Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Using Private Money to Dominate Small Market Real Estate Deals
***Guest Appearance
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https://www.youtube.com/@AdvantaIRA
“Episode 182: How Jay Conner Raises Millions in Private Money for Real Estate”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oUGSDCB0r-I&t=580s
If you’re a real estate investor—or thinking about venturing into the world of property investing—there’s one question that always comes up: “Where do you get the money to fund your deals?” While banks, institutional lenders, and hard money sources are familiar options, they aren’t always ideal, especially if you plan to scale your business.
On a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner, known as the “Private Money Authority,” sat down with Alex Perny to share his journey and pull back the curtain on the incredible world of private money.
From Banks to Private Lenders: A Game-Changing Shift
Like many investors, Jay Conner started his journey relying on traditional financing—local banks and mortgage companies. For six years, this method served him well, but everything changed in January 2009, when his longtime banker abruptly shut down his line of credit. This crisis sparked a pivotal question: “Who do you know that can help fix your problem?”
That moment led Jay Conner to discover private money: raising capital from individuals, not institutions. “Private money is the number one strategy that I implemented in my business in 2009 that's had the biggest impact of any strategy that I have implemented,” he shared. Unlike hard money or institutional capital, private money comes from people—everyday individuals looking for better returns on their capital or retirement accounts.
The Three Categories of Private Lenders
So, where do you find these elusive private lenders? According to Jay Conner, private money lenders generally come from three categories:
- Your Own Network: There’s a direct relationship between your connections and your access to capital. Start by looking to friends, family, and acquaintances.
- Expanded Network: As you grow, you might exhaust your personal connections. That’s where networking groups, local organizations like Business Networking International (BNI), and community events come into play.
- Existing Private Lenders: These are individuals already lending to other real estate investors, often using self-directed IRAs. Here, it becomes more of a negotiation since they’re familiar with the process and terms.
How to Approach Potential Lenders
A crucial lesson Jay Conner learned early on is that “desperation has a smell to it.” He emphasizes the importance of separating the conversation about the opportunity from the deal itself. Rather than pitching a deal in your first conversation, focus on educating your contacts about private lending and the opportunity it presents. “I'm offering an opportunity, not asking for a loan,” Jay Conner said.
An example from his early days: He approached a well-connected acquaintance at his church, not by asking for money but by requesting help spreading the word about his real estate investment opportunities. This no-pressure approach naturally led to the first $250,000 commitment—and eventually, $500,000—from that single conversation.
Structuring the Deal: Protecting Lenders and Setting Terms
Private lenders in Jay Conner’s model are given a deed of trust or mortgage, are named on insurance policies, and enjoy flexible terms such as penalty-free early withdrawals. He keeps terms straightforward: 8% interest, two-year notes, and transparent communication. Notably, he includes a “minimum return” clause so lenders always receive at least six months of interest, even on quick turnaround deals.
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