10X Your Life

There are two fears in life: either you know what to do that allows you to make all your dreams come true and are afraid to execute those steps OR you choose never to take those scary steps and an unexpected crisis leaves you fearful of running out of money necessary for daily living.

The first choice poses an obstacle when you fail to take the massive action that leads to endless energy and accomplishment pushing you toward your desired outcome.  Think of it as feel the fear and do it anyway.

The latter fear lies subtly on the edge of conscious awareness eating away at your well being in barely noticeable steps.

You become unstoppable by choosing goals that others will tell you are not possible and certainly not reasonable “because no one needs massive success in life. Getting by works fine.” Your social group may label you unfavorably to soothe their own discomforts.

When you 10x your life you take on behaviors others avoid. YOU take responsibility for all that happens in your world because nothing ever happens to you. Everything happens for you AND, as Grant Cordone explains, “Because of you.”

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Transcript

Welcome to Let's Get Metaphysical, the show that stretches you beyond your five senses.
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There are two basic fears, opposites that can happen by making a critical choice.
There are a lot of books out there about 10x in your life.
My favorite one is by Grant Cordone.
It's called The  10x Rule.
Now, he's mainly focusing on how to build a business
that will be extraordinary
and you'll have an extraordinary life.
He also throws in some incidents
that will happen in your life.
What I'm talking about today is how to run,
how to live your life making choices
to 10x your life choices.

When you're a little kid, do you ever have a shortage of energy?
Have you ever been with a little kid in case you don't remember that far back?
It's go, go, go, go, go along until finally they conk out.
What if you could have energy like that all the time?
Well, you know what you do.
When you 10x  your life,
when you're doing what you absolutely love
to do in your life,
you don't use up your energy in the course of doing it.
You get fed more and more.
You become more and more alive.
Your energy climbs.
You've been in a flow at least once in your life.
Where just everything, all the ideas come.
You don't even have stop and think.
It's as fast as you can accomplish each step.
That's 10x in your life.
It's getting out of your own way,
getting out of your blocks,
having to be the person you really desire to be
who will think the thoughts,
who will take the actions
that will lead you someplace you could n ot possibly go
otherwise.
The choice is always yours.
I know you wanna feel fantastic as opposed to feeling cruddy.
I have an interesting example.
I have lots of them throughout my life.
Because I live my whole life that way lots of stuff happened.
And I had a choice of giving in and having a sad life
as a victim or going to make choices like when I was nine
years old, I've always been a musician.
And there was an award given out to one person
in the school band,
Getting points for different activities and there was one category where perfect attendance added a whole bunch of points.
I don't know -fifty, one hundred points, whatever it was.
I had gotten real sick.
I missed a whole lot of school.
I didn't get to have the points.
It didn't matter that I was sick.
I didn't get to have those points.
But I knew I wanted that trophy.
So what I did was I wrote lots of music.
I performed lots of music on clarinet,
which wasn't my norm - writing music for clarinet stuff.
I usually do it for piano and guitar.
Anyway, bottom line is I did every activit I could possibly do.
And yes, I won that trophy. But that was my choice.
It was something I wanted. So I 10xed my life as a clarinetist
in elementary school so I could get it.

What is it in your life that you really, really desire?
But maybe you're a little bit afraid of it.
Set a goal.
Okay.
Have you set a  goal?
In my opinion, a goal is to keep you on track.
Cause you know what's gonna happen when you set a goal?
Things, unexpected things are gonna pop up in your lifetime.
And you're going along on your goal path only whoops.
There's a blip and you gotta make a turn.
And you're going along in the new direction.
Whoop, there's another blip and you're making another turn.
I call them detours except they're not detours.
They're taking you where it's optimal for you to go in life.
And when you can get out of your own way,
it will become crystal clear to you.

What do I mean by get out of your own way?
Nonstop guidance is coming at you.
Guidance from your guides.
From your angels.
By the way, when I refer to the Universe,
I'm referring to the whole conglomeration of my guides,
of my angels, of every plant in my environment
and every place I go.
Cause if you allow yourself to tune in,
you might not hear it in words.
You might just feel it in your heart.
It's different for each person.
I get very strong messages from plants and from animals.
And I'll tell you what, they have a whole lot more wisdom
than we do.
And when you are in tune with them, you're gonna do really well.
How do you think indigenous cultures survived for thousands upon thousands upon thousands of years without damaging the environment, without having the soil getting used up because they were responding to living in communication with the plants, with the soil.

