
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Unveiling Expert Methods for Private Money Acquisition with Jay Conner
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"How to raise private money without asking for money"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a58toe2v0oo
Raising private money is often shrouded in misconception and apprehension. The intriguing podcast episode featuring Jay Conner, a seasoned expert in the field, hosted by Dave Payerchin and RJ Pepino, dismantles these barriers. Let’s delve into the wisdom shared on the transformative power of mindset, strategic approaches to capital raising, and the pivotal role of education in dominating the real estate market.
Mastering Mindset for Success
Jay Conner begins the conversation with an essential reality check – that the journey to successfully raising private money starts with owning the “real estate between your ears”. This metaphor encapsulates the fundamental idea that confidence, trust, credibility, and reliability are the cornerstones of exciting investment interest in potential partners. Jay stresses that one must exude these qualities from within to attract private lenders.
Central to this is the mindset transformation from viewing oneself as a supplicant, dependent on the whims of traditional banking avenues, to adopting a posture of partnership and opportunity sharing. As Jay reveals, “The power is in the questions.” Asking who within your network can assist with your funding needs opens the door to new possibilities – a strategy that proved invaluable when traditional banks turned down their requests in 2009.
The Educator’s Edge
Innovation often comes through the simplest shifts in approach, and this podcast shines a light on the importance of education in raising private capital. RJ Pepino encapsulates this with the poignant statement, “He who educates the market dominates the market.” Jay echoes this sentiment by emphasizing how crucial it is to become a private money teacher, rather than a salesperson.
By leading with a servant’s heart, an investor can subtly but powerfully distinguish themselves as experts and stewards of opportunity, sparking interest in potential partners. Jay Conner has entirely reframed conversations with private lenders by first educating them about the potential of private money, often before even bringing up a specific deal. This signature move removes the “stink” of desperation, instead focusing on the abundant possibilities available to investors and private lenders alike.
Key Strategies for Private Money Success
Jay articulates a vital strategy in capital raising: keeping investment discussions and deal presentations separately. This step is crucial in ensuring that discussions about opportunities remain educational, rather than transactional. By segregating these conversations, an investor positions themselves as a partner offering valuable knowledge, thus alleviating pressure and creating a natural entry point for later deal-specific discussions.
Moreover, he highlights the benefits of flexibility through tools such as self-directed IRAs, which many potential lenders are unfamiliar with. By leveraging these tools, investors can offer novel ways for partners to gain substantial returns, guided through each step by the investor's knowledge and experience.
Mindset and Success: The Symphony of Growth
Throughout the episode, Dave Payerchin and RJ Pepino passionately align with Jay Conner’s vision, reminding listeners that mindset is not just about how one views the world, but also how one positions oneself within it. By exercising gratitude and positivity, even seasoned investors can further their growth and prosperity. "Focus on what you are sowing and let what you reap take care of itself," is a powerful mantra of this mindset.