Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Jay Conner’s Journey: Tripling Real Estate Profits with Private Money
***Guest Appearance
Credits to:
https://www.youtube.com/@BrianDavilaShow
“How Private Money TRIPLED His Real Estate Business | Jay Conner.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIDtWayTLWM&t=3625s
In the ever-evolving landscape of real estate investing, gaining access to funds can often feel like an uphill battle. For Jay Conner, renowned private money expert and seasoned investor, the solution to this challenge comes down to what he calls the most important principle: “the money comes first.”
Jay’s journey, shared on an insightful episode with Brian Davila on the Raising Private Money podcast, offers invaluable lessons for both new and experienced investors looking to raise private money and build sustainable wealth.
Starting: A Crucial Lesson in Funding
Jay Conner didn’t enter the real estate world with access to private money right away. For the first six years after launching his business in Morehead City, North Carolina—a market with just 40,000 people—Jay relied on local banks and mortgage companies to fund his deals. That changed abruptly in 2009, when he discovered that his line of credit had been unexpectedly revoked. Faced with the threat of losing out on deals and not being able to recover his earnest money, Jay was driven to find a new approach.
Enter private money. Through a recommendation from a fellow investor, Jay learned about this alternative source of funding—friends, family, and acquaintances investing in his deals, backed by solid criteria and security. Within just 90 days, Jay raised over $2 million in private funding and rapidly scaled his business. As Jay Conner emphasizes, losing his bank credit became a “blessing in disguise,” unlocking a faster, more reliable path to funding.
How Private Money Fueled Growth
Jay’s business didn’t just recover; it tripled. By leveraging private money, he was able to close more deals—especially those with sellers requiring all-cash offers. The flexibility and speed that private lenders provided allowed Jay to snap up bank-owned properties and foreclosures during the financial crunch, building long-term wealth through smart, strategic investments.
He stresses a vital wisdom for new investors: “If I knew then what I now know, I would have started with private money.” According to Jay’s data, only 13% of For Sale By Owners are open to creative financing; the vast majority want all-cash buyers. Without private money, investors risk missing out on the lion’s share of opportunities.
Smart Systems for Sustainable Deal Flow
Success in real estate means more than just funding—it’s also about consistent deal flow. In this episode, Jay shares his multi-pronged approach to sourcing deals in a small market:
- Google Ads: Jay runs three campaigns targeting motivated sellers, boasting a low average cost per lead and a high conversion rate. He notes, “On average, I only need five Google Ad leads to buy a house.”
- Foreclosure Letters: With a 57% response rate, Jay’s eight-letter sequence to foreclosure prospects is a standout, made possible by tracking cases at the courthouse and layering motivation (such as inheritance).
- Facebook Ads & Direct Mail: These supplement his funnel with additional off-market leads.
- Networking with Wholesalers: Jay connects directly with local wholesalers, leveraging his status as a cash-ready buyer to close deals quickly.
Why Private Money is Safe—When Done Right
For those hesitant about using other people’s money, Jay offers reassurance. His strict criteria (borrowing up to 75% of after-repair value) create a cushion that protects both the investor and their lenders. He insists private lende