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84: Six Figures and Still Struggling: The $250K Middle Class Trap
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Money that once supported entire families now barely covers daycare costs, leaving many six-figure earners wondering: Is $250,000 the new middle class? Jess and Brandon are tackling this financial reality shift head-on, exploring why high incomes don't stretch as far as they used to.
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Their mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.
...Is $250K the New Middle Class?
Speaker 1In today's episode we are talking about the new middle class. Is a quarter of a million dollars, $250,000 a year? The new middle class? What is keeping six-figure earners broke? If this is of interest to you, tune in. Hey babe, what are?
Speaker 2we talking about today. Grow Financial freedom's where we go Smart investments, money flow.
Speaker 1Hey babe, what are we talking about today?
Speaker 2Today, we are talking about the new middle class and how the money that our parents raised us on is not cutting it.
Speaker 1today Is not cutting it today. It's not cutting it today. Oh, I mean, I really feel like if I think back to my childhood, I mean that was like our kids daycare, right Like what my parents earned, is like what we spent on daycare with two under two. It's just crazy. So we're talking about being high earners and still feeling like it's not enough.
Speaker 2Yeah, Is you know, a household income of $250,000 a year, the new middle class? I mean, it kind of feels like it.
Speaker 1If you would have told us in high school or in college you know that making $250,000 a year, I mean you would be like, oh my gosh, that is so much money, I wouldn't even know what to do with it. And the reality is is like I honestly think about people who don't make six figures, who aren't making $200,000. And I'm like how are you surviving?
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean, I remember as a kid, like if your parents, if one of your parents was making six figures, he's making a hundred thousand dollars a year. Like you were set, you were doing really good. You were living a good life.
Speaker 1Yeah Well, and also it reminds me of um, like kind of the, the viral reels right now, where it's like here's what I thought a million dollars would look like in a house, right, and it's like mansions rolling Hills, white picket fence, and it's like nope, here's 380 square feet in you know California and needs a full gut and renovation.
Speaker 2And what's crazy is, like you know, obviously you think of high cost of living areas like California and New York. A million dollars is not getting you much. But we are located, you know, right outside of Raleigh, north Carolina, and a million dollars here is looking real different than it used to, even just five years ago, because we've definitely seen houses. You know, we're always looking at houses online just because it's our favorite pastime and we'll see one that's like a million dollars.
Speaker 2I'm like there's no way I would pay that for that house right it doesn't have what I would think a million dollar house should have in it in the area that we're located for starters, a pool and a theater and a home gym, like let basics okay yeah we're not even there anymore.
Speaker 1Yeah, and the houses are still on top of each other. Right, you like, lean over on your front porch and you can touch your neighbor's house and it's 1.2.
Housing Costs vs Income Reality
Speaker 2Get out of here like it's crazy I mean the day high cost of living has kind of eroded that. You know ideal, ideal scenario of having a six figure income and feeling very comfortable. A lot of statistics have shown as far as the increase of just housing costs alone has increased dramatically and incomes have not kept up with that. I can't even speak properly. Incomes have not kept up the same way that houses have increased. So there is legitimacy to feeling as though that you're not able to buy the same things that your parents were able to buy at your age because they cost more.
Speaker 1You literally can't.
Speaker 2And technically, you're making less. Even though you're making more, in comparison, you're making less.
Speaker 1Right. In comparison, you're making less, right? Yeah, because I mean, I think it again. You know Instagram and social media basically are saying you know the same 60 $70,000 that your parents raised a whole family off of. Now you need 300,000 to make that the equivalent. And that's insane Because, like Brandon already mentioned, you know jobs aren't increasing wages by hundreds of percentage points. You know so we were promised hey, you go to school, you get a four year degree, maybe you get an advanced degree, you'll live the American dream. And what did it do? It just put us into crazy amounts of debt. The job market is insane. Corporations are laying off people every single time.
Speaker 2You, you know, get on the news or look at LinkedIn, it's like another mass layoff and then using the money to do stock buybacks.
Speaker 1Oh, don't get Brandon started on that. That's a whole nother episode. So it really is. We are just in this very, very strange time. Add on top of that childcare costs, potentially, you know, also helping take care of aging parents, moving aging parents into your home. I mean, we have several people in our circle who have family members in their homes that they are fully funding. So there's just nuance that we are dealing with as millennials, as elder millennials, that our boomer parents simply did not have to consider or worry about.
