Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
The Secret to Never Missing a Deal: Jay Conner’s Private Money Method
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“Eggs 420: Unlocking Unlimited Funding in Real Estate with Jay Conner”
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When it comes to real estate investing, one of the most common hurdles is securing funding. Many aspiring investors are intimidated by the strict requirements and drawn-out processes of traditional lenders. On a recent episode of “Raising Private Money,” Jay Conner sat down with Michael Smith to share game-changing insights on how private money can propel your investing career—and how you can secure it without ever asking for a loan.
The Turning Point: From Banks to Private Funding
Jay Conner recounts his early days navigating the world of real estate investment. Initially relying on banks and mortgage companies, he faced a major setback in January 2009—the global financial crisis shut down his line of credit overnight.
Instead of giving up, Jay asked himself a powerful question: “Who do you know that can help fix your problem?” This shift in mindset led him to discover private money, an approach that forever changed his career trajectory.
Through education and networking, Jay was able to raise over $2 million in new funding—without asking anyone for money outright. As he puts it, “In fact, I don’t ask anybody for money. Today, I’ve got 47 private lenders that are funding our deals without ever asking for money. I never pitch a deal.” The secret? He became a teacher, educating potential lenders about the opportunity instead of selling or persuading.
Teaching the Opportunity: The “Private Money Teacher” Approach
Rather than chase investors or beg for funds, Jay Conner recommends a teaching approach. In this world, the investor defines the terms—interest rates, loan-to-value ratios, note length, and frequency of payments—in advance. For Jay, that means paying an attractive 8% interest to his private lenders and limiting borrowing to 75% of the after-repaired value of a property.
He stresses the importance of separating two conversations: first, teach the opportunity and program; second, once a potential lender is educated and interested, bring them a deal that fits the criteria. Jay’s exact script for putting a lender’s money to work is simple: “Mike, I’ve got great news for you. I can now put your money to work. I’ve got a house under contract... with an after-repaired value of $200,000. The funding required for the deal is $150,000…”
The key here is that his lenders have already been educated. There’s no selling, no chasing—just fulfillment of a promise.
Protecting Lenders and Structuring Deals
A major concern for both sides is risk. What happens if a deal falls through? Jay Conner explains that his private lenders are protected similarly to banks, with asset-backed debt secured by a mortgage or a deed of trust. They’re named on the insurance policy and title, ensuring recourse if the borrower fails to perform.
This approach distinguishes “one-off” deals from larger projects requiring SEC compliance. In single-family home investments, which are Jay’s specialty, the deals are asset-secured and private lenders receive steady, predictable returns—rather than a share of potentially fluctuating profits. The conservative borrowing limit of 75% of the after-repaired value means lenders have a substantial equity cushion.
Where to Find Private Lenders
Jay categorizes sources of private lenders into three groups:
- Your warm market: friends, family, and personal connections.
- Expanded warm market: networking groups like BNI (Business Networking International) and community organizations.
- Existing private