
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Building Sustainable Wealth: Chad Harris on Leveraging Private Money for Real Estate Growth
What would you do if, overnight, your job disappeared, your income ran dry, and the bills started stacking up? For many, this scenario would trigger panic and uncertainty. But for Chad Harris, it was the catalyst for a life-changing journey into real estate investing, fueled not by bank loans or personal savings, but by the power of private money.
On a recent episode of Raising Private Money with Jay Conner, Chad Harris shared his journey from being broke and jobless—with a family health crisis on his hands—to building an impressive real estate portfolio of fifty rental properties, all done without a single cent from traditional banks.
Here are some of the core principles he shared that can help anyone looking to build real wealth through real estate using private money.
- Embrace the Commitment First
Chad Harris’s story begins at rock bottom: freshly back from an overseas job, with no house, no car, mounting medical bills, and a family to support. But instead of backing down, Chad committed to becoming a full-time real estate investor. Here’s the first powerful lesson: success starts with a decision. Before you can raise money, structure deals, or scale your business, you must fully commit to your vision. As Harris puts it, “If you are committed to it, you can figure out a way to overcome any obstacle.”
- Real Wealth is Built by Serving Others
A common misconception about raising capital is that you need to ask, beg, or sell yourself. Chad and Jay both reject this approach. Harris draws from his background in ministry, where he learned the art of inviting people to participate in something impactful—not just for himself, but for the other party as well. The principle here is simple but profound: focus on serving the needs of potential lenders. Many people want to get involved in real estate but lack time, expertise, or confidence. By offering them a chance to invest as private lenders—earning solid returns, secured by real estate—you’re fulfilling their needs as much as your own.
- Start Conversations, Don’t Sell
Both Chad and Jay stress the importance of natural, genuine conversations over hard sales tactics. Rather than “pitching” investments, Chad shares what he’s doing and allows curiosity to drive the next steps. For example, he likes to say, “We buy ugly houses, fix them up, rent them to great families, and share the profits with people we know instead of the bank.” This sparks genuine interest and invites people to ask for more details, creating a comfortable, non-pushy way to introduce private money lending.
- Structure for Win-Win Outcomes
Early on, Chad thought he had to offer the highest possible interest rates and fast payback terms to incentivize lenders. But over time, he realized that conservative, consistent returns—like 8% annual interest—were more attractive to most private lenders, who equate high returns with higher risk. By structuring deals that offer solid returns along with the safety and predictability private lenders seek, he created lasting relationships and repeat business.
- Ordinary People, Extraordinary Potential
One takeaway that Chad and Jay emphasize is that private lenders are ordinary people—teachers, retirees, professionals—looking for better, safer returns than the stock market or CDs. As real estate investors, we’re uniquely positioned to help them achieve their goals while building our portfolios.
- Mindset Is Everything
The key mindset shift? Stop thinking of yourself as a “borrower”—start seeing yourself as a “private money teacher.” You’re not asking for favors; you’re providing valuable opportunities. This shift not only boosts your confidence but also attracts people who want to learn and partner with you.
Conclusion
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