The Millennial Money Squeeze
Speaker 2And we want to, you know, provide some legitimacy to the feelings that you have because I definitely feel so coming from the older generation. There can be some gaslighting and like, oh, look at how much money you make, why can't you afford this, why can't you afford this? Why can't you afford that? I'm like I'm sorry, ron, you bought your 4,000 square foot house 40 years ago and you paid $85,000 for it. Now it's worth $1.5 million. I'm sorry, not the same thing.
Speaker 1Not Ron.
Speaker 2I was just trying to think of an old person name, and Ron was the first one that popped in my head.
Speaker 1All right, we're going to leave that one alone. I think, too, there's something to be said for there is that feeling of man I've made it right, like I have the great job, I have the high income, I should be able to buy the nice things, I should be able to have the nice house and have the nice car and throw the lavish birthday parties for my kids and go on the expensive vacations. What are you seeing with your clients? Like lifestyle creep and, you know, keeping up with the Joneses. I mean, what's your take on that?
Speaker 2Well, I do want to take a step back for a moment and actually, you know, kind of break down the different classes in the sense of, traditionally the class that you were in, the socioeconomic class, was based upon your net worth, which I think is very different compared to how we look at socioeconomic class now, because I think we more focus on cash flow.
Speaker 2Okay because I think we more focus on cash flow. Okay, so what I've seen you know from my experience is that there's a difference between having a high net worth and having a high cash flow.
Speaker 1Yeah, cause you could have a high cash flow and negative net worth, and vice versa, right?
Speaker 2So you know, I have clients that have high net worths but they feel the struggle because, you know, on paper they're multimillionaires but they're the struggle because you know, on paper they're multimillionaires but they're not bringing in a million dollars a year, so their cashflow is very different. These are people who, you know, maybe for the past 20 years, have had, you know, decent paying jobs and have been doing a lot of the right things when it comes to their finances and they have a lot of money saved up and they have a lot of money in their retirement accounts and stuff like that, but they're not bringing in a bunch of money on an annual basis that, like, I'm not bringing in five, six $700,000 a year on annual basis. And with the increase of cost of goods, they're feeling it as well, because most of their money is in accounts that you know are earmarked for retirement, so they really can't touch them per se.
Speaker 1So do. Are you saying that they feel?
Speaker 2even though on paper.
Speaker 1They're fine they feel poor.
Speaker 2I have clients that have net worths of $2 million and up, that are, you know, in their mid forties and they don't feel like millionaires. And I can understand how that, because a lot of that money is, you know, like I said, in accounts they can't use currently, right now, and the money that they have coming in on an annual basis from their income isn't several hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 1Have you been listening to our podcast and wondering how am I really doing with my money? Am I doing the right things with my investments? Am I on track to reach my financial goals? What could I be doing better? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then it's time for you to reach out to Brandon to schedule your free yes, I said free 30-minute introduction conversation to see how his services could help make you the more confident moneymaker we know you could be. What are you waiting for? It's literally free and at the very least, you'll walk away feeling more empowered and confident about your financial future. Link is in our show notes. Go schedule your call today. But I mean, what's nice about that? Going back to the numbers is, by the time you are ready for retirement let's say they wanted to retire early 50s, mid 50s and not do the traditional 60 plus retirement that $2 million plus is going to grow exponentially, so they should have a really nice retirement plan.
Speaker 2Yeah, but most people focus on the now, not the later. So, like by trying to reassure them that you know, oh yeah, you have all this money for later on in life does not help how they feel today.
Speaker 1Yeah, it's a Ramit Sethi who often says the amount of money you have in your bank account is largely uncorrelated to how you feel about money.
Speaker 2Yeah, cause just because you have more money also doesn't equate to like less stress.
Speaker 1No, that's true.
Speaker 2I would honestly say, often more money, sometimes more stress comes for a lot of people. Now, if you do it correctly, I think it can definitely decrease your stress, but I think a lot of people don't do it. Quote unquote the correct way.
Speaker 1I mean, wasn't there a song about that?
Speaker 2no money, no problem. I don't even know if we can sing that anymore, since you know you know who was canceled. So okay, yeah, that's true you need the ai, his like verse out and have somebody else do it I know it's such a good song, oh somebody's gonna ruin everything okay.
Speaker 1What else babe?
