Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Lessons from the 2008 Crisis: Reshaping Real Estate Financing with Jay Conner
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"From Crisis to Opportunity with Jay Conner"
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For many real estate investors, securing funds is the biggest hurdle between a great deal and realizing their financial dreams. Most head to the bank, grovel over loan terms, expose every aspect of their financial lives, and play by the bank’s ever-changing rules. But what if there were another way—one where you set the terms and build a truly resilient business?
On a recent episode of Raising Private Money, Andrew Chesnutt sat down with Jay Conner, a private money maven who transformed a funding crisis into a multi-million-dollar real estate machine.
The Crash That Changed Everything
Jay’s story is a timely reminder that business growth rarely happens when everything is easy. In 2009, after six years of steady real estate deals funded the traditional way, Jay’s banking lifeline was suddenly severed. The 2008 financial crash had prompted his banker to pull the plug on his line of credit overnight—leaving Jay with two properties under contract that represented over $100,000 in potential profit, but with no funds to support them.
That moment of crisis posed a question every entrepreneur can relate to: Who do you know that can help fix your problem? For Jay, a call to a friend turned him on to the world of private money—individuals willing to invest directly in real estate deals for secure, healthy returns.
Building a System Without Begging for Cash
Jay’s biggest breakthrough came when he realized he didn’t have to beg for money or pitch risky one-off deals. Instead, he created a private lending program with clear rules: an 8% interest rate, no origination fees, and loans never exceeding 75% of a property’s after-repair value.
He started teaching those in his network—church members, Rotary Club friends, local professionals—about how they could earn high, safe returns by becoming private lenders. Importantly, he focused on education, not desperation. “Desperation has a smell,” Jay points out. Building trust before you need the money puts you in the driver’s seat.
Once a relationship and understanding exist, funding deals become a matter of making what Jay calls the “great news phone call.” Instead of a hard sell, Jay simply calls to let his lender know there’s an opportunity to put their money to work in a secured deal. This calm, methodical approach has allowed Jay to raise millions in private funding—with 47 private lenders at last count—all without pitching or pleading.
Why Private Lenders Love It
Why are private lenders so eager to work with Jay? He cites three main reasons:
- Higher Returns: Compared to certificates of deposit (CDs) or most traditional options, that 8% fixed rate is unbeatable and often more stable than the stock market roller coaster.
- Security: Notes are collateralized against real estate, private lenders are named on insurance policies, and safeguards are in place in case of emergencies.
- Predictability: Unlike the volatility of 401(k)s or mutual funds—where most investors can’t even quote their exact returns—private lenders know precisely what they’ll earn, with no hidden fees or commissions eroding their gains.
Creative Financing Adds More Flexibility
Private money is just one tool. Jay and Andrew discuss layering creative financing: combining private loans with strategies like “subject-to” purchases, seller financing, and even structuring first-position loans across multiple investors. These methods increase deal-making flexibility, help investors pivot if challenges arise, and offer lenders more options and comfort.
Final Takeaways