
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
The Power of Trust: Bill Allen on Raising Capital for Your Real Estate Deals
Transitioning from flipping a house or two a year to managing a scalable, systematized business calls for expert insights and proven strategies. Enter Bill Allen, who shares the stage with Jay Conner on the "Raising Private Money" podcast to unlock the principles behind successful private money raising. Here's an in-depth look at the topics discussed, aiming to revolutionize your approach to real estate investing.
Building Trust and Confidence
One of the first things Bill Allen emphasizes is the vital role of trust in raising private money. According to Allen, building a high level of trust and being authentic is foundational. He recounts the necessity of transferring trust from past roles, such as being a Navy test pilot, into new ventures like real estate. Friends, family, and professional connections are often the first people who will invest based on pre-existing trust.
Allen’s story is a testament to the power of integrity and reliability in establishing credibility. His advice is clear: believe in yourself first. Confidence is compelling and contagious. If you don’t believe in your capabilities, potential investors won’t either.
The Importance of Framing: Investment vs. Loan
Jay Conner and Bill Allen agree on a critical semantic shift: talking about investments rather than loans. Conner points out that when you say "loan me money," that focuses on you, the borrower, not the investor. But when you talk about them investing, then the focus is on their benefit. This reframing not only positions you as a professional but also highlights the added value to potential investors, aligning with a servant’s heart approach.
Crafting Your Investor Matrix
Allen introduces a powerful tool he uses: the Investor Matrix. This method involves creating columns for different phases of your life, such as high school, college, and various workplaces, and listing names of people you know from each phase. Bill emphasizes rating these connections from 1 to 5 based on trust and potential financial capacity.
He elaborates that you should list out names of people you had relationships with during those times. This exercise often jogs your memory, revealing more potential investors than you initially thought possible.
Leveraging Social Media
Using social media to tell stories and plant seeds about your projects is another tactical approach discussed. Allen mentions how he makes use of Facebook and Instagram to share anecdotes about his private lenders’ successes and how they enjoy high returns without managing property hassles. He believes that marketing is essentially storytelling, so sharing these stories online can effectively attract interest.
Soft Approaches Over Hard Pitches
Jay Conner underscores the principle that desperation has a smell to it. This echoes Allen’s advice to avoid pitching a deal too early and instead focus on planting seeds. Conversations should be natural and relational rather than transactional. For instance, when reconnecting with an old friend, you can share what you’re up to and plant a seed about investing without pitching a specific deal.
Allen provides a closing line for such conversations that removes pressure. He suggests asking if they know anyone who might be interested in these kinds of returns. This approach often leads to the person expressing interest themselves or referring you to someone else, removing the risk of outright rejection.
Diversifying Investment Opportunities
As you grow in your venture, Allen advises creating varied investment opportunities to cater to different investor needs. Whether it's monthly payments through fix-and-flip projects or high annual returns via syndication and apartment deals, having multiple avenues ensures you can accommodate different investor preferences.
Conclusion: Learning from the Best
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