Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Addressing Challenges and Solutions in Private Real Estate Funding with Jay Conner
***Guest Appearance
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"Jay Conner’s Secret to Funding Deals Without Banks – David Olds"
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If you’re a real estate investor—or have considered diving into this lucrative world—you’ve probably encountered the question: “How do I get the money to fund my deals?” For many, the answer has always involved banks, stern loan officers, and stacks of paperwork. But Jay Conner, a legendary investor and coach, has made it his mission to show that there’s a better, easier, and more empowering way: private money.
From Bank Roadblocks to Private Lending Breakthroughs
Jay’s story is relatable for anyone who’s ever found themselves at the mercy of institutional lending. For six years, he did what most investors do: went to the bank, provided loads of documentation, and hoped for approval. That all changed in January 2009, when his longtime banker informed him—unexpectedly and without warning—that his line of credit was closed, a casualty of the global financial crisis.
This pivotal moment forced Jay to ask himself an incredibly powerful question: “Who do I know that can help fix my problem?” This shift in mindset (a lesson in itself!) led him to discover the world of private money lending.
Teaching, Not Pitching: The Secret Sauce
Unlike traditional approaches, Jay never asks for money or pitches deals outright. His strategy? Education first. By donning his “teacher hat,” Jay introduces friends, acquaintances, and community members to the concept of private lending—including strategies using self-directed IRAs to lend money to investors for real estate deals. Most of his lenders had never heard of private lending or self-directed IRAs until Jay explained it—showing that sometimes the best deals come from simply educating those around you.
The teaching approach does more than inform; it removes desperation from the equation. As Jay humorously puts it, “Desperation’s got a smell to it.” Instead, he shares the opportunity in a relaxed, informative setting, such as a private luncheon, where people can learn and ask questions. At one such luncheon, he garnered nearly a million dollars in pledges.
No Applications. No Begging. Just Win-Win Solutions.
Jay flips the traditional money-chasing script. Rather than applying for a limited resource, he positions private lending as an opportunity—a way for others to earn high, predictable returns (often between 8-10%) with their idle cash or retirement accounts. There are no complicated forms or credit pulls; he’s offering others a service, not asking for favors.
New private lenders aren’t bombarded with jargon or pressured to commit. Instead, Jay explains the process in simple terms, answers questions, and only talks deals once a lender is fully on board. Many of his lenders started with modest sums and, after seeing the results, increased their investments, sometimes doubling their original pledges.
Expanding Beyond Your Network
What if you run out of friends and family to approach? Jay recommends getting involved with local networking groups, such as Business Networking International (BNI), Rotary Clubs, and your local Chamber of Commerce. These settings not only build your professional circle but also expand your reach to potential lenders looking for stable, above-average returns.
Managing Private Money Responsibly
As your pool of private funds grows, another good problem arises: keeping everyone’s money working. Jay’s solution is to give new lenders priority on new deals, sometimes refinancing existing properties to put fresh money to work. He leverages strategies like substitutions of collateral—swapping out properties securing a lender’s note—to ensure all