Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Discovering Dave Payerchin's Path to Raising $50 Million in Private Money
If you’ve ever wondered how successful real estate investors consistently land incredible deals, you’re not alone. On a recent episode of the “Raising Private Money” podcast with host Jay Conner, Dave Payerchin shared powerful, actionable insights from his career, where he’s raised over $50 million in private money and built an impressive rental portfolio. Dave's advice is gold, whether you’re looking for your first deal or leveling up your investment business.
Mindset: Your Most Important Asset
Dave starts by emphasizing the value of mindset and personal development. Before getting into tactics, he grounds his success in what he calls the “core four”—his relationship with God, his health, his family, and finally, his business. For aspiring investors, this serves as a reminder: true success is holistic and must be built on a solid personal foundation.
Crucially, Dave shares a personal lesson about overcoming limiting beliefs—especially the common thought, “I’m not enough.” Through consistent, small commitments (like daily habits), you build self-trust and confidence. In the context of real estate, your mindset directly affects your ability to network, take risks, and follow through on deals.
Why Dave Loves Single-Family Rentals
Dave is a strong believer in affordable housing—specifically single-family rentals, especially in stable, cash-flowing markets like Columbus, Ohio. He points out several reasons why:
- Demand: Single-family homes are in high demand since people prefer houses over apartments, especially families who want a yard and privacy.
- Accessibility: It’s easier to raise money and get financing for single-family deals. You don’t need complex investment structures or syndications.
- Stability: Markets like the Midwest aren’t seeing the same volatility as coastal areas, making them ideal for long-term cash flow.
The Power of Private Money
Both Dave and Jay agree: private money is one of the most powerful tools in real estate. It allows you to scale your investing without using your capital and enables you to compete as a “serious buyer.” Dave’s own story starts with necessity—having no money or credit, he realized he needed to raise 100% of the capital (purchase and rehab) to get started.
Often, new investors make the mistake of “shopping for cheaper money” before they’ve built a track record, thinking they should negotiate for the best rates right away. Dave’s advice? Get in the game, even if you pay higher rates at first. Over time, as you close deals and build credibility, you’ll attract lenders offering better terms.
Finding Deals: The Action Steps
So, how do you break into the business and start finding great deals?
- Put Yourself Out There: Start by telling everyone what you’re doing. Dave suggests overcoming the natural fear of being judged or not taken seriously. The market rewards those who educate and share.
- Network the Right Way: Use social media strategically—on Facebook, show your family and authentic self. Mix in regular updates about your deals, but keep it natural and genuine. The goal is to build relationships, not just blast advertisements.
- The Personal Touch: Dave is a master at relationship building. He regularly sends hundreds of personalized holiday texts to his network. Not every message is about business. It’s about staying top-of-mind and nurturing relationships without strings attached.
- Transparency with Lenders: When it comes time to fund deals, Dave keeps it simple for his private money partners, showing basic numbers and security (like a mortgage or promissory note). He distinguishes his deals by avoiding syndications, instead offering lenders first-lien security on a single property for maximum safety.
Final Thoughts
Dave Payerchin’s approach is refreshingly honest and actionable. He reminds us that the secret sau