The Confetti Project With Jelena

Have You Ever Felt Like You Don’t Belong?

November 24, 2022 The Confetti Project Season 1 Episode 7
Have You Ever Felt Like You Don’t Belong?
The Confetti Project With Jelena
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The Confetti Project With Jelena
Have You Ever Felt Like You Don’t Belong?
Nov 24, 2022 Season 1 Episode 7
The Confetti Project

What is stigma? How does it influence how we live ? And, why is it so pervasive in society? In this episode, Jelena explores stigma - something she has been studying for the past two years - and how she believes it is at the root of all problems. She shares about her own experiences with stigma, where her vulnerability, big feelings, curvy body and immigrant household were a few of her most stigmatizing characteristics. She shares from some of the most trailblazing artists and activists that are actively challenging stigma and societal norms through a variety of ways to ultimately conclude: stigma has devastating, deadly consequences. Published days after the Club Q shooting in Colorado Springs - where another act of violence to the Queer Community occurred - Jelena is here to prove that it’s all connected. And that stigma - and the stereotypes, prejudice, hatred, fear, and ignorance it cultivates - is a blueprint for how we, as a society, can begin to foster community care and collective well-being. This is a token of gratitude to The Confetti Project community - a group of trailblazers challenging societal norms. You have so much value in the world just by being who you are.❤️ 


Chapter Markers 

  • 4:57 - How the TCP Community Challenges Societal Norms 
  • 6:98 - Stigma is at the Root of All Problems 
  • 6:59 - What is Stigma?
  • 8:51 - Stigma in My Life
  • 14:37 - What Happens When We Deny Ourselves 
  • 18:33 - What Happens When Being You is Stigmatized in Society?
  • 23:52 - What Happens if Being Human Wasn’t Stigmatized? 
  • 25:16 - Unshaming 
  • 30:31- You Have Value in This World + I’m Glad You’re Here 


Self-Reflection Questions

  • What things come up when you think of social stigma?
  • How have you been stigmatized? Have you internalized it? 
  • How do you view the most stigmatized communities in our society?
  • How can you unshame yourself?
  • Leaning into your weirdness, make a list of all the things you appreciate about yourself. 


Resource Links


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Show Notes

What is stigma? How does it influence how we live ? And, why is it so pervasive in society? In this episode, Jelena explores stigma - something she has been studying for the past two years - and how she believes it is at the root of all problems. She shares about her own experiences with stigma, where her vulnerability, big feelings, curvy body and immigrant household were a few of her most stigmatizing characteristics. She shares from some of the most trailblazing artists and activists that are actively challenging stigma and societal norms through a variety of ways to ultimately conclude: stigma has devastating, deadly consequences. Published days after the Club Q shooting in Colorado Springs - where another act of violence to the Queer Community occurred - Jelena is here to prove that it’s all connected. And that stigma - and the stereotypes, prejudice, hatred, fear, and ignorance it cultivates - is a blueprint for how we, as a society, can begin to foster community care and collective well-being. This is a token of gratitude to The Confetti Project community - a group of trailblazers challenging societal norms. You have so much value in the world just by being who you are.❤️ 


Chapter Markers 

  • 4:57 - How the TCP Community Challenges Societal Norms 
  • 6:98 - Stigma is at the Root of All Problems 
  • 6:59 - What is Stigma?
  • 8:51 - Stigma in My Life
  • 14:37 - What Happens When We Deny Ourselves 
  • 18:33 - What Happens When Being You is Stigmatized in Society?
  • 23:52 - What Happens if Being Human Wasn’t Stigmatized? 
  • 25:16 - Unshaming 
  • 30:31- You Have Value in This World + I’m Glad You’re Here 


Self-Reflection Questions

  • What things come up when you think of social stigma?
  • How have you been stigmatized? Have you internalized it? 
  • How do you view the most stigmatized communities in our society?
  • How can you unshame yourself?
  • Leaning into your weirdness, make a list of all the things you appreciate about yourself. 


Resource Links


Call to Action

Please subscribe, rate, and follow The Confetti Project on Instagram & Pinterest.