Speaker 2um, budgeting is important. Okay, what else, babe? Budgeting is important in all levels and I think we have kind of like a misconception that budgeting is more important the less money you have, and I would honestly make maybe an argument that's even more important the more money you have. Because what ends up happening is is that as you start to increase your income, if you're not properly budgeting for that new income, it gets lost in the wash. So you have individuals that you know are increasing their income year over year, but they don't feel like they're increasing their income because they're not properly budgeting and they're not, you know, actually taking that additional income and applying it in places where it's needed.
Speaker 2It's probably just being spent on frivolous stuff, possibly, or it might be. Honestly, sometimes people put too much in certain savings areas as compared to maybe what they need as a monthly cash flow. So there's a lot of reasons behind it. But budgeting is important regardless of how much money you have and, like I said, the more money you have, normally the little bit more you know attention you got to pay to it.
Speaker 1That's true, would you say, based on your clients and how you've worked with people, you know, for the last decade plus, that the people who have the smaller incomes are actually better at budgeting 100%, yeah.
Speaker 2Because obviously you know there is an aspect to the less money that you have. You do have to make sure that you know each dollar is being stretched as far as possible, because you have to do this in order just to have make ends meet.
Speaker 1Right.
Speaker 2And so sometimes people think that you know, oh, I make a certain amount of money Like I shouldn't have to pay that close attention to it because I should have more than enough. And no, it should get you doesn't get you anywhere. You know, you actually have to put in that work and make sure that you are allocating each dollar that you have coming in to a purpose that works for you, so that you don't have that money that gets lost in the wash as you make more money.
Speaker 1Right, and I think, too, there's something to be said. You know, figuring out how you want to budget something to be said. You know, figuring out how you want to budget. Is it going to be on paper? Is it going to be on an app? I mean, you know, back in the day, we all had the paper ledger with our debit cards. You know, and we were keeping track of you weren't doing that, no, so how did you know how much money you had?
Speaker 2I looked online.
Speaker 1Back in the day we didn't have like the apps and stuff like that.
Speaker 2So I think the difference between you and I is that I'm thinking of like college.
Speaker 1No, I'm thinking like high school, See in high school, I didn't work like you. I was playing sports. Yeah, and I've worked my whole life, so there's that.
Speaker 2In college. You could hop online and look at it.
Speaker 1Okay, Well, in high school, when I was working at the Publix and the Old Navy, I had my little ledger and I like wrote down. You know, hey, I went to Subway and bought a sub and that was $4.35 or whatever, and I subtracted it. Yeah, I didn't do that, okay.
Speaker 2Well, yeah, I was a hardcore soccer player, believe it or not, and so I was playing soccer and not working.
Speaker 1He was living the lavish life.
Speaker 2Look where that got me Nowhere, not working. He was living the lavish life.
Speaker 1Look where that got me Nowhere. Well, what I was going to say is I think we've gotten away from because everything is swipe, swipe, swipe we've gotten away from actually looking at where our money is going. And if you're not intentional about really figuring out, well, where is my money going, right? Oh, I'm popping into this store, I'm popping over here, oh, it's only $5. It's only this, it's only that, and you do that. You know, five, six, seven, eight times a week. The only $5, right, it adds up really, really quickly.
Speaker 1And so seeing the numbers in black and white and really understanding where is my money going every month is really important, especially because you know, I know this is for us too. You feel like you're doing good, you feel like your money's right, and then, boom, you get some four month old medical bill from when your son decided to run into a metal pole at brunch and you spend six hours in the emergency room and walk out with six stitches later, and then you get a bill from seven months oh, was it seven? From months later, and you're like I thought we were done with this. Where is this random bill coming from, you know? And so things like that happen all the time and it messes up your money.
Speaker 2Side note there has to be a simpler process for medical billing. There's no reason that I go to a hospital for something and then I get eight separate bills from eight separate people from all the different providers and also with like various time frames, like you get one right away, one four months later, one a year later, like I know you guys.
Speaker 2I know, there's a simpler way to do this, like we put people on the moon, like, come on, I know that's a good. This is what this Like we put people on the moon like come on.
Speaker 1I know that's a good sidebar.
Speaker 2This is what doge doge. This is what you need to work on.
Speaker 1One system for all.
Speaker 2Simplify this, please. Elon Medical practices.
