Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Expanding Real Estate Investment Opportunities Using Relationship and Networking Capital
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"Jay Conner, the Private Money Authority: How To Get PAID At CLOSING"
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Are you a real estate investor struggling to fund your deals, tired of jumping through hoops at the bank, or nervous about your credit standing? According to Jay Conner—“The Private Money Authority”—there’s a better way: tapping into private money.
On the recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay broke down his proven approach to raising limitless funds for real estate, bypassing the banks, improving profits, and making investing easier for everyone—from complete novices to seasoned pros.
What is Private Money?
First, Jay spells out what makes private money different from traditional or hard money loans. Traditional funding—like banks and mortgage companies—involves strict rules, credit checks, and lots of red tape. You borrow on their terms, not yours.
On the other hand, private money comes from individuals investing their own capital or retirement funds directly with you. There’s no middleman, no institutional underwriting, and best of all: “You set the rules.” Jay’s system allows him to pay 8% interest—significantly better than bank certificates or other safe investments—on straightforward terms, with no fees or points. For more than a decade, he’s successfully leveraged private lenders without once needing to show his credit score.
Why Private Money Beats Hard Money
Hard money loans are a step up in speed from traditional financing, but they’re still expensive (think 12–14% rates), short-term, and packed with fees. Plus, there are still limits to how many deals you can finance. Private money, by contrast, offers unlimited scale, flexibility, and often better rates. Jay explains that you’re not just borrowing money—you’re building relationships and teaching others to safely get excellent returns on their capital.
No License or Experience Required
A common misconception is that you need a real estate license or an established track record to raise private money. Jay busts this myth: as long as you’re investing for yourself (not representing others), you don’t need a license. And because private money is secured by real estate, not your credit score, experience isn’t a prerequisite, either.
Jay emphasizes the power of teaching. “Not one of my 47 private lenders had ever heard of private money before I taught them,” he says. By putting on the “teacher hat,” you empower others to invest in your deals, opening doors for both you and them.
Where Do You Find Private Lenders?
Jay outlines three key sources:
- Your Warm Market: Friends, family, business associates, church groups—anyone you already know. Educate them on private lending, and most will be intrigued by the returns and security.
- Your Expanded (Warm Market) Network: Grow connections by joining business organizations like your local BNI (Business Networking International). There’s only one real estate investor per group, making you the go-to expert.
- Existing Private Lenders: Found at self-directed IRA networking events, these individuals are already lending to real estate investors and may be looking for new opportunities.
Most people with retirement accounts have never been shown how to self-direct their IRAs into real estate, where they can earn higher returns—often tax deferred or tax free.
Making the Numbers Work
To ensure every deal is profitable, Jay shares his “Maximum Allowable Offer” formula: Take the after-repaired value (ARV), multiply by 70% (or 80% if the ARV exceeds $300,000), subtract estimated repairs, and add a “Murphy factor