggered. I don't have a car Fired. No, I'm triggered. I don't have a car FIRED, then no, I got you. If you live in a small town.
Speaker 2You know that's understandable. But when you live in a big city, like I live, somebody gotta have a car I get it, especially where you live.
Speaker 1That's, that's huge down there, but consider where I am. It's not that big. You know what I'm saying. It's nowhere near the size of texas so we good.
Speaker 1So again, I, like I said they could have fell on hard times and you just you just have to ask them the questions hey, do you want a car? You're trying to get a car. Yeah, I just this happened about. Bye cool, we good. And the next thing, you know, they got this up a little beater getting around, they good. You know door might be falling off, but it's good, it's their car.
Speaker 2Hey, yeah, something better than nothing.
Speaker 1I ain't mad at them Right. Beats walking. I'm not mad at them, listen, listen. I've had the worst of the worst and the best of the best with vehicles. Okay, I had old beaters. I had old beaters, I had stuff. The door was in. I was like man, I had to push the door up to close it. Listen, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 3No sir.
Speaker 1Yeah, so not necessarily having a car is a deal breaker. Not necessarily having a car. If you have the means to get it and you're striving to get it, it's perfectly fine. But if you have the means and you're not striving, then that's a problem. I will, though I got you and again it happens. It happens to the best of us. Sometimes we fall on bad times, but it's just. You have to talk to the person, Alright.
Speaker 3Ms.
Speaker 1Marshall, marshall, what's your deal breakers?
Speaker 2where.
Speaker 1I live.
Speaker 2It's a deal breaker it's a deal breaker for me too, because I don't like driving no way. So if I gotta go leave my house to get you take us, then come back home, I might as well stay at home you might as well just stay at home.
Speaker 1That's it Done.
Speaker 2That's it.
Speaker 1Forget it Date's over.
Speaker 2Date's over.
Speaker 1You can go pick him.
Speaker 2On the first date. Anyway, it ain't gonna be no date.
Speaker 1Wait a minute, that's a deal breaker.
Speaker 2Yes, that's a deal breaker. First of all, how are you even dating? I'm just asking how are you dating with no transportation? We're going to take my car all the time. Huh, we're going to take my car all the time, or a scooter.
Speaker 1No, you can drive around in your car, yeah. No, he can drive around in your car, yeah.
Speaker 2No, he's not, Because when it's time to pay that bill, he ain't going to want to pay it. So it's going to be my car when it's time to pay the bill, but it's our car when I can pick him up.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2So it's going to be my car. Okay, I expect for a man. I look for me and I'm speaking for me. For me. I need you to come with at least what I got Someone to leave employment, a car. If he ain't got them, at least them three. As an adult, we got problems.
Speaker 1So what if they had two out of three?
Speaker 2You got to have three out of three. Three out of three.
Speaker 1Okay, I'm just saying they had two out of three.
Speaker 2All the adults should work. Every adult needs somewhere to stay, and if you live in a big city, you need a car. Okay, which two you want? Want to ask me the two? What I, what I? Is it a deal breaker? Which two you want to ask me?
Speaker 1I'm saying if it was two it has to be all three, it can't be two. Which two?
Speaker 2The house or a job or which or a job I'm asking, or which two you need three. You keep saying two when you need three.
Speaker 1I'm asking would you accept two, and if it did, which two?
Speaker 2I'm just asking, I don't know Because you need three Tough decision.
Speaker 1Tough decision has to be't know, because you need three tough decision has to be all three.
Speaker 2You need three. You need somewhere for me to come see you, because you're not coming over my place all the time. Alright, you need a car because I ain't driving I don't like driving, but I will drive right. And you need a job because how are we going to Right. And you need a job Because how are we going to afford the other two without a job?
Speaker 1Okay, so there is no two. That's your answer. It has to be two.
Speaker 2It has to be three. Yeah, we talked about the liars. I think that's the first thing we talked about.
Speaker 1Yeah, we did Liars Because they didn't say he about, yeah, we did.
Speaker 2Because, Damon said he lied, he's a liar. You missed that no.
Speaker 1No, I said I have.
Speaker 2Thank you, I have, we should have, the back, thank you. Employment a vehicle and shelter. Okay, I ain't want to say I have to be the best car, the best shelter and the best job, but you need it.
Speaker 1House car career. Okay, the lack of a vision is deal-breaking. Yeah, we talked about that too. Yep, we talked about that one. Somebody don't have ambitions, somebody don't have a drive Lazy, lazy yep, we definitely talked about that?
Speaker 2What about somebody that complain all the time? Is that a deal breaker? Hell, no, hell yes. Somebody that complains a lot about everything.
Speaker 1Blocked, Big block, Quick way to get into work. Uh-uh, hey, good morning how you doing. What's so good about it? Wait what? Nah? We good bro.
Speaker 2What if somebody always asking for money?
Speaker 1That's a serious yes, that's a serious. Yes, that's a serious one, that's a serious one. Why are you always asking me for money? Or wait a minute, what did the girl say in that video? She said my money is my money and his money is our money. What I would never ask for something I can't bring to the table myself? That depends. Does your complaint match your drive? Let's see always miserable as a deal breaker? Yes, yep, and that's why I was just pointing to you. Know you saying, hey, good morning, how you doing, what's so good about it? Well, I don't see anything good about today.
Speaker 2oh, dude, dude, dude, chill out if someone doesn't accept accountability, is that a deal breaker?
Speaker 1absolutely, hey, she hit me. We gotta talk. Yeah, I mean you have to accept accountability for your action. You do, you have to, because if you don't accept accountability for your actions, then how are you supposed to move forward? Anything you do, mm-hmm, you got to move forward. You got to move forward. Hey, where's Eddie at? Oh, my bad he ain't here. Someone. Being cheap is a deal breaker. All right, jojo, what do you mean by cheap? Yeah, what's cheap? Yeah, what's your definition of cheap?
Speaker 2Taking you to McDonald's on the first date.
Speaker 1And we going to Starbucks. Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 3What, yeah, what, and we going to?
Speaker 1starbucks. Hey, what, yeah, what? What's your definition of cheap? Let's see, I can't. I can't hold something, lol. Let's see, then. You always placing blame on someone else. Yes, yes, oh yes. I'm glad you said something about that one, Something wrong with me and I'm trying to express it but you turn it around and now you're the victim.
Speaker 3What.
Speaker 1Okay, oh, victims, lord Jesus the victim yeah, being a victim all the time. Deal breaker A victim yeah, being a victim all the time, deal breaker, being a victim is a deal breaker.
Speaker 2Okay, so we didn't get to sexual deal breakers.
Speaker 1Oh yeah, we getting to that one Always want to come see you, but not wanting to go out.
Speaker 2Or always want to come to your house and don't have no groceries in their hand, but want to eat up all your food.
Speaker 1Okay, but that's fun. Are you just trying to Netflix? That's it? No?
