Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Creating Win-Win Opportunities: Mentorship, Systems, and Private Money to Grow Your Portfolio
***Guest Appearance
Credits to:
https://www.youtube.com/@LancelotsRealEstateRoundTable
“Revolutionize Real Estate Investing with Private Money Strategies - EP 59”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CM7p2K3fEOk&t=130s
In the realm of real estate investing, many newcomers and seasoned pros alike hit the same intimidating wall: funding. Banks get selective, credit lines dry up, and the promises at seminars never seem to pan out. But what if the solution was not in begging banks or risking your own savings, but in tapping into private money?
That’s precisely what Jay Conner, known as the Private Money Authority, shared on Sir Lancelot's Real Estate Roundtable hosted by Lancelot Lenard. As someone who's flipped over 500 homes and averaged $60,000 profit per deal using private funding, Jay’s story is both inspiring and practical.
The Turning Point: From Banks to Private Money
Jay didn’t start his career with a silver spoon or endless private lenders. In fact, for six years, he did what nearly every investor does—go to banks, jump through their hoops, and hope for approval. Then, in 2009, the rug was pulled out from under him. “Jay Conner” recalled calling his banker, Steve, only to learn his line of credit was shut down overnight due to the global financial crisis. Suddenly, he was left with deals on the line and no funding.
It was in this moment that he asked himself a critical question: "Who do you know that can help fix your problem?" That led Jay to a friend who introduced him to the world of private money and self-directed IRAs, and—importantly—how ordinary people could use their savings to fund real estate deals.
Teaching, Not Selling: The Secret to Raising Private Money
Most would assume raising private capital is about pitching deals and selling your vision. Jay’s method is the opposite. He puts on his teacher hat, educates people in his network about what private lending is, how it works, and how it keeps their money safe.
“No chasing, no begging, no selling. Just offering an opportunity versus asking for money,” Jay said. In less than 90 days, he raised over $2 million simply by educating and building trust. His approach is built on demystifying private lending and showing how ordinary people—often those sitting in your church pew or neighbors—can earn high returns safely and securely.
Confidence Is Key: Overcoming the Fear Factor
For new investors, fear of rejection or not being “ready” is real. Jay stresses the importance of mindset: “Your net worth will never exceed your self-worth.” The first step is learning exactly what you’re offering, understanding how to protect your lenders, and being prepared to answer their concerns about safety and returns. If you haven’t done a deal yet, Jay recommends partnering with an experienced investor and learning on the job.
A Real-Life Example: Fast Deals, Big Profits
Private money isn’t just theoretical. Jay shared a vivid example: an oceanfront condo deal that stacked three layers of motivation (absentee owner, inherited property, and foreclosure threat). He was able to close in just seven days for $480,000 cash, invest $12,000 in repairs, and sell it for $618,000—netting $160,000 profit in six weeks. Without private money, this opportunity would have slipped away.
Building a Scalable, Automatic Machine
Systems and technology are crucial. Jay’s operation relies on a CRM, automation, and a dedicated team. Leads come in daily through multiple funnels, and his acquisitionist and other staff handle the process seamlessly. This “automatic transaction machine” means Jay spends his time making decisions, not getting bogged down in the details.
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