Soil is alive.
It's filled with millions, I think it's billions of life forms.
Tune into what's already there because the messages are coming at you.
If you don't know to look for them,
if you don't know to listen for them,
if you don't know to feel for them,
you don't get to have them guiding you,
making your life flow so much easier.
When you're creating blocks in your life,
when you set a goal and you see yourself approaching it
and you set a time stamp on it
and you're not gonna make it,
do you then cut it back, diminish it,
make it an easier goal?
Would that serve you?
That wouldn't even begin to serve you.
What that will do is it'll diminish the energy
you put into it.
It will diminish the love that you have
for advancing the way you know in your heart
you really want to.
And when you're giving up,
a way you know in your heart,
you really desire as your life,
you're going to start backing off.
You're gonna become one of those people
who binge watches on Netflix or Hulu or Disney or,
I don't even know all the different forms of video
that are out there,
But a lot of people will be binge watching,
not only are they binge watching,
but they're also have  their hand in a bowl of some,
very definitely not nutritious, very definitely not life supporting,
I'm not even gonna call it food and they're gaining weight.
And you can see that clearly in the population.
And what happens with the combination of just zoning out,
you know, people lose their health,
they lose their vitality,
they lose their enthusiasm. Life is no longer,
oh, "this is so wonderful moment to moment.
I'm just filled with energy
because when I do what I'm loving,
what I'm doing,
the energy just keeps building and building and building
just like it did when you were a kid.

You know bad things to happen in everybody's lives.
People get hurt, people get sick,
people lose their jobs,
people move away from their friends, from their family,
bad things happen.
And you can choose what you're gonna do
about responding to those events.
You can choose to be a victim,
I don't know why you would do that,
because that will crash your health,
crash your happiness,
but it's your choice,
what to do and events happen,
events that don't have a meaning by themselves.

When I was attacked and suffered a brain injury,
and there were 16 different types of doctors,
a medical team,
16 different types of practices.
And you know what they all said,
"learn to live with it.
This is as good as it gets,
you're not gonna get better."
Well, I wasn't about to learn to live with something
that I had to talk myself into,
wanting to make it through each day.
So I got out of my own way,
and I let myself be open.
That's the first time I was more keenly aware
of messages coming into my world,
how are the messages coming.

There's no such thing as a chance meeting.
I'd meet somebody who had a skill,
and they knew somebody who had a different skill,
who had a different skill,
and on and on, and everything came together,
and I got better.
It took a few years of going from one person
to the other, and one modality to the other.
But I got better when I was told "forget it, it's not gonna happen."
When I was part of a group for people with brain injuries
who had no interest in getting better,
you can get away with all kinds of stuff
when you have a brain injury,
and it's hard to do things.
But you don't have to.
So when I got better and I knew what I did,
and I went into that group and I said,
"I know exactly what I did.
I can tell you exactly, I can support you
in feeling better and functioning better,"
and not even one person said,
"yes, yes, I'll work with you."
Not one.

When a  crisis happens in your life and crises will,
are you gonna take the lesser path?
Are you going to finally tune in?
Those messages are coming nonstop from all these energies
in your environment,
and you know where a lot of those messages
are coming from? Your own physical body.
10% of the cells in your body are human,
and all of the rest of the trillion cells,
they're single cell things, bacteria, virus, a fungus,
and the wisdom they have,
they all coordinate with each other,
and they all tell you to have a very vital lifetime win.

And if you choose to tune in and to listen,
you've heard from me, from other people,
nothing happens to you, it happens for you.
Grant Cordone takes it a step further.
He says, everything happens because of you,
so that if you were in a car accident, he's saying,
well, you could have chosen to leave your house
10 minutes earlier, or 10 minutes later.
I remember a very vivid example of that.
I was on the 95 corridor in the Northeast US,
where people go very fast and it's usually very much traffic.
And I was back just far enough because I had chosen to leave a few minutes later - 
and a car spun out of control and crashed into all the cars that were around it
in the other lanes.
I was far enough back to avoid it all.
Now, what if I had chosen to leave one minute sooner?
I might've been one of the cars getting hit.
Those are the kinds of choices we're making.
Mostly out of our awareness.
And we can also make choices within our awareness.

When you think about things that are out of your control,
things like a hurricane...
Another example that Grant cordone gives is,
well, yeah, you're losing the electricity,
or you're losing your heat, but you know what
you could have done?
You could have taken steps ahead of time
and set up a generator.
Well, that's okay if you live on land,
because you need that to be 30, 40 feet away from your house
for safety purposes.
If you're living in an apartment someplace,
but his point is,
always be aware of other choices,
because everything in life,
every big thing and every little thing
offers you a choice of how to take your next step.
Some choices are more difficult to make than others.

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