Speaker 2jealous, come with nothing but wood. That's it, nothing in the bag.
Speaker 1I don't want someone sitting in my house. I don't blame you. I don't want someone sitting in my house. I don't blame you, I don't why, are you here any dates.
Speaker 1That includes a dollar. Menu is cheap damn so what about two? Dollars. I'm just saying what about one dollar? But what about two dollars? That's still cheap ten dollars is cheap. Anything under ten, I can sit by myself, I don't blame you. But what about $2? Anything under $10 is cheap. Anything under $10? I can sit by myself, I don't blame you. For real, yeah, I think when everybody, okay, red flags is what Red flags is under 30 pounds Red flag dog under 30 pounds.
Speaker 3Dog under 30 pounds Red flag dog under 30 pounds.
Speaker 1So let me see Starbucks would make me happy.
Speaker 2Hold on. So a man can't have a little dog?
Speaker 1Red flag dog under 30 pounds. That's a funny. Hey, listen, okay.
Speaker 2Okay, since we on pets, is pets a deal breaker for some of you all, because some people don't like pets, yeah exotic ones, them Komodo, dragons, snakes and lizards and frogs and toads and snails, and them, yes, but cats, well cats, I'm not scared of cats, I just don't. And them, yes, but cats, well cats, I'm not scared of cats, I just don't like them. But anything exotic fish, amphibians, I'm scared of them. Fish.
Speaker 1What's wrong with the fish? They in a tank.
Speaker 2When they die, I gotta get them out, that's nothing.
Speaker 1You scoop it up.
Speaker 2I'm scared.
Speaker 1You're not touching it with your hand.
Speaker 2Mm-mm, I don't do fish.
Speaker 1I don't do fish or birds, oh, Jesus Christ, mm-mm, but you'll do a rabbit, or a hamster.
Speaker 2Yeah, well, my daughter loved them type of things. So strictly for her We've had hamsters and rabbits and I was scared. I was scared of the hamster because it looked like a big rat but I eventually, you know, played with it because it got so big. But I don't do reptiles, snakes, komodo, dragons, lizards and we talked about this one earlier too, jojo.
Speaker 1We was talking about men being at the gas station and women pumping the gas. They got the seat all the way back, not holding the door. We talked about that one. We talked about that earlier. We did. We jumped on that one. I said you know, that's pretty much a deal breaker, because if you can't do this, if you're not doing simple stuff when it gets to the major stuff, then how do you expect to lean on that person or trust that person For real? I'm just saying.
Speaker 3I'm just saying yeah, no cats, no cats there's nothing wrong with cats.
Speaker 2Mm-mm. Cats are sneaky.
Speaker 1I can't say what a deal breaker is for me, because I can handle a lot. No, stupid, but can handle a lot, especially if it can be talked about okay that's older men though okay older men. No cats, no cats, nobody likes cats. I don't have a problem no cats, no cats, nobody likes cats. I don't have a problem with cats, even though.
Speaker 1I don't have one, but I don't have no problem with cats no cats Some exotic animals for you. And fish no cats, okay, okay, now we're getting to the spicy stuff. Let me see Jo birds Okay Okay, all right, now we're getting to the spicy stuff. Let me see All right, jojo, lovely. Let's see Over 50. Oh, so that's a deal breaker for you. Someone over 50?
Speaker 2Hi lovely.
Speaker 1Hello Christina.
Speaker 2Nah, I say over 75.
Speaker 1Damn 75?. You'll go that high. Hell yeah, yeah, you are.
Speaker 2You in late? Yeah, I think I'm about to pop Only 343 minutes late. Who got a single pop pop out there 75.
Speaker 1Yes me, yes me, and immature, okay, Okay, all right, so now we're going to get to some spicy stuff.
Speaker 3What is?
Speaker 1a deal breaker sexually for you. What's that deal breaker?
Speaker 2Me and that don't do oral sex.
Speaker 1Oh Lord, Lord have mercy. You get dumped on the spot. Dumped on the spot. What if they don't know how? They know what?
Speaker 2do you mean? They know you done ate a peach, ain't you, you know?
Speaker 1So that's a requirement? That's a requirement. Uh-oh, did you freeze on me. Selfish partners. Okay, I get it All right. You completely froze on me. What did you say?
Speaker 2I said you know how to eat a peach, don't you?
Speaker 1A little umbrella, oh Lord, a little umbrella, okay, okay. So a little umbrella. What's considered little? A pud, a pud. I just want to know what's considered little.
Speaker 2A pud.
Speaker 1You know what?
Speaker 2a pud is right.
Speaker 1Wait, wait, wait. Do I got to do it like that? That's a pud is right.
Speaker 3What? Wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 1Do I got to do it like that? That's a pud.
Speaker 2Oh man, you can be too big, 12 inches deal breakers, I'm gone.
Speaker 1Angelina she would have refuted that statement. Angel here. She would have refuted that statement. Angela ain't in here. She would have refuted that, like no, bring it on Angela, we're all for the smoke. Somebody you can't feel? Okay, yeah, thumbs up, oh my goodness. Oh my goodness, let me see Deal breaker, deal breaker. As far as I was about to say that I'm saying if Angela was in here, she does. I want all the smoke, yeah.
Speaker 2I can have the 12. Okay, anal the smoke. Yeah, I can have the 12. Mm-hmm. Okay, anal Deal breaker. What Mm-mm? It's a deal breaker? Hell, yes, that's a deal breaker. Yeah, for me, for me.
Speaker 1Now me personally. Personally, I like it.
Speaker 2Don't ain't on me nothing, no, I ain't.
Speaker 1Hey, listen, I, I, but I always. What I always talk to my partner about was I'll talk to him first. Hey look, do you prefer this? Do you prefer it what?
Speaker 3what is this?
Speaker 1I talk to him first. It's never I force it and then, when I talk to them, if they're not comfortable with it, then I won't read, I won't revisit it. What about?
Speaker 2you talk. What about a hairy cootie cat?
Speaker 1uh, no problem with it, what? But? No, I don't have a problem with it. But if they go get waxed, if they go get waxed, ooh Lord, have mercy. That is heaven, that shit painful, huh. Okay, it is painful. You have to start with the thumb. Get some experience in here. Mm-mm, nope, no. But when they go get waxed, ooh Lord, have mercy. Get some experience in here, nope, no. But when they go get waxed, ooh Lord, have mercy.
Speaker 3Yes indeed, yes indeed, but I don't have a problem with hair being there, yeah, I'm good, I'm good, I'm good Nothing.
Speaker 1I'm good, I'm good Nothing, nothing. I'm going to my angle.
Speaker 2But a rag, soap and toilet paper. Now I can go back there. It feels good. It'd be good.
Speaker 1Love it.
Speaker 2Oh man, Waxing or anal? I'm confused.
Speaker 1Wait a minute. Which one are we talking about? Which one?
Speaker 2are you talking about?
Speaker 1Thanks, Judy. Ain't nothing bigger than my poo going up in there.