Budgeting at All Income Levels
Speaker 1Ugh, don't mention his name in our episodes. Okay, um. So, cashflow really understanding where your money goes, managing it, you know, planning for those expenses, planning for the summer camps, the track out camps, the birthday parties. You know, I said this in January. January is the best time to start saving for Christmas. Why? Because you can look back at what you spent and it was probably more than you anticipated. Because I know, even though we only did quote, unquote, stocking stuffers, we spent more than anticipated. And so you take those numbers and then you divide it by 12. And then that's your monthly budget for how you can, you know, save throughout the year for Christmas, versus looking up after Thanksgiving and saying, oh shoot, I don't have any savings and now I'm going to start putting everything on a credit card. So you know, again, it has to do with really understanding where's your money going, what's coming in, what's going out and what do you want to plan for.
Speaker 2And also, I think one of the biggest things that happens to you know the 250k, you know area income households, is that you have one, the lifestyle creep, but then you also have like what's called the invisible inflation, and these are the things that you don't necessarily realize are, you know, causing more money to come out of your pocket. But, for example, your circle that you are um, your circle that you're in, you might start to do things. Yes, your social circle, there you go. Words elude me sometimes, but your social circle circle also sometimes dictates what you spend your money on. So you know, for example, I, the one that I can often think of, is like we at one point in time had our daughter in a private school and you hang out in that private school circle and you're, you start to, you start to do things that other private school parents, kids do, and stuff like that. All the different activities that you may be putting your kids in at one time are not cheap.
Speaker 1They don't need to be in six activities.
Speaker 2So you start to spend more and more money.
Speaker 2I mean, we have friends of ours who their kids are in dance and competitive dancing and they've told us they're spending, like you know, 30 000 plus a year on dancing. And, as you know, I, my brother and I grew up playing soccer and, for those that don't know, soccer is not an inexpensive sport to play. So I remember like how much it would cost at that time for each of us to play soccer. We had our club teams that we were playing on and then during the summers we travel overseas to play in tournaments in europe.
Speaker 1So like a lot of money in where europe oh, okay, there's a few words that brandon says that I always make fun of.
Speaker 2Europe is one of them just a quick way to say europe. Anyways, all those things can start to really add up. So you really need to be intentional about like hey, am I doing these things just to show off for my peers or am I doing them because I generally believe that we enjoy them as a family? My child enjoys them because often I see sometimes like kids are in like five or six activities and like does the kid actually and the kid's like seven, does the kid actually want to do that activity or does the parent want to do that activity? Because I know that I've had to check myself from like I had large visions and dreams of my daughter and my son being soccer players that ended up playing for the U S national team. I had the whole Nike ad like already in my head as far as like both of them first brother, sister duo, playing on the national team.
Speaker 1This is a real story, you guys. I just want to be very clear.
Speaker 2I even, like you know, the last world cup. When asking was little, I put one of my usa jerseys on her and took a picture and I was like this is going to be the nike ad in the future this is going to be on the Nike.
Speaker 1Yes, it was a whole thing. We've literally talked about this multiple times.
Speaker 2I love my daughter to death, but I don't think sports are in her future.
Speaker 1It's not happening.
Speaker 2And she doesn't have an interest in it, which is perfectly fine, but I also had to check myself and not trying to force her to do things that she's not necessarily interested in doing.
Speaker 1Hey, Misty Copeland didn't start dancing until 13. So we have time, she could literally like wake up one day and become the superstar you've always dreamed of.
Speaker 2I mean, I'm going to support her whenever she wants to do, whatever her talents are at.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 2But all this to say is that I had to check myself in regards to putting her in soccer, because we tried. It Didn't go well, didn't really go well, and I had to check myself in regards to maybe I just shouldn't push her to do it again, because that would have been money that we spent that went nowhere.
Speaker 1And miserable Saturday mornings on the sidelines of the soccer field. No thanks.
Speaker 2Another one is some of these birthday parties that we go to for kids, Like is the birthday party for your 4-year-old or is it for you, the 40-year-old? Because this is a lot that's going on here.
Speaker 1But we appreciate the goodie bags.
Speaker 2I appreciate the extra beverages.
Speaker 1Well, I think what Brandon's trying to say is to make sure that your spending is actually aligned with your values and that you've really thought about what is the vision for your life. How do you want to, you know, spend your time, use money as a tool, raise your family, you know, raise your kids, if you have children. And so, instead of spending to keep up with the Joneses or to keep up with the you know quote unquote fancy private school parents which, let's be honest, we don't know what's going on in those people's bank accounts. You know, yes, the exterior looks nice and you're, you know, showing up in your wagoneer, and you know all the things or the quintessential white woman, private school shoe the golden goose oh, the dirty golden gooses, do not get brandon on buying $600 pre-dirty shoes.
