
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Raising Private Money: Strategies from Ray Hightower's $3 Million Success
In a recent episode of the "Raising Private Money" podcast, Jay Conner explores the fascinating world of real estate investments with special guest Ray Hightower. The episode sheds light on Ray's journey of raising over $3,000,000 in private money for commercial real estate deals. This blog post will delve into the takeaway points from their discussion, focusing on Ray’s transition from the tech industry to real estate, his preferred asset class, and his effective methods for attracting private investors.
From Technology to Real Estate
Ray Hightower's entry into real estate is both motivating and informative. His career began in the dynamic field of technology, where he held a degree in computer science and gained extensive experience working for Fortune 500 companies. He eventually founded and managed his technology company for over two decades. Upon achieving significant success, he sold his tech company and transitioned into multifamily real estate.
This career switch was driven by the potential for equity building and the unique advantages offered by real estate investments, including capital preservation, intrinsic land value, insurance protection, and steady cash flow from rent payments.
Why Multifamily Properties?
When asked about his choice of asset class, Ray prefers multifamily properties, particularly those in the 50 to 150-unit range. He appreciates various asset classes including single-family and retail spaces, although office properties pose challenges due to the shift towards remote work. Multifamily properties, however, are a more stable investment because people always need housing.
Focusing on properties with 50 to 150 units allows Ray to ensure professional management without facing direct competition from large private equity firms. This approach enables effective property management while pursuing valuable deals that larger entities might overlook.
Structuring Deals with Private Money
A critical part of the episode highlights how Ray structures his deals using private money. His approach involves limited partners (LPs) and general partners (GPs) within limited liability corporations (LLCs). Ray employs a 70%-30% ownership split between LPs and GPs.
Private investors are primarily looking for excellent stewardship of their investments, and Ray’s meticulous oversight ensures their money is managed carefully. He compares the investor's journey to a scouting trip, emphasizing how crucial it is to ensure safety and improvement in property investments.
Attracting Private Money: Trust and Methodology
The discussion then moves to how important trust is in attracting private money. Jay highlights that private lenders often invest in the operator rather than the deal itself. Ray builds on this idea by outlining a four-step method he learned from his mentor, Hunter Thompson: attract, educate, nurture, and close.
**1. Attract:** Initial attention is garnered toward investment opportunities through effective networking, an online presence, and valuable content distribution.
**2. Educate:** Comprehensive information about the investment process and potential returns is provided to build credibility. Education enhances not only the learner's knowledge but also boosts the educator’s standing.
**3. Nurture:** Developing strong relationships is essential. Continually adding value through education, connections, events, and podcasts builds trust, showing potential investors that their interests and finances are genuinely taken care of.
**4. Close:** If the steps of attraction, education, and nurturing are executed with a giving spirit, the final investment commitment often follows naturally, without direct solicitation.
The Power of Mindset in Building Partnerships
Towards the end of the episode, the conversation shifts to the importance of mindset in busines