Speaker 2You are absolutely right. You are absolutely right you are absolutely right. Oh my goodness, let me give you a clap.
Speaker 1You're right. Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God, they're like nope, nope, nope, nope.
Speaker 2Not me.
Speaker 3Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1Then you get a couple of drinks and the whole other person comes out.
Speaker 2I guess, I'll never find out.
Sexual Deal Breakers and Preferences
Speaker 1I'm just saying, I'm just saying oh no I, oh no I would never do that, ever, ever I would never do that and drink a couple of these. Oh I'm like, oh really, wow, okay, that's a no for me. Yeah, we are cutting up any other deal breakers when it comes to it, any other deal breaker. So we saying you said little little umbrella, right? No, anal, definitely no, anal right not giving head two minutes.
Speaker 2Six deal breaker two minutes you said two minutes how long should a sexual experience last?
Speaker 1I want to hear this one. I want to hear how many hours the ladies are going to say in here oh yeah, you're going to give it to me seven and a half hours. I want to hear this one Hell no. Ain't nobody got seven and a half hours. When you get past that, first 30 minutes and a half hours. Yeah, you know, when you get past that first 30 minutes, it's on.
Speaker 2Don't act like no minute man Don't like, no minute man, Okay, okay.
Speaker 1Let me see I'm good About 45 minutes.
Speaker 2Yeah, that's a good time.
Speaker 1About 45, anything under hour in the immortal words of Bernie Mac a fuck ain't nothing but 50 pumps, he said. Count it if you ain't got nothing 50 pumps, what? That's a minute he said count it if you ain't got nothing else better to do.
Speaker 2Mm-mm, it's true. Foreplay better be at least about 20 of those 45 minutes.
Speaker 1But see, that's what he said. He said you do the foreplay right, you do the foreplay. That's when it leads up to everything, because the foreplay just gets you going. Then when you get into it, you're like oh, it was an hour. I agree At least 30 to 45 minutes. Okay, it depends on the woman. Okay, what do you mean it?
Speaker 2depends on the woman Right, because some dudes be 10 minutes with foreplay.
Speaker 1I'm just saying if he's spicing up the moment right and I mean he's spicing up the moment right, I mean he's spicing up the moment to get the foreplay going. The foreplay probably 10, 15 minutes, no foreplay.
Speaker 1No foreplay, okay. Okay, that's a deal breaker, correct. You know the foreplay because you're leading up to it and it's the anticipation, right. And then when it actually and it's the anticipation Right, and then when it actually happened, let me see no hours, but at least a few times back to back, okay, white liver Period, mm-hmm. So it just like I said, the foreplay just leads up to it and then when you lead up to it, it's like, oh my God, I went to the moon and came back.
Speaker 2You got to get the juices flowing.
Speaker 1Yep, you do, you do Sometimes. It's a Sahara desert. You got to give life to that desert. You got to give some life to that desert. You ain't lying, you know. Or you might have to clean out some cobwebs, you know, I'm just saying that's not about me what I was not throwing shots at you Throwing shots Passing gas throwing set?
Speaker 2I don't think that's ever happened to me. I don't think that ever happened to me either. I don't think that's ever happened to me.
Speaker 1I don't think that ever happened to me either. I don't think that's ever happened to me passing gas. Oh, that's disgusting like, oh I'm done, let me see if she got that. Good, it won't last long, but let me go get something to drink. I'll be back. But I had some garbage and two loose cats and I couldn't bust for nothing. Oh yeah, that's a deal breaker. That is definitely a deal breaker a loose one.
Speaker 2Is it a deal breaker if a man have to take a Bluetooth before y'all can get it in?
Speaker 1Well, how you know, they're taking a Bluetooth. Well, you know, because it ain't going gonna work until he take it. Well, some people's stuff just don't work like they used to.
Speaker 2Hmm that's what I'm asking.
Speaker 1That's the ladies, that's the ladies, that's all the ladies.
Speaker 2Let's see who on here take bluetooth? The man shit.
Speaker 1Why would you be putting that shit in your body? Nobody knows what's in that stuff. I don't know anything about a desert. Woman can tell, if you think women can tell. If he's taking a blue chew, really. Oh okay, what else we got? It's a deal breaker if I have to jump start the cat. Oh my god wait a minute.
Speaker 3How you jumpstart the cat.
Speaker 1Oh my God, jumpstart the cat. How do you jumpstart it? Wait a minute, how do you jumpstart the cat? That's what I want to know. Yeah, how do you jumpstart the cat?
Speaker 2Right, because I'm trying to make sure ain't nobody got to jumpstart mine.
Speaker 1So what they do, they're about to hook you up, baby. What's a?
Speaker 2jumpstart Right, for real Everybody want to know.
Speaker 1How you jumpstarted.
Speaker 2Yeah, I want to even know this one we all invested.
Speaker 1How you jumpstarted.
Speaker 2Oh spit, Ain't nothing wrong with a little spit. Jumpstart a cat.
Speaker 3Ain't nothing wrong with a little spit.
Speaker 1Ain't nothing wrong with it. Oh, that's how you jumpstart it. Oh, oh, oh, oh, hot Tui spit on that thing.
Speaker 2I thought it was called Hot Tui, spit on that thing.
Speaker 1Oh, that's for the men. Huh, now, that's different. Now that's different, that's different.
Speaker 2That's the men ain't it?
Speaker 1I'm good, I passed the test. Yeah, that Okay, from the back of the tongue, from the back, you make sure he getting all that.
Speaker 2That's Deidre on his. He just don't know, he don't know he talking.
Speaker 1I'm just saying, I'm just saying it's interesting in here, yeah, and any other, any other sexual deal breakers in here, any other, yeah. So we said you got, you got to go down there, right about, you got to get in there, you got to get all in there going about like that hox bit that hox tooie what about the foot fetishes?
Speaker 2the men with the foot fetishes? I don't have any of that no, women have foot fetishes for me. Hmm, the men with the foot fetishes. I don't have any of that Do women have foot fetishes for men.
Speaker 1I've never heard of it, but I would love to hear. Okay, is someone having bad feet deal breaker? I have a foot fetish.
Speaker 2Okay, she said most men feet ugly. Ignorance is a deal breaker for me. I know that's right.
Boundaries and Relationship Expectations
Speaker 1Oh yeah, nope, Most men feet ugly Boo, it's not. Oh yeah, nope, most men feet ugly boo, it's not. Yeah, ignorance, yeah, that's a good one. Oh, I met a man who asked to suck my toes at the credit, damn at the credit union.
Speaker 2He had to took some money out. He would have been stuck in these toes at the credit union. No, you know, I'm just talking.
Speaker 1If he had took some money out, he would have been stuck in these toes At the credit union.
Speaker 2No, you know, I'm just talking. I'm not just talking, no, you just talking. He would have told these toes how to put them feet up there on that thing. You know what I'm saying At that desk, at that credit union, how to put them toes up there.