Speaker 1Well, we've laughed a lot in this episode. You know, align your spending with your values and not with somebody else's, because I can tell you that it's not going to go well if you're trying to spend the way somebody else spends and those things are not actually of value to you.
Social Circles and Invisible Inflation
Speaker 2There's a very well-known financial planner by the name of George Kinder and he is kind of like the grandfather of behavioral finance, where we're not just focusing on the numbers, we really are focusing on the feelings, emotions and everything else that really dictates the decisions that people make with their finances. He has like a question that he often asks, and it's if you had all the money you needed, how would your life change If everything you all the money you ever needed? How would your life change? You had it? How would you live your life? What would you do? What would you actually spend your money on? What would you spend your time doing? And even though you may not have, obviously, all the money that you need, it doesn't mean you can't start doing the second part as far as spending the money on things that you want to do, spending your time the way that you would like to spend it.
Speaker 1Yes, Well, time is so fleeting right. The older we get, the more we realize Time is so fleeting right. The older we get, the more we realize, wow, like tomorrow is not guaranteed. Where does the time go? I mean there's never enough, right? Every at the end of every day, I'm like I need three more hours. I need three more hours. I mean there's just literally never enough time. And as we've gotten older and we're using money as a tool, what I can say is, I think the wealthiest people, the truly wealthy, their benefit is that they can use their time for what they want. Right, they can go on that random walk on a Tuesday, sit at the coffee shop and people watch. They can take the random flight to wherever and go on a random vacation, because they're not beholden to PTO or their schedule or somebody else's schedule. And so I really do think time freedom is a real sign of wealth, because time is precious and it's priceless.
Speaker 2And I was telling you the other day about a podcast I listened to and it was very interesting. They were saying if you know Warren Buffett very interesting. They were saying if you know Warren Buffett, multi-billionaire, but he's like 94, he's in his mid nineties.
Speaker 2Yeah. So if you were to you know somebody you say you value having a lot of money, would you trade places with Warren Buffett? Would you want to be either a 40 year old, doing okay, or would you want to be a 94-year-old billionaire? I know personally, I don't want to fast forward to being 94, even if I'm a billionaire.
Speaker 1And.
Speaker 2I guarantee you, if you gave Warren Buffett the option, he'd go back to being 40 again.
Speaker 1Warren, if you're listening to this, hit us up, give us your answer, let us know.
Speaker 2It reiterates what you said At the end of the day, you don't value the money the most. You value time and the freedom to do what you like to do with your time.
Speaker 1Yeah, absolutely. So what are we leaving our listeners with today? What's a call to action?
Speaker 2Well, first, you want to define what is enough for you. What is the type of life that you want to live? How much do you need to live that life? What do you need in order to make that vision of your ideal life happen? Because I know that I have run into scenarios where people have no definition of what they believe is enough. You'll ask them how much money do you want to have Enough? What is enough?
Speaker 1I don't know, but even people who we've spoken to on the podcast and off, they thought a certain number was enough and then come to find out that less than that was actually more than enough and it wasn't worth the extra travel or the extra meetings or the extra time away from family.
Speaker 2I would almost argue that enough is not a dollar amount, it's a state of mind.
Speaker 1Oh.
Speaker 2Because, like you said, we've run into people where, like you know, oh, then you can't quantify it you have to define what you. I think you just have to define it for yourself, not necessarily using a dollar amount because, for example, like you know, I've listened to many podcasts where, like someone's like oh, I want to have a million dollars. Once they get to a million dollars, it's still not enough. I want to have two million. Oh, they finally get to two million. It was still not enough or once I have a million I'll.
Speaker 2It's still not enough. I want to have two million.
Speaker 1Oh, they finally get to two million. It was still not enough. Or once I have a million, I'll feel secure. And then it's like well, technically you have 1.4, but you still don't feel secure. So then it's not about the number, it's not.
Speaker 2And often too like you have individuals that just kind of get in that cycle where, like, if I can earn more, and I just keep doing it and doing and doing it and it's not really bringing them happiness, it's not necessarily leading to the life that they want to live and, honestly, they're just kind of going through the motions.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2So you really have to decide for yourself what is enough, based upon how you want to live your life.
Speaker 1I mean, I think that also goes back to what you often say, which is money is a tool. So how do you plan to use your money? And then how does that translate into being enough, right? Maybe is it once a month vacation? Is it once a quarter vacation? Is it the home upgrade? Is it the car upgrade? Is it the fancy private school Like what is it that is going to make you feel like, okay, I'm good now?
