Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
The Majesty of Your Dreams: Nicky Billou’s Blueprint for Credibility in Private Money
When it comes to raising private money in real estate, there’s a hidden truth separating the strugglers from the superstars: It’s not just about knowing the numbers or finding the right deals—it’s about being seen, being known, and becoming an authority that attracts capital. This message is at the heart of a compelling interview with Nicky Billou on the “Raising Private Money” podcast, hosted by Jay Conner.
In a world overflowing with noise and competition, how do you stand out? According to Nicky Billou, you don’t wait for greatness to be handed to you—you claim it through visibility, storytelling, and authentic connection.
Attention Creates Opportunity
“Attention creates opportunity.” These four words, repeated by Nicky Billou, resonate as a rallying cry for investors looking to shake things up. Private lenders want credibility and confidence—when you become visible and authoritative in your field, you magnetize opportunities. It’s about occupying the space of ‘the expert’ in the minds of your network.
So, how do you accomplish that? The answer isn’t fake hype or shallow self-promotion. Instead, it’s about real, sustained credibility.
Leveraging Podcasts for Authority and Trust
One of the most practical strategies discussed by Nicky Billou is the power of being a guest on other people’s podcasts. Podcasts offer long-form, nuanced conversations—perfect for showcasing your story, expertise, and values. It’s a virtual stage where you get to build relationships with both hosts and audiences.
Nicky Billou cited how even public figures have used podcasting to gain millions of new supporters by connecting with previously untapped audiences. That same mechanism, when applied by real estate investors, unlocks fresh networks of potential lenders.
There’s no need to be a celebrity or a best-selling author to get started. Nicky Billou shared stories of clients who began with no platform and built credibility by simply showing up, telling their story, and serving the audience. It’s the personal adversities and lessons—the “real expertise” forged in life, not just your job title—that create a point of connection.
Tell Your Story—Own Your Why
Jay Conner pressed deeper, asking how investors could use their personal stories, even if they haven’t written books. Nicky Billou demonstrated by opening up about his own background: a Christian child fleeing revolution in Iran, whose family risked everything for freedom. That core story shaped his mission and message. Real estate investors, Nicky Billou argues, can do the same by framing their journey as one of resilience and purpose.
The process starts by embracing your adversities and letting them inform not just what you do, but why you do it. People invest in passion and vision as much as in returns. Minimizing your dreams out of fear of being “pushy” does a disservice not only to you, but to potential lenders hungry for inspiration.
Practical Steps to Build Authority
For those starting from scratch, Nicky Billou suggests a two-pronged approach:
- Book Yourself on Podcasts: Use platforms like PodMatch to find shows where your story and knowledge can serve. Don’t worry about being perfect—practice builds confidence and fluency.
- Invest in Your Growth: Triple your investment in personal and professional development. Learn from mentors, join masterminds, and read voraciously. As Jim Rohn said, “Don’t wish things were easier, wish you were better.”
Final Thoughts
Greatness in real estate investing—and in life—doesn’t wait for perfect timing or someone else’s permission. It’s claimed through visibility, connection, and consistent action. Step out, tell your story, and become the trustworthy authority that private lenders are searching for. Don’t wait for greatness. Claim it, one conversation at a time.
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