Speaker 1Like you want some hot sauce with this, really. There, you want some hot sauce with this, really, you want some hot sauce with this. We got you Barbecue. What, what you need, what you need.
Speaker 2I massage a woman's feet, but I wouldn't suck toes. I like my toes sucked.
Speaker 1Angela about time.
Speaker 2You are late and you missed the best part, when we were talking about you too, angela the best toe sucking experience is missionary looking at you in your face and they sucking your toes. That's the best time.
Speaker 1Oh God, not my style. Nope, I agree with you, not my style Damon suck some toes. Oh hell. No, I had to do my monthly duties. I got you Hell and no.
Speaker 2Absolutely not. Sucking some toes. Hell and no, Absolutely not.
Speaker 1Man you got to be sucking some toes. Mm-mm. Won't happen, not in this lifetime.
Speaker 2Well, whatever dude, I get weak. If you see me with a dude, he's sucking my toes.
Speaker 1Mm-mm-mm-mm. He a better man than me. Man, I'm not going to give him the high five. I'm going to give you the high five. I'm gonna give you the high five. I'm good on that, especially a fresh patty, okay, and bingo. But but see where my husband at he here today?
Speaker 2no, he is he is not here. You can stick your tongue in somebody's anal, but you can't suck no toes. That's a problem.
Speaker 1I ain't doing that shit, neither.
Speaker 2Nah, that's mandatory, oh shit.
Speaker 1Fuck that, that's mandatory.
Speaker 2That's a mando. Hell nah, you don't supposed to have no limits other than anal when it come down to your partner. Now, if your partner tell you to suck them toes, damn you gonna get on that float and you gonna suck them toes she be a mad motherfucker because I'll be gone.
Speaker 1Both of them have a big nose. I don't like my soles tucked at all. A massage is the best, though that's eating groceries.
Speaker 3Yeah, I don't want my soul tucked at all. A massage is the best, though.
Speaker 1That's eating groceries. Yeah, I don't want none of them, damn groceries.
Speaker 2Yeah you do Hell nah.
Speaker 1Right, niecy Boo, I had the best one, one God-tested soul, damn. Okay, cece, I think when you've been married you do a little bit of everything. Everything I got you Run red lights and all that Damn Ain't no limits. Wait a minute. I got to go back to this question for Angela. So, angela, earlier we were talking about it and we said if you was in here, we already know. So it was asking this Would you prefer the little umbrella? And Tree said no, if it's 12, I ain't doing it. I said if Angela was in here, she want all the smoke.
Speaker 2I'll take a good four inches, four, five, six, oh God.
Speaker 1I'm not running no red lights. Hey, listen, I've ran a no red lights. Hey, listen, I've ran a couple red lights.
Speaker 2I have two.
Speaker 1I've ran a couple red lights so we good. The biggest was ten. See, I told you Angela want all the smoke. Yeah, yeah, but I'm just surprised our boy ain't here tonight. Yeah, our boy ain't coming here tonight.
Speaker 2I don't know why idiot.
Speaker 1We have to do a check on the welfare form. Yeah, we definitely got to do a check on the welfare form, so Because Got to get our boy in here? Let me see the smallest, just let me say he could pee on his butt. Damn, god damn.
Speaker 2He's spending that money. Oh, he spent that $40.
Speaker 1He's spending that $40. He spent that $40. $40. Oh, my goodness, y'all know that this 40 up. Eddie ain't here to defend himself, so leave Eddie alone oh hell, nah, we giving him all the smoke, we giving his ass all the smoke, since he ain't here.
Speaker 2Eddie ain't here to defend himself.
Speaker 1Hey, he be all right. He be all right Because the first thing he'll come in here and say, oh no, he E-40.
Speaker 2Yeah, E-40 is not here tonight. Y'all, I don't know where he is. Yeah, E-40 not here tonight. That's why he not here hey.
Speaker 1Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 2Is paying for sex a deal breaker?
Speaker 1Who trick Is paying for sex? A deal breaker. What you had.
Speaker 2To look at it like this, you're going to pay for it anyway, you sure You're going to pay for it anyway?
Speaker 1Okay, here's his thing, you're going to pay for it anyway. Okay, here's the thing, you're going to pay for it anyway. You got to go to dinner, right? Y'all going on dates, y'all doing things together, movies, whatever. You're paying for it anyway. You're just paying for your investment. That's all.
Speaker 2I think when you like people, you excuse a little meat, maybe sometimes I got a lot of you you excuse a little meat Maybe sometimes I got a lot of you to mess with a little meat.
Speaker 1One way or the other. Yeah, so you're going to pay for it anyway, because, again, you putting in investment.
Speaker 2Okay, okay.
Speaker 1Let's go back to another conversation. Flown out, remember. Yeah, flu phone, whatever. If you get flown out, they want return on their investment. Okay, lord jesus, we back uh they want a return on their investment. What's little the knob? Another deal breaker for me is a woman that's not independent. Yep, we talked about that. We talked about that earlier.
Speaker 2Yep, I'm just saying so, Greg, don't take care of me.
Speaker 1No, if you ain't independent, he ain't taking care of you, damn. He put you independent. He ain't taking care of you, damn. But you're independent, you ain't got nothing to worry about.
Speaker 2What if I wouldn't, though? Hmm, what if I wouldn't? Greg wouldn't take care of me.
Speaker 1Greg would take care of you. Greg got you. Who's going to pay, with these niggas giving it up for free? Let me see. Women don't want to be independent.
Speaker 3Mmm Some don't?
Speaker 2I want somebody to pay off the bills.
Speaker 1That's what you want. No, I was about to say because you know what's about to happen, right.
Speaker 2You ain't put a bop on the other side of my head because you paying all my bills.
Speaker 1Nope, I'm like hey, hey, Tree, that's some bulls**t.
Speaker 2I'm just saying Don't go in and sit down. Okay, I got to go sit down because this man paying all my bills. I want to be able to talk back a little bit. I want to be able to talk my stuff a little bit because I Because I pay my own bill who you talking to? Oh, okay, that's what I thought. You can't say that when a man paying all your bills, you got to be obedient. When a man paying all your bills Sit down.
Speaker 1Okay, we are forced to be that way. I want to be soft, but I'm forced to be a gangster. Oh yeah, All y'all West Coast chicks boy.
Speaker 2Drink gangsters over there, boy, it's the word no.
Speaker 1Another deal for me is the word no.
Speaker 2Wait a minute now.
Speaker 1You got to explain that one.
Speaker 2I'm a professional, talk your shit. Hell no, what about? Hell no.
Speaker 1Unless if we were married or in a serious relationship, I'd definitely put in my work in and work together to establish a great future, absolutely.
Speaker 2That's the goal, right, I knew you was going to come through for your girl, greg. I knew it. I knowed it. Yeah, come on. He said no, but we know how to say hell, no, hell, no.
