Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Funding Equals Freedom: The Art of Attracting Private Money for Real Estate
***Guest Appearance
Credits to:
https://www.youtube.com/@joshcantwellinvestor
“Jay Conner on The Secrets to Locating Private Money for Real Estate Deals”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5FUJjGuXfg&t=65s
If you’re a real estate investor searching for ways to scale your portfolio, few topics are as crucial as raising private money. In a candid conversation on the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner sits down with Josh Cantwell to share the precise strategies that have helped him raise millions — without ever asking for money outright. Here are the game-changing insights from their exchange and how you can leverage them for your own investing business.
The Power of a Servant’s Heart in Real Estate
From the outset, Jay Conner sets the tone: his mission is not about taking advantage of distressed sellers, but serving them. He stresses that 2022 (and beyond) presents a unique window to help homeowners facing foreclosure—especially those who haven’t been able to recover post-COVID. Jay Conner and his team focus on identifying and assisting these property owners before their homes hit foreclosure sales or bank repossession, creating win-win solutions along the way.
The real backbone of Jay Conner’s approach? Integrity and empathy. By leading with a servant’s heart, he cultivates trust, which proves invaluable both in deal-making and in private capital conversations.
Where to Find Private Money: The Three Pillars
One of the fundamentals of Jay Conner’s success is knowing where to look for private money. He distills his sources into three main categories:
- Your Warm Market: These are people you already know—family, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances across social groups, church, LinkedIn, and Facebook (the genuine connections, not just casual “friends”). Jay Conner challenges the myth that everyone’s personal network is “broke,” insisting that there are untapped connections in almost every investor’s world.
- Expanded Warm Market: If your immediate circle seems tapped out, expand it. This means immersing yourself in local organizations like the Rotary Club, volunteering, and building authentic relationships in your community. The more you give, the more your network—and potential investor base—grows.
- Existing Private Lenders: These are individuals already loaning money to real estate investors. Jay Conner suggests leveraging public records (to find those who’ve secured loans with a mortgage or deed of trust), specialized data feeds (which aggregate nationwide lender info), and networking events hosted by self-directed IRA companies. Notably, he reveals that over 70% of self-directed IRA account holders are open to lending on real estate deals.
The Five-Step Method: Raising Private Funds—Without Asking
The real secret sauce in Jay Conner’s system is his five-step process for attracting private capital—without ever having to ask for it directly.
- Make Your List: Identify the top 50 people in your network who might have capital or retirement funds.
- Open a Casual Conversation: Use either a direct method (“Do you have investment capital or retirement funds not giving you a high rate of return safely and securely?”) or an indirect method (“Would you spread the word that I have this investment opportunity?”). This non-salesy approach gets prospects naturally interested.
- Let the Tools Do the Work: Jay Conner leverages a pre-recorded 16-minute audio called “Stress Free Investing” to explain private lending basics to prospects, making the process scalable.
- One-on-One Appointment: Present your exact investment progr