Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Cracking the Private Money Code: Jay Conner’s Secrets to Real Estate Funding Success
***Guest Appearance
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"1-on-1 with Jay Conner: How This Investor Raised $2M in 90 Days Without Banks or Credit"
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If you’re a real estate investor—or an aspiring one—chances are you’ve run up against the biggest hurdle in the game: funding your deals. Traditional bank loans can be restrictive, slow, and, as Jay Conner discovered in 2009, suddenly unavailable. But what if there was a way to fund your real estate deals without banks, hard money lenders, or credit checks, and keep all the profit for yourself?
That’s the secret Jay Conner, now known nationwide as the Private Money Authority, shared on a recent episode of “Investor One on One” with Or Sapir. Jay’s story isn’t just inspiring—it’s a masterclass in creative real estate financing and a roadmap for investors looking to access private capital.
From Bank Rejection to a Private Money Breakthrough
Jay’s journey began in small-town North Carolina, flipping houses the traditional way by relying on the local bank for funding. “I closed my first six years’ worth of deals with unsecured bank credit,” he admits. But like so many investors during the 2008-2009 financial meltdown, he found himself abruptly cut off from his bank—no warning, no recourse.
Shocked and frustrated, Jay did what any true entrepreneur does: he turned his problem into an opportunity. He reached out to a friend who introduced him to the concept of private money—capital provided by individuals, not institutions, who want to earn higher returns by funding real estate deals.
Jay dove in, learned everything he could, and attended his first seminar. The result? He raised over $2 million in private capital in just 90 days. That move not only saved his career, it launched him as a leader in teaching others how to use private funds to fuel their real estate ambitions.
Private Money vs. Hard Money: What’s the Difference?
As Jay explains, private money comes directly from individuals (think: people in your own network who have retirement accounts or extra savings) rather than institutions or hard money lenders. It’s not a JV partnership; the private lender acts as the bank, secured by a mortgage or deed of trust, while you, the investor, retain full ownership.
Jay highlights several advantages to using private money over hard money loans:
- Lower interest rates (Jay pays 8%, compared to 12-14% for hard money)
- No points or origination fees
- No extension fees
- 100% financing of the purchase and rehab costs
- Faster and more flexible closings
How to Raise Private Money Without Begging or Chasing
One of the biggest myths Jay busts is that private lenders are hard to find or only fund experienced investors. His approach? Don’t chase. Don’t beg. Don’t sell. Don’t persuade. Instead, become a teacher. Jay wears his “private money teacher” hat and simply educates people in his circle about the opportunity to earn stable, above-market returns by becoming a lender for his deals.
His key strategies include:
- Teaching (not pitching) the basics of private lending
- Explaining how their investment is protected (collateral, insurance, title, etc.)
- Laying out the program terms with total transparency
- Building trust by keeping deal discussions separate from the initial introduction
Proof in the Pudding: Real Results and Action Steps
Jay’s system has helped him—and countless students—secure all the funding they need, often with people they already know. In his world, there’s actually more private money available than there are deals to fund. With average profits of $86,000 per deal in his ma