Speaker 1Yeah, I want to hear this one, the word no. What's up, sir? I see you turning there from Cancun. I appreciate you.
Speaker 2Hell. No, it ain't no, hell no.
Speaker 1No, let's see the independent life chose me okay because I ain't even asked for it.
Speaker 2I was put here on this earth, forced into independence, because I didn't ask for it.
Speaker 1You was forced into it.
Speaker 3Yes, yes, I was enslaved into independence you was enslaved.
Speaker 1Huh, oh, my goodness. So we. It seemed like we have a lot of deal break. I mean a lot of deal breakers, like you said. The big three for you job car host. Yeah, got you right, I get it. Let me see, I was raised by a single mom and she made me and my brother understand and prepare for the world. Absolutely, I was raised by my grandmother, so I totally understand, I totally understand okay.
Speaker 2So since a lot of you ladies just came in the room, so I told damon, a deal breaker for me is a man with no car, no job, job. Well, he has to have a job, a car and a house. And Damon said that having a car shouldn't be a deal breaker.
Speaker 1I didn't say shouldn't be. I didn't say shouldn't be. I'm saying if they have the ability to get a car and they just don't have the means to get it right now, but but they're striving for it, is fine. But if they have the ability and they're doing nothing, then yes, that's what I said.
Speaker 2Whatever, that's what I said, but he had a problem with me saying that they have to have all three. I didn't. Now, some people live where they have like subways, trains and that's all fine. We don't got all that out here. We got bus, the light rail, ride shares and that's fine if you want to do the ride shares and that type of stuff. But for me my patience is very thin and I don't want to have to do all of that.
Speaker 1So you know, I'm not doing it. Yep, okay, let's see Car driver's license, a roof and a career and benefits. Okay, hmm, okay.
Speaker 3Okay.
Speaker 1Bobby. Welcome, hey Bobby. So again. Again we talked about all your deal breakers, and that's perfectly fine, that's perfectly fine, and we got into. You know you have to do this, you have to all your deal breakers, and that's perfectly fine, that's perfectly fine, and we got into. You know you have to do this, you have to do that. But again, I'm not sucking nobody's goddamn toes. What was the question?
Speaker 2You haven't met the right woman to suck her toe.
Speaker 1Oh hell.
Speaker 2No, you can't never suck in a toe. Ah, fuck that you can't never say what you ain't going to do.
Speaker 1I ain't doing it. Having a job is totally essential in my view. I've dated two women in my life that didn't have jobs. Never again. I live in New York and we don't have nothing but mass transfer.
Speaker 2Yeah, definitely in New York.
Speaker 1And I'm not a Santa boy in New York. Yep, it's something about a man picking you up in his car and riding around.
Speaker 2love that yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 1They don't do it these days some don't do it these days, some a lot of.
Speaker 2Some don't do it a lot of these days some ladies, when the last time a man picked you up and rode you around in his car?
Speaker 1Oh shit.
Old School Dating Values and Music
Speaker 2Oh, here we go. Since I'm tripping when was the last time you ladies went riding around listening to some R&B music in your car? Not your car, his car okay.
Speaker 1So he said, you said you won't do anything, but why we gotta suck toes?
Speaker 3let's see you didn't want to ride in mine uh oh, you didn't want to ride in mine.
Speaker 22019 damn tomorrow sweet oh okay, tomorrow. Who else, bobby? You didn't want to ride him out. Whatever, bobby didn't ride me around in his car what.
Speaker 2Tate said don't listen to him. So why we don't suck toes though? Because you don't suck toes, you ain't met the right set of got to suck toes though. Because, because what? You ain't met the right set of toes to suck, no, no kind of toes I ain't sucking. He can have a hooptie. I don't care what kind of tie you get, as long as it comes to me and I ain't got to drive, it can be a hooptie as long as it's your hooptie, it can be a hooptie. Yeah, it's better than walking.
Speaker 1It's better than us walking. I'm putting it in the atmosphere.
Speaker 2Oh my God, what you putting in the atmosphere that ride around, that ride around in a man car.
Speaker 1She got suckable toes though.
Speaker 2Andrew.
Speaker 1Andrew Bobby didn't suck my toes either.
Speaker 2no, I'm driving my car I don't blame you, I'm just saying it.
Speaker 1That don't happen these days, that that don't happen, that's old, that's old school if I had a car, I would definitely pick up my woman from work or whatever. Yeah, I agree with that Pick up. Hey, you ain't got to drive today. I got you. I'm off today, I'll pick you up. Or if she works off schedule for me, yeah, I'll pick you up, don't worry about it?
Speaker 2Do you pick your women up, Julius, and ride them around listening to 90s music?
Speaker 1What's the fact.
Speaker 3Yeah, let's see hey Siri, sound like radio works the best.
Speaker 1It works the best. I still have some old school driving dating values okay, me too.
Speaker 2I like old school dating values. People don't date old school. No more like listening to music, holding hands, shooting the shit, enjoying each other.
Speaker 1Absolutely Getting out taking a walk, walking down a waterfront.
Speaker 2Going downtown, hitting a few blocks If he drives me anywhere and plays 90 music.
Speaker 1He better have a big back seat exactly go to the park. I want to feel butterflies. Okay, we held hands and went walking around. Yeah, absolutely love that. Love that we did about 3-6 Mafia.
Speaker 2He a lie. Stop lying, boy. When you took somebody in your car bumping some 3-6 Mafia, 3-6 Mafia. Don't let that boy lie to y'all. You see, my point was proving that one woman got on here and said that they had that happen within the last five years. I rest my case. Bang the gavel.
Speaker 1Wait a minute.
Speaker 2Angela said 2019.
Speaker 1Angela said 2019. So it was the last five.
Speaker 2When have you done it?
Speaker 1Done what.
Speaker 2Oh, now you got amnesia. Done what?
Speaker 1We done, went through a whole bunch of stuff here.
Speaker 2When have you rode a woman around listening to some 90s music in your car?
Speaker 1In my car Some 90s music. It's been a while. It's been a while. It's been a while.
Speaker 2Y'all don't do stuff like that, no more. Bring back the men that ride. They women around listening to R&B music A whole playlist. Bring them men around. What are men's, is it? They probably dead.
Speaker 1No, that's not true. That's not true. It's not true.
Speaker 2These are why 90s music 90s got the best R&B music. Everybody know this. Well, 90s on back, I should say Anything.
Speaker 1This music here is garbage 90s on back. Them men on respirators.
Speaker 2They gotta be because they ain't in the streets. No more, yeah. Let me see yes absolutely, because this music out here today is garbage. Yeah, bring the men back that love to do stuff like that, and that's, I mean, I know, gas expensive.
Speaker 1That shit born. I'm going to find something else to do. What's?
Speaker 3born.
Speaker 2Riding around listening to 90s music. That's because he be hungry all the time he want to eat. What's boring Riding around listening to 90s music? He be hungry all the time he want to eat.
Speaker 1That's what it is. Don't deliver, sir Her Shaz her.
