Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Building Confidence and Securing Funds: Private Lending Tips and Strategies with Jay Conner
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"Raising Private Money with Jay Conner | Know your WHY"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPGp8HHtd6Q
On the latest episode of the Raising Private Money, podcast we have an inspiring conversation between Jay Conner and Dr. Jason Balara on his Know Your Why podcast. Jay Conner dives deep into the nuances of raising private money and the resilience needed to succeed in real estate investing. With a background in traditional banking turned private lending expert, Jay Conner offers invaluable insights and inspiring stories that illustrate the power of persistence, a strategic mindset, and the importance of understanding your "why."
Facing the Fear: Jay Conner’s Early Challenges
Jay Conner begins by recounting the nervousness he faced when asking for a private lending loan for the first time. Overcoming such nerve-wracking experiences is crucial, and Jay emphasizes that action is the antidote to anxiety. His initial discomfort didn't deter him but rather fueled his drive to become proficient in raising private money.
The Breakthrough Luncheon: A Turning Point in Fundraising
Jay's notable breakthrough came during his first private lender luncheon, a strategic event where he successfully raised $969,000 in verbal pledges within just one hour. This massive achievement, despite his initial discomfort, underscores the significance of preparation and a well-crafted presentation. He used a PowerPoint presentation to educate attendees on the private lending program, effectively communicating the benefits and security of investing.
Learning from Failure: The John Maxwell Principle
A recurring theme in the discussion is resilience through failure. Jay quotes leadership expert, John Maxwell, stating, "Success comes from failing more often," highlighting that every failure is a step towards success if viewed as a learning opportunity. Both Jay and Jason Balara draw parallels between business and sports, emphasizing that just as athletes like Michael Jordan succeeded by persisting through failure, so too must entrepreneurs and investors.
Key Strategies for Securing Private Funds
Jay's approach to securing private funds is rooted in education and relationship building. By positioning himself as a "private money teacher," he shifts the focus from asking for money to offering an investment opportunity. This methodology not only enhances trust but also attracts potential lenders through the promise of high returns and secured investment.
Additionally, Jay shares his unique strategy called the "great news phone call," informing lenders when their money is needed for a deal. This preemptive approach ensures that funds are readily available without the need for constant pitching, making the process smoother and more efficient.
Mindset Shift: Overcoming Initial Discomfort
Transitioning from discomfort to confidence is a crucial part of Jay's journey. He acknowledges that initial discomfort is natural when venturing into new territory but asserts that practice and persistence lead to growing competence and comfort. Quoting Crystal Baker, Jay affirms, "Life begins at the end of your comfort zone," which is a mantra that underscores the growth experienced from tackling challenges head-on.
The Importance of Resilience: Lessons from Personal Experiences
Jay shares a touching personal anecdote about his grandfather teaching him resilience. After being thrown off a pony, young Jay was encouraged to get back on, instilling a lifelong lesson in persistence. This lesson translated into his business life, especially when traditional banks cut off his credit