Speaker 2Yeah, that's aligning your you know your spending with your values. Right, you know, value-based spending. I'm not just doing this for optics. I'm not trying to keep up with the Joneses or the Instagram Joneses, whatever it may be but really deciding between you know whether it's you as an individual or you with a partner in your family what do you guys really value, and making sure that that's what you're focusing on, spending your money on and all the other stuff that you know doesn't bring you joy.
Speaker 2Don't waste your money on it, like, once again, if you don't have a bunch of money, you probably don't need six hundred dollar dirty shoes, just saying I'm gonna die on that, on that one, because I don't understand it. I think sometimes, side note, sometimes I think they're really just messing, like some of these high-end companies. I really think they're just messing with you and by you I mean white people, because black people don't buy dirty shoes but I think they're just messing with you to see how much you can spend for some nonsense, because I've seen some things out there. I'm like like there's no way. This is a $1,000 shoe, what? Evidently optics, just so you could say that it's made by so-and-so, but it looks like crap. All right, done.
Speaker 1I think we're going to end it right there, guys Value-based spending, don't buy dirty shoes.
Speaker 2I mean, at the end of the day, like I said, we are dealing with things that our parents and our grandparents didn't have to deal with when it comes to the increase of cost of living and incomes not keeping up.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's not in your mind. It's not in your mind, absolutely not.
Speaker 2Just because you have a $250,000 salary and you live in a reasonable area as far as cost of living doesn't mean that you that you feeling as though you are not making it or you're not making enough is all in your head, because it's not. Because I mean. Look at just housing price increase over the past like four years. It's been insane. So like I feel sorry for anyone that's trying to buy a new house that's, you know, has never purchased a home before and their first time buyer put money into the market, because it's insane what you have to put in for just a starter house nowadays in a lot of areas.
Speaker 1Right, well, and the competition, and then people bidding you know way over ask, and the crazy due diligence on top of the 7% interest mortgage rates, I mean it really is just soul crushing right now.
Speaker 2Like. I don't have a solution that's just going to fix all that for you, but the things that you can focus on once again is that one understanding your budget just because you're making a good amount of money doesn't mean that you should not be budgeting.
Speaker 2Yeah, you know, and budgeting is not restricting what you can do. It's actually really freeing what you can do. It's assigning each dollar for something that's going to, you know, want, something that you need as a necessity, but in addition to things that you want to do in your life, the things that you find value in, the things that you enjoy doing and, like you said, all the other stuff that's maybe for optics or doesn't bring the same amount of joy, then let it go to the wayside and that might help you feel a little bit better about how much money you have coming in. And you know, in an environment where things are, you know, not getting any cheaper and with this administration, buckle in because it's probably going to get worse, because we all know that those people up there are not competent.
Speaker 1Yeah, and I mean the tariffs, that's all that's going to trickle down to us and the consumers. And we're already experiencing the corporate greed and everybody keeps saying inflation, inflation. But I think a lot of it is actually just corporate greed, right, because if you really dig into the numbers, you can see that the cost of goods up to this point haven't increased enough to justify the raising of the prices, which is what inflation would have been. But this is really just like oh, let's just get as much as we can out of each consumer, while the you know CEOs and the C-suite are making you know $30 million a year and getting their 512% bonuses, etc. Etc.
Speaker 2So yeah, it's, and you know, and at the opposite end of that is the stagnation of income increasing.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2So putting that squeeze on employers, large corporations that pay their people a fair salary.
Speaker 1Yeah Well, and a 3% increase, unfortunately.
Speaker 2It's not a bonus. That's just keeping up with inflation barely.
Speaker 1Barely, I mean, if that yeah, hello, oh, I got a 3%, you got a 3% raise. No, what was?
Speaker 2your raise, CEO? What was your raise? Let me know. You tell me that I should be grateful for my 3% raise. Let me know how much money you made, how much your salary was increased. Yeah, then we can have a conversation.
Speaker 1This is feeling like we're going into a rip and rant. Thank you all for listening. Just remember to control what you can control. Look at your cash flow budget, look at your money, align it with your values and if you need help doing that, you know where to find Brandon. His link for scheduling is always in our show notes and if you enjoyed this episode or any of our episodes, please leave a review. We ask this every single time. It helps get our podcast in front of other people who are looking for this information, and we will talk to you soon, don't forget. Benjamin Franklin said an investment in knowledge pays the best interest. You just got paid. Until next time, sugar Daddy Podcast yo.
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