Speaker 2Fizzle her. I have all types of music. I'm just saying I said 90s music because I'm sure everybody in here at least 35 and over, at least that's why I mean if you just love music, you love music.
Speaker 1You know what I'm saying so well.
Speaker 2I say karaoke.
Speaker 1Oh yeah, karaoke in the car is best because I'll tell you outside of that car you'll never hear me sing. That was, that's not for the world, because I know I can't sing.
Speaker 2But I won my debate tonight.
Speaker 1Let me see we're not taking away from all artists I have. R&b is arguably the best era in music. I agree with you wholeheartedly. In the car, in the shower, absolutely yeah, because again no one else is going to hear that. You know I won't pull the Shannon Sharp thing, you know, and put my thing on IG Live and let you hear everything.
Speaker 2Please don't, please don't.
Speaker 1Please don't. And then come on in and apologize, but we have enjoyed this. We enjoyed this very much. I enjoy everyone. We enjoy the comments, we enjoy the smoke too. Let's see A man that can dance with you and enjoy music with you at a concert, because I'm going to sing at the top of my lungs, yeah.
Speaker 3When some good songs, you sing it at the top of your lungs.
Speaker 1I agree. Are y'all going to?
Speaker 3take over next year.
Speaker 2Where does it be, because I saw you were talking about it the last time. I know it's in Texas, but what city?
Speaker 1I think Dallas. I think it's in Dallas. You can ride me around, listen to music, talk, go open houses let me know, I'll meet you out there. Yeah, I think it's there. It's Dallas yeah.
Speaker 3Dallas usually throw all those parties.
Speaker 1Hey, send us the info, we'll pull up. Send us the info. I'm all for a good party. I am all for a good party. I am all for a good party.
Speaker 2So basically, since a lot of y'all just came in the room, we're going to have Bestie tell y'all what his deal breakers was again.
Speaker 1Smoking.
Speaker 2He said smoking was his. He don't like cigarettes.
Relationship Deal Breakers and Expectations
Speaker 1Cigarettes, cigarette smoking Urban Travel Network on Facebook. Okay, let me see Sm like cigarettes. Cigarettes, cigarette smoking Urban Travel Network on Facebook. Okay, let me see Smoking cigarettes, wanting more kids. What else did I say?
Speaker 2What else. Sucking toes.
Speaker 1Oh yeah, I ain't sucking nobody's toes and I ain't eating nobody's groceries. No, I ain't doing any of that. What else did I say? Oral six I didn't say that.
Speaker 1I didn't say that at all because I want it, so I'm gonna give it okay yeah, I ain't saying at all, but, um, yeah, those were were pretty much the main ones. I said I would negotiate the vehicle. If they're striving to get one, I said I'd negotiate that. But if they don't, if they're just not trying to have anything whatsoever, then no, that's a deal breaker for me. What about a job? No ambitions, yeah, no ambitions. You don't want to do anything in your life, you just want to sit around, sit on the couch. You know being a victim all the time deal breaker.
Speaker 1yep, if I'm a victim all the time, that's a deal breaker not taking a complainer a man who isn't uh, mostly emotionally involved with his kids or want more kids smoking blacks and cigarettes or tapes. Men that stay high or drunk all the time yeah, if you're an alcoholic, that's a problem, you're definitely a problem. No accountability Yep, absolutely. Yeah, so that's a big one. No accountability oh, it's your fault.
Speaker 2Fault it's always your fault. I didn't do nothing that's the point. You didn't do anything me and they don't have a relationship with their family yeah, yep, absolutely got it.
Speaker 1You got gotta be family audience because, again, you never know what's gonna happen to you. If anybody caught what I talked about a little bit earlier, about just everything that's going on in society, then you'll understand. Your family means everything to you. Sometimes that's the only people that you have so smoking, smoking baby daddy drama, unappreciative women yep, absolutely, absolutely. What about bad kids? Oh my god, got to go.
Speaker 2I thought about you, David.
Speaker 1Got to go Got to go.
Speaker 2Bad kids and a whole bunch of bad kids.
Speaker 1A whole bunch of them, yeah.
Speaker 2Got to go. No solutions, amen, mm-hmm.
Speaker 1Constantly begging Yep, absolutely Always with your handout. But never, give anything in return.
Speaker 2I always got a habit but can't never supply them. Like you, smoke cigarettes, but I always begging for them Mm-hmm, gaslighters, narcissists, liars Always got excuses.
Speaker 1Users always in the mood Tell her baby mamas, wait a minute. How many baby mamas Is there a limit? Is there a limit? I'm just asking. Is there a?
Speaker 2limit, say five.
Speaker 3Ooh.
Speaker 1Jaleh Ooh Chad. I'm just asking Is there a limit?
Speaker 2What's the limit, bestie? Huh, for me Five.
Speaker 1Because that's what I got. What's the limit, bestie? Huh, for me five, cause that's what I got. You go past five, that's it. You got six. We can't talk, god dang, I can't. I can't, I can't sit up here and say I can't done something. I got five. So what I'm saying is that hey, at least five, you under you at five. I can't sit up here and say I can't do something, I got five. What I'm saying is that hey, at least five, you at five or under five. We good, you say you got six, I can't do it. Damn, what if they all grown? I'll give you up to what I have. What if they grown? No silver teeth bandit.
Speaker 2Jesse, what if I had five keys or grown? Well, if it's five, we good, I mean six. What if she got six grown kids? No, I'm not going over what I got, sorry, six, they grown.
Speaker 1What that got to do with you what my ex-husband, two daughters. Okay, no grills, no grills. I like grills.
Speaker 2Well, not for me. So I want a grill. So hey, it ain't no deal breaker, cause I'm about to get me a grill so we can smile at each other together it's a southern thing, it's a southern thing.
Speaker 1I'm sure.
Speaker 3I'm sure.
Speaker 1I'm sure, and it's no hate, no hate, no shade, I'm just sure, dread stink. Oh man, well, I ain't got that problem, dread stink bonnet stink braid stink wig, stink weave, stink just hair. Stinking Breath, stinking hair stinking Mm-hmm Breath, stinking nose, stinking Baby beards, baby beards. What's a baby?
Speaker 2beard, that's the ones that don't connect. Got the patches like Apache. Call them patches.
Speaker 1No, you call that a desert.
Speaker 2Or them dudes that be hat fishing. I hate a nigga that hat fish. For them dudes that be hat fishing. I hate a nigga that hat fish.
Speaker 1Wearing a hat all the time to cover up. See, when I knew I had a receding hairline, I said oh no, it's gone. That's why I shaved. Shave it all off, you'll never see it, I ain't worry about it. I gave it up. That'd be uh, nappy, uh, ah. Mattie Pierce, anthony Hamilton, damn.
Speaker 2Booty face. I can't stand no man with no booty face.
Speaker 1Oh, so that's why you always hated when I had a clean shave.
Speaker 2Yes, I hurry up and told you.
