Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Paul Thompson's Insider Secrets to Raising $30 Million in Private Money
Financial freedom is not just a dream; it's a feasible reality for those who are willing to step off the beaten path and take control of their financial destinies. In this episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, guest Paul Thompson, an expert in real estate and private lending, shares invaluable insights on achieving financial freedom by investing in real estate.
The Philosophy of Private Funding
Paul Thompson and Jay Conner delve deep into the core principles of Raising Private Money. A central theme is the strategy of building relationships rather than making direct financial requests. This approach not only opens more doors but also establishes a foundation of trust and mutual benefit. Key to this strategy is the concept presented by Jay Conner: 'Dig your well before you're thirsty.' This means building your network and relationships long before you need to tap into them for funding.
Realizing Personal Agency and Redefining Goals
Paul discusses the common trap many fall into following life patterns set by society and family expectations. He encourages the audience to awaken to their personal agency—choosing paths that align with their deepest values and goals. This redefinition of success shifts the focus from societal expectations to personal aspirations, paving the way for more targeted and satisfying achievements.
Introduction to Seller Financing
One of the episode's most enlightening discussions revolves around seller financing. Paul Thompson explains this as an advantageous approach where buyers propose to handle maintenance and payments directly to the sellers, releasing them from the hassles associated with traditional bank dealings. This method not only simplifies the purchasing process but also aligns the interests of both parties toward more favorable terms.
The Power of Asking the Right Questions
Paul stresses the importance of asking the right questions, both of oneself and others. It's about identifying what really matters in a transaction or a business relationship. The ability to pinpoint these critical questions can transform challenges into opportunities, driving forward more effective and prosperous engagements.
The Wake-Up Call to Entrepreneurship
A significant personal revelation is shared by Paul as he recollects a pivotal moment in 2015—being denied the flexibility to work remotely. This was the wake-up call that pushed him to leave his corporate job and dive headfirst into real estate investing. It's a powerful reminder of how moments of rejection or failure can lead to life's most transformative opportunities.
Building a Life by Design
Both Paul Thompson and Jay Conner conclude by emphasizing the overarching theme of the episode: living a life by design. This vision encompasses not only financial strategies like private lending and seller financing but also the broader philosophical shift toward personal fulfillment and freedom. Listeners are encouraged to sketch their ideal life's vision, focusing on lifestyle, purpose, and time management to facilitate a pathway to financial independence.
“The Quality Of Your Life Depends On The Quality Of Your Questions”
- Paul David Thompson
10 Lessons Covered in this Episode:
1. Life by Design:
Define individual priorities to create a purposeful and fulfilling lifestyle according to personal values.
2. Financial Freedom:
Explore real estate investing to achieve financial independence and escape the conventional 9-to-5 work paradigm.
3. Unasked Funds:
Master the art of raising capital subtly by building genuine relationships rather than direct solicitation.
4. Seller Financing:
Leverage seller financing to negotiate better terms and manage p