Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Financial Recovery and Inner Peace: Lessons from David Meltzer’s Life Journey
In the latest episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner and David Meltzer dive deeply into powerful conversations around emotional resilience, overcoming fear, understanding true happiness, and achieving financial success. David Meltzer, a seasoned entrepreneur who experienced both monumental gains and losses, brings invaluable insights on navigating life's hurdles and creating an abundant, happy life.
Overcoming Obstacles: David Meltzer's Journey
David Meltzer's journey is a compelling narrative of spectacular highs and devastating lows. Despite initially making millions, David faced financial ruin in 2009, losing over $100 million. His story, however, is not one of defeat but of resilience. David emphasizes the transformative power of asking for help, a lesson born out of his downfall. Embedded with humility, this lesson underscores the importance of relying on community and support systems to navigate through life’s challenges.
David's journey illustrates the importance of shifting from a mindset of "ignorant arrogance" to "radical humility." This paradigm shift enabled him to rebuild his life, integrate lessons from his failures, and eventually achieve greater success. His story teaches us that setbacks are often set up for greater comebacks, provided we have the right mindset and support.
Defining True Happiness
One of the most compelling parts of the conversation revolves around the definition of true happiness. David Meltzer underscores that true happiness transcends financial success. For him, happiness stems from living a purposeful life, one that aligns with giving and receiving. An essential part of this alignment is recognizing and appreciating what we are given and feeling worthy of these gifts.
David recounts his personal mission to empower over a billion people to be happy and stresses that material wealth should support our happiness, not define it. He explains that achieving true happiness involves understanding our bigger purpose, which is often unrelated to our bank account balance. Happiness, therefore, is deeply intertwined with self-awareness, gratitude, and the continuous pursuit of personal growth.
Strategies to Overcome Fear
Fear is a significant barrier to achieving success and happiness. According to David Meltzer, understanding and managing our reaction to fear is crucial. Instead of being paralyzed by fear of rejection, failure, or the unknown, David advises recognizing the emotional and physical responses fear triggers. Anger, anxiety, guilt, and resentment are often indicators of underlying fear.
David advocates a practice of “stopping, dropping, and rolling” when fear sets our minds on fire. This involves pausing to center ourselves, breathing deeply, and realigning with our goals and purpose. By doing this, we can manage fear more constructively and prevent it from derailing our progress.
The Power of Giving and Receiving
An important theme in David Meltzer’s philosophy is the balance of giving and receiving. Giving, he explains, should be accompanied by a readiness to receive and an appreciation for what we have been given. This perspective helps maintain a cycle of abundance, fostering a mindset where there is always more than enough for everyone.
David shares an analogy of “doggy biscuits” or “goddy biscuits” to explain the biochemical rewards humans receive through acts of kindness and generosity. Giving and receiving both release dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins, reinforcing these positive behaviors. Witnessing acts of giving also triggers these ‘feel-good’ chemicals, promoting a holistic culture of abundance.
Daily Practices for Sustained Success
David Meltzer shared his daily routine practices that keep him aligned with his goals. His most crucial habit is his “unwinding routine,” which optimizes his body, mind, and soul fo