Speaker 1Always call me booty face. Oh you, booty face, you booty face, booty face.
Speaker 2Why is you looking like booty face? I used to get on him all the time. Grow some hair somewhere, either on your head or on your face, the shade is real. Booty face, the shade is real booty face the shade is real.
Speaker 1The shade is real it's real how about hairy chest on men or women?
Speaker 2well, I don't think no man want no hairy chest woman.
Speaker 1Booty fingers, that is booty fingers I don't think no man want no hairy cheese woman Booty fingers.
Speaker 2I don't think I've ever done that?
Speaker 1What is booty fingers? Yeah, what's booty fingers? Wait a minute, god damn.
Speaker 2You talking about those little fingernails. You talking about those little fingernails, y'all tripping tonight, y'all tripping. Y'all is tripping tonight, y'all tripping, y'all is tripping tonight. Booty fingers. I'm just saying what booty fingers. I'm just saying Is that them little fingernails with the little nails on their hands? I don't know. Don't get me to lie, oh well.
Speaker 3Yeah sniffer.
Speaker 2Oh damn, don't get me to lie. Oh well, yeah, sniffer oh damn what is wrong with y'all tonight? What they have? Tiny fingers and nails, silvers, and they fingertips look like booty oh, lord, have mercy what kind of people y'all know let me see they bite their nails. Wait a minute Now. That's what booty fingers is with them. Little nails, like them, little nubby nails, oh okay, okay, okay, like wait what is weight A deal breaker is like can somebody be too big?
Speaker 1If it's refusia, yes. Yes. If it's forusia, yes.
Speaker 2What? Yes, if it's Refusia. Yes, her name is. First of all, we're not going to go through this this week. You are not fat. We're not going through that this week with you. The lady name is Refusia. Yeah.
Speaker 1If it's her, then yes, that's out of my league. That's not big, that's not fat. I don't want nobody bigger than me.
Speaker 2I do. That is not fat. I don't want somebody bigger than me.
Speaker 1Let's see you do over her house, then go into a room and she has an air mattress.
Speaker 2I guess the air mattress y'all can't build a bounce house with the air mattress
Speaker 1how many pounds is too big if it's refusia? It's too big.
Speaker 2I like to me a big old man.
Speaker 1I got jiggly meat.
Speaker 2Ain't nothing wrong with no jiggly meat I don't want no Pat Albert man. I like big guys, but not 600 pound life big.
Speaker 1That's what I'm saying, that's what I'm equating it to Refusia that's too big.
Speaker 2Refusia. It don't even matter. I'm saying that's what, I'm equating it to Respution. That's too big Respution.
Speaker 1It don't even matter, it's too big.
Speaker 2I keep a fan with me.
Speaker 1I keep a fan with me, I gotta have to carry a towel stand. Oh my God, that's God. Don't start, damon.
Speaker 2No, he messed that lady's name up all the time. Oh, I did, I did, I did. I like big man though.
Speaker 1Okay, okay, so small guys so small guys is a deal breaker for you.
Speaker 2Hell yeah, I just met one last week. He was 5'2, 5'3. That nigga was little.
Speaker 1Lower hammer. I love big men over 6 feet, 192 20. But, that's not big.
Speaker 2That's a big dog, but that's not. I'll take a 190 to 300. Thank you, rasputia. Thank you.
Speaker 1Not you broke it down for me, though. I want you to look up at.
Speaker 2I want to look up at you, okay 190 to 300 is my go, tall and big.
Speaker 1Okay, we talked about fat. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about Fat.
Speaker 2I met a little dude last week. He was 5'2". That's not even average height. Guess what I ain't calling back no more. I bet you didn't, that's not even average height. He was too little y'all. That was almost a little person.
Speaker 1Unbelievable, don't be laughing. Not even average height.
Speaker 2That man was so little I think he came up to my waist.
Speaker 1Again, let me see Tall is six feet and up. King Kong is a big ninja.
Speaker 2Okay, that's my name, king Kong. Well, he's like six, nine or something.
Speaker 1I'm short and I don't like men under six feet. I want you to pick me up.
Speaker 2Okay, I about picked that little man up last week.
Speaker 1Oh God, I'm taller than him.
Speaker 2That man was 5'2".
Speaker 1Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 2He was little, him was little. I almost picked him up like a baby you could pat him.
Speaker 1You could pat him on his head.
Speaker 2I could.
Speaker 1It was hilarious oh my goodness, y'all on a roll, y'all on a roll.
Speaker 2I'm almost 5'10. That man was 5'2. 5'3. He was 5'3, but I thought he was about 5 feet. I don't even give him the 5'10". That man was 5'2". 5'3" he was 5'3", but I thought he was about 5 feet. I don't even give him the 5'3". He was about 5 feet tall, that nigga was good. Y'all on a roll tonight. Give him some fruit snacks.
Speaker 1Give him some fruit snacks.
Speaker 2Oh my God, I gave him back to the streets. Him little he him was little, him little. He was at vagina height. That's all he could stand up and do, damn. Yeah he was a vagina monster.
Speaker 1Oh, he was, oh, okay. That's where he was at.
Speaker 2That wasn't even average height. That's where he was at on me.
Speaker 1Unbelievable, unbelievable.
Speaker 3Unbelievable.
Speaker 2Anytime my feet bigger than yours. You a little man.
Speaker 1He was a Chucky dog. I'm 5'3" but I'm a big dog, wolf.
Speaker 2He said he was 5'3". That man couldn't have been 5'3" At all. Exactly, that was a puppy. I like big dogs. That was a chihuahua.
Speaker 1Unbelievable, unbelievable, y'all, y'all, y'all.
Speaker 2Those men love me though, them little dudes. They like me, but I just can't get jiggy with it.
Speaker 1I don't want no man with a fat butt. Oh my god, oh lord yep, not with a butt fatter than yours, though if I can't slap box with you, it's a negative you don't want no big fucking man you don't want no man with no ass what if he start twerking?
Speaker 3I don't want to see, I don't want to see eye to eye.
Speaker 1What if?
Speaker 2y'all want to make the man stand up and start twerking. That date will probably be over. I don't want to see eye to eye.
Speaker 1What if y'all want to make a man stand up and start twerking? That date will probably be over. That date will probably be over. I shall be.
Speaker 2I'm waiting for him. I'm waiting for him to bring him to the house.
Speaker 1Tree came back to the house empty handed Men with hips Nope, wow, okay, that far he could sure have. Can't have hips. Nope, wow, okay, that far he could sure have. Can't have hips, oh Lord we can't both be? Walking down the street getting cat calls.
Speaker 2Getting whistled. You don't know who ain't whistling, you or him.
Speaker 1Oh, my God.
Speaker 2Oh, my God.
Speaker 1Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 2What if y'all and a sound come on and he starts twerking. Yeah, I'd be ready, Halo daddy.
Speaker 1I'm telling you, the date would be over.
Speaker 2The date would be over.
Speaker 1It's time to hit up. That's an instant deal breaker. See goodbye, instant deal breaker. Hell, no Me who wears straight leg jeans, talking about the skinny ones, right.
Speaker 2Or what if you're on a date and he pull up in one of them Fat Albert outfits from the 90s, he having one of them retro Fat Albert outfits?
Speaker 1And he say hey, hey, hey.
Speaker 2If a man walking on a date with a Fat Albert outfit on, I'm going to excuse myself to the bathroom, go out the back door and get in my car and go home.
Speaker 3Because why you?
Speaker 2got a Fat Albert outfit.
Speaker 1Guinea jeans yep, let me say it's a no. It's a hard no, because why you got a fat outfit.
Speaker 2Skinny jeans yep, let me say it's a no it's a hard, no oh my goodness, this is better than pop the balloon you remember that dude who had met me with that big old jersey I got?
Speaker 3some funny stories.
Speaker 2Let's see my co-worker that big old jersey on I got some funny stories.
Speaker 1Let's see. My coworker came to work dressed like Fat Al. When I hollered oh my God.
Speaker 3Hey, hey, hey.
Speaker 1Oh my goodness, Hilarious.
Speaker 2That man thought he was trying to go to the club with me and lovely, we were like mm-mm. We were like, oh, you got to dress up to come up in here.
Speaker 1All right, hey, let me give you a shout-out real fast before we move on. Siobhan, check out her YouTube channel. She does amazing things on her YouTube channel. She shows off jewelry. She shows off different things. Check YouTube channel. She shows off jewelry. She shows off different things. Check her out. She has a lot of good stuff on there. Go, subscribe to her page. Give her some love too. We're very, very good friends. We roller skate together also. But, yeah, please check out her page. Show her some love Also. She helped you out with different jewelry. I watched one of her episodes where she was talking about something I think it was Gucci something. One of her episodes where she was talking about I think it was Gucci something. Something with Gucci cost like $3 million. She found it someplace else but way cheaper and was better than what they was offering. So, yeah, check Siobhan out.
Speaker 2Most definitely.
Speaker 1Shoes bent up. Oh yeah, balloon pop.
Speaker 2Yeah, I have some horrible stories with dating y'all.
Speaker 1Oh listen. I think that'll be our next episode. What's your horror story at dating?
Speaker 3Horror.
Speaker 1No problem. No problem. Hey, Angela said adder. But yeah, like I said, I think we'll talk about that in the next one. Baby, them bent up. Shoes did it for me.
Speaker 2He was trying to come in the club with us. We like uh-oh, you got to dress up to come up in here. We were lying, but he couldn't come up in there with us. Uh-uh, oh, my God, we were lying, we wasn't even dressed, laughing, we wasn't even dressed up, we wasn't even dressed up. We told him oh, you got to be suited and booted to come on.
Speaker 1Dirty Air Force Ones. Oh, that boy was toe up.
Speaker 2Y'all are hilarious, friend, come on, yeah, I got some horror. Yeah, that's going to be our next topic. Y'all come with your horror dating stories.
Speaker 1Yeah, your horror dating stories that's going to be next week. Your horror dating story yeah, that's going to be next week. Your horror dating story yeah, that's going to be next week. Come with your stories, come with everything. But we appreciate each and every last one of you, especially the comments. We love the comments.
Speaker 3I'm here for the comments.
Speaker 1I'm telling you I'm here for the comments. Two strings all tight. But again, we appreciate each and every last one of you that came on here and we love you. As always, we love to smoke, I know at least I do. Hey, join us next wednesday. We're gonna be on here again. We try to get here because I try to fit on trees schedule. So if, if it's Eastern time, it was, this week, it was close to nine o'clock, so eight her time, cause she's an hour back from me, and what's that? Six West coast time.
Speaker 2So we try to keep it Go at nine o'clock.
Speaker 1Who was a little daddy on the sports pocket? That was TJ, a little daddy Toes hanging out on the high heels. But again, we appreciate each and every one of you. Let me see Thumbs up and share the live. Yeah, please, please share the live on your page.
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Speaker 2I'm telling you you will love her content. I don't want to be on YouTube, so is that your only place? You have a Facebook.
Speaker 1Yeah, yeah, we love it here too.
Speaker 2And we love you here.
Speaker 1Yeah, absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker 2Like I said, I loved your comment when we were doing the podcast about you getting the wings and the drinks. Eddie, he was missing tonight. He didn't make roll call.
Speaker 1Yeah, angela, you got to find your husband.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, I mean when I get off I'm going to say you missed the roll call tonight.
Speaker 1Yeah, yep, you missed the roll call.
Speaker 2And the ones we see here every week. We just thank y'all so much for showing us love. Y'all come every Wednesday and I appreciate the love. We appreciate the love we really do, we do.
Speaker 1We do. We do Because, again, this is nothing without you all. Baby, he was spending that $40. Ha ha.
Speaker 2He spent that $40.
Speaker 3Ha ha, he spent that $40.
Speaker 2We got to do our investigation when we get off this line to go.
Speaker 1Oh, yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 2He said I got a good recipe. Save it for next Wednesday Get your webcam, so you can come on and tell your story.
Speaker 1Oh yeah, absolutely, we want to hear it.
Speaker 3He got his money's worth. Love you brother.
Speaker 2We love you. You missed the roll call tonight.
Speaker 1Yeah, he missed the roll call. I'm going to give him the business next week.
Speaker 3Let you go find your hubby.
Speaker 2Come with your horror stories and we're going to add you so you can tell them.
Speaker 1Hey, Angela, let me find out that you wore him out and he couldn't make it here.
Speaker 2Let me find that out. Well, he spent that $40 over there.
Speaker 1Yeah, let me find out. You got the man all times. He ain't making the show tonight. He left us hanging tonight, yeah.
Speaker 2He left us hanging tonight Right.
Speaker 3So come check out Horror.
Speaker 2Stories. You're dating Horror Stories Wednesday. I know we all have them. I have plenty, but I'm going to let y'all get y'all out of the way.
Speaker 1Oh yeah, I mean you know, oh, let's see.
Speaker 2Get your stories. Who else said they had a story? Julio, he had a story. Yeah, I thought somebody else said they had a story.
Speaker 1We're bringing y'all on the show Now again. If you're shy and you don't want to come on camera, I have a phone number where you can call in and everyone can hear your story.
Speaker 2Good night. Some people may be camera shy. Good night.
Speaker 1He overdrafted the account for that 40. So he's in the E negative.
Speaker 2Well, he's going to get roasted next week, Eddie I hear him?
Speaker 1Oh, he's going to get roasted next week. Eddie ain't here to sit and chill. Oh, he gonna get roasted next week.
Speaker 2I can't wait see you next week, siobhan, bring your horror stories yeah, everybody, alright, good night, yes, good night everyone.
Speaker 1We're signing off. We appreciate each and every last one of you and do
